how to plant that first kiss?
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I'm not really sure there's a right answer to this question...like so many others out there.
First of all...people plant flowers...not kisses
so don't look at it like that. My advice to you would be to just go with the flow of things. I've had kisses that i knew were coming and ones that took me completely by suprise. It's all a matter of timing...you'll know when the moment is right and then just take it from there...
First of all...people plant flowers...not kisses
so don't look at it like that. My advice to you would be to just go with the flow of things. I've had kisses that i knew were coming and ones that took me completely by suprise. It's all a matter of timing...you'll know when the moment is right and then just take it from there...
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there's going to be a moment when you're both laughing about something, and you're looking into each other's eyes... hold her gaze for an extra beat or two, and, eyes still looking into hers, move close for a nice, soft, deliberate but not pushy, kiss
then move your head back, look at her and smile. if she smiles back, you might get to kiss her again!
have fun!
then move your head back, look at her and smile. if she smiles back, you might get to kiss her again!
have fun!
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pink swirl said:there's going to be a moment when you're both laughing about something, and you're looking into each other's eyes... hold her gaze for an extra beat or two, and, eyes still looking into hers, move close for a nice, soft, deliberate but not pushy, kiss
then move your head back, look at her and smile. if she smiles back, you might get to kiss her again!
have fun!
Oh, what a lovely and perfect description! Thanks for jogging those wonderful memories Pink Swirl!
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SweetErika said:
some things are just too good to forget
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first kiss
first kisses are always not perfect, just like mine. when i kissed my then girlfriend for the first time, it was also her first time, i was so inexperienced, even broke her lip. i didn't know put my tongue into her month.
but it was much more enjoyable than others, because it was first one. you know, my heart beat very hard, so did hers.
when i kissed my second girlfriend for the first time, i could never have those feeling, although i really know how to do it.
first kisses are always not perfect, just like mine. when i kissed my then girlfriend for the first time, it was also her first time, i was so inexperienced, even broke her lip. i didn't know put my tongue into her month.
but it was much more enjoyable than others, because it was first one. you know, my heart beat very hard, so did hers.
when i kissed my second girlfriend for the first time, i could never have those feeling, although i really know how to do it.
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pink swirl said:there's going to be a moment when you're both laughing about something, and you're looking into each other's eyes... hold her gaze for an extra beat or two, and, eyes still looking into hers, move close for a nice, soft, deliberate but not pushy, kiss
then move your head back, look at her and smile. if she smiles back, you might get to kiss her again!
have fun!
just a suggestion to add to this, cuz this is great and oh so true... dont go to choke her on your tongue for the first kiss.
only you will know when that "right" moment is to try to kiss her. Dont rush it, and take it very slowly.
My suggestion is to not pucker your lips up, leave them relaxed and plump. Press them against hers, dont crush or push, but simply let them touch. If you start using your tounge dont slime her, and dont try to gag her with yours, let your tounges play with eachother.
While your kissing dont leave your hands idle, be sure to touch her. Run your hand through her hair, caress her cheek and neck, play with her ear a little bit. If you move your hands onto her chest dont grope or squese simply caress her lightly.
If you start really getting into the kissing then its alright to grope and squeese but not at first,
My suggestion is to not pucker your lips up, leave them relaxed and plump. Press them against hers, dont crush or push, but simply let them touch. If you start using your tounge dont slime her, and dont try to gag her with yours, let your tounges play with eachother.
While your kissing dont leave your hands idle, be sure to touch her. Run your hand through her hair, caress her cheek and neck, play with her ear a little bit. If you move your hands onto her chest dont grope or squese simply caress her lightly.
If you start really getting into the kissing then its alright to grope and squeese but not at first,
Crikey, I remember being there myself (it does however scare me how long ago it was, god I'm getting old (if you can call 21 old)).
All I can say is that you will know when the time is right because it will just happen. Don't push it to happen but don't run away from it either. It's a thing of gravity, you find your heads just falling togeather naturally, colliding at the lips. Nobody can direct the firs kiss, it just happens. All I can suggest is take it slow and don't aim to impress, as you will fail. The best way to impress is to just go with the flow and do what feels right, the most amazing kiss in the world is a soft tender and NATURAL kiss.
Anyway, that's enough of my blabbering.
All I can say is that you will know when the time is right because it will just happen. Don't push it to happen but don't run away from it either. It's a thing of gravity, you find your heads just falling togeather naturally, colliding at the lips. Nobody can direct the firs kiss, it just happens. All I can suggest is take it slow and don't aim to impress, as you will fail. The best way to impress is to just go with the flow and do what feels right, the most amazing kiss in the world is a soft tender and NATURAL kiss.
Anyway, that's enough of my blabbering.
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I would say the most important thing is to try to be relaxed. From personal experience, being nervous about a first kiss can lead to a stupid first kiss.
When my boyfriend and I were first dating, it took 3 months for one of us to kiss the other. I decided to take matters into my own hands and kiss him first on my birthday. I ended up waiting till the end of the night out of nervousness, and then when I finally did, I felt the need to introduce the kiss ("I'm...uh...going to do something that...umm...if I don't do now...I won't....umm...do for a long time..."), look around nervously, cover his eyes, and kiss him so quickly it was like it didn't happen. It was pretty embarrassing, but it got the ball rolling and after that we kissed more often and got better at it.
I'm not the world's best kisser, not by a long shot, so I can't give you any help there, but if you can just relax and ease into the kiss, it should turn out pretty well, I think.
I would say the most important thing is to try to be relaxed. From personal experience, being nervous about a first kiss can lead to a stupid first kiss.
When my boyfriend and I were first dating, it took 3 months for one of us to kiss the other. I decided to take matters into my own hands and kiss him first on my birthday. I ended up waiting till the end of the night out of nervousness, and then when I finally did, I felt the need to introduce the kiss ("I'm...uh...going to do something that...umm...if I don't do now...I won't....umm...do for a long time..."), look around nervously, cover his eyes, and kiss him so quickly it was like it didn't happen. It was pretty embarrassing, but it got the ball rolling and after that we kissed more often and got better at it.
I'm not the world's best kisser, not by a long shot, so I can't give you any help there, but if you can just relax and ease into the kiss, it should turn out pretty well, I think.
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Alix, frankly I'm confused...your other thread is asking about your last experience with sex...you've had sex, but you haven't kissed your girlfriend? Or did you roll the first kiss and the first sex into one?
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alix03 said:
Striving to improve is always good. You might want to slow down a little bit and work on the intimacy...kissing and sex are always best when you have that special closeness.
