sweetnpetite
Intellectual snob
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amicus [b]commnts in bold by sweetnpetite[b] said:sweetnpetite...
I appreciate your comments...
Taking both an objective and a subjective vantage point, I offer the follow observations...some personal...some just observational:
Most people, I think, tolerate diversity, even to the extent that they may not approve. For example I do not hate black people but I do not appreciate their music, their food, their lifestyles and I know as I have lived and worked with african americans.
Most people, I think, tolerate the 'concept' of homosexuality and lesbianism, as long as it is not shoved in their faces. I am not comfortable with women kissing women and men kissing men in public view, but I could care less what they do in private.
I feel very differently about this. I think that two men or two women kissing or holding hands in public is a beautiful thing. Some people abhore PDA's even when they are straight. I dispise the phrase 'shoved in their faces' in this context. I don't beleive that being affectionate in public or refusing to hide who you are is shoving anything in anyones face. I don't believe that everything that makes people uncomfortable should be removed from public viewing. (ie, homosexual effection, christmas decorations, breastfeeding mothers...) nor do I believe that doing something in public is 'forcing others to accept it' or even to look. Last I heard, most people still have heads that swivel.
But it has not been left at that. Hollywood, and network and cable television has taken on the task of making multi racial and multi sexual lifestyles a 'mainstay' of television entertainment.
If you doubt that, go through the menu of television programs and note how many are promoting the 'gay' lifestyle, black lifestyles, drug culture movies, single parent family lifestyles, seemingly any and everything that challenges the traditional and conventional way of life.
you forgot about the mafia
These divergent lifestyles instead of accepting the tolerance offered are forcing the issue by demanding inclusion into the mainstream and I think this is a terrible mistake.
glad to see we are in disagreement once again.
The tolerance offered, will be withdrawn as the mainstream feels the threat and suppression will follow.
Perhaps it is the way of things that wax and wane with time, but when the time is yours and mine, we are participants, willing or not.
I personally would not restrict the personal choices of any, (within law and reason) to express their personal lifestyles. But when it is in the schools and on the tube and threatens to become the law of the land, affecting all, then I think many will begin to back off and return to less stressful times...
...not that it matters...
it doesn't...
amicus...
...sweet


