is a blowjob a way to say thank you?

[NaughteeDragon]

This is actually for a story, not a general question. I'm trying to figure out if a real person would think this way or if I'm trying to shoehorn an idea in because I want it there.

Jake developed feelings for his sister's wife (Steph) while getting her pregnant a year ago. She knows that he did, though he never admitted it to her. He gets over her with another girl, then that relationship goes to hell because that girl is toxic. Jake is alone at Valentines, so arranges for his sister and her wife to go on a date while he watches their (his) daughter. The next morning they come home to find out that not only did he babysit the colicky baby but he also cleaned house. Steph feels bad that he did all of that for them, but he spent his valentine's day alone.

Would it be reasonable for Steph to suggest to her wife that maybe she (Steph) should wake Jake up with a blowjob?

I am not entertaining ideas of the sister giving him a blowjob because this is not an incest story.

 

[theWollstonecraftWoman]

You're the writer, narisher mentsh, it's your story, so in your world if you want it to be a thank you, make it a thank you. Oy vey, our opinion isn't what matters. Half will think it's fine, and the others will think it's contrived.

 

[Noor]

I wouldn’t go for it, unless your intended audience is solely male, then it might be fine.

 

[MelissaBaby]

I wouldn’t go for it, unless your intended audience is solely male, then it might be fine.

I would definitely blow my husband if I came home and found that he had cleaned the whole house, though.

 

[Noor]

I would definitely blow my husband if I came home and found that he had cleaned the whole house, though.

Different relationship and cleaning!
But would you not blow him otherwise?

 

[NuclearFairy]

It totally depends on the person in question's relationship with sex and the openness of their relationship with his sister.

If they view sex and sex acts as an intimate connection with someone they love unless they're doing it purely for procreation. Then no it would be out of character for them to view a blow job as a way to say thank you. If however they view sex acts as simply a bit of fun and an endorphin popping release, then yeah I could see them giving head as a way of saying, "Thank you."

But then you also gotta decide what sort of relationship the couple has. Is his sister and her wife in a bit of an open relationship, or was the sex between his sister in law and himself only allowed for procreation? If the relationship is even the tiniest bit open then yeah I could see her asking to do this as a thank you, if she also has the later view on sex.

 

[theWollstonecraftWoman]

I rest my case! But let the debate continue. That's how we roll around here. We're all Meshugge!

 

[ElectricBlue]

I would definitely blow my husband if I came home and found that he had cleaned the whole house, though.

Have you put a note on the jobs list on the fridge? Men react well to prompts...

 

[lovecraft68]

I wouldn’t go for it, unless your intended audience is solely male, then it might be fine.

Yeah, this falls under pure adolescent male fantasy. Which is fine it you're just writing a stroker.

 

[TheRedChamber]

I'm now picturing the song 'Thank You for Being a Friend' playing over a BJ compilation video, so...thank you?

(But not that much thank you.)

No, its not realistic, but dont let that stop you.

 

[Bamagan]

This is actually for a story, not a general question. I'm trying to figure out if a real person would think this way or if I'm trying to shoehorn an idea in because I want it there.

Jake developed feelings for his sister's wife (Steph) while getting her pregnant a year ago. She knows that he did, though he never admitted it to her. He gets over her with another girl, then that relationship goes to hell because that girl is toxic. Jake is alone at Valentines, so arranges for his sister and her wife to go on a date while he watches their (his) daughter. The next morning they come home to find out that not only did he babysit the colicky baby but he also cleaned house. Steph feels bad that he did all of that for them, but he spent his valentine's day alone.

Would it be reasonable for Steph to suggest to her wife that maybe she (Steph) should wake Jake up with a blowjob?

I am not entertaining ideas of the sister giving him a blowjob because this is not an incest story.

I'm not sure you will be well served considering how reasonable that scenario is. As a fantasy it is likely to titillate at least some readers, and however improbable it might be, there are stories that strain credulity far more. Unless you make it seem internally inconsistent somehow, like establishing that Steph is a hard-core lesbian with zero sexual interest in men, most readers will probably ignore the unlikeliness as par for the porn.

 

[NaughteeDragon]

Thank you everyone for the feedback. I was leaning in the direction of no, but it seems kind of rude to write a Valentine's day story where the MC doesn't even get a blowjob.
I did have the women discuss it while he sleeps, because it does allow me to use it as foreshadowing for something that will happen later in the original story.
I'm looking forward to this posting, though I expect the feedback to be mixed at best. The style is little experimental, and it doesn't follow many tropes. It is what it is, and it is what I wanted to write, so that's good enough.

 

[Britva415]

Would it be reasonable for Steph to suggest to her wife that maybe she (Steph) should wake Jake up with a blowjob?

It doesn't seem realistic. That's not an obstacle to writing a story which some people would find hot, but if you're looking for realistic realism, I think you'd have a hard time writing it convincingly. This would work better if you just leaned in to the taboo and the (man's) thrill and forgot about plausibility.

 

[Erozetta]

I would definitely blow my husband if I came home and found that he had cleaned the whole house, though.

Same. Guaranteed reward since it means I'll have the time to actually do it.

 

[Devinter]

The least realistic part of the scenario to me is that they'd wake him up with the blowjob. That makes things go from zero to a hundred instantly, without the chance to gauge his reaction to the approach at all until after his cock's already in her mouth.

I know it's fiction, and that generally speaking "men love blowjobs", but I bet in most scenarios if you were woken up by something like that, your initial thoughts would be something along the lines of "What the fuck?" and then "What about my sister, whom you're dating?". I mean, he doesn't know that she has given her blessing at that point, and feeling like you're betraying a family member somehow isn't exactly something most brothers would enjoy.

I would find it significantly more realistic if he was awoken by breakfast in bed or something, and then it was escalated into the blowjob sequence in an erotic manner whilst the two characters share dialogue in which the male character understands that it's all been approved by his sister, and things gradually get steamy.

 

[Dishrag]

I would take it as a HUGE thank you right not!!

 

[Trionyx]

I would definitely blow my husband if I came home and found that he had cleaned the whole house, though.

When the guy vacuums, it’s considered foreplay.

 

[Flybynite1892]

The least realistic part of the scenario to me is that they'd wake him up with the blowjob. That makes things go from zero to a hundred instantly, without the chance to gauge his reaction to the approach at all until after his cock's already in her mouth.

I know it's fiction, and that generally speaking "men love blowjobs", but I bet in most scenarios if you were woken up by something like that, your initial thoughts would be something along the lines of "What the fuck?" and then "What about my sister, whom you're dating?". I mean, he doesn't know that she has given her blessing at that point, and feeling like you're betraying a family member somehow isn't exactly something most brothers would enjoy.

I would find it significantly more realistic if he was awoken by breakfast in bed or something, and then it was escalated into the blowjob sequence in an erotic manner whilst the two characters share dialogue in which the male character understands that it's all been approved by his sister, and things gradually get steamy.

I'm a bi guy, and I would absolutely thank someone with a blowjob - that actually sounds fairly hot - but I agree, I don't think I'd *wake someone up* with it. And I do think I'd also be bothered in this scenario, wondering how his sister was feeling. But I think there's an easy way to fix that if you want to.

Everything else about this sounds super fun though, so I'm going to have to look out for the story.

 

[Erozetta]

When the guy vacuums, it’s considered foreplay.

Doing the dishes is basically the equivalent of 45 minutes of foreplay.

Vacuuming only accounts for about 15 minutes.

Sweeping and mopping is a solid hour.

Laundry and you've basically made your wife/girlfriend orgasm without ever touching her.

(Please read everything I say with a sarcastic and flat tone. And I mean every single post I ever make should probably be read that way.)

 

[OnlyHappyEndings]

I think there should be some other motivation for giving the blowjob. The "thank you" being just a pretense. Perhaps the wife is secretly attracted to MC or maybe is just curious about it and here's a nice opportunity. 'He's so good to us. Why don't I do something nice for him?'

Perhaps the sister is secretly attracted to him and, since this isn't an incest story, she wants the wife to do it as a proxy for herself. They both crawl into bed with him, just fooling around, thank him for his consideration. Sister notices he's tenting the sheets. 'Damn Jake, are you getting aroused right now?'

After considerable teasing and incidental contact... daisy chain.

 

[NaughteeDragon]

Doing the dishes is basically the equivalent of 45 minutes of foreplay.

Vacuuming only accounts for about 15 minutes.

Sweeping and mopping is a solid hour.

Laundry and you've basically made your wife/girlfriend orgasm without ever touching her.

(Please read everything I say with a sarcastic and flat tone. And I mean every single post I ever make should probably be read that way.)

Somebody should tell my wife that …

 

[Erozetta]

Somebody should tell my wife that …

I feel I should point out that all of the above have to be done right* and without seeking praise for having done it in order to be rewarded.

*right by the standards of the individual woman in question. If she has to go behind you to do it properly, it doesn't count and can actually have the opposite effect on a woman.

Not saying you did it wrong by her standards, just that like much in life, everything has fine print and stipulations attached.

 

[Bamagan]

I feel I should point out that all of the above have to be done right* and without seeking praise for having done it in order to be rewarded.

*right by the standards of the individual woman in question. If she has to go behind you to do it properly, it doesn't count and can actually have the opposite effect on a woman.

Not saying you did it wrong by her standards, just that like much in life, everything has fine print and stipulations attached.

 

[Erozetta]

Yeah, that seems to be the common response to the idea of putting effort into pleasing women.

 

[StillStunned]

In The Dome 03: Over the Edge, the hero tries to save his companion, the attempt goes wrong and the two of them barely escape alive. As they float away downstream on a stolen boat, the chapter ends with this:

After a while Raurri's head came to rest on his shoulder. "I suppose you think I owe you a blowjob for this, don't you?"