Is a small penis bad?

[Lynnezertorte]

now that is something I'm not ashamed of been told I have a talented one and it is long

Well then I think the girls missed out on a good thing! Their loss!

 

[Lynnezertorte]

Lynne, believe me, she was not "shallow" at all!

Then she was obviously too "deep" for you.....and how could you possibly be with a woman like that?

 

[Shreik]

accordingly to the ones i have done yes they have

 

[ReadyOne]

When I was in high school I'd glance at the other guys and observe that my (flaccid) size was larger than most. Made me feel really good, so I didn't worry about size until after I was married. Then I found some stats, measured myself with an erection and... defiantly below average, but well within one standard deviation.

With a few girl friends (after my divorce) I brought up the subject. They were honest enough to say that they had been with larger, and larger did feel better. Then they reminded me that sex was very good for us, pointed out lots of good things I did while making love, and one even said that I was the only guy she'd even cum with from intercourse alone. Another noted that she had tried anal sex with a couple of guys before me but I was the one that made it enjoyable for her and asking to have her ass done regularly.

Still, they all said that everything being about equal, thicker is better.

 

[Shreik]

apparently you found some honest ones willing to voice their opinions

 

[ReadyOne]

apparently you found some honest ones willing to voice their opinions

I get quality, not quantity. And they find me; I don't find them!

 

[College_geek]

I get quality, not quantity.

That's a good way to live by...not just sexually.
By the way, I always wanted to say that I love your AV. It's the cutest thing.

 

[ReadyOne]

That's a good way to live by...not just sexually.
By the way, I always wanted to say that I love your AV. It's the cutest thing.

Thx

 

[Shreik]

we all have the need to be wanted no matter what it takes

 

[Hawks_Titansfan]

You know

If I was with a women that pointed out
that I was small all the time I would atleast let her know about it. A guy that
would allow a women to do that to him
and him take it is a spineless person in
my book. Somebody I know allows his
women to do such a thing and he sits
there and takes it like a wimp.

 

[Shreik]

all I can say is owwie

 

[Lynnezertorte]

Re: You know

If I was with a women that pointed out
that I was small all the time I would atleast let her know about it. A guy that
would allow a women to do that to him
and him take it is a spineless person in
my book. Somebody I know allows his
women to do such a thing and he sits
there and takes it like a wimp.

I don't know if it makes him a wimp but it obviously signifies that he doesn't think much of himself.

A woman that constantly harps on the size of her SO penis size is somewhat like a man that constantly harps on a woman's weight. Either way it slowly destroys a person's self esteem and makes you wonder why they would want to be with someone that disrespects them that way.

Oh well, it takes all kinds I guess.

*Edited to say that at least a woman can do something about her weight if she so chooses...

 

[Shreik]

yes it does take all types but you are correct it will destroy ones self image

 

[wellnow]

My ex gf asked me to read that after we broke up http://www.penissizedebate.com/ . She was a bitch undoubtedly but I learned that size matters, at least to some women.

Then maybe aybe she did you a favor IMO, the "study" is one-sided and
a bit exaggerated, but aren't most discussions on issues that participants are
passionate about? These threads on Lit are no exception and it just may be
a necessary evil, to generate the synergies that can bring us closer to mutual
understanding without being being or feeling disrespectful or dishonest. Quite
a challenge.

Hope eveyone is enjoying their weekend.

 

[Shreik]

I think you may have went to deep with your thought

 

[wellnow]

I think you may have went to deep with your thought

Shreik,

If you can't go deep with your penis, you can at least try with your thoughts.

 

[collegeguy2030]

well this is like my first ever post on lit. but i thought this is an issue i should comment on. Im a guy and well, all things considered, i really do think its the whole experience that matters. Foreplay is important defnately. I really think thats key. and well it seems to me, from my own experience, that women like a guy who can do oral very well. fortunately i can its fun actually. And well, my friend put it this way once. he said, "if you can get her so hot through foreplay and everything, i mean so hot that shell want to chew through a concrete wall to get to you, then nothing else is going to matter." From my experience, i realy do agree with this. i mean im in college and alot of the girls im friends with seem to agree with me here as well. and the girls ive been with really do appreciate good foreplay and any girl that tells you u are too small and wont sleep with you well thats just really shitty IMHO and i thik a girl like that is totally shallow.

 

[collegeguy2030]

lol oh wait, maybe this isnt my first one. haha i forgot

 

[4x4in]

A little more fuel for the fire. This is an interesting survey done at the University of Texas-Pan American, Edinburg, TX.

enjoy,

 

[Shreik]

foreplay tongueplay why not lets plays .either way is okay as long as it is today. yes go deep anyway you can and make sure it is enjoyed by all

 

[Lynnezertorte]

This has been a real eye-opener for me Shreik. I've never ridiculed a man due to penis size and never would, however, I never realized it could be an issue. My husband was on the small size as I stated before, however, we never discussed it but now I wonder if it bothered him. Something to think about.

 

[Shreik]

It may have Lynn, we all have something that we don't like about our selfs.

 

[Missingmeds]

There are some men that get off on being ridiculed about it. They call it being "cuckolded" these days but that is not the original meaning of the word.

 

[Shreik]

Ok Missing dear what is the orig. meaning

 

[peteratkinson]

Ok, length doesn't matter. Now, what about girth? Wouldn't you prefer a really thick and hard penis with a nice large head?