Humiliation?

[kylie74]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

no your not the only one i too get off on humiliation , it drives me deeper into my submissive sexual lust as it were the more i get humiliated actually

 

[LizVegas79]

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(apologies for previously sharing my thoughts on this topic)

 

[AnnieLit]

Most rough sex is pretty degrading though. Hair-pulling, spanking, throat-fucking, being called a slut/whore... I absolutely love it all. Posting pics up on here for dirty comments adds a new angle to it.

A lot of people don't like it but I love playing up to it. I'm a slut. I love cock. Shoot me.

That's funny! I LOVE all of the above, but... I am not humiliated by any of that, nor do I find it degrading. If anything, it lifts me up, not puts ne down.

Doctor, what's wrong with me?

 

[shibaristudent]

That's funny! I LOVE all of the above, but... I am not humiliated by any of that, nor do I find it degrading. If anything, it lifts me up, not puts ne down.

Doctor, what's wrong with me?

Wrong? Nothing at all. To each his/her own. As long as you & your partner get off on it, c'est la vie!

 

[petes478]

I get off on humiliating white & Asian pussy. All ages 18 and older. Extreme. Verbal physical sexual emotional.

 

[MissJelaine]

I get off on humiliating white & Asian pussy. All ages 18 and older. Extreme. Verbal physical sexual emotional.

No doubt you do - that pic makes that obvious!

 

[whenagain]

It’s embarrassing how much I crave humiliation.


See what I did there?

No but really.

 

[TraineeWife]

I hate humiliation, but it turns me on so much. And I like to please my husband, who likes humiliating me a lot.

 

[whenagain]

I hate humiliation, but it turns me on so much. A
I like to please my husband, who likes humiliating me a lot.

Do you ever reverse roles?

 

[4U2Spread]

I think of these things, too, but probably would not go through with it. I can fantasize though. I think it's the idea of being instructed (or forcibly) to be naked and bound AND ADMIRED by a crowd that finds me desirable. This would take place in a park, for example (away from families and kids, of course). Just being taken unawares and having my clothes ripped off in front of strange men, then spread on a picnic table, arms held above my head and then knees spread wide, and on, would be something I imagine. Fantasies are good!

 

[Kaadee]

I crave psychological degradation. I need to be told specific things, mainly about my appearance and intellect. Hubby wont do it, he cant...he loves me too much. But I need it, desperately. It’s probably not the best way to deal with my demons, but it seems to really work.

Clementine, I've been writing a story that deals with humiliation and degradation. As someone who feel like you do about it, do you think that deep down you deserve that treatment? Or is it purely fantasy, disconnected from your own feelings about yourself? Or, perhaps, somewhere in between?

Sorry for being nosy, just tell me to get lost if it's too personal!

 

[Bbwlonghairedlover]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

I’m not sure if you call it humiliation or not, but I love it when my partner calls me names during sex. Especially when it’s rough sex, with some spanking and lite flogging. I love to be called a dirty little slut. When he tells me how naughty I am. But I’m weird, I dislike being called a whore. I’m not sure why that one word gives me pause, but it always has. Does anyone else have hang ups about certain words?

 

[magicalmoments]

I used to meet with a couple where the wife was really into being seriously humiliated and degraded. It started for them when he discovered she was having a secret affair. He was deeply hurt by this felt very betrayed. He tore a strip off her, verbally, called her for all the sluts and whores under the sun. She was ashamed of herself and found herself totally turned on by her husbands abuse. They discussed this reaction later and they agreed to experiment with it.
The result was they met with guys like me. A normal scenario would go something like this. When they arrived at my place he would tell her to get changed. She would strip in front of us and put on a large sized men's shirt that had the buttons removed. All the while we'd be commenting on her appearance her looks, her charms. We'd have her serve us, pour and deliver drinks and snacks, find fault with these and abuse her, fondle her boobs and finger fuck her, commenting on what a slut she was, and so on. All the while she'd be trying to preserve her modesty by holding the shirt closed. We'd make her strip and pose for us in ways that displayed everything, all the while commenting and making fun of her. We'd make her fuck herself with dildoes.
I never got to fuck her but she'd give me blow jobs and I'd masturbate onto her face and hair. I'd watch the husband fuck her and encourage him to fuck that bitch etc, comment on her reactions, tell her she'd go broke if she was a hooker and fucked that poorly.
Our sessions usually lasted about 2 hours and afterwards we'd sit around naked and chat about how it went. It was a lot of fun for the 2 years it lasted until I mved to a new location. We'd met maybe a dozen times over that period.

 

[christina4fun]

although dominate in my sexual nature , i have been turned into submissive (you really have to get inside my head) but the mental humiliation drives me wild
i am quite wild and i do have my own apartment and i have a X frame in it
yes everyone sees it as i said they know im kinky
but i have been locked in it myself with a female friend who really got me wet and wanting to do anything she asked of me (strange as i said for me) then with out being able to move my arms legs and hips (all locking points on my X frame ) and naked , she teased me for hours , then tapped my magic wand to my pussy and tapped up tight right in the #spot#
turned it on to a low hum gagged me then as she smiled she picked up my phone and txt my co worker ( who she knew i was trying to hit ON )
i moaned into gag and tried pleading with her to let me go
35 min later the doorbell rang and i panicked and i admit i was going insane and
as the door opened i started to orgasm as my now new mistress brought in my co worker and said
"so do you know what Christina is really like after work"

the humiliation the orgasm the me starring right at my friend my co worker as the girl that was controlling me and the situation laughed and said as the co worker walked out "haha she will never get that vision out of her head "

as i struggled and had another orgasm

i now love being humiliated i have turned

 

[Nubbin2Declare]

28 pages in this thread over 5 years, and continuing. To answer the question originally posed, it's clear that many people enjoy humiliation.

I certainly do. It's my main thing, and always has been.

 

[LizVegas79]

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(apologies for previously sharing my thoughts on this topic)

 

[Tallcajun]

I used to meet with a couple where the wife was really into being seriously humiliated and degraded. It started for them when he discovered she was having a secret affair. He was deeply hurt by this felt very betrayed. He tore a strip off her, verbally, called her for all the sluts and whores under the sun. She was ashamed of herself and found herself totally turned on by her husbands abuse. They discussed this reaction later and they agreed to experiment with it.
The result was they met with guys like me. A normal scenario would go something like this. When they arrived at my place he would tell her to get changed. She would strip in front of us and put on a large sized men's shirt that had the buttons removed. All the while we'd be commenting on her appearance her looks, her charms. We'd have her serve us, pour and deliver drinks and snacks, find fault with these and abuse her, fondle her boobs and finger fuck her, commenting on what a slut she was, and so on. All the while she'd be trying to preserve her modesty by holding the shirt closed. We'd make her strip and pose for us in ways that displayed everything, all the while commenting and making fun of her. We'd make her fuck herself with dildoes.
I never got to fuck her but she'd give me blow jobs and I'd masturbate onto her face and hair. I'd watch the husband fuck her and encourage him to fuck that bitch etc, comment on her reactions, tell her she'd go broke if she was a hooker and fucked that poorly.
Our sessions usually lasted about 2 hours and afterwards we'd sit around naked and chat about how it went. It was a lot of fun for the 2 years it lasted until I mved to a new location. We'd met maybe a dozen times over that period.

This is hot! I’ve thought about something like this before.
Thanks for sharing.

 

[KyleR215]

who doesn't like a little humiliation?

 

[cuckoldbill]

who doesn't like a little humiliation?

I’m certainly into it. Not public humiliation but more subtle. Between my wife and a few of our friends . Especially her friends

 

[base10]

I’m certainly into it. Not public humiliation but more subtle. Between my wife and a few of our friends . Especially her friends

A friend recently told me she would love if I showed the dirty pics she sent me to some of my friends. Tell them what a dirty slut she is. Wonderful humiliation turn on for her

 

[cuckoldbill]

A friend recently told me she would love if I showed the dirty pics she sent me to some of my friends. Tell them what a dirty slut she is. Wonderful humiliation turn on for her

So why not share them on here and we will help humiliate her.

 

[base10]

So why not share them on here and we will help humiliate her.

because I don't know or trust you. no offense

 

[littlebirdjoy]

because I don't know or trust you. no offense

* standing ovation for you *

 

[TraineeWife]

Do you ever reverse roles?

No, Sir. That would feel so so wrong to me.

 

[eroticspank]

The type of humilation that excites me is a bit different from most. It is not about some dom or master getting me to do something. I am much more into scenarios where I make a decision to do something I never dreamed of..I could always say no but this time I rationalize its ok. For example due to severe financial difficulties I find that porn is my only option or maybe something similar. The only job I could get is doing something not mainstream...a niche kink. There are also other non porn related scenarios. Sometimes its a turn on to have this secret discovered or having to reveal my past to a new lover.

So the humiliation part is having your lover discover your secret life? It turns you on that you were discovered? Would you say that your lover's reaction is an important part of the excitement or turn on?

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