Let's talk about sex baby...

[Lunation]

Interesting. The difference may be that I am not particularly content with my periods of abstinence. I still think about sex all the time time. All The Time. I just don't act, for...whatever reason. Almost as though the physical aspect just gets shelved until a suitable possibility presents.

Good to hear other people have unusual cycles. At least I'm not the only weird person.

I can abstain from sex indefinitely. I honestly don't remember the last time it happened. Maybe at Christmas? No, we took a family vacation then and shared a hotel room with the kids. Yeah, seriously can't remember.

Masturbation would be harder to give up, but if I had no choice and it went beyond a month, I'd probably lose interest completely. Arousal for me is all or nothing. If I'm getting fulfilled (with or without a partner), I'm constantly in the mood and completely insatiable. If I'm not getting it, I gradually get to a point where it seems to be more trouble than it's worth. Particularly the solo variety.

This must be a girl thing.

I just went a good *counts on fingers* five days (shit it's only been five days!) and I'm kind of dying.

Of course, I do go through long stretches where my orgasms are just part of my shower routine, really not that much more interesting than washing my hair, done simply so I don't have inappropriate thoughts about the payroll girl in the same sense I wear deoderant so I don't smell. Those aren't very fun.

Actual sex? Yeah, I could go the rest of my life without. *shrug*

 

[lakesailer_mi]

#77. Do you prefer someone who is shy and sexy or daring and sexy?

That's an interesting question. As a younger man, I definitely preferred shyer, "good girl" types. Basically, I wanted to be the "experienced" one and be the leader.

At this point though, I'm just kind of happy with someone who is comfortable with themselves and interested in sex. If they are more shy (at least in part) and need me to take the lead, I'm good with that.
If they are more daring, and are leading me along, you know, I think that could be fun.

Probably, in reality, a good match would be someone who is shy in some ways, and daring in others (relative to me) who I can have fun with!

 

[ViciousTease]

This must be a girl thing.

I just went a good *counts on fingers* five days (shit it's only been five days!) and I'm kind of dying.

Of course, I do go through long stretches where my orgasms are just part of my shower routine, really not that much more interesting than washing my hair, done simply so I don't have inappropriate thoughts about the payroll girl in the same sense I wear deoderant so I don't smell. Those aren't very fun.

Actual sex? Yeah, I could go the rest of my life without. *shrug*

The mechanics of male masturbation are much simpler than the female equivalent.

 

[Lunation]

The mechanics of male masturbation are much simpler than the female equivalent.

Thank god.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

The mechanics of male masturbation are much simpler than the female equivalent.

I don't know, I'm not sure I agree with that.

For starters, we make a hell of a mess. That has implications for where and when we can do it.
Also, we kind of need something...erm...a little slidy (you can, literally, rub yourself raw). That also has implications.

Seriously, I think it's just plain tough to masturbate in some settings, guy or girl.

 

[ViciousTease]

I don't know, I'm not sure I agree with that.

For starters, we make a hell of a mess. That has implications for where and when we can do it.
Also, we kind of need something...erm...a little slidy (you can, literally, rub yourself raw). That also has implications.

Seriously, I think it's just plain tough to masturbate in some settings, guy or girl.

I know what it takes to make me cum. I've also been quite successful at making a man cum using just a hand and the lubrication provided by my ... careful attention to his member.

I stand by my answer.

 

[Lunation]

I don't know, I'm not sure I agree with that.

For starters, we make a hell of a mess. That has implications for where and when we can do it.
Also, we kind of need something...erm...a little slidy (you can, literally, rub yourself raw). That also has implications.

Seriously, I think it's just plain tough to masturbate in some settings, guy or girl.

Having gotten women off I'm inclined to agree with VT. Depends on the person of course. I'm sure some girls cum in thirty seconds and some guys take an hour.

But that's not average in my experience.


...and you can totally do it as much as you want without rubbing it raw. Or at least I can. So, now I have questions.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

I know what it takes to make me cum. I've also been quite successful at making a man cum using just a hand and the lubrication provided by my ... careful attention to his member.

I stand by my answer.

Well, now see, there's your problem...try lying down, relax...you'll cum so much easier...

 

[Endless_Night]

#77. Do you prefer someone who is shy and sexy or daring and sexy?

Are you kidding? If I'm attracted I'm doing good to string together sentences.

I require a partner who can speak for two.

I prefer daring. Get out there and be aggressive, be confident

Hrm. I value both. I'm a closeted nerd who seems to go for the wallflowers. They're the kinkiest

*takes default off possibility list*

*puts Aussie on*

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I also have to agree with VT.
Guys are so much easier to get off, even with that awful cummy mess.

 

[Endless_Night]

Aaaaaaaaand, I have nothing to add to the masturbation discussion. Buuuuuuut -

*whips out notebook*
*takes notes*

 

[ViciousTease]

Well, now see, there's your problem...try lying down, relax...you'll cum so much easier...

I ... uhh ...

*takes default off possibility list*

*puts Aussie on*

*high fives Aussie*

I've been trying to get on that list FOREVER! Way to go, you!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I ... uhh ...



*high fives Aussie*

I've been trying to get on that list FOREVER! Way to go, you!

Shucks, now I'm blushing.

Let's go test VTs theory

 

[Lunation]

Aaaaaaaaand, I have nothing to add to the masturbation discussion. Buuuuuuut -

*whips out notebook*
*takes notes*

I don't have much advice on female masturbation, unfortunately, lacking the necessary parts and all. And when I do get my fingers in a woman, my mouth is on her clit soon after. Like the taste too much. Clearly that's not advisable to try on yourself, so, no help.

But on the male end, I grab the base and pull up. It doesn't get raw because you're pulling the skin up over the head. No friction. More of a squeezing up and down the length. Focus on the head near the end. Go faster. Aim away from face.

 

[Endless_Night]

*high fives Aussie*

I've been trying to get on that list FOREVER! Way to go, you!

Shucks, now I'm blushing.

Let's go test VTs theory

Errr...Ummm....

This might be more productive if you two show me how it's done.

*flips to new page of notebook*

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Shucks, now I'm blushing.

Let's go test VTs theory

Oh! Data collection and hypothesis testing! YAY!!!!!

 

[ViciousTease]

I don't have much advice on female masturbation, unfortunately, lacking the necessary parts and all. And when I do get my fingers in a woman, my mouth is on her clit soon after. Like the taste too much. Clearly that's not advisable to try on yourself, so, no help.

But on the male end, I grab the base and pull up. It doesn't get raw because you're pulling the skin up over the head. No friction. More of a squeezing up and down the length. Focus on the head near the end. Go faster. Aim away from face.

I'm sorry, I wasn't paying attention. Can you go over that again? In greater detail? And speak very slowly ...

Errr...Ummm....

This might be more productive if you two show me how it's done.

*flips to new page of notebook*

*whispers* Can you take shorthand? I don't want to miss a word of this!

 

[Endless_Night]

I don't have much advice on female masturbation, unfortunately, lacking the necessary parts and all. And when I do get my fingers in a woman, my mouth is on her clit soon after. Like the taste too much. Clearly that's not advisable to try on yourself, so, no help.

But on the male end, I grab the base and pull up. It doesn't get raw because you're pulling the skin up over the head. No friction. More of a squeezing up and down the length. Focus on the head near the end. Go faster. Aim away from face.

I'm sorry...what?

For some reason I can't seem to make it past the first sentence.

 

[Trekka]

I can't fathom going any length of time without getting off. If both arms were broken and I lived with my mom I'd wind up humping the washing machine.

...And take the notion of "sexually daring" and multiply it by 10, to the power of infinity.

 

[pvt_addiction]

I can't fathom going any length of time without getting off. If both arms were broken and I lived with my mom I'd wind up humping the washing machine.

...And take the notion of "sexually daring" and multiply it by 10, to the power of infinity.

I like where your head's at

 

[Lunation]

I'm sorry, I wasn't paying attention. Can you go over that again? In greater detail? And speak very slowly ...



*whispers* Can you take shorthand? I don't want to miss a word of this!

I'll give an extended version to our note taker. She is free to share with the class if she likes.

I'm sorry...what?

For some reason I can't seem to make it past the first sentence.

I can see we'll need to go over this.

Repeatedly.

 

[Trekka]

I like where your head's at

Deep down in the darkest of gutters?

I'll give an extended version to our note taker. She is free to share with the class if she likes.

I can see we'll need to go over this.

Repeatedly.

Zzzz.

Where can I sign up for the 2000 level course?

 

[pvt_addiction]

Deep down in the darkest of gutters?

Can I come with you?

 

[Lunation]

Deep down in the darkest of gutters?



Zzzz.

Where can I sign up for the 2000 level course?

That's held under the bleachers.

 

[Trekka]

Can I come with you?

Like you're not already there!