Long Distance Relationships

Welcome to the thread, Artful, Artful's wish and Alikel:rose:

Nice to see a couple joining the thread together. Maxxx's post was indeed enlightening, and covers several of the joys and sorrows of being involved with someone long distance.

So sorry, Alikel, about your experience. You will find comfort here as many times we each feel the "downs" of being separated from our loved one.

I, myself, continue to take each day one at a time, and it does get frustrating when there is a break in communication for whatever reason. Sometimes every day stresses and scheduling just doesn't allow for the intimacy needed to sustain an LDR in a comfortable manner. Communication is terribly important; both through the good and the bad times.

Unfortunately some people continue to "hide" themselves after they begin to get involved this way. I have witnessed several breakups when one of the partners just decides to "quit". They decide they would rather just drop out instead of dealing honestly with the situation. I don't think they truly realize how hurtful this is.

Heard about those heavy storms, T.C. Good luck through them! (Love those Top Cat pics too!)

NYC is in it's second day of record-breaking heat (mid 90s F expected today!). We might get some thundershowers tonight which, hopefully, bring the temps back to order for us!:rose:

HI LTR!!:rose: You and Tiger are well, I suppose!! Has the adjustment been difficult for you?
 
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JennyOmanHill said:
Welcome to the thread, Artful, Artful's wish and Alikel:rose:

Nice to see a couple joining the thread together. Maxxx's post was indeed enlightening, and covers several of the joys and sorrows of being involved with someone long distance.

So sorry, Alikel, about your experience. You will find comfort here as many times we each feel the "downs" of being separated from our loved one.

I, myself, continue to take each day one at a time, and it does get frustrating when there is a break in communication for whatever reason. Sometimes every day stresses and scheduling just doesn't allow for the intimacy needed to sustain an LDR in a comfortable manner. Communication is terribly important; both through the good and the bad times.

Unfortunately some people continue to "hide" themselves after they begin to get involved this way. I have witnessed several breakups when one of the partners just decides to "quit". They decide they would rather just drop out instead of dealing honestly with the situation. I don't think they truly realize how hurtful this is.

Heard about those heavy storms, T.C. Good luck through them! (Love those Top Cat pics too!)

NYC is in it's second day of record-breaking heat (mid 90s F expected today!). We might get some thundershowers tonight which, hopefully, bring the temps back to order for us!:rose:

HI LTR!!:rose: You and Tiger are well, I suppose!! Has the adjustment been difficult for you?

wish and I thank you for the timely welcome,... we will try to stop by often,...this is a GREAT thread!:rose:
 
JennyOmanHill said:

HI LTR!!:rose: You and Tiger are well, I suppose!! Has the adjustment been difficult for you?

Oh gawd yes.

Its totally different moving in with someone that you know,but you dont know. Ya know? ;)

We are having to adjust to one another.
 
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lovetoread said:
Just popping on to say hi. ;)

When you have a week or two LTR, we wanna hear YOUR success story in detail,...from beginning through current,...:kiss:
 
Welcome to the thread Artful and Artful's wish I am so happy you both decided to join us here. I wish you all the luck in the world. Artful's wish I also want to wish you luck on your new journey. Finding a caring and skillful master is very difficult and it seems like you have done just that. Huggggggggggssssss to you both and :heart: :kiss: :kiss:
 
Thank You

hatara said:
Welcome to the thread Artful and Artful's wish I am so happy you both decided to join us here. I wish you all the luck in the world. Artful's wish I also want to wish you luck on your new journey. Finding a caring and skillful master is very difficult and it seems like you have done just that. Huggggggggggssssss to you both and :heart: :kiss: :kiss:

It is so encouraging, to get well wishes from people, who happen to only have a glimpse into our lives.

Thanks again you sensual Vixen!:rose:
 
OK Jenny now I get to laugh. It is hotter in NYC than it is in Florida. We only hit 86 yesterday and we had a lovely breeze all day long.:cool: :kiss: :kiss:
 
Only 15 days now!

Now it is only 15 days until my special love and I meet. Here is another poem I wrote for her.

Just Can't Wait

So many seconds
So many hours
So many days
Just can’t wait
Till that moment in time
That instant
When two lives
Intersect
Their origins
Vastly different
Who could have imagined
Who could have planned?
Each life has its rhythm
Its ebb and flow
The pace sometimes fast
Other times painfully slow
Just can’t wait
Till that moment in time
Is finally here
Anticipation and expectation
Yield to realization
That this moment in time
Was just meant to be
A twist of fate
Certainly worth the wait.


:heart: :heart: :heart:

:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:

Toys
 
I was in a long distance relationship for over two years. Calif-Hawaii. Not even drivable.

Lots of hot, hot, email, some phone sex and one meeting in person. I wish I knew how we could have made it work. Just too many obstacles
 
There was nothing that would have kept Tiger and I apart.

If it is meant to be,it will work out. You have to be sure that the person you are having the ldr with is the right one. I cant stress that enough.
 
Welcome, Pattipoo, and thanks for posting!:rose:

I don't think any of us really know all the why's and if's of a relationship, but that's the same whether it's an LDR or not.

As I get deeper into my relationship with Oman, there are still so many uncertainties, and a lot of effort is involved in working things out. I'm sure if I were younger (I'm 49 now), I would not have been equipped to handle the trust and lonliness I have struggled through already. However, all that we've been through has been worth every second so far! Maybe some of us do get smarter as we grow older!;)

Way to go, Toys!! That's such a beautiful poem too; thanks for sharing it with us. 15 days... just a little over 2 weeks!! That's wonderful!:)

Hat... what can I say!! It's only a bit past noon, and it's already 91 degrees and is expected to reach at least 95!! No breezes in NYC either (just came back from the store!). This wave should break by tomorrow!! Surely hope so!:rose:
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Well Jenny at least your temps will go down. Ours go down into the 60's at night which is nice but it will only get hotter now. Our summer has more than begun.:cool: :kiss: :kiss:
 
JENNY,REMEMBER THIS??

Precious and few are the moments we too can share.
Quiet and blue, like the sky, I'm hung over you.
And if I can't find my way back home, it just wouldn't be fair
Cause precious and few are the moments we two can share.

Baby, it's you on my mind, our love is so rare.
Being with you is a feeling I just can't compare,
And if I can't hold you in my arms, it just wouldn't be fair
Cause precious and few are the moments we two can share.
 
Re: JENNY,REMEMBER THIS??

omahaman2 said:
Precious and few are the moments we too can share.
Quiet and blue, like the sky, I'm hung over you.
And if I can't find my way back home, it just wouldn't be fair
Cause precious and few are the moments we two can share.

Baby, it's you on my mind, our love is so rare.
Being with you is a feeling I just can't compare,
And if I can't hold you in my arms, it just wouldn't be fair
Cause precious and few are the moments we two can share.

Yes, Darling, I do! Words seem as if they're from our hearts as we indeed cherish every minute we can be "connected".:heart:

http://www.visitredondo.com/images_uploads/postcards/couple.jpg
:kiss:
 
SOMAE ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTION

Love You
You're kissable and cuddly;

You're lovable and sweet;

You thrill me every minute,

And sweep me off my feet.


You're charming and disarming,

Desirable and true.

You inspire and impress me,

And that's why I love you!
 
Dearest Daeth (Gah still want to type your name here),

You'll be home in an hour and then I'll get to spend some time with you. I miss you so very much. August seems like a lifetime away and yet we have already "known" each other for what seems a life time. You are my best friend and keeper of my heart. I love you.
 
Jenny we're in the midst of a second winter, Snow in the mountains, rain, 40 degrees this morning. :D

Hat I know what you mean too.

TC Hope everything works out alright for you.

Welcome Artful and Wish :)

LTR I so envy you.
 
Lady_Sam said:
Jenny we're in the midst of a second winter, Snow in the mountains, rain, 40 degrees this morning. :D

Hat I know what you mean too.

TC Hope everything works out alright for you.

Welcome Artful and Wish :)

LTR I so envy you.

Hi Lady Sam:rose: Hoping you and Daeth had great moments together.:)

NYC is "cooling off"; only high 80s expected here!!:rolleyes:

Getting out tonight to see a play (freebie!!). That will help a bit since Oman will likely be "on the road again"! Gosh, I don't like Thursdays! :rose:
 
Thanks Lady

Lady_Sam said:
Jenny we're in the midst of a second winter, Snow in the mountains, rain, 40 degrees this morning. :D

Hat I know what you mean too.

TC Hope everything works out alright for you.

Welcome Artful and Wish :)

LTR I so envy you.

Good Morning Jenny!:rose:
 
Like right,I win 110 million dollars and not tell ya'll?

Heh,if I knew how to get some tickets I could have won. :eek:

Remember,I come from a state that only started scratch off tickets.
 
lovetoread said:
Like right,I win 110 million dollars and not tell ya'll?

Heh,if I knew how to get some tickets I could have won. :eek:

Remember,I come from a state that only started scratch off tickets.

Good morning, Artful and LTR!:rose:

I know if you DID win that lottery, we'd ALL share some of the rewards, right???:D

I announce here and now that if I ever win a BIG ONE, I'll pay for ALL separated LDRs to get together! How's that??;)

http://www.takethat.co.uk/acatalog/0940685469.GIF
:rose:
 
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