is a blowjob a way to say thank you?

[MediocreAuthor]

This thread is pretty damn amusing.

My answer to the thread title is a definitive "yes!" But the opening post presents more issues than what the title suggests. My answer to that is different: it depends. As an author you can make just about anything work, but you'd have to set up the relationship the right way to pull this off.

Honestly, I was thinking the same thing!

I feel like people are answering the title question without considering the complications created by the scenario described in the opening post.

"Is a blowjob a way to say thank you?"

Absolutely!

"Is giving a blow job to your wife's brother a good way to thank him for cleaning the house and babysitting?"

Are you in an open marriage? If not, then I'd definitely say no.

 

[tristantrotsky]

yes, definitely . . .

In my experience of both giving and receiving, there is never an occasion when a blowjob is not both entirely appropriate and very much appreciated.

 

[Inkent]

It's kinda interesting, when my missis changes the oil and filter on the car because it's too cold outside for me, I know she's expecting me to put my tongue to good use later, and there is a sliding scale of time versus jobs completed

 

[LostHorizon]

I always thought a blow job was a great way to say thank you.

 

[XerXesXu]

I always thought a blow job was a great way to say thank you.

And 'Hello, and 'Goodbye and thanks for all the Semen'. It's amazing how much can be said using only throat, mouth and lips.

 

[Krunchie1987]

Love act can t be wrong.

 

[Iwillgo]

I would like a trustworthy friend to thank that way on a regular basis.

 

[Rob_Royale]

Jake developed feelings for his sister's wife (Steph) while getting her pregnant a year ago.

Would it be reasonable for Steph to suggest to her wife that maybe she (Steph) should wake Jake up with a blowjob?

I would say that if the impregnation was done the 'old fashioned' way, then they have already gone further than a blowjob and already have that intimacy between them. So yes, a thank you blow job would be a nice gesture that wouldn't be out of place in a story.

 

[davion2308]

I think this would be a fun read about it ... if done well.

You have a woman who's not emotionally tied to the guy and she may view sex as a very physical process. Men have needs, men do better when they achieve orgasm, it's a simple process that doesn't mean she likes him or is interested, it's just her helping him after he helps her with (thing.

And then make the guy hesitant while you're at it. He's like, "Oh, man, that's a lot. I didn't do much for you. A simple thank you is good," and she convinces him to let her get him off because she thinks it'll be good for him.

That wrinkle is more then just a "blowjob for services" story.

 

[Rollinbones]

My wifey would probably object but I for one would not feel slighted for being thanked this way.

 

[lovecraft68]

I drifted away from this after my initial snarky reply based on my personal disdain for pure teenage male fantasy stroke material with misogynistic undertones.

But seeing it has gone much longer than I thought it would and keeps popping up, here are two more serious answers.

The first is based on whether or not this is a legit question. That answer is it's your story and if you want the character to say thank you with oral sex, then that works for your story

The second is my inevitable thought of was this just a sleazy way to try to get female posters here to start talking about blow jobs and maybe share personal experiences.

Being the real answer is an obvious yes in the sense of writing a story, I'm leaning to the latter. Or, maybe that's just past events and threads making me see it that way.

 

[easyoff]

Great wat to thank the pizza delivery guy. You will always get a hot pizza delivered

 

[MelissaBaby]

Great wat to thank the pizza delivery guy. You will always get a hot pizza delivered

But the next house won’t.

 

[NaughteeDragon]

I drifted away from this after my initial snarky reply based on my personal disdain for pure teenage male fantasy stroke material with misogynistic undertones.

But seeing it has gone much longer than I thought it would and keeps popping up, here are two more serious answers.

The first is based on whether or not this is a legit question. That answer is it's your story and if you want the character to say thank you with oral sex, then that works for your story

Being the real answer is an obvious yes in the sense of writing a story, I'm leaning to the latter. Or, maybe that's just past events and threads making me see it that way.

I try not to be a troll. I also try to write stories where people react in realistic ways. In this case I got caught between what I wanted to write and what I thought I needed to write for it to be an LE story. In the end I chose the former and hope that I can find a few readers that appreciate that.

 

[shizzz]

I would love to be ‘thanked’ with a blowjob. In fact I’ve insinuated that to my wife several times. Even having her agree. But I’ve never actually been ‘thanked’ like that before.

I would say to the women out there that like giving head, you should absolutely say ‘thanks’ with a blowjob!

 

[El_Dempo]

just to say, if it is a way of saying thank you, I've not been thanked in far too long - that is all

 

[kevinj3636]

If so, I’m cleaning the house, washing the dogs, getting the groceries, washing the clothes and dishes, etc. See you guys tomorrow. With a smile on my face

 

[MissMandy86]

Yes .. it is

 

[shizzz]

I don’t think it’s used enough, where has polite society gone. Someone needs to teach these kids some manners

 

[Abbafan]

I'm not a lesbian, but I am am married and fully monogamous, as I assume your lesbian couple is.

I'll use my experience personal as a baseline to imagine myself in a similar situation.

If my SO ever asked to have sexual relations with another person as a reward for a mundane chore like babysitting/house cleaning, I would be crushed, insulted, and heartbroken.

"Hey, babe! Your brother babysat our kid and cleaned the house. Mind if I suck his dick to say thank you?"

←Me, going through all the stages of grief lol

I can't imagine this being any different if it was my husband, or if it was my wife, (if I were a lesbian).

You said that the brother had previously impregnated the wife, but obviously that was done out of necessity. If I had to let my spouse sleep with another person so that I could have a child, I definitely wouldn't be okay with them getting intimate again as a favor for chores!

Again, I'm super monogamous, and not everyone is... Still, I feel like most women (lesbian or otherwise) would feel similarly.

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But at the end of the day, you're writing an erotic tale, yeah? What level of realism are you going for?

Women do exist who are okay with their spouse fucking other people. I'm certainly not one (and I'd argue that the vast majority of women feel like I do), but such women are out there. You can always write a story about those outliers.

I would think the vast majority of people in a monogamous relationship would agree.

Maybe someone in an open relationship who had a really casual attitude towards sex would be OK with it. Sex to them is about as important as watching a movie with someone.

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

YES

 

[ChuckWolf]

I feel like this might be something that modern girls in their early to mid 20's and in a campus environment, might shrug and do as a 'thank you', perhaps not seeing it as a big deal.

Although, realistically, handjobs would be the more practical alternative.

 

[MediocreAuthor]

I think it is appropriate. Say it’s raining hard and you see someone walking without an umbrella. Most people would drive on but you decide to stop and offer them a lift. I think giving a blowjob or the offer of one is very a good jester. Or getting out of those wet clothes and taking a different ride would be even better.

I'm just curious. Did you read the opening post at all? Or are you just answering the thread title?

No shame. Just asking.

 

[Whanmore]

Katy Perry thinks so

 

[MillieDynamite]

I think they got the big ole boot in the ass treatment and were kicked out the door!

I'm just curious. Did you read the opening post at all? Or are you just answering the thread title?

No shame. Just asking.