Humiliation?

It always surprises me how much ideas of control/mild to moderate humiliation/exposure get me all twisted up and needy. I can imagine getting very suggestable and crawling out of my skin to please. Where the balance of simple control vs humiliation lies for me is something that would be intriguing to explore. Do I need/want both? Do I need/want more of one than the other to really exploit my kink/subby inclinations? 😈😳🤔
 
Oh gosh this is hard to explain for me but I do enjoy it but humiliation is something of an art form and mostly done not to my liking by many. I do enjoy name calling at certain times but what drives me crazy (in a good way) is subtle humiliation through out conversation. I really don’t know how to explain it right but maybe like subtle hints to my flaws or comments of them. I think it should always be balanced with praise of course but if done right my short comings being critiqued can be arousing.
That’s the best I can explain it now. Lol
 
I've been a lifelong cocksucker, but I don't encourage insults or name calling. I don't consider the term, "Cocksucker" to be offensive, merely an accurate description of a person who voluntarily engages in performing an act I passionately enjoy. I do crave what I refer to as 'situational' humiliation and the degradation that would result were my enthusiasm for performing fellatio to become publicly known. I was indoctrinated into the practice by my best friend Larry and I willingly agreed to become his personal, on-call cocksucker as a teenager. I would delight in servicing him, on my knees, allowing him to roughly force the entire length of his very large cock all the way down my throat and savagely fucking my throat until he ejaculated deep inside me. He used to threaten to expose me to all our friends as being his cocksucker and that I would be required to suck their cocks also. I begged him not to tell them, but I would jerk off while visualizing myself down on my knees at the head of a long line of my friends, sucking cock after cock and letting them all ejaculate deep inside me and obediently swallowing their semen as the rest of them stood around, stroking their erections while awaiting their turn to fuck my mouth. The possibility of being "outed" as a cocksucker arouses me!
 
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Ive been a lifelong cocksucker,but I don't encourage insults or name calling (except for the term 'cocksucker' as a title), but I do enjoy what I refer to as 'situational' humiliation and degradation. I was indoctrinated by my best friend Larry to be his personal, on-call cocksucker as a teenager. I would delight in servicing him, on my knees, and allowing him to force the entire length of his very large cock all the way down my throat and roughly fucking my throat until he ejaculated deep inside me. He would routinely threaten to expose me to all our friends as being a cocksucker so that I would be required to service them also. I used to jerk off while visualizing myself down on my knees at the head of a long line of my friends, sucking cock after cock and letting them all ejaculate deep inside me and obediently swallowing their semen as the rest of them stood around, stroking their erections while awaiting their turn to fuck my mouth. The possibility of being "outed" as a cocksucker arouses me!
I guess you've achieved that status on the Literotica Forum.
We all know and recognise you as a cocksucker, and we respect your expertise.
Congratulations, you have been 'outed' as a public cocksucker...
 
My FWB Kim begs me to humiliate her sometimes and I absolutely love it. Especially because I know how awful she generally is to her husband so I feel like she sort of deserves it. I actually like him as a person more than I like her. Plus, my husband isn't into humiliation, being or giving. I basically have to beg him to call me names. :(
 
Bi-guy here, there are times when i just love to be humiliated, called names, made fun of, laughed at, just really turns me on. 63y0 chubby in Florida, USA
 
What I'd like:
A well dressed mature woman, eye contact, a riding crop on the table to remind me, I'm naked and vulnerable. Embarrassing questions that she doesn't allow me to answer fully, before she answers for me. I don't dare contradict her and must apologize for masturbating without her permission, I have to show her how I did it. No names that I can think of, no cursing or loud voice. She and I are both aware at any time she may decide to make our little talk quite painful for me.
Two or three well dressed women watching would be perfect but not possible to arrange.
Reminds me I was in a BDSM Brothel in NYC around Times sq, back in the day, and I was naked being controlled by a domme, when we had to change rooms. She guided me, naked thru a corridor where three ladies dressed in street clothes were talking, obviously employed there. Although they ignored me, the humiliation was terrific.
Giuliani ruined a great place.



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Hmmm interesting thread.

For me humiliation comes in so many forms from, name calling, public/private, subtle not so subtle. Even things that can be done privately and publicly. Depends on the interests of my partner. Going out in public wearing a buttplug, or tailplug under their clothes. Body writing having words or phrases written on her flesh, as she works away her co-workers none the wiser.

Just to start
 
What kind of humiliation do you like to do and what turns you on about it?
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Sometime I will come into the room and my wife will be sitting in her chair. She will be wearing some sort of light summer dress and there will be a large outline of her cock. After a minute of me just looking at her basking in her beautiful she will tell me to come here. Then she will lean back in her chair and have me get on my knees between her legs. Ill lift up her dress to expose her cock. I already know what she wants so I move towards her cock with mouth open. Then sometimes she will pull back teasing me on how much I want to suck her cock. Then she will ask question, there is pings of humiliation telling her that I want her cock in my mouth. Then sometimes during this song and dance just at the right moment with the head of her cock entering my throat and my lips wrapped around her shaft she takes a picture for her collection. There’s something so humiliating but oh so erotic at the same time.
 
My wife and I got up really early today. Plan was to work out, then go to the farm (1/4 mile away) to water our crops and flowers and then jump in the pool before we started our day jobs.

Work out was great (she slept in today tho), then it was off to the farm. Turned on soaker hoses for the pumpkins, gourds while we picked peppers, zucchini and tomatoes.

Then I brought up the produce and watered the flowers near our farmstand. On the way back to the truck, my wife told me to wait… she had a surprise. She bright me behind our farm building, shackled my hands to a harrow, had me bend over and spanked my ass till it was just barely red. It was wonderfully humiliating! Especially because cars were going by!! Don’t think they could see what was happening unless they we’re really looking, but I love that thrill of being potentially found out.

It was a quick spanking - had to get ready for the day ahead… she took these pics and told me to post them.

Spanking at the farm
Close up of red bum

Then we ran home and jumped in the pool naked to get ready for our day jobs.

Couldn’t sleep for shit last night so this made for a great early start to the day!
 
I enjoy several things about humiliation. I love being called names like cocksucker or cumslut, I've had this done in public a couple times which was really hot. Being used for someone's pleasure and no care about me getting off, knowing I'm just for them to use me. I've had a couple guys call me to get them off then tell me to leave. Wish I had a few women too.

One of my hottest things I've done was agree to let a guy video me so I could get a facial. I didn't want to but I really wanted a facial. He used his phone and sent me a copy, but not sure if he's shown the video to anyone. I've shared it with a couple people, it was a huge facial too!! Well worth it!!
 
First post, so be gentle
many years ago I was in an affair with a (fairly) strong willed woman. We were in a hotel suite having sex, me f***g her from behind. My phone rang and I picked it up and answered it, she went absolutely crazy. Ended up naked and locked out of the bedroom part of the suite over night.
She expressed her unhappiness more calmly and said we were over unless I would do something for her that day.
We drove to Manchester and she guided me to a Mistress she had booked. In the following 2 hours she watched me take a severe otk spanking, my first pegging and some other stuff.
As I was receiving my first golden shower she passed me her phone and told me to tell her best friend (who I knew) where I was and what was happening. We were to meet her best friend that evening which was almost as humiliating as the 2 hours. Our relationship changed, for the better.
 
I'm sure my fascination with humiliation stems from my having served as my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker all through high school. He would constantly try to get me to agree to let him to tell all our friends I was his cocksucker and invite them to attend our 'sessions'. I begged him not to tell them as I was afraid it would become common knowledge that I was a 'cocksucker' and it would get back to my parents. I was convinced he would eventually tell them anyway, in spite of my objections and I would masturbate while imagining myself on my knees at the head of a line of our friends, sucking cock after cock and swallowing all their semen as they all stood around, laughing at me and stroking their erect cocks while waiting to take their turn fucking my mouth.
One day, I arrived at Larry's house, prepared to give him his daily blowjob, to find that Steven, a friend of ours, had arrived there before me. I was certain Larry had invited him to get a blowjob from me only to learn that he had come to pick up a homework assignment he had missed. He left soon after, but I was surprised to realize how disappointed I felt that Larry hadn't told him and that I wouldn't get to suck his cock.
A current feeder of mine has taken numerous pictures of me sucking his cock and also the cocks of many of his friends to whom he routinely 'passes me around'. He has posted online these highly recognizable photos of me, clearly showing my face with someone's cock stuffed in my mouth along with a blurb beneath the picture stating "This is Cocksucker Bill, if you recognize him, give him a call and say 'Hey Bill, SUCK MY COCK!!'
 
I am a humiliation pig for my wife, she knows what I like, we play a little about once a month, but I am a greedy pig who needs more here on lit, I’m ready, I also switch to strong type
 
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