Let's talk about sex baby...

[Wings]

#43. We all are proud of our strengths in the bedroom, but what is something you don't feel you are good at sexually? What is something you think you could be better at? Why don't you think you're good at whatever it is? What do you think you need to do to get better at it?

Role play. I hate it. I am a fan of a good tease, some awesome build up beforehand but I think sex should be straightforward and while my priest in a confessional fantasy is hot, I don't want to pretend to be a naughty parishioner in real life.

Maybe it's because I'm a mom and a business woman, I've got shit to do.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Hey, hey, hey. Take it over to the fetish board, lady.

Been there. Done that

I'm not very good at cowgirl. I never can seem to find the right rhythm, for some reason, and apparently I can't figure out where the right angle is. And I instinctively go slow, trying to find that angle, and my partner usually gets impatient and starts lifting up.

And then I get a flashback that I'm on grandpa's knee as I'm being bounced around like a toddler. Ugh. Hate it. I don't think I'll ever get better, either, LOL.

Oh, yeah! I'm with you on this one. I've only succeeded once, and although it was pretty good, I'm OK with this being removed from my repertoire also.

 

[EnglishChap6687]

I'm not very good at cowgirl. I never can seem to find the right rhythm, for some reason, and apparently I can't figure out where the right angle is. And I instinctively go slow, trying to find that angle, and my partner usually gets impatient and starts lifting up.

And then I get a flashback that I'm on grandpa's knee as I'm being bounced around like a toddler. Ugh. Hate it. I don't think I'll ever get better, either, LOL.

Been there. Done that



Oh, yeah! I'm with you on this one. I've only succeeded once, and although it was pretty good, I'm OK with this being removed from my repertoire also.

I can appreciate that some women don't enjoy this position or find it satisfying. I hope you would at least take this position as part of foreplay though, because lying down and looking up at you is wonderful.

It's also a great position to give a handjob, for much the same reason.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

My husbands were low-drive and unadventurous. Consequently, I've probably had a lot less sex than most women my age. There isn't anything I've tried that I feel especially uncomfortable with or incompetent at, I just need a lot more practice at... well, everything.

 

[cliteatingman]

My husbands were low-drive and unadventurous. Consequently, I've probably had a lot less sex than most women my age. There isn't anything I've tried that I feel especially uncomfortable with or incompetent at, I just need a lot more practice at... well, everything.

I'd love to help!!!!

 

[numeniusa]

#43. We all are proud of our strengths in the bedroom, but what is something you don't feel you are good at sexually? What is something you think you could be better at? Why don't you think you're good at whatever it is? What do you think you need to do to get better at it?

Until recently I would have had to say reverse cowgirl. Cowgirl, fine. But turn me round, and.... No. Just no. I came to the conclusion that it was just some incompatibility in our morphologies (he's very curvy ). What made the difference was a *coughs* demonstration. I realised there was a different way my legs could go, and that I shouldn't try to make it too deep. And bingo!

 

[jezzilee]

Handjobs. I think they are my weakest point. Recently I have been told that I'm nuts thinking that but maybe it's because if this...when I get a penis in my hand all I can think about is wrapping my lips around it and feeling it slide down my throat. What was supposed to be a discrete hand job under the table becomes a probably less discrete blow job under the table and me hoping that the waiter doesn't bring our food until after I had my ' hors d'eourve '.

 

[janeyl]

Role play. I hate it. I am a fan of a good tease, some awesome build up beforehand but I think sex should be straightforward and while my priest in a confessional fantasy is hot, I don't want to pretend to be a naughty parishioner in real life.

Maybe it's because I'm a mom and a business woman, I've got shit to do.

I'm with you on the role play...it just feels silly and a bit juvenile to be honest...makes me giggle...which probably isn't exactly conducive to sexy time...

we once met a couple who started doing it in the middle of play and I had to stop because it would have felt rude to laugh and roll my eyes at the situation...especially as the scenario was a naughty nurse...

 

[IhateClowns]

#44. If sex with someone is initially bad, do you end it mediately, or do you keep going, hoping eventually it will get better? Can terrible sex with someone eventually become great sex?

 

[john7771]

#44. If sex with someone is initially bad, do you end it mediately, or do you keep going, hoping eventually it will get better? Can terrible sex with someone eventually become great sex?

If you were given a piece of clay...couldn't it get somehow molded into something that you would want to create?

Give it some more time to see how it comes out?

Just a suggestion

 

[janeyl]

#44. If sex with someone is initially bad, do you end it mediately, or do you keep going, hoping eventually it will get better? Can terrible sex with someone eventually become great sex?

I think it depends entirely on the circumstances...I know, my stock answer to everything...

If it's terrible because you're new to each other, nervous, inexperienced but willing to try, learn and explore with each other and they have qualities other than sexual that appeal, and you're looking for something other than entirely sexual...then it's probable that I'll give someone more than one chance...

If it's terrible because they're arrogant, rude or make it obvious that they think they're the bees knees and not willing to take your needs or wishes into account...then no second chance...it's always better to learn that someone is a dreadful fuck early on if you're looking for a commitment...imagine being stuck for the rest of your life with terrible sex stretching out in front of you for your future...

If I'm only looking for a brief sexual encounter and they're like that, it's unlikely I'll have even got as far as fucking them or that I'll give them a chance to finish...after all...I've got fillet steak at home, I wouldn't settle for a Birdseye burger...

 

[suckonsimon]

#44
I remember being a terrible lover! First time, my wedding night, long day and then long journey. Combination of being tired and the rush of excitement and the fabulous feeling inside her - a few pushes and geyser geyser geyser then I just wanted to die while she caressed me. Oh dear!

She stayed the course.

I've made up for that time ... we reckon about 4,500 times since?

So to answer the final question, YES!!!

 

[seth6138]

I'm not very good at cowgirl. I never can seem to find the right rhythm, for some reason, and apparently I can't figure out where the right angle is. And I instinctively go slow, trying to find that angle, and my partner usually gets impatient and starts lifting up.

And then I get a flashback that I'm on grandpa's knee as I'm being bounced around like a toddler. Ugh. Hate it. I don't think I'll ever get better, either, LOL.

This made me laugh...

 

[IhateClowns]

#45. What is something sexual that you think you are better at than the average person?

 

[EroticRomanticMan]

#45. What is something sexual that you think you are better at than the average person?

I will say oral sex but I really have no comparison. I am patient, kind and I have endurance. I also know my biology so yeah I say oral sex.

 

[Aquagal]

#45. What is something sexual that you think you are better at than the average person?

Deep throat

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Kissing

 

[makemewet69]

#45. What is something sexual that you think you are better at than the average person?

Blow jobs

 

[Wings]

#45. What is something sexual that you think you are better at than the average person?

Touch. I have thrown people off by how well I can find the best spots to touch. Also:remembering to use tongue during blow jobs.

 

[suckonsimon]

#45
I love how each reply thus far is to do with or mentions oral attention. That is very lovely.

Me? I'd say enhancing and extending orgasmic bliss for my woman when she gets there.

 

[Suz_anne]

#45. What is something sexual that you think you are better at than the average person?

Kissing/foreplay/awkward seduction.

 

[Celtics4Life]

Kissing/foreplay/awkward seduction.

Definitely a good combination. Add a little roughness and we have a winner.

 

[IhateClowns]

#46. What is your greatest accomplishment sexually?

 

[suckonsimon]

#46. What is your greatest accomplishment sexually?

I need to go first on this one mate:

To keep my woman feeling good about her body through her fifties and into her sixties.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

#46. What is your greatest accomplishment sexually?

Can mouthbang like a motherfucker. Also can usually stay hard after cumming. Basically I'm awesome. *yawn*