"I Think I'd Get More Dick/Pussy On Lit If Only ___ " 🔍

[Pervygreywolf]

I think I would get more pussy if there were more women on here from my area...and I was black

 

[TrueNorthDadBod]

ITIDGMPOL If only I spake less

 

[Indie]

I Think I'd Get More Dick/Pussy On Lit If Only I didn't feel bad about it afterwards.

 

[deft]

ITIGMPOL if women actually enjoyed pirate-speak

 

[DickandDoof]

I think I’d get more pussy on lit if only I were:

. Younger
. Taller
. And more handsome

Unfortunately:

. The ability to make people laugh
. A compassionate heart
. And a desire to improve the lives of others

doesn’t seem to count for much in today’s world.

 

[Tk9595]

是的，是的，嗨，也很高兴见到你

 

[CharlieCharlie32]

Ladies don’t seem to be into bi guys as I thought they would. Thoughts?

 

[MedicalMuse]

i use Skype. A couple people have my actual phone number, but mostly Skype. When I take breaks from here, I do still check messages because some close friends do only use lit so they can determine the amount of time they want to give. Skype is nice because I can answer if I want to or have time, and I dont have to wade through 7 or 8 random messages to get to the people I genuinely want to talk to.

There is no wrong way to message though. It’s all about your comfort level.

Ad an aside, I did have once person on Snapchat and ended up removing him because the random dick pics were not my jam.

 

[Cat]

I find steering clear of Skype gives me a little control over my availability. I can come and go on Lit, according to when I have time and inclination to be here. No one is really going to notice, let alone be irritated, if I'm not around here for a week or two. With Skype, instant messaging sometimes seems to expect an instant response, and I often can't give one.

But am I missing out? Is the reason Lit seems quiet sometimes because all the fun stuff is happening off-site?

I think.. I would like to pick up on this one.
To me, that seems as an awfully over simplistic way of describing a rather... Well, common sense, yet so very complex structure of communication (after all, there might be a reason why you can spend years studying it at university.)

But simply stating:

A. Because I do not have Skype
- no one will miss me,
- or even notice, that I am gone.
​

To me, that seems like a fallacy.

It is all about what you pour into this place, how willing you are to create a connection (yes, how open you are... And how closed off you might be).

But, I might be wrong.

B. Is all the fun stuff happening outside Lit?
- am I missing out?
​

Ask people? I mean.. maybe?

 

[LadyLascivious1]

With Skype, instant messaging sometimes seems to expect an instant response, and I often can't give one.

But am I missing out? Is the reason Lit seems quiet sometimes because all the fun stuff is happening off-site?

I keep my Skype permanently set to away to avoid that on demand feeling. Often if I read something and don’t reply immediately it’s because I’m half asleep or am already a minute late to my next meeting. I think everyone I have on Skype I consider legitimate friends so I haven’t encountered any misset expectations, demands, or assuming the worst.

From my end, other than complete ghosting (which I consider to be when someone I talk with multiple times a week for months and months on end disappears without a trace for months and doesn’t respond to anything) I don’t really have expectations on Skype of almost anyone else either. Two people I was very close with have disappeared on me which broke my heart a little, but I know it’s not about me and hope they’re doing well. I wouldn’t change anything about having them on Skype in the first place because they really mattered to me regardless of how things have or will play out in the end.

use Skype. A couple people have my actual phone number, but mostly Skype

I don’t think there’s anyone in my Skype that I wouldn’t give out my actual phone number to if they asked. I keep Skype pretty limited though, mostly because I don’t have unlimited bandwidth. I’d rather devote the time I have to the people that I’m closest to and bring me the most joy.

Ad an aside, I did have once person on Snapchat and ended up removing him because the random dick pics were not my jam.

I had a similar thing with the one person I had in Google Chat. The regular ignoring of my boundaries wasn’t my jam. Deleted!

 

[MedicalMuse]

I keep my Skype permanently set to away to avoid that on demand feeling. Often if I read something and don’t reply immediately it’s because I’m half asleep or am already a minute late to my next meeting. I think everyone I have on Skype I consider legitimate friends so I haven’t encountered any misset expectations, demands, or assuming the worst.

From my end, other than complete ghosting (which I consider to be when someone I talk with multiple times a week for months and months on end disappears without a trace for months and doesn’t respond to anything) I don’t really have expectations on Skype of almost anyone else either. Two people I was very close with have disappeared on me which broke my heart a little, but I know it’s not about me and hope they’re doing well. I wouldn’t change anything about having them on Skype in the first place because they really mattered to me regardless of how things have or will play out in the end.


I don’t think there’s anyone in my Skype that I wouldn’t give out my actual phone number to if they asked. I keep Skype pretty limited though, mostly because I don’t have unlimited bandwidth. I’d rather devote the time I have to the people that I’m closest to and bring me the most joy.

I feel this

I had a similar thing with the one person I had in Google Chat. The regular ignoring of my boundaries wasn’t my jam. Deleted!

The WTF effect is real.

 

[positiveflirt]

I find steering clear of Skype gives me a little control over my availability.
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But am I missing out? Is the reason Lit seems quiet sometimes because all the fun stuff is happening off-site?

I keep my Skype permanently set to away to avoid that on demand feeling.

I'd get more on Lit if only I didn't spend so much time making out with all my hot Skype contacts 24/7

(Only kidding, I'm not good at being available either and most of my list are doing hard time for Crimes Of Passion)

 

[MedicalMuse]

I'd get more on Lit if only I didn't spend so much time making out with all my hot Skype contacts 24/7

(Only kidding, I'm not good at being available either and most of my list are doing hard time for Crimes Of Passion)

Messy ones?

 

[positiveflirt]

Messy ones?

So much cleanup, Musey. So. Much.

 

[MedicalMuse]

So much cleanup, Musey. So. Much.

That’s kinda hot PF

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

(Only kidding, I'm not good at being available either and most of my list are doing hard time for Crimes Of Passion)

This killed me so you should be in the slammer with them.

 

[positiveflirt]

This killed me so you should be in the slammer with them.

But then who would look after all of their cats?? ️️

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

But then who would look after all of their cats?? ️️

I thought you would be taking care of the pussies if you were doing hard time

 

[positiveflirt]

I thought you would be taking care of the pussies if you were doing hard time

.... *adds to Skype*

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

Apparently, I might more pussy and/ or dick if only I had Skype

 

[FlyingThruLife]

Apparently, I might more pussy and/ or dick if only I had Skype

Hey, I just installed Skype a minute ago, how you doing?

 

[WerdNerd]

If people weren't so intimidated by my massive porn star cock.

 

[Cat]

I think analogy sadism may be my latest kink.

Morning Mei5ter!

..... Uhmm.... You think analogy sadism might be your latest kink.. ?!

Riiiiiiiight... Well, yeah, it definitely is.

But allow me to stretch that analogy even painfully further (!):

If we agree, Lit is a bar.

• Some will try to be sexy.
• Some will meet with friends, talk and have an after life beer.
• Some will be on stage, wanting attention from the other guests.
• So on and so forth.

Then there will inevitably be those, who needs ... A room? A comfy sofa without interruptions? ..

They might be inclined to take their private conversations other places.
(Which is a good choice.. the "get a room" comment does get boring after a while, right?)

There is just one aspect that you have forgotten:

The Regulars.
The Loud one's.
The Charismatic Personalities.
​

They do not need to go off into the private corners. They are perfectly fine, talking, asking questions.. Taking the lead (whether they realise it or not) in public.

When they leave the bar for a period.. Yes, the bar life will continue.. but! They are remembered, they are missed.. even when it is not said out loud.
Maybe, in the private rooms.. people are asking eachother "have you seen/heard from Xx?"
Just.. They might not say it out loud in the bar.. unless another loud person mentions it.

......

Yeah... Analogy sadism?! ... I felt the pain writing this!

It is good to see you! - you have been missed!

And yup.. you should have been clearer, otherwise.. posts like this, well.. I could not, not answer.

 

[PleaseLetMeIm]

If I could make better approaches

Right now I feel like one of those desperate crosswind aircraft landings you see than the smooth landing I was aiming for in my head

 

[AmberLGreen]

If I gave my lady garden a bit of a trim before I sent those unsolicited vag pics