Litiquette

[ChainedUp]

I'm confused--why is Skyping "faked" and typing not?

Ya got the OP in the run

Skyping because of the voice aspect, seems to be more of a fake. Where as typing, I think, the expectation isn't as strong. But should it be. Should a person ever be "allowed" to utter the words "I'm cumming" when no orgasm is occurring

 

[Edensgarden]

Ya got the OP in the run

Skyping because of the voice aspect, seems to be more of a fake. Where as typing, I think, the expectation isn't as strong. But should it be. Should a person ever be "allowed" to utter the words "I'm cumming" when no orgasm is occurring

Doesn't that happen in bed all the time IRL, myself excluded. Why would cyber be any different?

 

[ChainedUp]

Doesn't that happen in bed all the time IRL, myself excluded. Why would cyber be any different?

Myself excluded as well, bring a tarp.....

That was I guess my question, does faking happen more on Lit than in real life. You guys will beat a good topic out of me yet

 

[Ellafun]

Myself excluded as well, bring a tarp.....

That was I guess my question, does faking happen more on Lit than in real life. You guys will beat a good topic out of me yet

Yes.




wait, who said that? *runs away

 

[sereneone4u]

I don't think so.

Just because a relationship is in the physical world vs. the internet does not make it real.

I have seen friends that I know in my everyday life have relationships that were all a lie, fake.
Left them really bewildered.

 

[parker77]

Yes.




wait, who said that? *runs away

so nice to witness such a moment of trust in Litiquette.

 

[Ellafun]

so nice to witness such a moment of trust in Litiquette.

Well, I've heard things.

 

[ydahecnot]

Ya got the OP in the run

Skyping because of the voice aspect, seems to be more of a fake. Where as typing, I think, the expectation isn't as strong. But should it be. Should a person ever be "allowed" to utter the words "I'm cumming" when no orgasm is occurring

Yeah. Sometimes your partner can act fully upon a chat but you can't. You want to make it as good a read as possible for her, and you can always reread later for your full enjoyment

 

[parker77]

Doesn't that happen in bed all the time IRL, myself excluded. Why would cyber be any different?

i need an education, how does a man fake it IRL?

 

[parker77]

Well, I've heard things.

that's better.

 

[NotHisLady]

Myself excluded as well, bring a tarp.....

That was I guess my question, does faking happen more on Lit than in real life. You guys will beat a good topic out of me yet

I'd say it's more likely with IM than with Skype (faking I mean) since the temptation is there to simply write the fantasy as it should be.
Real life faking is lying IMO.
I'm not sure I would say the same about IM or typed exchanges. Does either party really think the other is doing/wearing exactly what they say they are? It's a fantasy even if 2 people are creating it together so if the culmination of that fantasy is something that isn't there in the flesh? So much of it wasn't to begin with that I doubt it matters so long as everyone is happy with the outcome.

Skyping is more along the lines of sharing the act of self pleasure so it's someplace in between.

Ultimately it's about each getting from the other what they sought out. Otherwise it won't keep happening at all, will it?

 

[Edensgarden]

i need an education, how does a man fake it IRL?

I was referring to the female population Harry.

 

[NotHisLady]

I was referring to the female population Harry.

Not surprisingly--the men are as apt to lie as the ladies are!

Check out the How To

 

[parker77]

I was referring to the female population Harry.

thanks for the clarification, Sally.

 

[parker77]

Not surprisingly--the men are as apt to lie as the ladies are!

Check out the How To

hfs! never thought about that approach. men, such fucking liars!

 

[ChainedUp]

hfs! never thought about that approach. men, such fucking liars!

So, every man that buys a condom is a potential faker. Ladies, be warned!

 

[wombat9966]

i need an education, how does a man fake it IRL?

It may sound gross but have you never heard of the old trick of Doggy style and warmed up yoghurt. I have heard of it being done.

Besides Do you really think all those money shots in Porn films are real? Some are a mixture of Egg whites and other things but I guess that's not real life either is it.

 

[ChainedUp]

It may sound gross but have you never heard of the old trick of Doggy style and warmed up yoghurt. I have heard of it being done.

Besides Do you really think all those money shots in Porn films are real? Some are a mixture of Egg whites and other things but I guess that's not real life either is it.

WHAT?????? Next you'll tell me Santa Claus doesn't exist

 

[sereneone4u]

WHAT?????? Next you'll tell me Santa Claus doesn't exist

Santa Claus does not exist?

But who has been eating up the milk and cookies left for Santa?

 

[wombat9966]

Santa Claus does not exist?

But who has been eating up the milk and cookies left for Santa?

SHHHHHH You will give away my new job

 

[may_I_please]

It may sound gross but have you never heard of the old trick of Doggy style and warmed up yoghurt.

Am I the only one who's thinking aha that's how they found out how to cure thrush

*backs away*

 

[sereneone4u]

SHHHHHH You will give away my new job

*looks at your AV*

You don't look like Santa.

And what about that man in the red suit who's lap I have been sitting in every Christmas?

 

[Ellafun]

Here's a question for Litiquette rules: Is is wrong to publicly humiliate a Litster for bumping a dead thread?

Dammit, I HATE it when people do that!

 

[Edensgarden]

Here's a question for Litiquette rules: Is is wrong to publicly humiliate a Litster for bumping a dead thread?

Dammit, I HATE it when people do that!

I don't know...I saw one bumped the other day from 2005. 2005 was the last post. 2005!!!

I resisted the urge to say anything and went on my merry way.

 

[sereneone4u]

I don't know...I saw one bumped the other day from 2005. 2005 was the last post. 2005!!!

I resisted the urge to say anything and went on my merry way.

That is my response, "go about my merry way"