Let's talk about sex baby...

[Lunation]

I usually fly to meet females. That conversation might not go over as well.

It's generally more of a function of the return trip.

 

[SassySheDevil]

It's generally more of a function of the return trip.

Oops I briefly pictured asking my husband to bend over.

"Hold on while I find a stool first"... killed it

 

[Lunation]

Oops I briefly pictured asking my husband to bend over.

"Hold on while I find a stool first"... killed it

If that's how you guys prefer things you will find no judgment here.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Oops I briefly pictured asking my husband to bend over.

"Hold on while I find a stool first"... killed it

depends on how you're using the word 'stool'

 

[newbiebabe]

It was based on a memory I have of dozing on the bed, him returning to the room and sitting on the bed beside me in his starched white button down and jeans... it was good but not as good as the real night.

 

[BongoGal]

#75. Describe the last erotic dream that you can remember.

I had a curious one the other day. A male friend/co-worker Tom (not his real name) and I were traveling together and ended up in adjoining motel rooms for the night. Between our rooms was a grate in the wall, and if one of us stood on a chair or something we could see through it right into the other's room. That's unlikely, but hey, it's a dream. Even more unlikely, I found that my TV had a channel that broadcast images from inside the room on the other side of the grate. I watched this channel and could see my friend stand on a chair to peek into my room. A boring more realistic dream would have had me telling him through the grate to knock it off and go to bed. In this dream, though, I took the opportunity to casually undress down to my undies and then lie flat on the bed. I watched the TV and saw my friend drop his pants and begin masturbating with his hand pumping his very large cock. This was pretty hot, so I slipped a hand into my panties and sort of matched what I was watching on the screen. Before I got too far, I looked right at the grate and said, "Enjoying the show, Tom?" This caused him to fall down off the chair with a loud thud that woke me up in real life. After few moments getting my bearings and recalling the dream, my real hand slid into my real panties and finished the job. It didn't take long.

 

[IhateClowns]

#76. If you had no choice, how many days do you think you could abstain from sex or masturbation at a stretch?

 

[kisschampagne]

#76. If you had no choice, how many days do you think you could abstain from sex or masturbation at a stretch?

If I had no choice, probably could abstain from sex for life? Masturbation, maybe months not just days, I would think.

 

[BongoGal]

#76. If you had no choice, how many days do you think you could abstain from sex or masturbation at a stretch?

About 18 months ago I badly injured my shoulder. When the painkillers subsided after a few days, I started to get the urge to have an orgasm. Unfortunately for me, my right arm was useless for the task, and trying to use my left caused too much pain when I'd reach down there. So...I was stuck. I just had to grin and bear it. I was staying with my family while I recuperated, and I just couldn't get up the nerve to ask someone to get the vibrator from the drawer next to my bed at home. There was no one I could ask, "Would you be a darling and rub my clit until I come? Thanks in advance." I just had to lay there and be horny. All I could do was read and watch TV. Lemme tell ya, everything vaguely sexy was enough to set me off. Weirdest of all was when watching a local TV weather lady give her forecast, and I noticed her nipples get noticeably hard. In my state, I found that impossible to ignore, and then I imagined that it was likely that dozens of men watching this at that moment were masturbating to her chest. It was pathetic how wet that made me. Eventually, after three orgasm-deprived weeks, I was home and had ready access to the tools of the trade, and I could come at will. (If it sounds as if I am exaggerating, note that in the year before I got hurt, I don't think there was a single day in which I did not have an orgasm. During most I had two or more. I went cold turkey, and it sucked.)

 

[lexieredefined]

#76. If you had no choice, how many days do you think you could abstain from sex or masturbation at a stretch?

Months. Even though I have a super high sex drive, if I've gone without sex/masturbation for a few weeks, I kind of shut down. I'm weird that way. It's good and bad. It's nice that I can ignore my need, but if I've been without for a long time, it takes a long time to get me going again.

 

[suckonsimon]

#76. If you had no choice, how many days do you think you could abstain from sex or masturbation at a stretch?

I think it's the case, now that I'm past 60, that I could abstain indefinitely.
I say that because I know that I can find a really deep sexual fulfilment without going the whole distance now. Whether it's simply enjoying my morning wood some, or seeing to my wife with my fingers when I am rather too tired to get busy with her full on, I am deeply satisfied. I don't think I need to expend all the energy to achieve ejaculation. Great to do so, but no longer a need, really.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Years ago, when my (now ex) husband was deployed and oyr sone was a toddler, 3 months was not unheard of. I was just too tired!

These days, I think the longest time has been 9 days due to surgery and pain meds.

I think I could go a month... mayyyyyybe... if I absolutely had to, unless there was a medical reason... like death.

 

[just4friends]

Counting the days til nine ...

 

[TheOlderGuy]

About 18 months ago I badly injured my shoulder. When the painkillers subsided after a few days, I started to get the urge to have an orgasm. Unfortunately for me, my right arm was useless for the task, and trying to use my left caused too much pain when I'd reach down there. So...I was stuck. I just had to grin and bear it. I was staying with my family while I recuperated, and I just couldn't get up the nerve to ask someone to get the vibrator from the drawer next to my bed at home. There was no one I could ask, "Would you be a darling and rub my clit until I come? Thanks in advance." I just had to lay there and be horny. All I could do was read and watch TV. Lemme tell ya, everything vaguely sexy was enough to set me off. Weirdest of all was when watching a local TV weather lady give her forecast, and I noticed her nipples get noticeably hard. In my state, I found that impossible to ignore, and then I imagined that it was likely that dozens of men watching this at that moment were masturbating to her chest. It was pathetic how wet that made me. Eventually, after three orgasm-deprived weeks, I was home and had ready access to the tools of the trade, and I could come at will. (If it sounds as if I am exaggerating, note that in the year before I got hurt, I don't think there was a single day in which I did not have an orgasm. During most I had two or more. I went cold turkey, and it sucked.)

You always fascinate

 

[lakesailer_mi]

#76. If you had no choice, how many days do you think you could abstain from sex or masturbation at a stretch?

So, I just got back from a trip where, in many ways, I had no choice.
I went 9 days. So, at least that...

 

[malia123]

#5. Would you rather watch someone fucking or have someone watch you?

One of the most erotic moments Iʻve ever had, is having hubby watch me get pleasured by a friend. I donʻt think I myself would like to watch, but love being watch. I enjoy flirting and teasing and even having men j/o in public while watching me.

~M

 

[Endless_Night]

#76. If you had no choice, how many days do you think you could abstain from sex or masturbation at a stretch?

I am like Lexie. High drive, but go a few (agonizing) weeks and I kind of shut down.

Let's see. Plain old masturbation does little for me. I've regularly gone a year without. Longest I think was...pushing two? I do get a little testy (not to say desperate), so I've learned to make a point of it every three or four months if I'm having a dry spell.

Actual sex. Oh, man, you do not want to know. The longest has been...I'm going with five years. Before anyone faints, I was busy, and there were no suitable partners in sight. (Lot of dreams during that period.)

I have a specific set of sexual kinks. No chance of them getting met and I just shut down. Just think of me as a kind of sexual camel.

Note. I did not realized how odd this was until recently.

 

[BongoGal]

I am like Lexie. High drive, but go a few (agonizing) weeks and I kind of shut down.

Let's see. Plain old masturbation does little for me. I've regularly gone a year without. Longest I think was...pushing two? I do get a little testy (not to say desperate), so I've learned to make a point of it every three or four months if I'm having a dry spell.

Actual sex. Oh, man, you do not want to know. The longest has been...I'm going with five years. Before anyone faints, I was busy, and there were no suitable partners in sight. (Lot of dreams during that period.)

I have a specific set of sexual kinks. No chance of them getting met and I just shut down. Just think of me as a kind of sexual camel.

Note. I did not realized how odd this was until recently.

While this isn't my experience, I don't think it is all that unusual. I have had a friend for years who never dated and never seemed to express her sexuality at all. This wasn't a problem at all; it was just her. Then one day I started noticing a change in her. She mentioned having a long distance online relationship with a guy halfway across the country. The impression I got from her was that she enjoyed their chats but that he likely wasn't interested in her beyond that. When I asked if they'd ever meet, she laughed and said no, but she hinted that it would sure do her good. I persisted delicately, and soon I was hearing about how she found herself in heat for the first time in years. She coyly mentioned that "my [her] dogs probably wonder who Dan is". It took me a minute to figure out that she meant that was masturbating and calling out his name. I soon found out that she hadn't masturbated in over a year, but now it was pretty much a physical obligation. It was like a horniness switch was turned on. (They soon did meet and became an item of sorts. Every few months he'd fly to meet her and then she'd fly to meet him. Eventually they stopped seeing each other, and she went back to being the seemingly sexless friend I used to have.)

 

[kisschampagne]

there were no suitable partners in sight. (Lot of dreams during that period.)

I get like that too, lots of dreams, lol... I wake up flushed and hot.

 

[Endless_Night]

While this isn't my experience, I don't think it is all that unusual. I have had a friend for years who never dated and never seemed to express her sexuality at all. <snipped for brevity>

Interesting. The difference may be that I am not particularly content with my periods of abstinence. I still think about sex all the time time. All The Time. I just don't act, for...whatever reason. Almost as though the physical aspect just gets shelved until a suitable possibility presents.

Good to hear other people have unusual cycles. At least I'm not the only weird person.

 

[ViciousTease]

#76. If you had no choice, how many days do you think you could abstain from sex or masturbation at a stretch?

I can abstain from sex indefinitely. I honestly don't remember the last time it happened. Maybe at Christmas? No, we took a family vacation then and shared a hotel room with the kids. Yeah, seriously can't remember.

Masturbation would be harder to give up, but if I had no choice and it went beyond a month, I'd probably lose interest completely. Arousal for me is all or nothing. If I'm getting fulfilled (with or without a partner), I'm constantly in the mood and completely insatiable. If I'm not getting it, I gradually get to a point where it seems to be more trouble than it's worth. Particularly the solo variety.

 

[lacandy]

I can abstain from sex indefinitely. I honestly don't remember the last time it happened. Maybe at Christmas? No, we took a family vacation then and shared a hotel room with the kids. Yeah, seriously can't remember.

Masturbation would be harder to give up, but if I had no choice and it went beyond a month, I'd probably lose interest completely. Arousal for me is all or nothing. If I'm getting fulfilled (with or without a partner), I'm constantly in the mood and completely insatiable. If I'm not getting it, I gradually get to a point where it seems to be more trouble than it's worth. Particularly the solo variety.

I will just copy and past VTs answer and put my name on it...that's not cheating, right?

Except I do remember the last time there was another person physically involved and it was almost 14 months ago...but all the other words are exactly what I would say.

 

[IhateClowns]

#77. Do you prefer someone who is shy and sexy or daring and sexy?

 

[default24]

#77. Do you prefer someone who is shy and sexy or daring and sexy?

I prefer daring. Get out there and be aggressive, be confident

 

[aussiegeekygal]

#77. Do you prefer someone who is shy and sexy or daring and sexy?

Hrm. I value both. I'm a closeted nerd who seems to go for the wallflowers. They're the kinkiest