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[IhateClowns]

#58 Have you ever had an injury while having sex?

 

[The_Ghost_Man]

#58 Have you ever had an injury while having sex?

Mmm, I've had a chipped fro t tooth from an over eager kiss. (Her not me)

More recently, I've been kicked in the head during a position switch. And I'm pretty sure there is a Litster laughing at that memory right now.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I had a phone sex partner tear a muscle in his back during sexy phone time...

...and then re-injure it a week later.

 

[suckonsimon]

#58 Have you ever had an injury while having sex?

Well hello to this great thread revived!
I put my back out once, fucking my woman against the bedroom door 'Godfather' style. Solution: sturdy coat hooks screwed on with long screws at the top corners. The gal doesn't need to be climbing up the guy's neck and head the whole time!

 

[janeyl]

#58 Have you ever had an injury while having sex?

not so far...before I had laser eye surgery, I was extremely short sighted and if I ran out of contacts would pretty much have to "go in blind"...i once knelt on the monkey's balls and have kicked him in the head...

I misjudged where to put a hand and fell off our bed during a foursome...ended up hitting my head on the wall and being wedged between the bed and the bedside table...didn't hurt myself though, except for the bruised pride and the laughing...

 

[Trekka]

#58 Have you ever had an injury while having sex?

*takes a moment to bask in the fleeting light of Clowns... Mmm...



Have I ever been injured during sex? Well....yeah. Bruises abound. Bite marks. Standard issue sore stuff the next day. *shrugs* I live with a caveman; sometimes it's rough

Torn labia once. Missed a day of work due to that, and my co-workers were on the ground, in tears and convulsions, when I told them the real reason why.

I got a blister on my uvula once. Repeats: A blister on my uvula. From friction. Not, like, herpes. From that day forward, the BF was no longer allowed to follow "throat hammer" on tumblr.

Well hello to this great thread revived!
I put my back out once, fucking my woman against the bedroom door 'Godfather' style. Solution: sturdy coat hooks screwed on with long screws at the top corners. The gal doesn't need to be climbing up the guy's neck and head the whole time!

Simon, I love the way you use your hands. And power tools. Knowledgable tool usage is so fucking sexy. And practical. In the hottest of ways.

 

[PapaRomantic]

#58 Have you ever had an injury while having sex?

Cramps....not hers, mine. Sure is a mood killer...

 

[suckonsimon]

... Simon, I love the way you use your hands. And power tools. Knowledgable tool usage is so fucking sexy. And practical. In the hottest of ways.

Nice one, Trekka. Thanks! xx

"Knowledgable tool usage" reminded me, in relation to Clowns' #58 question:
A while back I used to have big anxiety, when I was lying on the bed my woman riding me and getting into out-of-control back and forth grinding. I'd cup her butt so that she could only go 'back' so far as I had this worry she'd bend my erection downwards to some kind of 'point of no return'

But then! knowledge of my tools came to the rescue! One delightful consequence of wearing a real sturdy, thick, steel cockring around my whole junk, balls through it too, is that the 'bunch-up' of my ball sack acts as a kind of cushion when she grinds and jerks backwards along me, and I've no worries! And, hands free, I can give her all the attention she wants on her bouncing breasts, thumb in her mouth to suck furiously, tickle across her little bush [wow does that set her away sometimes] - Oh freedom and joy!

 

[Trekka]

Simon with the mechanical skills.

Also he takes care of his tools. Another fine quality.

^5

 

[lacandy]

#58 Have you ever had an injury while having sex?

I couldn't resist this one

In my younger days...when you had to find any place you could there were a few unfortunate injuries. A bruise on the top of my head from hitting the arm rest on the door in the front seat of a pick up truck (before the fancy big pick ups they have now when it was just a bench seat and a stick shift ).

And not my injury, but one place we found was BF's dad's office and he had horrible rug burns on his knees

Now I would KILL for injury inducing sex!! Who am I kidding...I'd kill just to have any kind of sex at this point.

 

[*Twisted*]

On the injuries during sex category an ex of mine cracked her scull during a particularly fun filled cunnilingus episode. She didn't complain about it until after she'd cum.

 

[janeyl]

On the injuries during sex category an ex of mine cracked her scull during a particularly fun filled cunnilingus episode. She didn't complain about it until after she'd cum.

a friend of mine once told me that he had his neck damaged by a girl he was going down on when she came. She was, apparently, a keen horsewoman and her thighs were like bands of steel around his neck...

 

[*Twisted*]

a friend of mine once told me that he had his neck damaged by a girl he was going down on when she came. She was, apparently, a keen horsewoman and her thighs were like bands of steel around his neck...

LOL That could be dangerous for sure!

 

[IhateClowns]

#59. Have you ever had sex with someone you weren't physically attracted to, but they had a good personality? Was the sex any better or worse? Is physical attraction a must for you to sleep with someone?

 

[DarkSimian]

#59. Have you ever had sex with someone you weren't physically attracted to, but they had a good personality? Was the sex any better or worse? Is physical attraction a must for you to sleep with someone?

I got a bj once on a blind date. We had talked on the phone for a while before hand, and had great chemistry. But when we finally met, she looked nothing like she described. The bj was awkward, and I did feel bad that I did not return the favor. And we never went out again, so I'm sure she thought I was a class A asshole. That was the only blind date I've ever gone on, and I swore I would never do it again.

 

[Eva_Star]

#59. Have you ever had sex with someone you weren't physically attracted to, but they had a good personality? Was the sex any better or worse? Is physical attraction a must for you to sleep with someone?

Yes. I dated a guy for a while that I did not find attractive (physically) at all...but he was SO funny and intelligent.

The sex was ok. No major fireworks but nothing terrible either...though his oral skills were exceptional. He was very grateful that I let him touch me (his words) so he was very attentive.

I do think that attraction is important as we ultimately broke up because I couldn't see sharing a life with someone that I was physically meh about. I need the fireworks.

 

[Trekka]

I feel like the right personality can make someone physically attractive in the mind's eye.

Just like a hot guy who looks good, but outs himself as a total douche, all of a sudden looks less hot in light of his douche baggery.

 

[Lunation]

I feel like the right personality can make someone physically attractive in the mind's eye.

Just like a hot guy who looks good, but outs himself as a total douche, all of a sudden looks less hot in light of his douche baggery.

^^^^^^^

I honestly don't know if I've ever done it with someone I would call physically attractive. All had dirty, dirty, terrible minds though.

 

[Lunation]

Come to think of it, my particular bias goes the exact opposite direction.

I would never hit on a chick I found too attractive, assuming I'd just be another fly buzzing around her orbit with all the other horny guys.

And on the off chance an attractive woman flirts with me or some such, my immediate instinct is distrust. "What do you want? I WILL NOT HEED THINE SIREN'S CALL, FOUL TEMPTRESS!"

 

[suckonsimon]

#59
As a young man I dated a gal I was really close to within my group of good friends. We are still really close friends though we live opposite ends of the country. But the dating lasted only a few weeks because I became aware she didn't do it for me chemistry-wise. I did do it for her, and that was hard for us both. I don't think she so much as felt me hard, not once.

Contrast first date with the woman who is my wife: she knew a great deal about my erection through my pants that first dance. For the two of us - and I'm saying this 40 years on! - the sexual chemistry has been at the centre. I adore how she looks. She turns me on just smiling and walking along.

 

[Trekka]

Come to think of it, my particular bias goes the exact opposite direction.

I would never hit on a chick I found too attractive, assuming I'd just be another fly buzzing around her orbit with all the other horny guys.

And on the off chance an attractive woman flirts with me or some such, my immediate instinct is distrust. "What do you want? I WILL NOT HEED THINE SIREN'S CALL, FOUL TEMPTRESS!"

*sings softly, soulfully in your ear...

#59
Contrast first date with the woman who is my wife: she knew a great deal about my erection through my pants that first dance. For the two of us - and I'm saying this 40 years on! - the sexual chemistry has been at the centre. I adore how she looks. She turns me on just smiling and walking along.

I this.

I think a lot of attraction IRL is primal-- pheromones-- chemistry. My genes want to get your genes naked!

And then dancing close? Nice move ==> putty in a man's hands.

 

[suckonsimon]

...
I this.

I think a lot of attraction IRL is primal-- pheromones-- chemistry. My genes want to get your genes naked!

And then dancing close? Nice move ==> putty in a man's hands.

That first dance was a college formal ball. Me in black tie and the rest. I remember pals telling me in the days after that the two of us were still doing the previous dance - yeah it was waltz and stuff - the previous dance even when the music and rhythm had moved on to something else. Friends felt that kinda gave the game away!

 

[ViciousTease]

#59. Have you ever had sex with someone you weren't physically attracted to, but they had a good personality? Was the sex any better or worse? Is physical attraction a must for you to sleep with someone?

I have. He made me laugh and smile, made me feel comfortable and safe and beautiful. The sex was good. It was sweet. It wasn't the hottest sex I've ever had, but it was always comfortable. There were no awkward moments and I never felt insecure.

Physical attraction still isn't a must, though I do want more chemistry now. Words and confidence can accomplish that. An easy smile and a great laugh don't hurt either.

 

[janeyl]

there is always some kind of attraction depending on the situation...i have had sex with people I initially wasn't sure I found attractive but getting to know them better and their personality shining through has made them attractive to me...

I have had sex with people that others don't find attractive for whatever reason...or who dont fit the societal norns of atrractiveness...but I don't allow my wants and desires to be dictated to by others...

 

[IhateClowns]

#60. With so much information and so many products on the market, are there areas of sexuality that we still don't know about?