Is a small penis bad?

[Donna_Ann]

Personally, although an exeptionally long, or wide, or otherwise large penis makes a good 1st impression on me visually, it's what happens from there that's really important, & that's always determined whether he gets a 2nd "visit." So I guess the "how he uses it" thing is the right answer for me. Who was it that said, "I never met a penis I didn't like, but I've certainly met a lot of men I couldn't stand at all?" .....Maybe it was me.

 

[wellnow]

The, hopefully attached, graphic pretty well says it all and coincides with what I almost always hear on these threads. Of course the problem will continue because of the insecurities of all of us who are in the "E" areas. (Freaky combination of small and big).

Enjoy.

 

[colletors it3m]

small merchandise is not bad for a small pussy.....if you have small guns try to look for a virgin, the one they said never been fucked!!!!
<------- pussy cat

 

[RudeNastyAssBitch]

I'm Sure It's Very Lovely Dude.

Fuck Her Up The Ass Lots...

 

[hippi_cur]

Informative and Researched

I had a random brainwave on this topic today....

Suppose women could choose the perfect penises for their sex partners. Suppose they could pick a dingaling to their exact specifications, x inches long, x inches wide--seeing what they picked would settle the question of whether we're all looking for foot-long monsters, wouldn't it?

Well, who fucks using the wang of their choosing? Lesbian couples do! And they must all be buying foot-long dildos, right? Nope!

I browsed the online selection of strap-on-compatible, "realistic" (penis-looking) dildos at Toys in Babeland (www.babeland.com), a sex-positive store that was founded by two lesbians and geared particularly (though not exclusively) for lesbian customers. The dildos ranged in length from 5" to 9". There were lots of 5's, lots of 5 1/2's, lots of 6's, lots of 7's, and lots of 7 1/2's. I didn't count them all, but I'd guess there were probably about equal numbers of each of those sizes. There were a very few longer ones. There were none longer than 9".

This would tend to indicate:
-Some women prefer a 5" penis.
-Some women prefer a 7 1/2" penis.
-Some women prefer something in between.
-Some women, but definitely the minority, prefer an 8 or 9" penis.
-No women are looking for anything longer than 9".

In other words, most women like average cocks. The average size of real penises is 5-7".

I was mostly paying attention to the length of the dildos, but there seemed to be a lot of variation in the thicknesses, indicating that some women prefer thick and some prefer thin.

OK, so maybe this isn't a sufficiently scientific piece of research to warrant all this analysis. (*Takes off the geek glasses*) But it sure seems to indicate something!

Now there's an answer that I can live with. While not enough to call it conclusive, it's definately enough to form an educated opinion.

So I'm thinking of changing my pick up line to, "The majority of lesbians prefer a cock like mine." I'm just kidding around. Sometimes something comes to me and I just say it. LOL...

 

[ickle_stace]

I've a very small penis too, around 5 inches long when erect. I guess it would be better if it was bigger, but it's ok. I can satisfy my wife.

5 inches and you're very small! 5-6 inches is average!

size doesn't matter anyway, I personally dont cum from penetration alone, so I'd be satisfied by a damn good licking or someone using their hands on me

 

[StylinGirl]

Don't be afraid to use a big on on her!

Whatever size you are if you're not afraid to get out the "big guns" she'll be satisfied and so will you.

I promise you if you get her all wet and ready with a nice large vibrator, dildo or your hands, and here's the key- MAKE HER CUM FIRST!- she'll welcome you and you'll be satisfied. Just make her hot any way you can and get her off first!

My first "older man" was small- barely 5" but oh could he fuck me with his mouth, hands and other interesting "objects" . He also was the poster boy for the "motion of the ocean" line- practice using those surrounding muscles!

He made me the woman I am today and I promise you he came a lot along the way!

Good luck to you!

 

[Italian_09]

People always say that size matters, However I disagree. Size helps, but it's how you use it. I have been fucked by a guy with a 6 in cock and had it feel better than a guy with a 10 in cock. Its all in the motion

 

[BreeCarter]

Ok I've small down there, I don't knw if I can do a good job when the time comes (if it ever does!). Just wanted to know what the ladies think and any advice is welcome.

size doesn't matter if you know what you're doing with it.

 

[hotDomGuy]

C'mon people! Why is this thread four fucking pages long?

Shouldn't a forum dedicated to erotic literature be discussing less literal phallocentrism, not a thread about an insecure guy's little weenie?

Dude, you are probably still a virgin, so let me pass on a little knowledge that I have picked up over the years after having dated, picked up, fuck-buddied, and even raped ( just kidding....geez) dozens of women and a couple men:

1) Your size matters more to you than anybody you will ever fuck, make love to, masturbate with/to or fantasize about. Wow. Isn't that amazing? Now, why don't you start working on your beer-belly, bald-spot, lisp, lack of eloquence, shyness, outstanding warrants, etc. Fuck.....you are falling behind in so many areas. Your life is crumbling around you. Stop thinking about your cock and start using it.

2) Your attitude is far more important to women than your dick. Holy Shit-christ! Isn't that a revelation. Sure, there are exceptions, but that is the rule, buddy.

3) This should probably go under the attitude bit, but I think it deserves it's own space: Why do you fucking care about how women perceive you? Stop caring right now! You need sex fast, and your not giving a damn (or faking it really well) is the the HOV lane to getting laid. You've got nothing to lose, kid. Give it a shot.

4) In case you aren't responding well to my tough love, I'll just add that, by and large, women cannot tell how big a cock is by sight or feel. What they CAN tell, is whether or not they are enjoying the experience. A woman's guesstimation of her lover's size is almost ALWAYS directly proportional to her satisfaction with HIM as an experience. Let me break it down for you: If you turn her on and keep her turned on, in and out of the bedroom, with all the things that make up a relationship, be it an anonymous rendezvous or a marriage, your cock will, amazingly, get bigger.

Now, get to work.

 

[iltibido]

Penis size

I'm 6'6" in. and 280 lbs. and have a large..... Hand. My penis is 6 1/2 in. But shit it looks Fucking small in my hand, thank god for Girth!!!!

Ive been with women whom were tight and some were lose, Guys it's time to get over it.


Womens pussy's just need to be more form fitting, or in some cases (for those well hung guys) elastic!!


It's not our fault!!

 

[SouthernDom]

I love this place.................

The OP has 6 posts and we're clicking right along on the 7th page of small penis advice!

Here's my waste of bandwidth..................Quit worrying about the size of your penis and learn to work it with what you have!

 

[Riles]

The size matters - to a point. If we are unhappy with a mans preformance, the lack of size will be a bigger issue (no pun) than it would be if he exhausted us through other means before slipping inside. Emotional connection also means a lot when it comes to this - if you're seeking a one night stand or other casual encounters, the size will matter more, until you prove your other abilities. The biggest fault I've ever had with a man is that he didn't listen to what I was either saying or what my body was telling him. LISTEN to a woman, listen to her reactions and pay attention if she's telling you something. And for god's sake, check your ego at the door!

 

[somberReality]

I've had good experiences with what's considered BIG (9" is my definition of BIG) and small (5") so it depends on the experience and who's attached to the weiner.

 

[somberReality]

size doesn't matter if you know what you're doing with it.

I had the name Kendra before that hugh hefner chick did btw!!!

 

[intoitall]

small penis

No I am with a guy now with a smaller penis and I am having the best sex of my life. I fully believe in kegel excersises and we work perfect together. I have been with huge penises before and did not enjoy myself at all. It was more pain than it was worth

 

[cyravance]

Size seems to be a male obsession. It makes me laugh when I hear guys brag about having "10 inches", or some shit like that.
Get a ruler. Now look at the 10 inch marker....Yeah, RIGHT! NOBODY except a freak of nature, has a true 10 inch cock! Unless the guy is measuring back from his asshole, it just isn't likely, fellas! Sorry...
So OP, what you are calling a "small penis" is most likely a perfectly respectable unit. Don't be fooled by the phony measurements you hear about, and do NOT compare yourself to certain porn stars, they are NOT the norm, anymore than a pair of 48 triple D's are on a woman.
Wear your cock proudly, my friend!

 

[seemoreme]

It's not about how long it is .. It's about how a man pleases his women and it can be with a short penis and large both.

 

[sunandshadow]

This topic again... I like 5 1/2" to 6" because any longer and I get poked uncomfortably in the cervix or the guy can't get balls-deep. But the more often these threads go by, the more I think it's pointless to say that because it seems like men want to have giant penises regardless of what women find comfortable. Seems like men find it 'in bad taste' for women to prefer the average! lol.

 

[Maxell46]

This thread was dead and buried since 2007
Who brings these silly debates back to life?
Men and their insecurities...

Use what you have. Its the head between your shoulders that can give a woman the most pleasure.

 

[Sweet_Carolina]

having a small penis is never a bad thing, infact having a bi 11 inches aint always the best thing either .... its all about the show rather then the size ...

 

[mufdive4u]

Only on Lit and Watchersweb that all the men have 7 and 8 inch dicks. I would say 99% of all guys posting here have 7 to 8 inch dicks. I don't think so... In their dreams maybe! Here is the real deal: While results vary across studies, the consensus is that the mean human penis is approximately 12.9–15 cm (5.1–5.9 in) in length. That is 95% of all human males! The typical girth or circumference is approximately 12.3 cm (4.85 in) when fully erect. If you need more info goto: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size

 

[Mac98]

Ok I've small down there, I don't knw if I can do a good job when the time comes (if it ever does!). Just wanted to know what the ladies think and any advice is welcome.

I've come to realize that women care about the size of a man's penis just like men care about the size of women's breast. On Television, size DEFINATELY matters... bigger is better. In reality, it's all relative.

I can see beauty in both small breasts and bigger ones... it's just all relative.

Furthermore, I don't know who posted they're small with their 5 inch erect penis, but according to several surveys or "tests (?)", the average erect penis size in america is around 4.5 inches.

So if anything, 5 inches would be technically above average.

 

[Tiffany87]

Having a small penis isn't bad. I used to date a guy who has a 5 inch penis. I don't think I'd date a guy smaller than that, though.

 

[HazelBlogger]

Bigger is better!

The phrase: "Its not the size of the boat, its the motion in the ocean." comes to mind.
What seperates a lover from a GREAT lover? Attention to detail, paying attention to your partner's wants/desires, a dash of finesse and a twist of spunk.
A huge penised man who just puts it in, wiggles a bit and comes is not worth much in my eyes. A small man who's attentive and wants mutual pleasure is worth much much more.
JMHO

I'm sorry to burst your bubble boys, but women lie to make you all feel better. Bigger is ALWAYS better. Ask anyone if they would rather have the man of their dreams with a big one, or the man of their dreams with a small one, and the answer will always be BIG. I've slept with all shapes and sizes, and I can tell you honestly that big penises are the best penises.

Obviusly attention to detail is always nice, but to be frank, 'a huge penised man who just puts it in, wiggles a but and comes' will likely make the woman cum in that short space of time anyway. I've cum as an 11 inch long 7 inch thick cock is just entering me, because a cock that big hits every spot PEFECTLY. And as far as I've experienced, big penised men don't put in any less effort - they still do plenty of foreplay and they can still go for hours if they want to. But the key thing is, because it's big, it's BETTER.

Don't get me wrong, men with small penises can 'satisfy' their women, but a man with a small penis can't really and truly drive a woman mad and have her screaming in pleasure, nor can he give a really mindblowing 'fuck'. Men with small penises can ONLY 'make love', and sometimes a woman wants more than that - me included...

Sorry to hurt anyone's feelings, but you want an honest answer and someone on here has to give it to you! Any woman that disagrees simply hasn't had a BIG one inside them before!