Married and having fun....

[SecretLove69]

Well that sure is a pretty mouth you have, and I bet you are eager to use it?

Of course I am always eager to use my oral skills. I didn't take all those public speaking classes in college for nothing. BUT, I bet you just might have been referring to something else besides oration.
*kneeling down for a little southern comfort*

 

[coolcan]

Of course I am always eager to use my oral skills. I didn't take all those public speaking classes in college for nothing. BUT, I bet you just might have been referring to something else besides oration.
*kneeling down for a little southern comfort*

Such a good woman, you know what I like. Take all the souther cumfort you can take...

 

[SecretLove69]

Such a good woman, you know what I like. Take all the souther cumfort you can take...

Hmmm it's so good on a hot day like today. I do believe I could just stay here all day and on into the night. Slowly draining the glass and going back for more.

 

[coolcan]

Hmmm it's so good on a hot day like today. I do believe I could just stay here all day and on into the night. Slowly draining the glass and going back for more.

You know I'm not the kind of guy to rush a lady....

Savor the moment

 

[SecretLove69]

You know I'm not the kind of guy to rush a lady....

Savor the moment

Oh I plan to honey - when I am given an opportunity such as this I make the most of it. Leisurely taking pleasure in giving pleasure.

 

[coolcan]

Oh I plan to honey - when I am given an opportunity such as this I make the most of it. Leisurely taking pleasure in giving pleasure.

And good pleasure can only be rapayed by the return of good pleasure, and my oral skills are top notch, I guarantee.

 

[SecretLove69]

And good pleasure can only be rapayed by the return of good pleasure, and my oral skills are top notch, I guarantee.

And drat the luck that you and I are separated by so many miles that you can not prove your guarantee. I'll just have to take you at your word and continue fantasizing about how wonderful it would be to pay and repay our pleasures.

 

[StormMaster]

I'm still surprised more of us aren't having fun

Howdies again to the thread (tips hat).

SM

 

[coolcan]

I'm still surprised more of us aren't having fun

Howdies again to the thread (tips hat).

SM

I'm with you SM it seems there are so many unsatisfied people out there, and lots of them seem to be the ladies, I'm surprised.

It seems like alot of men are not handling there business with there wives like they should, and vice versa, that is where Lit helps out in my opinion It gives everyone a place to play, and fantasize, and get to know some very interesting people.

 

[SecretLove69]

I'm with you SM it seems there are so many unsatisfied people out there, and lots of them seem to be the ladies, I'm surprised.

It seems like alot of men are not handling there business with there wives like they should, and vice versa, that is where Lit helps out in my opinion It gives everyone a place to play, and fantasize, and get to know some very interesting people.

Morning Cutiecan
Yes, you are correct that there are many frustrated/neglected men and women here.
I had a long talk with my husband last night - nothing was resolved, as usual. It seems he is perfectly content to live as room mates in a sexless marriage. I asked him if he missed the affection, touching - all that and he said "no". I asked him if he cared and he said that he didn't see any problem therefore no need to fix it.
I've tried getting mad, being sweet and crying - I guess he doesn't care.
So, here I am on Lit - looking for what I don't have in my life - some conversation and some validation that I am alive.

 

[Brown_Eyez]

I am just now looking at this thread. Coolcan, I think that if most men think that if they could be a woman, that they would be a whore. My hubby has even said that.

Anyway...it's good to see that I am not the only one that is married, but still likes to come to a place such as this.

 

[SecretLove69]

I am just now looking at this thread. Coolcan, I think that if most men think that if they could be a woman, that they would be a whore. My hubby has even said that.

Anyway...it's good to see that I am not the only one that is married, but still likes to come to a place such as this.

Hi Brown Eyez.......I've heard this statement about men being whores thing before. It still bugs me that a man thinks he can go out and fuck everything in sight and be thought of as a real stud but as soon as a women goes about satisfying her needs in a multitude of ways she automatically tagged a whore. Guess it's a problem that's existed and probably won't go away.

SO - welcome. Make yourself at home.

 

[Brown_Eyez]

Hi Brown Eyez.......I've heard this statement about men being whores thing before. It still bugs me that a man thinks he can go out and fuck everything in sight and be thought of as a real stud but as soon as a women goes about satisfying her needs in a multitude of ways she automatically tagged a whore. Guess it's a problem that's existed and probably won't go away.

SO - welcome. Make yourself at home.

Hi SecretLove. I totally agree with you on that.

Bill Clinton was cheered on because he got blow jobs while in the Oval Office. And then Magic Johnson had sex with so many women that he ended up contracting AIDS and he became some sort of national hero. But if a woman does that, she is a whore?!

Sexism at it's finest...

Thanks for the welcome!

 

[Dirty_Angel26]

I am just finding this thread...I am happily married and very satisfied but I still love coming here. Been coming here long before hubby came into the picture. Good thing is he knows and supports it

 

[Ed2k68]

I too am happily married -- almost 15 years -- but come here to um "safely expand" my sexual horizons. I love Lit for that!

 

[coolcan]

Morning Cutiecan
Yes, you are correct that there are many frustrated/neglected men and women here.
I had a long talk with my husband last night - nothing was resolved, as usual. It seems he is perfectly content to live as room mates in a sexless marriage. I asked him if he missed the affection, touching - all that and he said "no". I asked him if he cared and he said that he didn't see any problem therefore no need to fix it.
I've tried getting mad, being sweet and crying - I guess he doesn't care.
So, here I am on Lit - looking for what I don't have in my life - some conversation and some validation that I am alive.

I am sorry he seems not to care, his testosterone levels must not be right. I have this discussion from time to time with the wife, but it's because she is so busy so I just try to be understanding. Our sex is always outstanding, I am just greedy and I have a very high drive...

It's a damn good thing I am far away from these neglected ladies on here, because we could definitely help each other out, and I would be tempted.
The thought of a married woman in her 30's or 40's not getting the attention she needs is a big fantasy of mine. The pent up frustration, and energy that is bottled up waiting to explode, all that energy and desire. At least that is what I imagine.

 

[SecretLove69]

I am sorry he seems not to care, his testosterone levels must not be right. I have this discussion from time to time with the wife, but it's because she is so busy so I just try to be understanding. Our sex is always outstanding, I am just greedy and I have a very high drive...

It's a damn good thing I am far away from these neglected ladies on here, because we could definitely help each other out, and I would be tempted.
The thought of a married woman in her 30's or 40's not getting the attention she needs is a big fantasy of mine. The pent up frustration, and energy that is bottled up waiting to explode, all that energy and desire. At least that is what I imagine.

Thanks hon.
Your imagination isn't wrong - I feel like I'm sitting on a powder keg most days - just wanting so badly to give and receive pleasure. It truly drives me to distraction.

Yes, it is good that you are not within my grasp cuz I'd be all over you like moss on a log.

Like the AV too BTW - your smile makes me happy.

 

[Azuldrgon]

Glad to see I'm not the only one frustrated sometimes.

 

[coolcan]

I am just now looking at this thread. Coolcan, I think that if most men think that if they could be a woman, that they would be a whore. My hubby has even said that.

Anyway...it's good to see that I am not the only one that is married, but still likes to come to a place such as this.

I have also made that silly statement "If I were a woman I would be a slut".
It's easier for you ladies to get laid, I know if my wife say's let's go I am all over it, literally. And sometimes we have to really work for it. But it sounds like there are lots of ladies more than willing and the men just don't take care of them. I know that feeling.

I agree Lit is a great place to have some fun, and play a little.

 

[coolcan]

Thanks hon.
Your imagination isn't wrong - I feel like I'm sitting on a powder keg most days - just wanting so badly to give and receive pleasure. It truly drives me to distraction.

Yes, it is good that you are not within my grasp cuz I'd be all over you like moss on a log.

Like the AV too BTW - your smile makes me happy.

I would love to light that powder keg off, giving and recieving and just making someone feel good like they should.

Not sure where you are at, but hopefully it is far.....

Thanks, I used that pic of me before, but got a little nervous, but I'll leave it for a while. Wish you could see the real smile up close, because I could make you happy.

 

[SecretLove69]

I am just finding this thread...I am happily married and very satisfied but I still love coming here. Been coming here long before hubby came into the picture. Good thing is he knows and supports it

I too am happily married -- almost 15 years -- but come here to um "safely expand" my sexual horizons. I love Lit for that!

It is good to know and yet somehow creates a deep sense of envy in me that there are people out there that are still finding joy and satisfaction in their marriages. I held out hope for a long time and really really REALLY tried to stay true to my marriage. I commend you and those like you for making a happy relationship.

 

[SecretLove69]

Glad to see I'm not the only one frustrated sometimes.

Ahhh and there you are..........frustrated SOMETIMES!!!! Not all the time just sometimes - that would be a refreshing change.

 

[Scuba_Steve69]

It is good to know and yet somehow creates a deep sense of envy in me that there are people out there that are still finding joy and satisfaction in their marriages. I held out hope for a long time and really really REALLY tried to stay true to my marriage. I commend you and those like you for making a happy relationship.

I am married as well.........and I was told before i got married that marrige is the hardest job you will ever have......and it is!!!

I love my wife and I love Lit for expanding my horizons and giving me new ideas to try

 

[SecretLove69]

I would love to light that powder keg off, giving and recieving and just making someone feel good like they should.

Not sure where you are at, but hopefully it is far.....

Thanks, I used that pic of me before, but got a little nervous, but I'll leave it for a while. Wish you could see the real smile up close, because I could make you happy.

You are safe hon. I'm on one border North and you on the other South - so you have nothing to fear from me.

Wishing I could see your smile up close too - but wishes being what they are - I'll just keep watching for falling stars.

 

[SecretLove69]

I am married as well.........and I was told before i got married that marrige is the hardest job you will ever have......and it is!!!

I love my wife and I love Lit for expanding my horizons and giving me new ideas to try

Steve - every time I read your Lit name I smile remembering that movie - "Big Daddy". I loved the Scuba Steve character.

And yes, you are very correct. Marriage - well a successful marriage - is a very hard job and it is absolutely necessary that both parties work together to keep it strong.
Congratulations to you and your wife - again, Envy rears it's ugly head.