Let's talk about sex baby...

[ViciousTease]

#29. Whether you're married, in a long term relationship, or single, but have been in either, sex with the same person over and over can start to lose its luster. What do you do or recommend be Done to you, to keep that fire alive?

Flirt and tease. I read a quote the other day that said foreplay shouldn't start 5 minutes before sex, it starts immediately after the last orgasm. I think that's true. Suggestive comments and texts, silly innuendos, and flirting are a great way to keep it fun.

 

[Katie_80]

I have some new action figures.....oh, wait....nevermind

Bahahaha...oh my nerd heart just skipped a beat.

 

[DarkSimian]

Flirt and tease. I read a quote the other day that said foreplay shouldn't start 5 minutes before sex, it starts immediately after the last orgasm. I think that's true. Suggestive comments and texts, silly innuendos, and flirting are a great way to keep it fun.

with that advice, you would think I would be aces with the ladies

 

[IhateClowns]

For us it's been communication and adaptation. It's being able to say the things you're thinking about without feeling you're going to get judged for it. Lot has helped us in ways. When she had her pic thread it opened her mind up a bit. Although she did it for me, she started enjoying it herself.

Being able to share a fantasy no matter how simple or ludicrous it is, without the thought of being judged, is huge. Whether I like it or don't and vice versa, at least we can talk about it. I am wayyyy more out there than she is and sometimes she laughs at the things I fantasize about, but not in a negative way. In her own way that lets me know it it ain't ever gonna happen.

 

[julybaby04]

It has to be intentional, a priority, and important to both.

When it isn't, a gap grows and that only gets wider and feelings get hurt. Two people who love each other should be able to share the gift of sex and it be celebrated.

 

[suckonsimon]

#29
Forty years married and fucking on into the sunset ...

We are interactive with each other on all sorts of levels and hold each other in really high esteem, as well as being in love, having shared a number of hardships, and delighting in the joys of great sex over the decades- so that stuff is the background to my answers:

Within what some might regard as a limited range of possibilities, we still find ourselves doing what we've never done before, in terms of positions and changing around and the variety of penetrative and non penetrative action together.

There's humour! There are all sorts of different 'moods' to our joinings. We talk about what we did and what we like and what we might do.

From time to time I download a classy erotic image, add it to the collection I keep in a bedside drawer, and choose the right time to show her a new one and then we might go for it with that in mind.

I have to admit, at risk of bragging, that my woman gets spectacularly orgasmic on me - to a degree I just don't see in porn not that I see alot. With her orgasms the way they are, the very notion of our sex losing its luster seems absurd to me. I guess that's my bottom line on this one.

 

[Misshotndeep]

I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic. I would like candle lit dinners, love notes in places left to be discovered at random and cuddles during movies. I am more about the mental and emotional aspect than the physical. Any idiot can put a dick in you and move it. The man that can capture a woman's mind and soul is a gem.

 

[RoyceConnors]

#29 I remember why we're together in the first place and that's to make the other happy. If you lose the desire to make your partner happy, there's an underlying reason that needs to be attended to. Communicate the situation and make amends, but by all means, make love always.

 

[makemewet69]

#29
We're still new to one another, but we do keep it spicy by trying new things, being open-minded and accepting, not judging, and just enjoying the hell out of each other. We use toys and all that too, which is fun but not needed.

 

[julybaby04]

I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic. I would like candle lit dinners, love notes in places left to be discovered at random and cuddles during movies. I am more about the mental and emotional aspect than the physical. Any idiot can put a dick in you and move it. The man that can capture a woman's mind and soul is a gem.

Amen!!!!

 

[Amalgamation]

Amen!!!!

I agree with this. I am very much a romantic. I find the seduction of a woman, engaging Her mind, to be almost as satusfying as sex.

 

[Azuldrgon]

#29. Whether you're married, in a long term relationship, or single, but have been in either, sex with the same person over and over can start to lose its luster. What do you do or recommend be Done to you, to keep that fire alive?

In a general sense, communicate.

I have been with the same woman for twenty years. We are not as spontaneous and as heated as we were when we were dating and that's mostly because we've been together so long. One secret to keeping fire alive is to keep talking.

I also like when we try to change the routine up. When sex becomes a routine, it becomes a chore. And no one enjoys chores.

 

[IhateClowns]

#30. Have you ever squirted or made a woman squirt before? What technique has caused you to squirt or you use to make a woman squirt? Do you squirt easily or only with certain toys or positions?

 

[neakman]

#30. Have you ever squirted or made a woman squirt before? What technique has caused you to squirt or you use to make a woman squirt? Do you squirt easily or only with certain toys or positions?

YES, and I have no idea, and I can squirt water through my teeth.

 

[SoulAssasin247]

Had women dripping puddles of cum but never squirt.

 

[RoyceConnors]

#30 Once I learned about the Gspot and how it worked, I realized it takes time to work it up first with a good clitoral orgasm to get it activated. When it is, there's several finger techniques I use to 'caress' the area. Combined with a wand on her clit, it can cause massive ejaculations. I notice most women like 3 fingers while doing it, seems to provide the right stretch inside on the spot.

 

[Katie_80]

#30 Once I learned about the Gspot and how it worked, I realized it takes time to work it up first with a good clitoral orgasm to get it activated. When it is, there's several finger techniques I use to 'caress' the area. Combined with a wand on her clit, it can cause massive ejaculations. I notice most women like 3 fingers while doing it, seems to provide the right stretch inside on the spot.

I'll have one of those, please!!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

#30. Have you ever squirted or made a woman squirt before? What technique has caused you to squirt or you use to make a woman squirt? Do you squirt easily or only with certain toys or positions?

Oh my goodness. I thought squirting was an urban legend until recently. I don't normally get off vaginally, and the clit had done a whole bunch of my heavy lifting. However, I recently introduced to the njoy wand and it has been phenomenal. My orgasms are intense and I squirted for the first time with it quite recently. My husband went nuts for it. I think I found my g-spot guys

I am seriously gifting this gem to every bachelorette from now on.

Njoy Purewand review

 

[Aphro]

Oh my goodness. I thought squirting was an urban legend until recently. I don't normally get off vaginally, and the clit had done a whole bunch of my heavy lifting. However, I recently introduced to the njoy wand and it has been phenomenal. My orgasms are intense and I squirted for the first time with it quite recently. My husband went nuts for it. I think I found my g-spot guys

I am seriously gifting this gem to every bachelorette from now on.

Njoy Purewand review

I have one too, and it is, indeed, amazing.

 

[RoyceConnors]

I'll have one of those, please!!

Only one? I'm sure we can get you to have quite a few of them, some of them forced until you can't scream stop any more.

 

[Trekka]

#29 - a mix of what IHC said + what Simon said.

#30 - my BF can make me squirt across the room. It's appalling and amazing at the same time. No other man has ever been able to accomplish such a feat upon my body, and I can't do it to myself, either. He has incredibly strong hands.....

 

[suckonsimon]

#30
Never made a woman squirt. Don't suspect I'll try.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

#30
Nope, I'm not a squirter. *not sure to make a sad face or smile.

 

[tedsbeds]

#30
Nope, I'm not a squirter. *not sure to make a sad face or smile.

Mostly urine anyway. Can you say"Golden Shower"?

 

[ViciousTease]

#30. Have you ever squirted or made a woman squirt before? What technique has caused you to squirt or you use to make a woman squirt? Do you squirt easily or only with certain toys or positions?

I've only done it twice, thanks to the wonders of Hitachi. Of course, the second time I broke the damn thing so it hasn't happened since.