is online love real?

[Abner Devereaux]

I PM'd her to say i like her posts originally and we have been Pm'ing ever since. We talk about everything from religion to her cats to how we spend our days.

I have yet to work up the courage to talk to her on yahoo. I suggested it and she said ok and gave me her chat name.

The problem is i suppose i have a confidence problem and online does not make it any easier. SHe is well liked and everyone flirts with her and thinks she is so amazing including me

I even get jealous when i read her flirting with other girls

i know i sound wacky

I don't think it sounds wacky at all . I would suggest that you don't read a whole lot of what is said on the threads . . . alot of that is playing and people telling you what you want to hear. Im's and Pm's are a good way to truely get to know someone without having to play some kind of roll. You need to find out if she is taken . . . you don't want to fall for someone who you can't have . . . it hurts to much in the end.

Best of luck to you .

 

[Guest]

go for it, if she was willing to give you her chat name she is obviously interested in you ... and the way you portray your discussions, it sounds like you may really have the start of something special

 

[phoenix67]

that deserves a or two

thank you my new friend, you sound like you could make another woman very happy to be by your side, hopefully the one that you care for right now even

 

[Guest]

thank you my new friend, you sound like you could make another woman very happy to be by your side, hopefully the one that you care for right now even

can't u just feel all the love in this room right now??

Maybe i should just invite her over to this thread!

 

[phoenix67]

can't u just feel all the love in this room right now??

Maybe i should just invite her over to this thread!

that would certainly be nice lol, but you're best bet is to ring her up on the messenger before anything else

 

[Guest]

Hi

I told her. And she did not appreciate what i said much but she was so sweet about it. She said it would not work for obvious reasons and maybe she's right but still.

Sigh. I am still in love.

 

[phoenix67]

Hi

I told her. And she did not appreciate what i said much but she was so sweet about it. She said it would not work for obvious reasons and maybe she's right but still.

Sigh. I am still in love.

i understand and really hope that at least you know where you stand with her now http://img118.exs.cx/img118/1691/hug8ok.gif

 

[Guest]

i understand and really hope that at least you know where you stand with her now http://img118.exs.cx/img118/1691/hug8ok.gif

you still give good hugs thank you

 

[Cuban Missile]

Have a friend who met her husband online. They wrote and sent pics to each other for over a year. She lived in the states and he was in another country. He asked her to marry him and they will be celebrating there 5th or possibly 6th wedding anniversary this Feb 06. So, I guess online love could be a real thing.

 

[babydoll2u]

.... I do think its quite possible to fall in love online.No,its not for everyone and wont work for eevryone. BUT i think it is VERY real........

I very much agree...

 

[Guest]

so do i ... unfortunately she does not think it will work out

 

[Shadow Thief]

Stepping into this thread a little late, but here goes:

It can be real, depending on the person. I had sort of an online relationship with a woman from another board I post on. She was one of the people who were there for me when I was confused and frightened about what I really was, after the fling I had behind my wife's back. It started out with her simply trying to cheer me up, but as we started to talk more, she revealed that she was in a similar situation -- her husband wasn't interested in sex with her. I couldn't imagine why -- I had seen pics of her, and she's HOT! Then it evolved into sexual conversations, and even some pic exchanges.

We were starting to figure out a time and a place to meet in real life for some real fun, when she dropped the bomb on me: Her husband and she were trying to reconcile, and she wasn't supposed to talk to me anymore. I was hoping she'd change her mind, but it's been months now, and she hasn't come back around. Even though we never actually met, I still miss her greatly.

 

[Akumashizon]

Firstly my congrats omahaman2.

As for internet relationships... I've been through my fair share and none have really worked out all that well. Something always happened to fuck things up but that said I can't last in an online relationship for too long. I need physical touch - being able to cuddle up or hug and hold hands and kiss... it all makes the whole relationship that much more 'real' and the person worth fighting for.

I'm not saying that feeling something about someone online isn't real because for many it is - myself included. I've fallen for someone online and we've met and things have been great but good things don't always last. Keeping a relationship 'online only' to me is pointless. Why put in all that time and trouble and pump all your emotions into a person you've no desire to meet. Face it, you only really know for certain if theres sparks when you meet with the other person face to face, before then you'll just be paranoid that they will find some kind of fault with you.

 

[Guest]

Update

Yeah so i told her how i feel and she has as many reasons why we wont work out as i had why we will work out.

She says she is being honest with me and is in love with another woman on lit. No i dont know who she is but i know she is not like me that blurts out my undying passion so i cant even figure it out by reading her posts. It doesnt even matter really because if she is in love with someone else then i dont stand a chance.

I cant get her out of my head. We started talking on the phone some time back and her voice takes me to the end of insanity. I dream about her all night long and i think about her all day long.

I still call her every day because if i cant be with her then at least i can make her smile and make her laugh. She enjoys my company and we can be friends if i can get her out of my system.

Advice would be great thank you.

 

[ShadowsSlut]

I know this thread has been down awhile but I just wanted to add to it.
How do you know love is Love... whether it be online or in real life...

Your feelings are feelings either way....How can you say its not love.

In my case I feel more for ST than I have ever felt for anyone be it online or in person. We have connected on such a level that neither of us knew exsisted. We finish each other's thought's. I can say I have never felt what I feel for him with anyone else ever..

So I do believe Love Online is true... I just can't wait for our first meeting to feel his touch, his kiss, just have him near...

 

[Shadow Thief]

So I do believe Love Online is true... I just can't wait for our first meeting to feel his touch, his kiss, just have him near...

As do I.

You've made me feel things I did not think possible. You've made me believe in love again, after I stopped believing in it so long ago.

I love you so much, and can't wait to meet you.

 

[koalabear]

u met online and u can swear you are in love. Now what? Is on line love for real?

nope....

 

[littleone77]

u met online and u can swear you are in love. Now what? Is on line love for real?

Yes. As many have said previously it involves alot of trust, contact, hard work and the belief that in the end it will all be worth it. Take the steps you need as they come to you and remember to make lasting memories.

 

[1sexylady]

I met a guy on this site and we fell in love so we met in real life as well.

We talked here and on the phone and when we met it was wonderful. We did exchange pictures before we met but I don't think that would of made a difference to either of us.

We lasted 4 yrs. together.

His name was Biker and my heart to heart at the bottom of my sig line is for him.

He passed away in July from cancer. It was the best 4 yrs of my life and I thank god everyday that I had at least that much time with him.

1SL...

 

[bra_man69]

I think you can only love someone when you open your self for love on line are in life. think on line you get to know someone better befor you ever know what they look like that way you cant judge that fast. In life you judge a person from there looks befor you ever talk to them and do not say you do not everyone does it.

boy sexylady we ben on lit for along time please do not remind me again lol

 

[Kain__Thornn]

Is any love real?

 

[littleone77]

Is any love real?

Its an illusion or a hormone thing. But us romantics like to think so yes.

 

[purrbaby]

Met my guy online, met after a year of talking online, now we're engaged, he knows me perfectly. I don't have to say a word and he knows what I'm feeling. He's a blessing. So... I think it CAN be real. But I think it can be an illusion online just as it is in real life.

So really, does it matter, if you're happy?

 

[1sexylady]

I think you can only love someone when you open your self for love on line are in life. think on line you get to know someone better befor you ever know what they look like that way you cant judge that fast. In life you judge a person from there looks befor you ever talk to them and do not say you do not everyone does it.

boy sexylady we ben on lit for along time please do not remind me again lol

 

[bra_man69]

is that your way of telling me to use my on you