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[Lord Pmann]

Since it pisses you off so much, I LITERALLY am going to continue using it just to watch you twitch and froth. It's hysterical!

But -Really-? --EVERYONE--, all the people on Lit? You speak for ALL the people on Lit just like you speak for ALL Asian people and ALL of everyone else, too? You're so pompous I LITERALLY am constantly amazed at the new depths you're sinking to in order to attempt to insult me.

That's great, though. I LITERALLY think you're an idiot too.

I didn't see a figurative use of the word "literally" in that post. Good job. However, I am not attempting to insult you. I am insulting you. And, according to all of the support PMs that continue to roll in, I'm doing a fine job. But it's kind of like stealing lipstick from a bimbo. The depths to which I dive to insult you are not very deep. In fact, they are as shallow as that "Noble Winning Prize" thread of yours.

Yes, "everyone". I figure if some fuckwits can add new meaning to the word literally (i.e. figuratively), then maybe I can add the definition "a lot" to mean everyone.

And don't call us Asian people, that's racist and culturally insensitive.

You've still never been able to clearly articulate how the term "Asian movies" is offensive. What you do, in every argument I have seen you get into on here, is say something like, "You're a doo doo head. Now I'm going to play with the adults; go have nap time." It's what you do every time I've ever seen you get called out on something. I suspect it's because you're unable to process logic and defend the shit that spews from your overly stained lips or in this case, foundation covered fingertips.

If you wonder why I (and a lot of people- maybe not everyone, but I question that) don't like you, I'll point it out for you. I took about two minutes to sludge through your posts. There were loads of things to make me vomit, but this was my favourite. I only had to go through three pages to find something that encompasses everything about you that makes me cringe.

Conventional attractiveness didn't buy me a pass to a totally smooth life. I won't try and claim that I'm some kind of victim of prettiness because that's patently ridiculous and I'm aware and embracing of my privilege and willing to examine what life has given me because of the grace of my genetics. That being said, being pretty in no way affected my geekiness, other than my ability to be accepted by geek culture. Conventionally unattractive people don't turn to geekiness because they're unattractive, nor do conventionally attractive people turn away from geekiness because they're attractive. I think that's a really harmful stereotype that fuels part of the problems geek culture is having today.

Let's take a look at why people would think you are a fucking twat for writing something like that. I've known people who were stupid enough to think this about themselves. I've never known anyone who was foolish enough to say it or, better yet, put it in writing. Your self imposed superiority is actually documented, for us to examine.

Let's look at some of the best parts:

"Conventional attractiveness"

"Embracing of my privilege"
You're 'nobelity' of not being "a victim of your prettiness". You're a real martyr and example to women and young girls, alike.

"Grace of my genetics"

"Being pretty in no way affected my geekiness..." Again, what an example. You have overcome the woes of your self proclaimed attractiveness to be a geek.

"I think that's a really harmful stereotype that fuels part of the problems geek culture is having today." You are what is wrong with geek culture today. Wait, let me fix that sentence. You are what is wrong with culture today.

Do you have any fucking idea how ridiculous it looks to write that about yourself? To put it in writing. That is the equivalent of paying for a hooker with a check. You have the grace of a strand of razor wire. For someone who claims to be "aware", you're the most unaware person that I've ever seen. You have no idea how ridiculous you appear to anyone with more than half a brain cell. You truly are your biggest fan.

The thing that is most amazing is that you'll be flattered that I took the time to look at your posts. Then you'll say something about how you can't believe I am that obsessed. Then you'll say I'm a misogynist and homophobe and racist. Then you will move on because you cannot accept defeat or admit that you are wrong. Worse, proven wrong back a slack jawed, mouth breathing, non Mountain Dew drinking idiot. Did I miss anything?

I'd really love to hear you actually defend anything you ever say. You have a few things here you really should defend. I suspect you're completely unable to do that though. Or maybe someone who isn't genetically gifted like you cannot understand why.

 

[Emerson40]

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FWIW, pmann is one of the nicest guys on Lit. Hey, pmann.

Hey look!

It's LadyVer!

Hi LadyVer!

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[Christopher2012]

Oh. My. God.

I'm giving each one of you a Xanax amd a shot of tequila.

 

[Christopher2012]

hahahahaa That's amazing.

I will say that I'm Team Pmann in this one. I used to think satindesire was a cool chick but damn... She's hostile as fuck!

 

[Lord Pmann]

I don't drink. Or take Xanax. But I'm glad you're on my team. I think most are, based on the responses.

 

[Christopher2012]

I don't drink. Or take Xanax. But I'm glad you're on my team. I think most are, based on the responses.

Brah, I just read your last post about satindesire. She ain't pretty. I've seen a Facebook photo. She looks like a witch on crack with super long hair. And I'm not just saying that to be rude. She is butt-fucking ugly.

 

[Lord Pmann]

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[drunkenphilosophy]

Twist your hair up into a high bun, the key word being twist, and if you let it loose after a few hours you should get some nice, loose waves.

When it comes to hairstyling, embrace hairspray. Hug it and make it your best friend. Don't OD on it, though - a good beginning would be to spray it onto the comb and then work it through your hair.

 

[satindesire]

You know, I've been thinking about this for the last few days, and I'm kind of sick of all the negativity and being drawn into this toxic, evil spiral of trading insults back and forth pointlessly.

For what it's worth, I'm sorry. I should have been the bigger person and not reacted to your nastiness, and I never should have risen to the bait. I'm a grown up and should act like one.

From now on, you can say whatever you want about me. I'm not going to let you drag me into arguments anymore. There's no point in it.

 

[satindesire]

I agree, it's a good move to ignore some nastiness, but it also might be good to recognise it starts a little closer to home than you're insinuating.

I know you don't like me, so you're willing to see everything I do in a negative light. I don't think that pointing out a little cultural insensitivity with the use of humor was grounds for Pmann to call me ugly, stupid and delusional.

I would also like to add that the two men that called me ugly thought me plenty attractive as long as I was flirting with them and responding positively to their attention. The minute that stops, suddenly I'm ugly. That speaks volumes more of their ugliness than mine, I would say.

I'm sure you'll disagree, though. *shrugs* I'm not going to fight with you, though. You can say whatever you like.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I'm sorry Rainshine. You are more clever than I am.

I know you don't like me, so you're willing to see everything I do in a negative light. I don't think that pointing out a little cultural insensitivity with the use of humor was grounds for Pmann to call me ugly, stupid and delusional.

I would also like to add that the two men that called me ugly thought me plenty attractive as long as I was flirting with them and responding positively to their attention. The minute that stops, suddenly I'm ugly. That speaks volumes more of their ugliness than mine, I would say.

I'm sure you'll disagree, though. *shrugs* I'm not going to fight with you, though. You can say whatever you like.

I've never once called you ugly. Chris did. But I did not. In fact, I don't think you're ugly. My comment was that I think you are delusional about your self perception and that you have no idea how your comments regarding your beauty are perceived. I'm not saying you are as attractive or that you're not as attractive as you say.

I have no problem stopping the jabs. But I don't think you have a clue on how your "with the use of some humour" comes off. As an Asian American, it's a bit of a sensitive subject when people try to protect us. So perhaps we could both use a paradigm shift.

And I've never once flirted with you, if you're implying that is me. As I'm sure I'm not your type, you're about as far away from my type as one can be, and none of it is based on physical appearance. My first memory of you is negative, so I certainly wouldn't flirt with you.

ETA: I am flattered you thought of me all weekend. *swooooon*

 

[subdued_passion]

Am I too late, is the show over already?

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Look, I got popcorn and claws.

 

[Saucyminx]

Am I too late, is the show over already?

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-GplLm8-Jg-k/TglOGz5QOjI/AAAAAAAAAZg/wFEL-8LhhRk/s1600/popcat.JPG

Look, I got popcorn and claws.

Subdued Passion, that is the most adorable kitty I've seen in a long time. I usually try to keep my popcorn and pussy separate, but you have made me realize what I may have been missing all this time!

 

[Christopher2012]

I know you don't like me, so you're willing to see everything I do in a negative light. I don't think that pointing out a little cultural insensitivity with the use of humor was grounds for Pmann to call me ugly, stupid and delusional.

I would also like to add that the two men that called me ugly thought me plenty attractive as long as I was flirting with them and responding positively to their attention. The minute that stops, suddenly I'm ugly. That speaks volumes more of their ugliness than mine, I would say.

I'm sure you'll disagree, though. *shrugs* I'm not going to fight with you, though. You can say whatever you like.

I'm sorry Rainshine. You are more clever than I am.



I've never once called you ugly. Chris did. But I did not. In fact, I don't think you're ugly. My comment was that I think you are delusional about your self perception and that you have no idea how your comments regarding your beauty are perceived. I'm not saying you are as attractive or that you're not as attractive as you say.

I have no problem stopping the jabs. But I don't think you have a clue on how your "with the use of some humour" comes off. As an Asian American, it's a bit of a sensitive subject when people try to protect us. So perhaps we could both use a paradigm shift.

And I've never once flirted with you, if you're implying that is me. As I'm sure I'm not your type, you're about as far away from my type as one can be, and none of it is based on physical appearance. My first memory of you is negative, so I certainly wouldn't flirt with you.

ETA: I am flattered you thought of me all weekend. *swooooon*

Okay woah woah woah woah, I actually had to turn off Final Fantasy I to address both of these comments here.

Let me tell everybody something. At one point, I had a super high respect for Satindesire. I thought she was a cool chick, and her profile pictures show her face in her best light. So yes, I thought she was very attractive. She also has long hair and I love long hair on women.

However, at one point, I PMed satin on Facebook because she had left the forum and I wanted her to come back. I wanted to tell her that I missed her and that she contributed a lot to the forums. That's when I saw her Facebook picture and thought "DAMN, DAT BITCH IS NOT *THAT* HOT!." HOWEVER, I still respected her and beauty is not just a pretty face. So, I still continued to enjoy seeing her around.

When I PMed her on Facebook years ago, she was very nice to me. And I thought we were cool. So, I made an OBVIOUS joke on her fairy thread, which I will admit was not appropriate and it was temporarily hijacking the thread. But it was an obvious joke. That's when she turned batshit crazy on me and I could not believe it.

The fact is, satindesire, you are way too hostile. You take everything offensively and then you fight fire with nuclear warheads. You drop nuclear bombs on everything if you feel offended. For instance, in the situation where I inappropriately posted in your Makeup Fairy thread, all you had to do what shoot me a PM and say "Hey look, that was inappropriate. Could you please not hijack my thread like that and can you please not try to flirt with me again?" But no, you ended up calling me misogynic and a typical "nice guy" who's really a douche.

You go for the jugular almost 100% of the time. For a couple of years, I really really liked you. I never really talked to you, but I enjoyed reading your posts.

But after seeing your batshit craziness and after putting that together with your Facebook profile pic which looks like a witch, I can see that you are truly an ugly person.

Now... back to Final Fantasy I. I've got some serious business to take of grinding my fighters to knights.

 

[ohjanesays]

Wow, haven't been here in ages but seems like nothing has changed. My only question is, is pmann still shoving cactuses in his butt or has he moved onto bigger things?

 

[NightL]

Wow, haven't been here in ages but seems like nothing has changed. My only question is, is pmann still shoving cactuses in his butt or has he moved onto bigger things?

I think he has moved onto Hulk hands
http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=48149381&postcount=16853

 

[Lord Pmann]

Wow, haven't been here in ages but seems like nothing has changed. My only question is, is pmann still shoving cactuses in his butt or has he moved onto bigger things?

I've been more into softer objects with less prickly spikes. Think soft things. No square objects (ouch!). Gerbils. Hamsters. Small cats. A lamb.

 

[satindesire]

Okay woah woah woah woah, I actually had to turn off Final Fantasy I to address both of these comments here.

Let me tell everybody something. At one point, I had a super high respect for Satindesire. I thought she was a cool chick, and her profile pictures show her face in her best light. So yes, I thought she was very attractive. She also has long hair and I love long hair on women.

However, at one point, I PMed satin on Facebook because she had left the forum and I wanted her to come back. I wanted to tell her that I missed her and that she contributed a lot to the forums. That's when I saw her Facebook picture and thought "DAMN, DAT BITCH IS NOT *THAT* HOT!." HOWEVER, I still respected her and beauty is not just a pretty face. So, I still continued to enjoy seeing her around.

When I PMed her on Facebook years ago, she was very nice to me. And I thought we were cool. So, I made an OBVIOUS joke on her fairy thread, which I will admit was not appropriate and it was temporarily hijacking the thread. But it was an obvious joke. That's when she turned batshit crazy on me and I could not believe it.

The fact is, satindesire, you are way too hostile. You take everything offensively and then you fight fire with nuclear warheads. You drop nuclear bombs on everything if you feel offended. For instance, in the situation where I inappropriately posted in your Makeup Fairy thread, all you had to do what shoot me a PM and say "Hey look, that was inappropriate. Could you please not hijack my thread like that and can you please not try to flirt with me again?" But no, you ended up calling me misogynic and a typical "nice guy" who's really a douche.

You go for the jugular almost 100% of the time. For a couple of years, I really really liked you. I never really talked to you, but I enjoyed reading your posts.

But after seeing your batshit craziness and after putting that together with your Facebook profile pic which looks like a witch, I can see that you are truly an ugly person.

Now... back to Final Fantasy I. I've got some serious business to take of grinding my fighters to knights.

Bullshit. The thread is there for ANYONE to see it, complete with your totally inappropriate overreaction to me CALMLY and REPEATEDLY asking you to please stop flirting with me in a thread that I REALLY did not want you to flirt with me in.

And YOU were the one that got hostile and nasty, when I didn't respond in the flirtatious and welcoming way you EXPECTED me to.

Don't even try and turn that situation back around on me like suddenly I'm at fault for it. I was calm and even tempered until YOU got hateful with me. I will be more than happy to post -every single interaction- we had in that thread for all the proof ANYONE would need.

Not every single picture is going to be a flattering one, just like not every single picture is going to be a good one. To call me ugly when you conspicuously don't have the courage to use a real photo of yourself for your avatar like I have speaks volumes.

I'm sorry Rainshine. You are more clever than I am.



I've never once called you ugly. Chris did. But I did not. In fact, I don't think you're ugly. My comment was that I think you are delusional about your self perception and that you have no idea how your comments regarding your beauty are perceived. I'm not saying you are as attractive or that you're not as attractive as you say.

I have no problem stopping the jabs. But I don't think you have a clue on how your "with the use of some humour" comes off. As an Asian American, it's a bit of a sensitive subject when people try to protect us. So perhaps we could both use a paradigm shift.

And I've never once flirted with you, if you're implying that is me. As I'm sure I'm not your type, you're about as far away from my type as one can be, and none of it is based on physical appearance. My first memory of you is negative, so I certainly wouldn't flirt with you.

ETA: I am flattered you thought of me all weekend. *swooooon*

I remember you flirting with me for months, off an on, before we had out first big blow out, I'm sure if hunt long enough in the threads, you'll find the interactions. Your first memory of ME may be negative but my first memory of you is not. I thought we were friends until you attacked me that first time. Whatever. It doesn't matter anymore.

One thing I'd like to say here about nationality: My pictures may make me "Read" as Caucasian, but I am not. Nor is my husband and both of my children. I'm a lot more sensitive to racial insensitivity than most people, because we live in the middle of a small town full of good ole boys that look at us mean every time we leave the house and LOVE to pull my husband over for no reason. If I had to choose between people who were sensitive to POC's racial trouble over people who were completely blind to it, I'm sure you can figure out which one I'm picking.

I have a very matter of fact tone in the way I post. Some people think that makes me sound bitchy, but I object to that. I'm a woman, but that doesn't mean I have to be apologetic and saccharine...If a man posted with a matter of fact tone like many do, including yourself, no one bats an eye. I'm not going to play the victim card here, I honestly don't care how people "Take" my posts, if they want to judge me without getting to know me as a person, that's their prerogative.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I'm actually making an actual, constructive comment. Please don't take this as an attack.

I went and read his post to you. Or at least the one I presume you referenced.

forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=42904489&postcount=134

This is not an appropriate place to flirt with me, please, Christopher.

That was what seems to be your first exchange about the flirting. Perhaps you don't realize how your posts come across to many.

The post would have absolutely been fine had it not been for the rolled eyes at the end. That makes it look very bitchy, snarky and condescending. Did you mean it to look that way?

Imagine a bowl of lobster bisque soup. It's creamy and has fantastic chunks of lobster and is seasoned to perfection. The waiter brings it to the table and sets it down. Then he pulls out a kitten, squeezes it and the little kitty drops a turd in that soup. It's a tiny turd in the grand scheme of things. But it ruins the whole soup.

Or consider if someone said this:

I'm sorry for my actions. You were right and I was wrong. I made a mistake. Thanks for being so kind, shitface.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I remember you flirting with me for months, off an on, before we had out first big blow out, I'm sure if hunt long enough in the threads, you'll find the interactions. Your first memory of ME may be negative but my first memory of you is not. I thought we were friends until you attacked me that first time. Whatever. It doesn't matter anymore.

One thing I'd like to say here about nationality: My pictures may make me "Read" as Caucasian, but I am not. Nor is my husband and both of my children. I'm a lot more sensitive to racial insensitivity than most people, because we live in the middle of a small town full of good ole boys that look at us mean every time we leave the house and LOVE to pull my husband over for no reason. If I had to choose between people who were sensitive to POC's racial trouble over people who were completely blind to it, I'm sure you can figure out which one I'm picking.

I have a very matter of fact tone in the way I post. Some people think that makes me sound bitchy, but I object to that. I'm a woman, but that doesn't mean I have to be apologetic and saccharine...If a man posted with a matter of fact tone like many do, including yourself, no one bats an eye. I'm not going to play the victim card here, I honestly don't care how people "Take" my posts, if they want to judge me without getting to know me as a person, that's their prerogative.

Perhaps our definitions of flirting are very different. You are not my type.

I don't know what your background is, but I would assume you have a degree in something like sociology or psychology. You seem to analyze things like someone who has that background, based on my experiences. That's no offense, just an observation.

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Dude, that's fucking offensive. Misogynistic and Homophobic, and completely disgusting. You're better than that shit. Cut it out.

This is my first memory of you. I can't say I never interacted with you before that, but nothing ever stuck out.

You mentioned that I attacked you first. Look at that post. You called me (or more specifically my post) misogynistic, homophobic and completely disgusting.

This was my response:

It's called tongue-in-cheek. If you have ever read any of my posts you know I'm not really a dick. Or at least not a misogynistic, homophobic, completely disgusting dick. I may just be a run of the mill, everyday dick. The kind you take home to meet mother. If I was a completely disgusting dick, I would have just re-posted this hurt feelings report in response to your post.

However, I fail to see the homophobic portion of it. Is it because it says queer? I've yet to meet a gay guy who didn't use that term.

Nevertheless, the post wasn't serious.

I didn't attack you. I asked you to explain after a post that many would consider snarky.

It's not the matter of fact tone that people object to. It's the snark and the PC policing. Do you call Chinese food "Chinese food"? So why can't you call Asian movies "Asian movies". Your use of rolled eyes and the commonality with which you tell those who disagree with you to "go play" is what makes people think that you are bitchy. Not the fact that you are a woman. I realize you consider yourself a feminist. To me, you're the Jesse Jackson of feminism. You use bully tactics to get your point across.

The entirety of this post plays the victim card. If you want a specific example, see how you said I attacked you. I put the posts there. Other than you, I would bet my left nut that few would find my response as an attack.

You need consistency in your value system. On one hand, you say you don't give a fuck about how people take your posts. Then why do you give fucks about what other people post? If someone else posts something that you dislike, why does that give you the right to be the PC police.

I would like you to consider this and at least answer the part of it...

Since this thread I've received responses from maybe 10-15 people saying how happy they were that I spoke up and called you out. MOST of them are not people I know or people that I've ever seen post on this forum. And for the record, I rarely get PMs from people, other than my close friends. You can answer this part or just think on it. But why would so many people say that if that's complete bullshit.

The part I would like you to answer is this... Did anyone PM you in support of you or against me? Did people write to say what a dick I am and how awful I am?

For the record... I believe I've only had run ins with two people on this site. JBJ and you. Maybe Christopher. But we hug it out in the end. How many people have you gotten into it with?

(Sorry for spelling errors... Mobile phone)

 

[Christopher2012]

I'm actually making an actual, constructive comment. Please don't take this as an attack.

I went and read his post to you. Or at least the one I presume you referenced.

forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=42904489&postcount=134



That was what seems to be your first exchange about the flirting. Perhaps you don't realize how your posts come across to many.

The post would have absolutely been fine had it not been for the rolled eyes at the end. That makes it look very bitchy, snarky and condescending. Did you mean it to look that way?

Imagine a bowl of lobster bisque soup. It's creamy and has fantastic chunks of lobster and is seasoned to perfection. The waiter brings it to the table and sets it down. Then he pulls out a kitten, squeezes it and the little kitty drops a turd in that soup. It's a tiny turd in the grand scheme of things. But it ruins the whole soup.

Or consider if someone said this:

I'm sorry for my actions. You were right and I was wrong. I made a mistake. Thanks for being so kind, shitface.

Oh my God, I haven't actually read that thread since it happened but now that I have reread it, I'm even more baffled. I actually said let's get together to play fucking Halo 4. If that's what anybody would call sincere flirting and not a simple joke, then they would be a complete and absolute fucktard.

Again, I repeat, I said "Hey babe, let's go play Halo 4." Who the fuck says that with sincerity?

Then after the altercation, I PMed her and said "Look, that was a fucking joke. How can you not see that?"

And yes, pmann, you're absolutely correct. Her stupid *rollseyes* is the bitchy part.

Satin, after rereading that, I see even more so now that you are just a straight up cunt. It's not how we "Take" your words. It's that you a fucking cunt who probably has a lot of personal problems and brings her stupid bitchy attitude to the forum to dominate. And who gives a fuck if I don't have a profile pic up right now. I had one up for at least a year. And you're the one calling yourself the goddamn "Makeup Fairy." Well, it's totally true. You need to know your shit about makeup because God didn't bless you with natural beauty. And with your cunt attitude, you're self-centered and a bitch.

They could LITERALLY use your full God-given name in Webster's Dictionary for the definition of "bitch." And nobody likes you.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Oh my God, I haven't actually read that thread since it happened but now that I have reread it, I'm even more baffled. I actually said let's get together to play fucking Halo 4. If that's what anybody would call sincere flirting and not a simple joke, then they would be a complete and absolute fucktard.

That is why I said that I think she and I (and the rest of lit) have very different definitions of flirting. I never sent her a PM, but I suppose if I had that's the equivalent of anal fisting.

This goes along with the post I wrote the other day about SD's comments about her own beauty.

Again, I'm trying to keep this cordial and constructive, as we will try to keep the arrows to Nerf arrows.

 

[Christopher2012]

That is why I said that I think she and I (and the rest of lit) have very different definitions of flirting. I never sent her a PM, but I suppose if I had that's the equivalent of anal fisting.

This goes along with the post I wrote the other day about SD's comments about her own beauty.

Again, I'm trying to keep this cordial and constructive, as we will try to keep the arrows to Nerf arrows.

Alright, Nerf arrows. I'll let you two discuss this then. But be warned, you might be using Nerf arrows, but she's going to be using Hydroshock hollowtip 45's with a overly sensitive trigger finger.

 

[satindesire]

I'm actually making an actual, constructive comment. Please don't take this as an attack.

I went and read his post to you. Or at least the one I presume you referenced.

forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=42904489&postcount=134



That was what seems to be your first exchange about the flirting. Perhaps you don't realize how your posts come across to many.

The post would have absolutely been fine had it not been for the rolled eyes at the end. That makes it look very bitchy, snarky and condescending. Did you mean it to look that way?

Imagine a bowl of lobster bisque soup. It's creamy and has fantastic chunks of lobster and is seasoned to perfection. The waiter brings it to the table and sets it down. Then he pulls out a kitten, squeezes it and the little kitty drops a turd in that soup. It's a tiny turd in the grand scheme of things. But it ruins the whole soup.

Or consider if someone said this:

I'm sorry for my actions. You were right and I was wrong. I made a mistake. Thanks for being so kind, shitface.

Yeah, again, I'm supposed to be apologetic and pleasing even when someone makes a serious social faux pas in a totally inappropriate place? No, I don't think so. He made me really uncomfortable and the flirting in that thread was completely uncalled for. He could have sent me that SAME message in private and it would have been received MUCH better, -OR- he could have STOPPED, apologized and it would have been OVER. But no, he didn't. He repeated his actions after I asked him to stop, AND He got nasty when I didn't react --in the way he expected me to--.

I don't do the whole social norm of a woman constantly trying to apologize for wanting to be treated with respect when she sets up a totally normal and healthy boundary. I stated my boundary, he violated it multiple times then got hateful with me. So yeah, I lost my shit and I'd do it again in a heartbeat, because -he was disrespectful to me multiple times-. I give what I get, when I get disrespected, I will tear anyone a new asshole. And if I was a dude, that would be celebrated as me acting like a "boss" and standing up for myself. Because I'm a woman, that's me being a bitch. No. I don't play by those rules.

 

[TeaforMe]

Am I too late, is the show over already?

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Look, I got popcorn and claws.

Pass the popcorn, show's not over yet, pretty girl.

Alright, Nerf arrows. I'll let you two discuss this then. But be warned, you might be using Nerf arrows, but she's going to be using Hydroshock hollowtip 45's with a overly sensitive trigger finger.

This is how not to give a damn, good job Chris.