Let's talk about sex baby...

[suckonsimon]

Well I wasn't aware of steel cock rings before being here. So thank you suckonsimon! The whole experience here, though, is educational - any Litster with his/her eyes open can learn so much.

 

[IhateClowns]

#72. Do you tend to be a giver or a receiver in bed?

 

[TheOlderGuy]

#72. Do you tend to be a giver or a receiver in bed?

Totally a giver. That's where my pleasure comes from. And I end up feeling selfish about it sometimes, because it's such a high to lick until she explodes.

 

[suckonsimon]

#72. Do you tend to be a giver or a receiver in bed?

Both / And by both of us. Variably. That's the magic.

 

[Lunation]

#72. Do you tend to be a giver or a receiver in bed?

Giver.

Particularly when it comes to oral. May need to be pried from between her twitching legs.

 

[julybaby04]

#72. Do you tend to be a giver or a receiver in bed?

Giver.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Both. I'm an aggressive giver/taker, a responsive receiver.

I've had considerably more experience giving than receiving, but I'd like to balance the scales at some point.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

#71

I'm kinda like VT. I was a late bloomer and relatively inexperienced. I joined lit to actually find myself sexually, as I had nothing, and my marriage was suffering. I've learnt what my proclivities are, and I've learnt to embrace them.

Lit is actually what helped my husband and I open up its marriage, which I am forever thankful for. There have been two significant litsters who have been instrumental in my sexual development here, and who are also incredible friends.

#72

Receiver. I mean, I donate my attention and vagina to the act, but if we're being completely honest, I don't typically give as much as my partner during sex. I give in other ways, though.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

#72. Do you tend to be a giver or a receiver in bed?

I think it's been a balance in my life. Sometimes I'm selfish. Sometimes I'm very generous and interested in her. I have learned that it's often WAY more fun if I spend the time to really engage her senses too.

I've often thought that sex was like food or dinner. Sometimes you want the full 7 course gourmet meal with wine properly paired to each course. Sometimes pot roast and potatoes with broccoli is very satisfying.
And sometimes you just want Big Mac at the drive through.

And now, I can't decide if I'm hungry or horny.

 

[Endless_Night]

#72. Do you tend to be a giver or a receiver in bed?

I'd have to say receiver. Like Aussie said, I donate my body and attention, but I am less than actively participatory. It's not that I'm not willing to engage, but it is just not going to happen without a directive partner.

Kink issue.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Isn't it interesting how different we all are?

I have a lot of trouble receiving unless my partner is being 'directive,' and since they have been mostly lukewarm about sex in general, I'm usually busier than they are.

I guess I feel like one of us ought to be doing something!

 

[Endless_Night]

< I guess I feel like one of us ought to be doing something!

LOL! I think that^ is a given.

Honestly, I wish didn't have the...directive requirement. It makes me very, very dependent on my partner.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

LOL! I think that^ is a given.

Honestly, I wish didn't have the...directive requirement. It makes me very, very dependent on my partner.

*hugs* I understand. I need some of that, too.

You can learn new ways of interacting with them. It won't be the same, but it will give you more options, and help you feel less at the mercy of your partner's limitations. It's worth the effort to try, anyway.

 

[IhateClowns]

#73. What's the best kiss you have ever had? What made it the best?

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

#73. What's the best kiss you have ever had? What made it the best?

Honestly...my first kiss with Sunny Hobeck in the back of my dad's car when I was 9.

It pretty much all went down hill from there

Btw...Clowns. *rips off a strip of duck tape* Good to see you.

 

[Lunation]

#73. What's the best kiss you have ever had? What made it the best?

Ha!

No.

Can't answer that one.

 

[curvyangel1969]

#73. What's the best kiss you have ever had? What made it the best?

This is a really tough one for me. I absolutely love Kissing! I've been lucky enough to be involved with some great kissers. But one in particular could make my panties soaking wet the moment his lips touched mine because I knew he was going to kiss me senseless before ever touching me anywhere else. Ahh... those were the days!

 

[suckonsimon]

#73. What's the best kiss you have ever had? What made it the best?

My first thought was, 'Clowns, come on, this is impossible!' But then I thought of one:

We'd been married eleven months. She'd come off the pill and after a short while me wearing rubber, we were bareback again, with intent. This first time, in missionary on the bed, we orgasmed simultaneously, wonderfully, clinging to each other. And then we held for a very long time in a long luscious kiss with plenty of French in it both ways, as I softened without coming out for a while. The thing is, we both knew it was happening. It was delicious altogether, including the long kiss though awesome moments. Nine months later our first born.

Thanks, Clowns, for giving me a wonderful start to today, remembering that.

Can't resist sharing an earlier kiss:

 

[janeyl]

apart from the Monkey whose kisses still excite and ignite me without fail...i knew we were meant for each other the instant we first kissed....

we have 2 friends who I just can't stop kissing when we see and play with them...one guy friend who I enjoy ...he gets the absolute perfect balance of teeth, lips and tongue that makes shivers rum down my spine...oddly enough, the first time I met him, I didn't find him attractive at all....

and then a female friend we met on holiday last year...her kisses balance mine so beautifully, I spent an entire night just kissing her, much to everyone's amusement and then titillation...we weren't doing it for them, we jyst couldn't help ourselves...and still plan to get together again to repeat the experience...

 

[Lunation]

Nine months later our first born

Ok, I think I could enjoy kissing if it came with impregnation.

Good story.

 

[Trekka]

#73. What's the best kiss you have ever had? What made it the best?

I was *not* looking for anything serious. I was just out on a casual date looking for a little fun. You know, if he was tall enough and such. Not a psycho killer. Etc.

And then after much spirited conversation, eye twinkling, and dimple flashing, he leaned in and then stopped, his lips lingering just a hair's breadth away from mine. I froze, I smiled, I could feel his breath upon me, and my entire body caught fire. I think I was in some sort of pheromonal trance.

He dove in for the kiss an agonizing number of moments later and his lips were warm and soft, a nice contrast to his rather rugged overall appearance. His tongue darted around, exploring, and his teeth tugged gently at my lower lip.

It was in this moment that I remember thinking to myself "ohhh fuuuucck I'm in trouble."

And then I pulled back and famously announced in the middle of a fairly quiet restaurant, "I am NOT going home with you!"

Three years later and we live together.

he gets the absolute perfect balance of teeth, lips and tongue

^this this this this

...and Clowns, this should be in your deal breakers thread. Bad kissing, or kissing that doesn't mesh well with mine--- total complete utter instant deal breaker!

 

[suckonsimon]

^^^
Oho, Trekka!

I do adore reading a woman's take on a man who 'gets it'!

 

[Trekka]

^^^
Oho, Trekka!

I do adore reading a woman's take on a man who 'gets it'!

Yeah he gets it. All night long!

 

[suckonsimon]

Can I have another go? Best kiss while single?

Confession: this is as much to do with my exhibitionist streak and prowess as a male. Here goes.

I was one of 26 lads in our year reading Architecture. We had a design project which involved a week residential just outside Brighton. I was among the minority who were very single at the time, the majority with SOs who were not with us and it was clear some of these guys were missing pussy pretty bad. We heard about a disco night which a whole class of art students were due to attend. So we all bundled down there on the hunt. Well, I spent a lot of the evening on the dance floor with this one arty lass, lithe, petite, pretty, and ... forward! I recall thinking, while she was first gyrating her belly on my very sturdy pole, 'I don't even know your name.'

These art students were called to catch their coach far too early on and we fellas accompanied them to the pavement. She lingered. She wanted another farewell snog. Oh very Frenchly, and long, and tangled, there on the street with her girlfriends cooing for her on the bus and my pals churning with un-spent spunk scowling at me. That was one pleasurable kiss!

 

[suckonsimon]

Yeah he gets it. All night long!

He'll get wrinkles on his face you know; either end of his mouth. From the broad grin he wears from getting it fab.