How to have a better orgasm...

[sophia jane]

with a rabbit, that is? (no, not the animal- get your minds out of the gutter!) I posed my dilemna in another thread, but no one really answered my question. When I use my rabbit to masturbate, no matter what I do with it, I don't enjoy it nearly as much as I feel I should. Using my hand gives me better orgasms, so I would like to know- is there something wrong with me? with my technique? with my expectations? or with my rabbit?
Thanks

 

[curiousjen]

I don't have a rabbit so I can't give you exact advice but I too find that when using toys I don't get as good an orgasm as I do just using the old fingerydoos.

For me it just seems to be a fact of life, my fingers are more agile, responsive and more sensitive to what i need than a lump of vibrating plastic.

I guess your hand is the best sex toy you will ever own.

Having said that, I bet there are some good techniques for you to improve life with your rabbit and I'm sure other posters will be able to help you out better than I can!

Cheers

Jx

 

[stingray61]

I'd say you need me there to give you a good tounge lashing while you use it. Either that or leave the rabbit alone and let me work.

 

[sophia jane]

I'd say you need me there to give you a good tounge lashing while you use it. Either that or leave the rabbit alone and let me work.

I like that idea...definitely prefer a tongue to a rabbit.

 

[stingray61]

I like that idea...definitely prefer a tongue to a rabbit.

hehehe lick em and stick em is my motto.

 

[grungalunga]

BETTER ORGASM??

you are a woman - you already lucked out with having the better orgasms!!

(joking - thought id inject a litte bit of humor). Im a guy who knows jackshit about the female body, so i cant really offer any tips or pointers.

 

[SweetErika]

I actually find the rabbit gives me a far more intense orgasm. But it is a very different feeling...more of a punch and rush than waves of pleasure washing over. A few things that make it better:
-Building up, and slowing down/stopping, then repeating the process or just letting it build slowly
-Using it in conjunction with some manual stimulation
-After the orgasm, turn it to low (you may need to move it so it's not providing such direct clit stimulation) to lengthen or bring on multiple orgasms. You might even try turning it to low or off as soon as you start to cum.

 

[stingray61]

I actually find the rabbit gives me a far more intense orgasm. But it is a very different feeling...more of a punch and rush than waves of pleasure washing over. A few things that make it better:
-Building up, and slowing down/stopping, then repeating the process or just letting it build slowly
-Using it in conjunction with some manual stimulation
-After the orgasm, turn it to low (you may need to move it so it's not providing such direct clit stimulation) to lengthen or bring on multiple orgasms. You might even try turning it to low or off as soon as you start to cum.

I'm starting to cum just from reading that.

 

[grungalunga]

like your signature stingray - poor, poor Buster

 

[nycphoto]

change your toy. You might be a woman that too much cliteral stimulation stops you from having a good time. Get a crooked Dildo that give you G spot stimulation or get a toy that will be dulled a little. The vibrator part will be can be dulled by rubber, or extra platic.
fantasylady .com for for toys. Look it up in google. You will find some nice toys there. PM me for more avice

 

[stingray61]

like your signature stingray - poor, poor Buster

Lol thanks.

 

[Candee]

I'm the opposit. I can get off with a toy in no time flat, but with my fingers it takes for ever!

Good luck with it and I agree with the post who suggested varying the speed and such, tease yourself a bit!

 

[Pounding27m]

Personal Experience

Sophia,
The key to the better orgasm in my opinion is to make the moment as real life as possible. Let your mind put you in the situation and let the mind guide the orgasm not your toy or fingers. If you're fantasizing about getting some action in the kitchen then do it there. If in the bedroom then play in the bedroom. Move your body into the position you are dreaming of. It may sound silly but the more 'props' or real life you can make the situation, the funner it will be!!!

 

[c_perv]

Hi Sophia

First of all- theres nothing wrong u- although stories may have the same outcome there r many ways to tell them.

Some girls are 'rabbit' girls and some are 'dildo' girls, while others are proper hornbags and anything will flick their switch!Many prefer fingers which is fair enough because chances are they were the first things used when exploring masturbation.

Of course that's just the 'hole' girls there are others that enjoy cumming just rubbing their clit- the bottomline is... its up to you.

Stay in one weekend grab some books or a movie (on topics you find arousing) grab your rabbit,a dildo and a banana some sxy underwear and a favourite fantasy (or two..) and experiment- there a lot of things that contribute to an orgasm and better still,as time goes on you will find there will be a lot of things that can make u cum.

Remember different strokes... for different folks- let me know how you go (or cum)

 

[miss_kate]

I WANT A RABBIT DESPERATELY: are they all that they are cracked up to be?? They look like a heavy piece of machinery, with all those knobs and buttons!

Thanks to Samantha off sex and the city i am utterly obsessed!

 

[SweetErika]

I WANT A RABBIT DESPERATELY: are they all that they are cracked up to be?? They look like a heavy piece of machinery, with all those knobs and buttons!

Thanks to Samantha off sex and the city i am utterly obsessed!

Yes, they're absolutely all they're cracked up to be! I'm on my second one in 4 years (the first's controls are a little touchy, but it's still going after 4 years of heavy use). I'd suggest getting one with a separate controller that takes 3 C batteries like the Rabbit Pearl or Rabbit Habit because it's more versatile and you have the power there if you want it (and with both the vibration and rotation going, you probably will). A fairly risk-free way to try them is through eBay...I've gotten mine for under $20 including shipping.

 

[BeachLovers]

Helpful Tip

Sophia,
My wife loves her rabbit. One thing that she does sometimes may help you with your situation. She will rotate it so that, while the shaft is inside her, the rabbit ears buzz against her "other hole". Not only does that give her stimulation on another sensitive spot, it also leaves her able to play with her clit with her hand (or leaves it free for a helpful tongue that happens to be in the area!).
Try it...you may like it, too!

 

[hornygirl]

I love my rabbit (no surprise here)

I find I get the hardest orgasms when I use less hard pressure pushing it in, and more of a circular motion with the ears on my clit.

I start it on very low speed with the head of it just inside me and the ears on the sides of my clit. I rub it in a circular motion and then slowly increase the speed and put a little more of the head inside and a slight more pressure on the clit. Then I gradually increase the speed while doing this and it drives me totally wild by the time I am on the highest speed. Its truly the ears that do the trick for me.

I havent found another toy (and I have a drawer full) that can make me come like that.

Give this a try, and just keep trying to manipulate it to stimulate what gets you going most.

 

[sophia jane]

Thanks for the tips everyone! I am having more "success" with my rabbit, and I can't wait to try out some of your suggestions.

SJ

 

[unfaithful2005]

iVibe Rabbit

Thanks for the tips everyone! I am having more "success" with my rabbit, and I can't wait to try out some of your suggestions.

SJ

My husband and I just bought it and so far, i'm not that impressed. The sound of it is kinda distracting and mechanical. Maybe I'll play some music in the background or something to dull the sound.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

My wife and I have gone through a whole toybox of marital aids in our adventures together. She had a rabbit for a while, but found that it didn't work for her as well as certain other toys. We figured it was just a "some will, some won't, so what's next?" sort of thing. Currently her favorites are her glass Phallix while using her Pocket Rocket.

 

[liz3030]

I think like anything to do with sex, you have to be in the right frame of mind. If you decide that something will not work, I have found that the self fullfilling prophecy rule usually applies.

As for me, I have tried several toys and usually found the Rabbit to be one of the more effective in terms of giving me a really strong orgasm.

I think one of the reasons is that I know how completely turned on my Husband gets watching the Rabbit being worked inside of me.

I will often put on a show for him, masturbating with the rabbit.

I have one of the more expensive models (I think it cost me around $80 and it is made in Japan)

I love the feeling of the balls moving inside my vagina. I focus on the shaft turning around in my pussy. Once I get all wet, i turn on the ears and let it buzz my clit. However if I do that too early, I just get numb. I guess the real benefit for me is to just use the pearl beads and shaft and let it work me up and then I am ready for just about anything.

Once, my Husband tied me up spread eagle and put the Rabbit inside of me. He held it in and let it turn and turn in my pussy, when I couldn't take the ears buzzing my clit (after coming very hard) he wouldn't take it out of me and let it keep turning. I think I had my first g spot orgasm that night.

Damn, I think I need to play with my Rabbit tonight.

 

[mistymoon]

my rabbit and me

I have two of those fabulous toys and have broke both of them!!!! I absolutely love them. here's the key though.....its not the toys, or the fingers, it's the wonderful gift we all have....the mind, the imagination. you just have to put yourself where you want to be and you WILL orgasm.


trust me,

 

[sexyjenn]

bunnies are cute i want one

 

[MR.GGG]

Sophia

SweetErica touched on something that I was going to mention just to be sure ...

I make an electronic deevice (not a vibrator) and several times a year I get calls from people telling me my product is shit, that it dosn't work, that they've been ripped off. I ask them what the problem is and they tell me that it isn't ****** (that would give it away and I'd prefer to remain somewhat anon. in here) and I ask them to check on the battery. I love it when there is stunned silence and they go, ""...battery .... ? ""

So ... if you've PUT THE BATTERIES INIT and you've turned it ON (there's another story right there) and it makes yo teeth chatter when ya'll bite on the end then it IS working. Otherwise you best go back and read the instructions.

If all that is cool and you're going""Well ...DOIH!!" at my post then welcome to the human race where not everybody has exactly the same reactions as everybody else. Go with what works for ya.