Is a small penis bad?

[Missingmeds]

Ok Missing dear what is the orig. meaning

It used to mean that a man had a wife that was secretly having an affair. Now it means that she is having sex with different men and that he knows all about it.

 

[Shreik]

Who cares if we all have fun in bed. To me Happiness should cum before alll else. To be honest if I could I would be 8 by 2.5 but must let my tongue have that pleasure. Ok maybe not that long but still used for a great time.

 

[ReadyOne]

It used to mean that a man had a wife that was secretly having an affair. Now it means that she is having sex with different men and that he knows all about it.

The basic idea is that hubby has lost control of the sexual relationship with his wife and is displaced someway by another man (the Bull).

The bull often seduces the wife and in the extreme he may make her leave hubby (which technically ends the cuckolding). Generally wife stay with hubby and bull dictates what her relationship with hubby will be. Again extreme, he could impregnate her while ordering her to use BC with hubby so that hubby thinks the bull's child belongs to hubby. Most often he just tells wife when and how she can have sex with hubby.

There is a class of hubbies who want to be degraded/humiliated by knowing that the Bull is controlling hubby's access to wife. The bull may make himself know to hubby by fucking wife in front of hubby, or play with hubby by fucking wife and then sending her straight home to have hubby eat bull's semen from her pussy, or bull may even fuck hubby.

There is also the case where wife takes control, displacing hubby with another man. He may not be a bull because wife, not he, controls the relationship. This is subtley different than an affair because the wife determines how, when, and who with she will conduct her sex life and displaces (replaces) hubby with her lover.

Traditionnally cuckolding refers to a third party impinging on the female to the disadvantage of her mate. For example, another bird (named "Cuckold" in the bird book) replaces an egg in the nest of that female with their own.

It also takes the meaning of the female deliberately taking advantage of one male to provide for the offspring of another. For example a female monkey couples with a male from another tribe who has been stalking her and continues to court a male of her own tribe.

 

[4x4in]

Ok, length doesn't matter. Now, what about girth? Wouldn't you prefer a really thick and hard penis with a nice large head?

Peter,

The Length or Girth poll and thread on Lit and the University of Texas-Pan American undergrad, female, student survey, if not sufficient proof on their own merits, may support your suspicions

Have a great Easter, everyone.

 

[Shreik]

Wow what alot of info thanks alot ya'll

 

[Topher]

I read the penis debate site referenced earlier, and all I can say is "wow!"

Love it or hate it - I think it is essential reading for the debate.

If you read the site, then you'll understand when I say that I am a 'C' - <sigh>

If you don't read the whole thing, then at least read this (especially from the heading "It goes as follows:" on).

 

[Batman4ever71]

I must concur(sp?)

The phrase: "Its not the size of the boat, its the motion in the ocean." comes to mind.
What seperates a lover from a GREAT lover? Attention to detail, paying attention to your partner's wants/desires, a dash of finesse and a twist of spunk.
A huge penised man who just puts it in, wiggles a bit and comes is not worth much in my eyes. A small man who's attentive and wants mutual pleasure is worth much much more.
JMHO

Not only to I agree with Vixandra's post, I must add that too many men are fixated by porn. Before anyone takes offense to that, please let me explain. In every porn I have watched, I've seen these "strapping young studs" with mammouth penis'. We, as men tend to think that this size is "normal", when, in fact, they are quite the abnormality. If I put mine next to theirs, I'd look like a toddler. I don't have the exact figures, but "average" is much, much smaller. Mine is about 5 in at errection and I haven't had any complaints.(Or at least the ladies were too polite to say anything) Paying attention to detail is the key. Learn what your lover likes. Personally, I was overly concerned about my size so I learned to go down and make sure that no matter what my "insufficiencies" were, at least my lovers would be satisfied. I had a tough time with "arriving" too quickly as well. I conquered this be reading up on Tantric sex methods.

I guess the point I'm trying to make is that if YOU don't fixate on the size of your errection, then in most cases, neither will she. We are all dealt a hand of cards that we cannot change. Be happy and secure if your lover likes what you do and especially how you make her feel before, during and after intercourse.

Worth Two Cents? You Be The Judge.
Batman

 

[taolanes]

MY THEORY....


So EVERYONE is worried about their size. And everyone thinks they are the only one. There must be a logical reason for this. My opinion is that porno threw guys off. Every dick in a porno will be bigger than yours. Just like every porno chick has DD boobs and weighs 110 pounds.

Bottom line, the average dick is way smaller than what you see in porno films. There was some rate my cock website, and people posted their dicks. It was amazing to see how much smaller real cocks were. So basically, porno films give guys a sense of insecurity when they see how huge they are. But truth be told, most people are way bigger than they think. OK whatever, I'm bored with the topic.

 

[Eilan]

Whoever bumped this thread needs to be trout-smacked.

 

[ultimate_cin]

My boyfriend is about 5-6 inches (which is average, from what I've read), and he never acts like he thinks he should be bigger. I love him the way he is...I haven't been able to come from penetration yet, but he always makes sure I'm satisfied with that amazing tongue of his.....

Besides, the whole issue of men feeling they should have huge penises (or is it peni? ) is like women feeling like they should have large breasts. I wear an A cup bra and have been teased by men for years for having small breasts....the first night my boyfriend and I slept together, I made a joke about the size of my breasts, and he told me he thought they were perfect...that anything more than a handful was a waste. So it works both ways....I guess porn films are at the root of both insecurities.....

 

[Clairebutterfly]

my husband is 6 inches, and He's just right for me!

Quite frankly the thought of a guy coming at me with a tree-trunk is rather intimidating!!

 

[Bandit58]

my husband is 6 inches, and He's just right for me!

Quite frankly the thought of a guy coming at me with a tree-trunk is rather intimidating!!

I was with one guy who had an 8 incher, and he would "bottom out" and hit my cervix which bloody hurts I can tell you

Another was not as long but very thick. Both I never let anywhere near my butt and oral was quite a stretch, could only take half the first guy in and struggled to get my mouth around the other one.

For some things smaller is definitely better The "tree trunks" are jus scary!

 

[Eilan]

I was with one guy who had an 8 incher, and he would "bottom out" and hit my cervix which bloody hurts I can tell you

My husband's perfectly average and if I'm at a certain point in my cycle (pre-ovulation), then "bottoming out" is really painful.

 

[TBKahuna123]

I'm going to start a new add campaign: "Learn to eat pussy and you can stop worrying about the size of your dick. She won't care!!!"

There was some rate my cock website, and people posted their dicks. It was amazing to see how much smaller real cocks were.

Obviously these guys don't know how to use photoshop very well. Such a shame.

 

[midwestyankee]

Whoever bumped this thread needs to be trout-smacked.

Agreed. I get so tired of this topic...


Anyway, ever since I found out from experience that it's quite possible - and rather enjoyable - to give a woman a phenomenally powerful climax with one's little pinkie, the size threads becamea complete joke.

 

[Macdaddy23]

If it's too big it hurts the woman. Remember, Some say girth. Depends on how you do it.

 

[Eilan]

the size threads becamea complete joke.

Nah. They didn't become a complete joke. They always were a complete joke. And that goes for boob size threads as well.

Pussy depth threads are okay for now, but only because they haven't been done to death and beyond. Yet.

 

[hiddeninaleaf]

My vagina is 5 1/2 inches long. I've never been with a guy who was any longer than that, but I do have a cock-shaped vibrator that's about 8 inches, and the ONLY advantage of that extra length is that it gives me something to hold on to while I stick it in 4 or 5 inches (or sometimes less).

I don't claim to speak for every woman (I had one friend who was big into casual sex and had definite preferences, claiming that 6-7 inches was the perfect "not too short, not too long" size). But speaking for ME.... Anything over 5 1/2 wouldn't go in, so it's just a waste. And I've been with smaller than that (down to, um, 4" would be my best estimate though I didn't exactly get out the tape measure), and they felt JUST as good. And no, I don't just mean "well, I didn't really mind his small thingy because his other talents compensated for it." I mean, the smaller thingy felt EVERY BIT as good as a larger one.

I've never been with a really small guy, so I can't speak to that from experience. I think if it were 2", it might not be quite as good as the 4-6 range. I'd also rather not have 10". Huge seems like it'd be painful when he got energetic with it. But if he's a good lover, I wouldn't care much either way.... Bottom line, size differences in the middle range don't matter at all to me, and extremes (small or large) seem slightly less than ideal but not very significant in the grand scheme of things.

Medical fact: almost all the nerve endings in the vagina are in the outer third. So even a 2" penis will be long enough to take care of the important area.

 

[taolanes]

My vagina is 5 1/2 inches long. I've never been with a guy who was any longer than that, but I do have a cock-shaped vibrator that's about 8 inches, and the ONLY advantage of that extra length is that it gives me something to hold on to while I stick it in 4 or 5 inches (or sometimes less).

I don't claim to speak for every woman (I had one friend who was big into casual sex and had definite preferences, claiming that 6-7 inches was the perfect "not too short, not too long" size). But speaking for ME.... Anything over 5 1/2 wouldn't go in, so it's just a waste. And I've been with smaller than that (down to, um, 4" would be my best estimate though I didn't exactly get out the tape measure), and they felt JUST as good. And no, I don't just mean "well, I didn't really mind his small thingy because his other talents compensated for it." I mean, the smaller thingy felt EVERY BIT as good as a larger one.

I've never been with a really small guy, so I can't speak to that from experience. I think if it were 2", it might not be quite as good as the 4-6 range. I'd also rather not have 10". Huge seems like it'd be painful when he got energetic with it. But if he's a good lover, I wouldn't care much either way.... Bottom line, size differences in the middle range don't matter at all to me, and extremes (small or large) seem slightly less than ideal but not very significant in the grand scheme of things.

Medical fact: almost all the nerve endings in the vagina are in the outer third. So even a 2" penis will be long enough to take care of the important area.

I love women

 

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[Jayzzzy]

size dont matter

my SO of twenty years is very well endowed in length and girth.....I enjoy fucking and sucking it...it did take some practice to deepthorat it but I love it now....WELL...for the last year we have added a hot young male to our fun. He is alot smaller than my hubby, but he rocks my world anyway. It is much easier to deepthorat him and he knows how to use what he has. I had always thought that bigger was better...now I know that isn't necessarily true.

 

[silverwhisper]

eilan quoth
whoever bumped this thread needs to be trout-smacked.

the KJV bible quoth
ask and it shall be given unto you.

[promptly trout-smacks taolanes.]



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[hiddeninaleaf]

I had a random brainwave on this topic today....

Suppose women could choose the perfect penises for their sex partners. Suppose they could pick a dingaling to their exact specifications, x inches long, x inches wide--seeing what they picked would settle the question of whether we're all looking for foot-long monsters, wouldn't it?

Well, who fucks using the wang of their choosing? Lesbian couples do! And they must all be buying foot-long dildos, right? Nope!

I browsed the online selection of strap-on-compatible, "realistic" (penis-looking) dildos at Toys in Babeland (www.babeland.com), a sex-positive store that was founded by two lesbians and geared particularly (though not exclusively) for lesbian customers. The dildos ranged in length from 5" to 9". There were lots of 5's, lots of 5 1/2's, lots of 6's, lots of 7's, and lots of 7 1/2's. I didn't count them all, but I'd guess there were probably about equal numbers of each of those sizes. There were a very few longer ones. There were none longer than 9".

This would tend to indicate:
-Some women prefer a 5" penis.
-Some women prefer a 7 1/2" penis.
-Some women prefer something in between.
-Some women, but definitely the minority, prefer an 8 or 9" penis.
-No women are looking for anything longer than 9".

In other words, most women like average cocks. The average size of real penises is 5-7".

I was mostly paying attention to the length of the dildos, but there seemed to be a lot of variation in the thicknesses, indicating that some women prefer thick and some prefer thin.

OK, so maybe this isn't a sufficiently scientific piece of research to warrant all this analysis. (*Takes off the geek glasses*) But it sure seems to indicate something!

 

[I Literoticus]

I'm not big

I dont have a particularly big dick although I am a big guy, so I may disappoint some gals expectations.

I am not bothered by my size at all. Its important to want to please the person your having sex with and there are loads of ways of doing that.

I wouldn't be interested in a having a relationship with a girl who was only after a guy with a big dick and obviously I wouldn't be of interest to her either.

 

[ferntree]

In other words, most women like average cocks. The average size of real penises is 5-7".

[/I]

I'm agreeing with your post and yes the 5-7 is very much the quoted average.

But think about it, that's similar to saying the average height of man is between 1.5m and 2.5m. Essentially covers most heights in the way that 5-7 covers most lengths.

Just a thought.