Humiliation?

[eroticspank]

For me humiliation gets me off, not being degraded. And the humiliation can be intense and severe between us but only mild to the outside observers.
This is of course just my personal opinion and I may not have explained it very well. It’s a mental thing that I crave and know when I see and experience it.
Anyway, just wanted to put my two cents in.

Good point. Everyone is different. One person's humiliation is another person's degradation. It depends what is inside your head, how you think about different taboos and ideas. Exploring those areas with a understanding partner can be a lot of fun.

ES

 

[LizVegas79]

Just for the record, this is not humiliation. This is accomplishment!

https://images.sex.com/images/pinporn/2018/09/10/300/19942520.jpg

(with maybe just a touch of "would you or one of your friends please hand me a fucking tissue sweetie?")

 

[Blase]

Just for the record, this is not humiliation. This is accomplishment

I remember talking to a Litizen about a similar scenario. Not a bukkake as such, but a scene where she'd basically be fed to a roomful of people (with appropriate safety measures in place, of course). She said that she'd thoroughly enjoy even the "degrading" elements because she'd basically see the whole thing as being all about her and her pleasure.

 

[JJElsee]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

I’m totally with you, for us I really get off on humiliation and my wife enjoys humiliating and degrading me. I k ow everyone has different levels of humiliation that they enjoy but I prefer a lot

 

[guns444]

The thought of being submisssive and humiliated and degraded in private is so hot to me

 

[Katinhat1]

How can I help?
I love psychological humiliation-

 

[Curious1969paul]

First thank you for all of the supportive comments.
Okay, so I have been getting asked what is the difference between humiliation and degradation.
For me humiliation would still be a turn on even though it was embarrassing. Like if my boyfriend made a video of me masturbating and he is making me describe my sexy neighbor while I get off. He also makes me say how it would turn me on to be used by her and be her sex toy. Then he sends her the video and a few minutes later sends her a message apologizing because he accidentally sent the video that was supposed to be private just between us. That would be humiliating but a huge turn on.
Degrading would be something that was shameful and not a turn on. Like making me beg to use the bathroom then having me lift my leg and pee on a bush like a dog outside. Then sending that video to friends or coworkers. Ok even that could be a turn on I suppose. But that would be more degrading than just humiliating.
I’m open to hear other ideas of what you think degrading would be.

I agree it’s hard to define.
When my girlfriend and I broke up a friend of hers reached out to me. Actually they were a couple and convinced me there was a possibility they could set up a 4 some to include my ex.
To make a long story short I ended up servicing both and was completely humiliated. So yeah it’s a very individual thing

 

[Kim_Burly]

I love pain and humiliation/degradation equally. The problem with both can be that you become immune to a certain type of pain or humiliation so you need to be taken further, which can really spiral out of control, so you need to find new ways or areas to inflict pain or new acts of humiliation.

I am very lucky that Sir has such a twisted imagination, he is always coming up with new ways to do both. He has always enjoyed humiliating me in front of other women, which I enjoy as well. He very, very rarely does it in front of a man, what he will do if we are with another woman is he will have me provide entertainment for the two of them, then the fucking starts and by the end of the evening, the woman is servicing me. I can not put into words how sweet it is when she realizes the script has been flipped and now she is my entertainment and I end up sitting on her face.

I love being a sadist to women and humiliating them, men, not so much. I will do it if the woman's husband/boyfriend is around to pass the time while the time while Sir plays with her, but the best is topping a woman. Sir let me have a sub woman of my own for quite a while, but she had to relocate, I am working with him to find another.

Sorry, I got distracted. My personal favorite is when Sir makes me hurt or humiliate myself, I think is a great test of a sub's loyalty and commitment. Nothing says I love you like driving a nail through your own breast.

 

[Curious1969paul]

First thank you for all of the supportive comments.
Okay, so I have been getting asked what is the difference between humiliation and degradation.
For me humiliation would still be a turn on even though it was embarrassing. Like if my boyfriend made a video of me masturbating and he is making me describe my sexy neighbor while I get off. He also makes me say how it would turn me on to be used by her and be her sex toy. Then he sends her the video and a few minutes later sends her a message apologizing because he accidentally sent the video that was supposed to be private just between us. That would be humiliating but a huge turn on.
Degrading would be something that was shameful and not a turn on. Like making me beg to use the bathroom then having me lift my leg and pee on a bush like a dog outside. Then sending that video to friends or coworkers. Ok even that could be a turn on I suppose. But that would be more degrading than just humiliating.
I’m open to hear other ideas of what you think degrading would be.

I’ll agree that it’s a very hard thing to define. One day something that has always been a complete turn off may all of the sudden be extremely erotic to you.

The first time I ever sucked another guys dick his wife told me she was going to tell my ex girlfriend all about it. Two weeks earlier I would have really upset. But now I was too turned on by her trying to humiliate me to get mad.

 

[sterculius]

I’ll agree that it’s a very hard thing to define. One day something that has always been a complete turn off may all of the sudden be extremely erotic to you.

The first time I ever sucked another guys dick his wife told me she was going to tell my ex girlfriend all about it. Two weeks earlier I would have really upset. But now I was too turned on by her trying to humiliate me to get mad.

As a teen I eagerly served as my best friend Larry's willing and enthusiastic personal cocksucker all through high school. He didn't reciprocate so I would jerk off as he looked on after having given him his blowjob and eat my cum from my hand just as I had eaten his. I would be overcome by intense humiliation immediately following my performance, vowing never again to repeat this shameful act, but within hours my resolve would dissipate to be replaced by an irresistible craving to be down again on my knees, having my throat savagely plundered by his thick cock. In the beginning I would alternate between these two extremes, but gradually I began to associate my post performance humiliation with the ecstasy I experienced while being throat fucked until both emotions merged and I would anticipate and look forward to being humiliated by him. I would even suggest scenarios for us to enact that emphasized my inferior role and degraded status as his cocksucker. He wanted me to agree to let him tell our friends I was a cocksucker and invite them to participate in our sessions. I refused, out of fear of becoming known as the neighborhood cocksucker, although I would routinely masturbate to the fantasy, visualizing myself down on my knees, surrounded by all our friends watching me suck cock after cock as they waited to take their turn fucking my mouth and cumming down my throat. I was convinced he would eventually tell them anyway in spite of my objections, but he never did. I often wish he had told them.

 

[genxer36]

I enjoy dishing out mild humiliation for my sub. Or anyone that enjoys it. Never cruel or mean. Only to bring them pleasure in a playful manner. If I allow cumming, then my job is done.

 

[sterculius]

I make a firm distinction between being humiliated and being insulted. Insults are intended to offend, whereas humiliation merely draws attention to aspects of oneself that are generally considered shameful or embarrassing. What really pushes my buttons is situational humiliation that threatens to make public the fact that I'm a Cocksucker or that my small penis is woefully inadequate.

 

[jackieblue808]

I find that the length of denial is inversely proportionate to the desire for humiliation and degradation

 

[goodsonformom]

this would be very hot! I need that to happen to me

I have a passion for milking a sweet sexy male.....denying him and edging.....not allowing him a cum.....all the while stroking his hard wet cock.....hearing him whimper.....his eyes begging to let me say...."Cum for Daddy."

 

[9to5]

I have a passion for milking a sweet sexy male.....denying him and edging.....not allowing him a cum.....all the while stroking his hard wet cock.....hearing him whimper.....his eyes begging to let me say...."Cum for Daddy."

begging for release and not sure when and if it will happen. shacking with the need to cum. I love that

 

[sazzyslut69]

Oh no, you are definitely not alone. I know that it's kinky and probably a bit strange for some, but I love to be insulted and degraded in the cruelest and most hurtful ways. Nasty comments about my body, my face... everything about me. I have flaws and I love it when people notice and point them out so honestly, even brutally... it turns me on sooooo much
https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B6ssyy96gkdLU3NEckh4YmtEMkU

I'm the same and it makes no logical sense. Filthy names are my biggest turn on. Some of the roughest porn scenes get me going too, and yet I like nice people. It's very odd.

 

[jackieblue808]

I'm the same and it makes no logical sense. Filthy names are my biggest turn on. Some of the roughest porn scenes get me going too, and yet I like nice people. It's very odd.

yes it is quite a contradiction isn't it?

 

[OdysseusMan]

Yeah...

I can see that some 'mild' humiliation can be quite a turn on...boundaries...

 

[goodsonformom]

I can see that some 'mild' humiliation can be quite a turn on...boundaries...

I feel the same. When I was younger and a bit submissive, I loved being instructed to perform a humiliating "task" and then being called a name or described with a humiliating Label......It was very arousing to be told to suck the cocks of a few men and then hear what a cock whore I was.......

 

[jackieblue808]

the verbal humiliation goes hand in hand with the degrading act

 

[goodsonformom]

the verbal humiliation goes hand in hand with the degrading act

Yep........

 

[jackieblue808]

happy to chat with anyone about the subject

 

[OdysseusMan]

Yeah...

Yeah, me too. It would be interesting to hear what kind of humiliation turns you on...if at all.

 

[sazzyslut69]

Most rough sex is pretty degrading though. Hair-pulling, spanking, throat-fucking, being called a slut/whore... I absolutely love it all. Posting pics up on here for dirty comments adds a new angle to it.

A lot of people don't like it but I love playing up to it. I'm a slut. I love cock. Shoot me.

 

[faraday69]

Most rough sex is pretty degrading though. Hair-pulling, spanking, throat-fucking, being called a slut/whore... I absolutely love it all. Posting pics up on here for dirty comments adds a new angle to it.

A lot of people don't like it but I love playing up to it. I'm a slut. I love cock. Shoot me.

I wouldn't shoot you, but I would degrade you.