How to get over someone

[ickle_stace]

Congratulations on the job, see a little positive thinking and you've got a new job and atleast a new friend if nothing more comes of it

make new friends, whether they be male or female, and get them to go out with you to meet new people, don't wait around for something that might never happen, I've done that in the past, and it's seriously not worth it

 

[irvo44]

best way would be to cuts all lines of communication with her if you want to go cold turkey and forget about her.
that should speed up the healing process.

 

[mdc1986]

There seems to be a few conflicting messages which I guess I should expect seeing as though everybody is not the same. I would just like to say that I haven’t actually spoke to her for about a week which may not seem like a long time but it kinda is when you talk to someone everyday, usually more then once. I’m not trying to go cold turkey or anything because I feel like losing a friendship like this is pointless, I’d rather not be with her but still have her as a friend then nothing at all. I just need time to recuperate and when I’m ready to talk to her again I will do. I’m not saying that this is the best thing to do with the situation but I feel with the advice given to me, and based my own instinct it is the right choice. Thank you to everyone who took an interest in my little life!