little turn-offs

[Dark1ord6669]

Wouldn't a little turn off be somthing that makes you go...

"Wait a second, meh it's not *that* big of a deal!"

In that context I think the only thing I've been put off but able to work past is a woman starting her period on me.

Stopped the mood for about 2 seconds before she started grinding on me, and I forgot all about it.

Well maybe I'm just reading the question wrong :X

 

[AlecBond]

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[callinectes]

people who "put on airs", as my grandmother used to say

talking on the cell phone while in the store, restaurant, etc. No one is so important or so busy that they have to carry on stupid mundane conversations that the rest of us are forced to hear. Even in the restroom isn't safe, a few days ago I was subjected to a woman talking away while she on the toilet!!

chronic bad breath. I understand lunch at the Thai restaurant makes one's breath less than fresh... but there is no reason to knock down cattle from 30 feet away every day.

 

[DVS]

people who "put on airs", as my grandmother used to say

talking on the cell phone while in the store, restaurant, etc. No one is so important or so busy that they have to carry on stupid mundane conversations that the rest of us are forced to hear. Even in the restroom isn't safe, a few days ago I was subjected to a woman talking away while she on the toilet!! ....

Hey, they're everywhere. I was in the restroom at work, a few weeks back (lucky for me, I was already washing my hands), when I heard rap music coming from stall #3. Damn ring tones they have, these days...

Anyway, this guy answers the phone..."Hey, baby". He must have had caller I.D., I guess, or he calls everybody baby. Then, he didn't just carry on a conversation with her while sitting there doing his business, but he had her on speaker phone, so I could hear the WHOLE conversation! Where did he think he was? And, where did she think HE was?

 

[O'Mac]

Because turn-off from a sub would be...

Okay, so I was talking to a lifestyle friend the other day and mentioning how great things were going with my girl. And as we talk, she keeps dropping all this tidbits of irrelevent information about all her exploits and most importantly, what sort of things she usually does as a sub. So basicaly in my mind all it is from her is how much more submissive she is and how nobody could ever beat the level of subbyness she naturally emits and how no matter how much I am enjoying my current relationship, it pales in comparison to anything the two of us could have. *yawn*

So yeah, THAT to me is a turn-off. This whole pissing contest people get into for being a greater Dom or a lesser sub or whatever.

 

[JMohegan]

Wouldn't a little turn off be somthing that makes you go...

"Wait a second, meh it's not *that* big of a deal!"

That's what I would assume, too.

So, for me, this would be something like discovering that a woman has eradicated her triangle of soft curls in favor of the prepubescent look.

A turnoff, but not that big of a deal because it's really just a superficial issue, and also easy to fix.

 

[FurryFury]

Yep, yep, that's why I said belly button lint because I just scoop it out and fuck em anyway, so it's a small turn off.


Do they make cuntoupees?

LMFAO.

Fury

 

[SpectreT]

Yep, yep, that's why I said belly button lint because I just scoop it out and fuck em anyway, so it's a small turn off.


Do they make cuntoupees?

LMFAO.

Fury

... gives a whole new angle on "Locks of Love".

... and insert random joke about "rug munching".

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Do they make cuntoupees?

Indeed they do please permit me to introduce you to the 'merkin'

The History of The Merkin

A pubic wig or merkin as it was earlier known made its debut in 1450. It was used as a device to cover syphilitic pustules and gonorrheal warts in the genital area. In its contemporary form, the merkin is used as a part of erotic play, and it has also crossed over the boundaries of intimate wear into some mainstream genres of dress. The chosen material the wig is made of, usually either: nylon, yak belly or human hair, is woven onto a transparent mesh. This is then applied to the pre-shaved pubic area with spirit gum; alternatively the wig can be attached to a transparent G-string.

The wearing of a pubic wig is a sensory experience. The wig can allow the wearer a certain "jouissance" as it is made of a fibre/hair that has been selected by the wearer, and it is worn on an erogenous zone. A fetish for the feel of either: silk, leather, fur or hair against the skin, or that of others is common, and can be incorporated into the design of a pubic wig to give heightened pleasure.

Bondage crossed over from erotic use into couture when it first glided down a Gianni Versace catwalk in 1992; and Vivian Westwood flirted with the pubic area, using tailored fig leaves to cover modesty under transparent fabrics. There has always been a risqué element to fashion throughout the ages, whether it was bearing ankles, knees, thighs or breasts. The 'club scene' has taken fashion one step further. It has formulated its own look as pubic wigs are being worn under short 'baby doll' dresses in mainstream nightclubs, as well as being worn in private and fetish parties.

The pubic wig is a strong device for both the exhibitionist and the voyeur. Ideally the relationship between the two is best suited as a 'performer' and 'audience' scenario. The exhibitionist is allowed freedom of movement and a confidence in the unusual and in doing so creates entertainment for the voyeur. In a professional and aesthetic capacity the wigs are frequently used by show girls.

The pubic wig has also become an essential piece of the serious drag queens wardrobe, as it covers the genitalia that are otherwise the epitome of maleness. It is the finishing feminine touch and it is intrinsic to the pleasure of drag, as 'a little female finery creates the sexual identity in the 'role play' of the subject.

Pubic wigs or 'body furniture can be custom made and designed to suit the wearer and their moods by tonsorial expert Rick Stonell. Two examples of his work are 'Heart' and Target'. The first is a pale pink heart shaped piece that is made from yak belly hair; the image it projects is one of virginal youth and subtleness. The colour and hair are soft and the shape is traditionally linked with love and romance. The overall look is of innocence, though ironically it is reminiscent of Eve's fig leaf! Alternatively he has created a piece that uses the shape of a target; this is made from red, white and blue nylon. The strong design, colours and fibre used in this wig, carry a bold and sexual statement of availability. The wig has a fantasy element gives the impression that it was designed with a superhero or heroine in mind. The range of pubic wigs in Rick Stonell's collection covers ever aspect of sexuality and personality from 'whore' to 'Madonna'.

The merkin of the past were made to cover the "filthy running sores of syphilis. A disease which “eroded the palate... In some cases the lips, nose or eyes were eaten away, or on others the whole of the sexual organs”.

Merkin were frequently connected with prostitutes. The women often worked while infected, because many of them were single mothers with no other form of income. Despite the horror of infection and the merkin's connections with it, amusing anecdotes have appear in literature such as A. Smith's: “This put a strange whim in his head - which was to get the hairy circle of her merkin... this he dried well and combed out, and then returned to the Cardinal, telling him he had brought St. Peter's beard”.

Fortunately, the merkin is no longer needed for its original function. The idea of the merkin has been displaced in time to be re-born into a different era as the pubic wig. It is now used as an accessory to alter the appearance of the pubic hair, which is usually, when left to its own devices, unruly, coarse and shapeless. Body decoration is a primal and innate part of the human psyche, which ever way it chooses to express itself.

Wiki ~ Merkin

 

[angel_girl]

Wouldn't a little turn off be somthing that makes you go...

"Wait a second, meh it's not *that* big of a deal!"

In that context I think the only thing I've been put off but able to work past is a woman starting her period on me.

Stopped the mood for about 2 seconds before she started grinding on me, and I forgot all about it.

Well maybe I'm just reading the question wrong :X

Oh my gosh! This happened to me once and I was MORTIFIED! I was the one that couldn't get past it...I'm all about clean, clean, clean and being prepared. So does that make it something about me that turns me off? I'm afraid to examine this too closely...

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Oh my gosh! This happened to me once and I was MORTIFIED! I was the one that couldn't get past it...I'm all about clean, clean, clean and being prepared. So does that make it something about me that turns me off? I'm afraid to examine this too closely...

Ahem

Not answering your question just directing you to a thread thats topical

 

[angel_girl]

Ahem

Not answering your question just directing you to a thread thats topical

yeah...I was fascinated by that thread. I'm actually okay with sex during my time of the month...I just need to be prepared for it. The whole surprise showing was a little too much for me. Well that and his "Holy Shit!" exclamation.

 

[NemoAlia]

pride in ignorance has to be my biggest turnoff of the last 6 months, and it seem to be spreading like contagion

Oh! Yes! Yes, exactly!

A recent example of this that drives me batty:

People who think politics is so complicated and impossible that they abstain from opportunities to become informed or to speak out.

 

[O'Mac]

Oh! Yes! Yes, exactly!

A recent example of this that drives me batty:

People who think politics is so complicated and impossible that they abstain from opportunities to become informed or to speak out.

Ignorance and stupidity are my biggest turn-offs. I'm not saying I need to be with someone who could hold her own in a social-political-economical debate with Kissinger himself, but I do demand the person I'm with have some reasonable sense about the world we're living in.

 

[saw_man1]

I guess i'm just a slut because............

these are the only ones that I could think of.

http://i100.photobucket.com/albums/m2/saw_man1/littleturnoff.jpg

http://i100.photobucket.com/albums/m2/saw_man1/TURNOFF.jpg

 

[neonflux]

snowyciara, I have to second every single one

and then add a lack of manners and a lack of consideration for others...

Ego. Confidence is good, but ego is a turn off.

Gender based or biased Dominants. I.E. I am Male, so I am Dom and you are nothing. Or All Hail the Female, especially if you have a penis. I just don't understand how having a penis (Manly Staff of Dominance) or a vagina (Great Replicating Fount of Dominance) makes one part of the species better than any other part.

Bad hygeine. Especially if it's just one thing. The other day I saw a HOT guy. Nice bod, long, neatly groomed hair, nice goatee, lovely wonderful hands. Not super formally dressed, but clean clothes. When I worked the room and got closer to him, he had black crud under his fingernails and along the cuticles of his hands. It was kinda weird. The rest of him was all put together.

There's more, but I expect enough rotten tomatoes as it is already.

 

[chris9]

Ignorance and insecurity and all that to me is rather a big turn-off.
Still big and I don't think possible to overcome for dating is the smell of cold cigarette. I don't mind guys smoking so very much (I don't like it, but as an activity it's rather neutral in regards to turn-offs or -ons). But especially if one sits next to me in the library (or comes over to talk to me, standing close in a room) and has this yucky smell of a smoker, he is instantly eliminated from the list of guys to look at with something like interest.

 

[FurryFury]

I went out with a guy once. To be honest, which I was, I was using him but anyway, he was constantaly verbally putting himself down. I might have grown to like him. He was smart which is always a turn on for me. He had a LOT of money which is usually NOT a turn on for me and a fancy car, also not big on my list but that putting himself down constantly thing? BIG not little turn off. So I had to the do the weaning thing. I wasn't as good at it then. Poor dude.

Fury

 

[WriterDom]

I'd have to go with smoking. I'm so glad Georgia banned it in restaurants.

 

[DeservingBitch]

The "touch of a woman" line.

Blissful ignorance and bigotry.

Clichés.

 

[bandelero]

overpowering perfumes

SBD farts ....(when they laugh like hell as you suddenly want to puke when the smell hits you)

guys who are certain they are "Dommier" than me and set out to prove it

all minor irritants

 

[EmpressFi]

rudeness to others

bad table manners, eating with their mouths open, slurping, etc..

Elitists

Using sarcasm to berate and/or humiliate others especially when the statement is followed by, "What? I was only kidding..." or "That's just how I am." If that's just how you are.. I dont have room for you in my life..

 

[Netzach]

Stingy tippers and non-starbucks tippers. No second dates there.

 

[myinnerslut]

assumptions that they are right. always. no matter what the topic.

 

[Homburg]

Lack of opinion. Lack of conviction is a big turn-off, though.

Sure, a person might not have an opinion on a given subject, but some people seem to never have an opinion on anything serious at all.