Let's talk about sex baby...

[NorthRockJohnson]

No no, sucking is good! The menfolk, they like the sucking. Sucking lessons available by appointment

Haha well, depends entirely on what kind of sucking we're talking about of course.

 

[suckonsimon]

No no, sucking is good! The menfolk, they like the sucking. Sucking lessons available by appointment

Expert Suckers surely need ... items ... on which to suck when giving lessons? Some guys' Lit names may just suggest their willingness?

 

[Suz_anne]

This is how I feel when I try to be sexy and flirt in RL...
https://31.media.tumblr.com/70c2d347e0d613bbe8e83a332b2beab8/tumblr_inline_noutdlOruY1sjeu2e_500.gif

It feels awkward AF here, too. So I sometimes resort to mean -flirting. So if I bust your balls, it probably means I think you're pretty swell.

 

[QuietCanadian]

This is how I feel when I try to be sexy and flirt in RL...
https://31.media.tumblr.com/70c2d347e0d613bbe8e83a332b2beab8/tumblr_inline_noutdlOruY1sjeu2e_500.gif

It feels awkward AF here, too. So I sometimes resort to mean -flirting. So if I bust your balls, it probably means I think you're pretty swell.

That's hawt.


I'd say the same though, it is certainly not a forte. I get all awkward most times and it's downright embarrassing.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I like to false advertise when flirting

https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTF5kABSIXbUx304NdKpfoA1XOOzYlFAnuLYuoAG3CEzrV5gJNV3w

 

[LostGirlTink]

http://static.someecards.com/someecards/usercards/1332034603218_831541.png

 

[troubledone]

http://static.someecards.com/someecards/usercards/1332034603218_831541.png

I am sure you are awesome

 

[IhateClowns]

#49. How important is sex to you?

 

[Misshotndeep]

#49. How important is sex to you?

About 40% out of 100. I need the emotional stuff, things like honesty, integrity and intellegence more. If the sex is bad and we have those then we can still be friends at least.

 

[suckonsimon]

#49. How important is sex to you?

I feel that sexual desire, the pleasure of arousal and the pursuit of opportunities to join by which I really mean penetrate - i feel it's hard-wired into who I am.

I'm really unattached in terms of needs and comforts. I can give things up for a while very easily. I can live alone cycling wild camping and eating berries drinking water from streams with just pennies. Meanwhile raging hardons through the night and I'll come home to my woman and fuck and fuck and fuck. It was so in my twenties. 63 and hey ho more of the same.

So. "Important"!

 

[Kimleigh]

#49. How important is sex to you?

I'd say sex is very important in a relationship. Once a disconnect happens in the sex department, it gradually begins to break down other forms of intimacy in the partnership.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Very important.

I'm not only high drive, 'physical touch' is my top love language. Touching is the #1 way in which I speak and hear love, care, and concern. The lack of sex within a connected relationship affects me deeply - it's never 'just sex' to me.

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Before I found Lit, I couldn't spell flirt. I'm not nearly as shy in RL as I used to be either.

Same here.

 

[janeyl]

it's always been important to me in a raw need kind of way when it's available but in my usual contradictory way, I can go without it if it's not...I'm really too fucking lazy to chase it...I particularly won't play the games that women seem to like...I'll fuck a woman but I won't woo her, maybe that's why my favourite female playmates have very masculine attitudes to sex...it's straightforward without any silly play acting in the run up...don't for one second think that means that the actual sex isn't deliciously erotic, intimate and sensual though...we just like to be businesslike about the lead into it...

in my current relationship, because of its origins and that we often wouldn't see each other for weeks on end, I've often said that the foundations are our mutual love, respect, trust and liking for each other...the sex is the cement that holds it all together...if we don't have sex for some time...it happens in any relationship, I feel very distant and disconnected from him...the physical intimacy we have is something I've never experienced with anyone else and never really wanted to...that it evolved for me rather than me looking for it means it feels naturally right...

sex with others doesn't have anywhere near the same feeling...it's recreational, like any hobby...it's fun, but I don't need it...I just like it...occasionally, a lovely pile of bodies really does the trick...

don't know if that makes sense...bit of a ramble there...must be my mood...

 

[Suz_anne]

I've often said that the foundations are our mutual love, respect, trust and liking for each other...the sex is the cement that holds it all together...if we don't have sex for some time...it happens in any relationship, I feel very distant and disconnected from him.

Janey said it better than I can. So...^^^^^this.

 

[default24]

It's tremendously important. Such a powerful physical expression of appreciation and interest for another person. I can't imagine living without it

 

[makemewet69]

#49. How important is sex to you?

It's very important. That being said, being in a long distance relationship, we've had to get creative at times. It only makes the times we get to be together even more meaningful and amazing.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

#49. How important is sex to you?

In a relationship it has to be in the mix for sure. So fairly important. But I don't know...I'm single and in a dry spell right now. Which I'm weirdly okay with. Which is weird because I love women and sex too. Go figure.

 

[IhateClowns]

#50. Is the best sex consistently with someone older or younger than yourself? Does age really matter?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

#50. Is the best sex consistently with someone older or younger than yourself? Does age really matter?

I think good sex is more about the person than their age; age and experience don't guarantee wisdom. Worst oral I've received was from an older guy who'd had plenty of experience. Best partner ever was considerably younger, but very in tune with his body and mine. He understood the value of foreplay and spending time getting to know each other. First date was five hours of necking and dry humping and don't you know I was gagging for it after that.

 

[suckonsimon]

#50
I'm a one woman guy and we're the same age so most of this question it's no comment from me.

That said, my best sex pre 30 was never so much as a patch on the best of what was to follow. Slow learner?

And ... sex in our 60s can be awesome, and even fresh and different. That I never expected.

 

[jezzilee]

#50. Is the best sex consistently with someone older or younger than yourself? Does age really matter?

I hope age doesn't matter, cuz the 25 year old I am meeting tomorrow night is almost half my age!

 

[ashik09]

I hope age doesn't matter, cuz the 25 year old I am meeting tomorrow night is almost half my age!

Twenty-five-year-olds suck at sex. Sorry.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I hope age doesn't matter, cuz the 25 year old I am meeting tomorrow night is almost half my age!

Get it, jezz.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I hope age doesn't matter, cuz the 25 year old I am meeting tomorrow night is almost half my age!

You go girl!

Enjoy that stamina.