*Twisted*
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I find flirting, especially online to come pretty naturally. In day to day life I'm pretty flirty too though.Thanks for the sparring sessions
And you? Answer the question!
Let's talk about sex baby...
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julybaby04
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Comes very easily....especially in person.
OldUncleJack
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oddly enough yes - the PG has helped...I flirt a lot in RL and sometimes have to rein myself in!
EnglishChap6687
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No, I'm even worse at flirting in real life than I am on here.
suckonsimon
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Me? Such a late developer with flirting. I think the terrible mess of my parents' marriage was the main reason. It's grown on me over the years! Both the fun flirting with other women, and the intentional flirting to get my wife all tingly: I like to have her aching for a screw even when she's not gonna get one!
All of Lit, not just the PG, has kinda confirmed my hopes about being a charmer with intent. It's been good for me and for her and perhaps for a few others too.
All of Lit, not just the PG, has kinda confirmed my hopes about being a charmer with intent. It's been good for me and for her and perhaps for a few others too.
Wild_Honey_66
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Easy-peasy. I'm such a people person that I have to be on guard around the menfolk, or they'll think I'm flirting even when I'm not.
It may come as a surprise that I rarely flirt on purpose in real life. Small, conservative town... you never know when the hunky guy you've been eye-fucking will turn out to be a unhappily but very married man, and also related to both your hairdresser and the family you sit next to in church.
So yeah, I keep the flirt on lockdown unless I'm visiting friends in another town.
I will say that coming to Lit has allowed me to hone my technique with submissive men, and that's been super fun.
suckonsimon
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Honey, your technique with not-so-submissive men isn't too ragged either
Wild_Honey_66
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Honey, your technique with not-so-submissive men isn't too ragged either
*eye fucks you from across the pond*
suckonsimon
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*eye fucks you from across the pond*
It's your mouth does it too, babe xx
Wild_Honey_66
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NorthRockJohnson
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I think I'm much more relaxed with myself now so being shmoozy and flirty comes easy. Letting someone know you're interested without going full perv is a fun artform. Has the PG helped? Uhhh not really honestly. Lol
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curvyangel1969
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I suck at it on and off Lit.
Flirting is an art form when done properly. I'm totally unapproachable. Or entirely too honest. Or so I've been told .
eh. Oh well. C'est la vie
Wild_Honey_66
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This takes finesse, but is worth the effort!
I think your level of schmooze makes people feel comfortable - no pressure, no expectations. Way to go!
I am rubbish at flirting. I go straight for the jugular so to speak and ask outright (though not in a lets go for a fuck right now kind of way..though I may try that). It's mainly because I have no idea if a girl/lady likes me or not. I have no clue. Cannot read it at all. So I just plain Olde English ask. They either say yes or no (ok..it's mostly no but at least I know and can stop going crazy in my head wondering if..).
It helps to be a looker when flirting. I have a friend that could give a sly wink as a teenager and the girls would be all over him like a rash. Bastard.
It helps to be a looker when flirting. I have a friend that could give a sly wink as a teenager and the girls would be all over him like a rash. Bastard.
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curvyangel1969
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But he's not bitter.... Lol. ( Kidding )
Wild_Honey_66
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Looks can help you get your foot in the door initially, but i think the follow-through is more important. Attitude, presentation, confidence... these things have nothing to do with height or weight or the size of one's party bits. (Fortunately for me.
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janeyl
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I'm much more flirty in real life and with both men and women but I've never been more outrageously flirted with than when I was in the company of 7 bomber command veterans all who were over 90...
looks don't matter in any way, it's about demeanour and attitude...probably relating to confidence and an ability to engage with people...
I don't engage in flirting much on Lit except with very good friends who understand me, because I'm not interested in taking anything any further on here and there comes a burden of expectation as soon as someone indicates any interest that I find intrusive...apparently I come across as aloof and unapproachable...people who know me know that isn't true...
looks don't matter in any way, it's about demeanour and attitude...probably relating to confidence and an ability to engage with people...
I don't engage in flirting much on Lit except with very good friends who understand me, because I'm not interested in taking anything any further on here and there comes a burden of expectation as soon as someone indicates any interest that I find intrusive...apparently I come across as aloof and unapproachable...people who know me know that isn't true...
AbsintheFather
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Before I found Lit, I couldn't spell flirt. I'm not nearly as shy in RL as I used to be either.
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NorthRockJohnson
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This takes finesse, but is worth the effort!
I think your level of schmooze makes people feel comfortable - no pressure, no expectations. Way to go!
Awww thank you! I generally try not to suck.
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curvyangel1969
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This takes finesse, but is worth the effort!
I think your level of schmooze makes people feel comfortable - no pressure, no expectations. Way to go!
Awww thank you! I generally try not to suck.
I wonder if Honey and NRJ can give me lessons on smooze and not sucking.
Trekka
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No no, sucking is good! The menfolk, they like the sucking. Sucking lessons available by appointment
Wild_Honey_66
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You've come a long way, baby.
Awww thank you! I generally try not to suck.
What Trekka said. Sucking is muy bueno!
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curvyangel1969
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No no, sucking is good! The menfolk, they like the sucking. Sucking lessons available by appointment
Ooooh THAT kind of sucking....I thought we were talking about not sucking at flirting....Though I already hold a PhD in the other I am always trying to continue my education. Pencil me in.
Aussie_Wolf
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Flirting on the boards is way easier than in RL. However it has helped me somewhat.
