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#67. Have you ever watched or been watched? Do you tend to be more of an exhibitionist or a voyeur? If you have, what was the experience like watching another couple fuck? What was it like having someone watch you get fucked?
No and yes. Although I think I am more of a voyeur. I didn't know I was being watched (by my roommate) until she told me after the fact. I was mortified! But we laughed it off and I even got to the point where I would "forget" to close my door all the way...so maybe I am more exhibitionist?
 
#68. When do you feel most sexy?

When my woman has had a grand build to a whole-body orgasm on my cock, I maintain it right through to her having an overwhelming sense of joy and satedness, and I'm no-where near. That's when I feel the most sexy, and it can last for me right through until the next time we make love. :)
 
Meh. I think prostitution should be fully legalized. While my particular sexual proclivities wouldn't lend themselves well to a gigolo's services. But if they did, and it suited me for whatever reason, it would be no issue.

Tidy. No muss, no fuss. :cool:
 
#69. What are your thoughts on prostitutes and gigolos?

We're in such a terrible mess with this issue because of the evils of grooming, sex trafficking, desperation driven by addictions, and the seeming impossibility of most countries to get the legislation right. Within that picture, there are I guess women and men who have freely chosen a career in sexual services and who offer them in a framework which is safe for them and in which they are respected - but how small is that proportion within the whole hideous mess of the cruelty, oppression and misery? I don't know.
 
We're in such a terrible mess with this issue because of the evils of grooming, sex trafficking, desperation driven by addictions, and the seeming impossibility of most countries to get the legislation right. Within that picture, there are I guess women and men who have freely chosen a career in sexual services and who offer them in a framework which is safe for them and in which they are respected - but how small is that proportion within the whole hideous mess of the cruelty, oppression and misery? I don't know.

Good point, Simon, nicely expressed. I must admit I don't know what is actually legal in my own country in this area. I think buying/selling sex is legal, but 'soliciting' is not? Not sure.

I think buying/selling sexual services is perfectly fine outside of coercion, and works very well for people offering and consuming those services in a dignified and safe way. I also think that consumers of such services would know very well whether they are colluding in illegal and/or immoral corners of the trade.
 
I'm sure buying and selling sex is legal, but operating a business along the lines of a brothel is not. I have no problem with either. It's not for me, but whatever floats ya boat.

Did anyone watch "A Very British Brothel"? (it'll be on 4od)
Eye opening to say the least!
 
I'm sure buying and selling sex is legal, but operating a business along the lines of a brothel is not. I have no problem with either. It's not for me, but whatever floats ya boat.

Did anyone watch "A Very British Brothel"? (it'll be on 4od)
Eye opening to say the least!

I'll have to look that one up. I don't remember it, but I think I would have watched it if I'd spotted it ;)

It's actually really stupid, in my view, for it to be legal for individuals, but not allowed as a business. Especially as an actual brothel business. It would be so much safer for all concerned, and imagine the tax receipts... :)
 
#70. What sexual activity did you originally not enjoy, but like doing now? What about it made you change your tune?
 
#70. What sexual activity did you originally not enjoy, but like doing now? What about it made you change your tune?

Hmm...

Can't think of one. Too much of a slut, sorry.

I see more value in the D/s thing than I used to. I still hold that whole community is way too obsessed with categorization and terminology, but I have a newfound respect for their general ideas. But that's not really a singular 'activity.'

There are some things I didn't enjoy that I now have curiosity about. But that's mostly just passage of time. Haven't tried it again.
 
#70. What sexual activity did you originally not enjoy, but like doing now? What about it made you change your tune?

For years I used to get anxious when my woman was riding me facing me, me lying on the bed. When she 'lost it' she'd likely grind too far back and I'd be clutching her bum cheeks so she wouldn't bend me 'down' too far! I knew she adored this as a way to get into O but it was shall we say a 'mixed blessing' in my head!

Then we got into me wearing a steel ring around my whole junk. Damn does it sort that problem! She can get as wild as she will, and I can have my hands under my head if I feel like and enjoy the spectacle no worries! [truth is I'm more likely caressing her bobbing breasts or feeding her mouth with a thumb or tickling her little muff or ... ] :cool:

The mechanics of this difference? I'm not really sure but I suspect it's the way my balls are plumbed up by the ring and act as a cushion to the underside of my shaft when she gets rocking.:cool:
 
#70. What sexual activity did you originally not enjoy, but like doing now? What about it made you change your tune?

The most honest answer to this is I don't know. There are lots of things I'm curious about now that I never thought I would like, but I haven't had the opportunity to try any of them. :eek:
 
#70. What sexual activity did you originally not enjoy, but like doing now? What about it made you change your tune?

I used to be self conscious having sex girl-on-top. A good, appreciative, complimentary and vocal man came along and helped me with that.

He also taught me how to position myself such that ... well, let's just say if I ever rode Simon he'd be soaked and terrified :D

So squirting orgasms helped as well.

*total boobie bobbling cock riding convert*
 
I used to be self conscious having sex girl-on-top. A good, appreciative, complimentary and vocal man came along and helped me with that.

He also taught me how to position myself such that ... well, let's just say if I ever rode Simon he'd be soaked and terrified :D

So squirting orgasms helped as well.

*total boobie bobbling cock riding convert*

Converts are always the biggest fanatics.

You should start a church.
 
I used to be self conscious having sex girl-on-top. A good, appreciative, complimentary and vocal man came along and helped me with that.

He also taught me how to position myself such that ... well, let's just say if I ever rode Simon he'd be soaked and terrified :D

So squirting orgasms helped as well.

*total boobie bobbling cock riding convert*

Well done that man!! :rose:
 
#70. What sexual activity did you originally not enjoy, but like doing now? What about it made you change your tune?

Shaving. That's the one that comes to mind. At first, I thought, "that's weird."
But then I tried it. Shaving my SO was one of the most erotic things I've ever done.

The most honest answer to this is I don't know. There are lots of things I'm curious about now that I never thought I would like, but I haven't had the opportunity to try any of them. :eek:

I'm kind of in this boat. There are a number of things I'd like to try that I haven't had the chance to.

I used to be self conscious having sex girl-on-top. A good, appreciative, complimentary and vocal man came along and helped me with that.

He also taught me how to position myself such that ... well, let's just say if I ever rode Simon he'd be soaked and terrified :D

So squirting orgasms helped as well.

*total boobie bobbling cock riding convert*

Guys do seem to have a thing for bouncing breasts.

It's more than just the bouncing boobs. I love the fact that when she's on top I can see lots of her body, and touch lots of it. Far more than when I'm on top.
 
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