Humiliation?

I'm sure my fascination with humiliation stems from my having served as my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker all through high school.
You're the first person I think to actually express the roots of the desire. I'm curious how others came to realise that was their thing.

I had a seminal moment when I was 18 but I realised, while in conversation with someone here, that the origins started some time before
 
You're the first person I think to actually express the roots of the desire. I'm curious how others came to realise that was their thing.
I had a seminal moment when I was 18 but I realised, while in conversation with someone here, that the origins started some time before
The very first, most primal human instinct, the first and only survival mechanism we have when we are first born... is to suck. It is nurture, it is comfort, it is warmth, it is security, it is sustenance.
Although we grow and mature and sophisticate, those very basic needs are there in the back of your subconscious. Getting comfort from sucking is a very natural and human thing. If you happen to be sucking a cock, even more so...
 
The very first, most primal human instinct, the first and only survival mechanism we have when we are first born... is to suck. It is nurture, it is comfort, it is warmth, it is security, it is sustenance.
Although we grow and mature and sophisticate, those very basic needs are there in the back of your subconscious. Getting comfort from sucking is a very natural and human thing. If you happen to be sucking a cock, even more so...
It's not about the sucking as such - that was a vehicle. Sterculius wasn't humiliated by sucking men, but by the fear of being exposed.
 
I completely understand what you mean by high Lucy_Lastic. It's a bit bizarre in a sense because you hate it and love it at once and it's such an incredibly powerful feeling. I also still clearly remember my own situation, and even just thinking about it makes me blush.
 
I completely understand what you mean by high Lucy_Lastic. It's a bit bizarre in a sense because you hate it and love it at once and it's such an incredibly powerful feeling. I also still clearly remember my own situation, and even just thinking about it makes me blush.
care to share?
 
Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?
As I previously mentioned I love being humiliated. The brain-fuck aspect of it really turns me on. Been thinking lately what it would be like to have to send pics of my wifes breasts to someone...then maybe they humiliated me or make me do things with the thread of posting her pics on a porn site...
 
As I previously mentioned I love being humiliated. The brain-fuck aspect of it really turns me on. Been thinking lately what it would be like to have to send pics of my wifes breasts to someone...then maybe they humiliated me or make me do things with the thread of posting her pics on a porn site...
Do you have your wife’s consent to send her pics to someone else? You might want to stick to your own pics if she’s not in full agreement with that.
 
i get turned on the most when i am humiliated. I would like that to be when we two are alone in the room as I don't have the guts to go out and do something of the sort (as of now.) But when I took a random test from the internet to see what kind of a person I am (in BDSM category) it was most definitely and to my content "Degradee".

I have not had the chance to fully explore it yet, but the though of someone humiliating and degrading me excites me more than anything else.
 
I have seen and played with a ton of women who loved embarrassment, humiliation and exposure. I love erotic control in combination with sweet shame and embarrassment for release, For some… it’s feeling small and dependent, like they're desperate for me and letting me open them up to anything I want of their body. Letting me use them and humiliate them then put them back together and love them after. it is degrading and so intimate at the same time.
 
I will not lie there is a amount of humiliation that turns me on. This is something that my wife finds erotic. We aren’t really on the same page tho. we are not talking big humiliation and it’s mostly private.
 
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Verbal humiliation is up there with me. When we were more active Mrs Gordon told a black coworker of mine how small my dick is. Its a mental mix of pain and pleasure much like a big dick in my ass is a physical mix.
 
Don’t worry about being “odd”. If you like it and any partner or partners like it and you’re not harming anyone who cares? You like what you like.
Exactly. I automatically go to the extreme when I think of humiliation but then I realize that pulling down her panties and cumming on her pussy as I pin her against the wall right before we go out is something we both love!
 
i get turned on the most when i am humiliated. I would like that to be when we two are alone in the room as I don't have the guts to go out and do something of the sort (as of now.) But when I took a random test from the internet to see what kind of a person I am (in BDSM category) it was most definitely and to my content "Degradee".

I have not had the chance to fully explore it yet, but the though of someone humiliating and degrading me excites me more than anything else.
What a delightful set of images you conjure, dirty girl 😋
 
I always thought I was off for desiring it as well. But if you enjoy it and your partner then that’s all that matters. I had a hard time coming to terms with it. Even telling Sir I desired him to humiliate me was humiliation in itself.
If you need it, you need it, no two ways about it! Good for you for asking for it 😊
 
I always thought I was off for desiring it as well. But if you enjoy it and your partner then that’s all that matters. I had a hard time coming to terms with it. Even telling Sir I desired him to humiliate me was humiliation in itself.
It is definitely humiliating to admit it, I know exactly the feeling you mean. But being able to admit it and understand it has made me come more to terms with it and really love every moment of the humiliation I get.
 
It got more and more elaborate cos it was long distance. She’d have to put pantyhose on and red lipstick then she’d have to write sentences a hundred times. Once she sent the picture she’d be permitted to masturbate. She’d write a hundred times: “I’m a big titted bimbo. I like to lick men’s asses.”
 
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