Let's talk about sex baby...

[IhateClowns]

How much time ya got?

Tick tock

 

[ViciousTease]

#71. Is there anything sexually that you have learned from your time spent here on Lit?

This is one of those questions I'd like to see you answer.

 

[Endless_Night]

This is one of those questions I'd like to see you answer.

Agreed. All my learned stuff is stuff I should have learned long before I ever stumbled on to Lit. Boring.

Clowns could no doubt offer up far more interesting fare. Just saying.

 

[IhateClowns]

#71. Is there anything sexually that you have learned from your time spent here on Lit?

I have learned a lot about myself on this site. Not so much in a sexual nature, just in general. I was a shy kid growing up. In high school I was 6'5" and weighed 175lbs. I was straight nipples and ribs skinny. I was awkward. I didn't go on my first date until I was 17. Didn't lose my virginity till I was 20.

I grew into my own in college. Playing baseball helped a lot. Being an athlete on campus made helped tremendously. I learned that no one was out of my league and that if you just made an attempt that was half the battle.

On Lit I have learned that a site like this can have tremendous power over some people. For some, this place is their life. They live and die by how they are viewed in here. I learned if I didn't try so hard, be nice, be myself, and just get to know people then I would get much more out of this place.

I see people getting crushed on here all the time. I don't think the sis the place to search for love. We are all here for different reasons. I never posted on the boards in hopes of booking up. It was fun to banter with people and yes there we're some sexual escapades with 2 women that I enjoyed but this place was never about that for me.

I can tell you one thing I learned about myself sexually in here. I like to flirt more than I ever realized I did. I enjoy getting to know knew people. I enjoy making others laugh and think. I like breaking the monotony of the above you threads. I like promoting conversation in the threads I start. Some serious, but mostly silly.

I also learned that I am both an exhibitionist and a voyeur. Some things I never thought I would never do or see through a computer screen, I have done.

This place has taught me a lot about myself, but very little of it has been sexual in nature.

 

[IhateClowns]

This is one of those questions I'd like to see you answer.

There ya go.

 

[ViciousTease]

There ya go.

Thank you.

 

[IhateClowns]

Thank you.

Of course. Anything for you

Your turn

 

[Daizie]

#71. Is there anything sexually that you have learned from your time spent here on Lit?

Yes, two things.

1 - Sexually and non-sexually, apparently anything goes.

2 - Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear.

 

[ViciousTease]

#71. Is there anything sexually that you have learned from your time spent here on Lit?

I've learned a lot. Of course, my limited real world experience made for a large number of unknowns to be discovered. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19 and I was engaged at the time. I can count the number of men I've slept with on one hand.

I've learned there are things I want and need that fall outside of the mainstream idea of "good girl" sex. I've learned that it's ok to want those things. I've learned that those who perv outside the lines are often good people who've learned to accept themselves and because of that are more tolerant of others.

I've learned that I'm a total voyeur and that good porn is hard to find.

I've learned that I'm worth chasing and I deserve someone willing to make the effort. Granted, it's a bit sad that I had to learn that at an online sex sight, but I'm grateful for the lesson just the same.

And I've learned I have a weakness for dimples.

 

[ViciousTease]

Of course. Anything for you

Your turn

There you go.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

#71. Is there anything sexually that you have learned from your time spent here on Lit?

There are a number of things I've learned. I think, more than anything, I've learned that I really am pretty normal. Well, at least for Lit.

One thing that I think I kind of learned, and maybe this sounds stupid, but...there are women who really like sex, and want to have sex, and that it's not just somethat men want and women "give up." Intellectually, I'm sure I knew that before. But....experience was...somewhat different.

 

[IhateClowns]

There you go.

It's a tremendous feeling when you finally learn that you're good enough for anyone. If they don't believe so then fuck them and move on. Good for you pretty lady.

 

[ViciousTease]

It's a tremendous feeling when you finally learn that you're good enough for anyone. If they don't believe so then fuck them and move on. Good for you pretty lady.

Thank you. Now, about this exhibitionist streak of yours ...

 

[julybaby04]

#71. Is there anything sexually that you have learned from your time spent here on Lit?

I have learned that there are people actually having sex.

Gives me hope.

 

[IhateClowns]

Thank you. Now, about this exhibitionist streak of yours ...

Lol. I show my face way too much on here.

 

[jessalynn15]

#71. Is there anything sexually that you have learned from your time spent here on Lit?

When I first joined this sight, I was still a virgin. It taught me to view myself in a sexual and desirable light. Made me less afraid to ask for the things I wanted in sex. And honestly, I think it made me more confident and communicative in the bedroom in general.

 

[ViciousTease]

Lol. I show my face way too much on here.

Eh, your conduct is above reproach. I dont think you have anything to worry about. My scandalous behavior is what keeps me from showing my face anymore.

 

[IhateClowns]

Eh, your conduct is above reproach. I dont think you have anything to worry about. My scandalous behavior is what keeps me from showing my face anymore.

I'm far from pure. I just don't kiss and tell. I have a few enemies on here. It's why I left for a wile. You just happen to be one of the very limited reasons I keep coming back.

 

[ViciousTease]

I'm far from pure. I just don't kiss and tell. I have a few enemies on here. It's why I left for a wile. You just happen to be one of the very limited reasons I keep coming back.

Stop that, you'll make me blush. And giggle like a twelve year old.

I'm glad you come back. You should stay a while. You are one of the reasons I hang around.

 

[ViciousTease]

For the record, this last question terrified me a bit. I'm so glad to see others posting, particularly those that had limited sexual experience before finding lit. I feel less like an oddity. Thanks y'all.

 

[jessalynn15]

For the record, this last question terrified me a bit. I'm so glad to see others posting, particularly those that had limited sexual experience before finding lit. I feel less like an oddity. Thanks y'all.

Don't! I felt the same way when I was first on here and that was a couple of years ago. I've surpassed the "counting sex partners on one (or even two) hands" at this point. Probably wouldn't have gotten to 1 without the help of Lit.

 

[Lunation]

There are a number of things I've learned. I think, more than anything, I've learned that I really am pretty normal. Well, at least for Lit.

One thing that I think I kind of learned, and maybe this sounds stupid, but...there are women who really like sex, and want to have sex, and that it's not just somethat men want and women "give up." Intellectually, I'm sure I knew that before. But....experience was...somewhat different.

^^^^

I learned that particular lesson well before I came to lit, so I guess I'm cheating the question. But learning that women wanted me as much as I wanted them was the hardest and most important sexual lesson I ever learned.

 

[RedSilk69]

#71. Is there anything sexually that you have learned from your time spent here on Lit?

I learned that there actually, really are people who find women who look like me desirable, and not just "any port in a storm." I had chosen a marriage that confirmed all my negative feelings about myself, and that took some time to get out of my system.

I think that realization had alot to do with my recent emotional shift towards feeling ownership of my body. I am now investing in a personal trainer once a week; I'm coming up on 50 fast, and I want to make sure I enjoy every aspect of my life as long as I am around. So that means strength and flexibility are things I need to have as lifelong priorities - which I already knew, but without feeling OK in my body, I wouldn't have been able to let my defenses down enough to make act on that.

 

[suckonsimon]

#71
I've learned a greater freedom to talk about things sexual with my wife. Frankly she's waited for that for a long time. So I'm grateful.

I'm learning a little bit about how to handle the difference between my life-choice of heterosexual monogamy and my previously well hidden desires about group sex with women and with men.

And something I knew before has been confirmed over and over: Very many of the people, men and women, who have crazily high sexual energy and drive are among the most understanding, generous, courteous, attentive and generally lovely people on the planet.

 

[Hornblende]

#71. Is there anything sexually that you have learned from your time spent here on Lit?

Well I wasn't aware of steel cock rings before being here. So thank you suckonsimon! The whole experience here, though, is educational - any Litster with his/her eyes open can learn so much.