I'm turning from lesbian to bisexual.

[Stella_Omega]

You mean like this one????



Hmmm... Seems I'm not the only person who sees what you're doing, toots!

See, that wasn't so hard after all!

You didn't give us the actual link, of course, so that people could read the thread for themselves and decide for themselves whether or not colddeisel was right...

Or if anyone agreed with him (which no one did)... if he changed his mind and even apologised a few posts later... (which he did)


But you stepped up and made a half-assed effort so kudos to you for that.

Oh, by the way, here is the link that SafeBet didn't include, so you can see what he was responding to:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=40185122#post40185122


And while i was looking for it, I found Codldeisel's opinion on safe-bet;
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=39598817#post39598817

 

[palemoon2035]

Peace

I love you all! I wish peace and understanding.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I love you all! I wish peace and understanding.

Don't we all, honey, don't we all.

Those things take work more than wishing, though.

 

[boredVAwife]

Wow.... what happened to this thread????

Mrs CC, I like that bathing suit. I haven't had time today to read this whole thread thru yet but ....wow. Bet and Stella what am I gonna do with you guys? I leave Lit for a few weeks and you two still haven't decided to play nice. Safe Bet, I have spent many hours on the road with women that you remind me of. Strong willed and opinionated and not the least bit afraid to speak their mind. Perhaps that's why I am drawn to ya. And I am gonna go ahead and embarrass Stella right now cause she is the cat's meow. One of these days we are gonna have to all sit down and get sloppy and silly on a few bottles of wine and giggle about all of it.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I see a big difference between "strong-willed people who speak their minds" and "loudmouthed bullies who shout whatever comes into their heads", personally- but if Amy gets you hot, more power to you.

 

[boredVAwife]

You missed my drift Stella, (btw where does that come from? missing the drift?) What I meant was I like women that aren't afraid to take up for themselves. I have never had more than a couple exchanges with Bet in the year and a half I have been here. I just know a few ladies in my former riding club that she reminds me of. I have always been drawn to women like that. When I said I was gonna embarrass you, I was trying to compliment you silly.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Mrs CC, I like that bathing suit. I haven't had time today to read this whole thread thru yet but ....wow. Bet and Stella what am I gonna do with you guys? I leave Lit for a few weeks and you two still haven't decided to play nice. Safe Bet, I have spent many hours on the road with women that you remind me of. Strong willed and opinionated and not the least bit afraid to speak their mind. Perhaps that's why I am drawn to ya. And I am gonna go ahead and embarrass Stella right now cause she is the cat's meow. One of these days we are gonna have to all sit down and get sloppy and silly on a few bottles of wine and giggle about all of it.

:blushes: Awwww shucks! Now you've embarrassed me into being haved for a while!

I see a big difference between "strong-willed people who speak their minds" and "loudmouthed bullies who shout whatever comes into their heads", personally- but if Amy gets you hot, more power to you.

There is a big difference: I typify the first example and you typify the second!

(Oooop! Sorry, BVAW! I know that was too short of a "while". )

 

[Stella_Omega]

When I said I was gonna embarrass you, I was trying to compliment you silly.

I got your compliment, my love.

 

[Krystal89]

I love you all! I wish peace and understanding.

I wish peace and understanding too. Why can't we all just get along?

 

[Safe_Bet]

I wish peace and understanding too. Why can't we all just get along?

Is that you, Rodney????

 

[Krystal89]

Who's Rodney?

 

[lescntrygrl]

seriously?

i am laying here and reading all of this non-sense and thinking to myself, all she wanted was some encouragement to help her get through what she is going through with having "so called" feelings for this guy when she is in a happy relationship. but all i see is non-sense about saying someone is or isnt a lesbian which in fact you have no idea if she is, all you know is what she post up here, she is the only one that could possibly know who she truly is.

 

[Krystal89]

i am laying here and reading all of this non-sense and thinking to myself, all she wanted was some encouragement to help her get through what she is going through with having "so called" feelings for this guy when she is in a happy relationship. but all i see is non-sense about saying someone is or isnt a lesbian which in fact you have no idea if she is, all you know is what she post up here, she is the only one that could possibly know who she truly is.

Thank you!!!!!

 

[lescntrygrl]

Thank you!!!!!

your welcome.

i mean im not trying to put anyone down or anything so please dont think that, all i am saying is that instead of saying who she is or isnt you should really just try telling her that what she is feeling isnt wrong everyone has had these feelings at one point.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Who's Rodney?

"Why can't we all just get along" was a quote that originated with Rodney King of Los Angeles police beating fame.

 

[Safe_Bet]

your welcome.

i mean im not trying to put anyone down or anything so please dont think that, all i am saying is that instead of saying who she is or isnt you should really just try telling her that what she is feeling isnt wrong everyone has had these feelings at one point.

Actually, (and I'm not jumping on you here - just trying to explain), the OP was the person who brought up her own orientation, ergo the title.

I also disagree that "everybody" feels that way at some point. There are a BUNCH of dykes who have never felt a romantic attraction to a dude (and that includes many who married one at some point in their life).

 

[lescntrygrl]

Actually, (and I'm not jumping on you here - just trying to explain), the OP was the person who brought up her own orientation, ergo the title.

I also disagree that "everybody" feels that way at some point. There are a BUNCH of dykes who have never felt a romantic attraction to a dude (and that includes many who married one at some point in their life).

okay but the thing is then why did they get married?

yes she was the one who brought it up but by constantly telling her that she isnt lesbian isnt helping her, she is trying to figure it out, thats all.

 

[Stella_Omega]

your welcome.

i mean im not trying to put anyone down or anything so please dont think that, all i am saying is that instead of saying who she is or isnt you should really just try telling her that what she is feeling isnt wrong everyone has had these feelings at one point.

Not everyone. There is one person who has never had those feelings. And she cannot allow anyone to have had those feelings without a fight. because it's all about Amy.

 

[Laplaciana]

Not everyone. There is one person who has never had those feelings. And she cannot allow anyone to have had those feelings without a fight. because it's all about Amy.

I used to be a gold star lesbian. I spend nearly three decades being convinced that I could never feel any attraction whatsoever for anyone who isn't a woman. People really do change. When the change happens, they could use some kindness and understanding.

The best advice I can offer you, when confronted by Safe_Bets of the world, is to follow the way of old masters and say to yourself: "Fuck them! Fuck them all!"

 

[Stella_Omega]

...
The best advice I can offer you, when confronted by Safe_Bets of the world, is to follow the way of old masters and say to yourself: "Fuck them! Fuck them all!"

And so say we all.

 

[Safe_Bet]

And so say we all.

I used to be a gold star lesbian. I spend nearly three decades being convinced that I could never feel any attraction whatsoever for anyone who isn't a woman. People really do change. When the change happens, they could use some kindness and understanding.

The best advice I can offer you, when confronted by Safe_Bets of the world, is to follow the way of old masters and say to yourself: "Fuck them! Fuck them all!"

Not everyone. There is one person who has never had those feelings. And she cannot allow anyone to have had those feelings without a fight. because it's all about Amy.

okay but the thing is then why did they get married?

yes she was the one who brought it up but by constantly telling her that she isnt lesbian isnt helping her, she is trying to figure it out, thats all.

You bet, lescntrygrl cuz, based upon the last three comments following yours, its clear to see EVERYBODY is nice, kind and open minded, right?

 

[PricelessT]

Laplaciana, I see that I confused you for the author of this thread for a while there. Sorry about that.

 

[Laplaciana]

Laplaciana, I see that I confused you for the author of this thread for a while there. Sorry about that.

Don't worry about it, it happens. I just wanted to show her that she's not alone and that people's sexuality can change.

 

[MrsCCfromRC]

Just a couple of thoughts....

She asked for help and we seem to have left the original purpose of the thread a long time ago.
She hasn't been back here because of that since January
We can't say that how someone feels is right or wrong, it's how they feel.
She looked for help not clarification on a label.

Just my thoughts... step off soap box and leaving the thread because this is way too much tension for an erotic site... not what I look for.

Bye.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Unfortunately, the owners of this site think that trolling is "free speech". And that Safe_Bet's ad nauseum antics are just as important as OP's problems.

We don't have any control over that.