New Adventure, New Thread (M)

[JustAnotherFlower]

The title of today's post is a song that I first heard in a movie, sung by the crew of an underwater mining operation who get caught up in a crazy adventure.

Even as a high school kid who had only worked menial jobs, the lyrics and the resignation of the song and it's persona spoke to me about dedication and how honest people do what they need to get the job done (they don't sing the second verse about smuggling in the the film). Plus, I had also wanted to be a truck driver when I was a little boy. It was a big thing in the 1970s.

I haven't visited the places mentioned in the song but I've worked long days and performed jobs that people only seem to notice if you don't do them. It is often my theme song.

I post in the playground some times, and right now that song would sum up how I'm feeling right now in one word as well as be my song of the day.

Today will be a long day working in the sun while others play. It is one in a long string of long grueling days, and it won't be the last.

But I'm still Willin'

https://youtu.be/Il9VFC6-Inw

I grew up hearing my Mom sing this song as she worked around the house and it slowly became a bedtime song. As I grew older and began to work, it became my theme song on rough days. (Good days were reserved for "9 to 5.")

 

[Cthulhu1138]

Poise


Tali, glad that I could bring a smile to your face with an old tune.

Justa, glad to know that I'm not the only one with a theme song from time to time.

Two of my busiest weeks are over, but we are still short handed and even more kids are leaving or asking for weekend time off so they can go have their magical summer experience.

It is hard for me to approve such time because I rarely ever got it myself. I was always dumb enough to get a summer (fall, winter, and spring) job that involved working when everyone else was playing.

But I cannot begrudge a kid for wanting to live his or her own adventure.

I had yesterday off, but I'm still sore and tired and there remain chores to do.

I was cranky at work, perhaps more than I had a right to be. The boss isn't supposed to be like that.

So I was thinking about how I need to not let my fatigue or fear or anger cloudy actions or be seen by the crew and I remembered a study (since debunked) about how posture can change your mood, how the "Superman Stance' can actually make you confident.

So for all you Invictus fans, here I am, bloodied yet unbowed

 

[JustAnotherFlower]

Tali, glad that I could bring a smile to your face with an old tune.

Justa, glad to know that I'm not the only one with a theme song from time to time.

Two of my busiest weeks are over, but we are still short handed and even more kids are leaving or asking for weekend time off so they can go have their magical summer experience.

It is hard for me to approve such time because I rarely ever got it myself. I was always dumb enough to get a summer (fall, winter, and spring) job that involved working when everyone else was playing.

But I cannot begrudge a kid for wanting to live his or her own adventure.

I had yesterday off, but I'm still sore and tired and there remain chores to do.

I was cranky at work, perhaps more than I had a right to be. The boss isn't supposed to be like that.

So I was thinking about how I need to not let my fatigue or fear or anger cloudy actions or be seen by the crew and I remembered a study (since debunked) about how posture can change your mood, how the "Superman Stance' can actually make you confident.

So for all you Invictus fans, here I am, bloodied yet unbowed

Rock can crack if given enough pressure and time. Just try not to be like Mount St. Helen's.

I had a witty comment about applications to fill in as your Lois Lane, but it got lost somewhere as I gawked at your photo. Shameless and true.

 

[talikat]

Tali, glad that I could bring a smile to your face with an old tune.

Justa, glad to know that I'm not the only one with a theme song from time to time.

Two of my busiest weeks are over, but we are still short handed and even more kids are leaving or asking for weekend time off so they can go have their magical summer experience.

It is hard for me to approve such time because I rarely ever got it myself. I was always dumb enough to get a summer (fall, winter, and spring) job that involved working when everyone else was playing.

But I cannot begrudge a kid for wanting to live his or her own adventure.

I had yesterday off, but I'm still sore and tired and there remain chores to do.

I was cranky at work, perhaps more than I had a right to be. The boss isn't supposed to be like that.

So I was thinking about how I need to not let my fatigue or fear or anger cloudy actions or be seen by the crew and I remembered a study (since debunked) about how posture can change your mood, how the "Superman Stance' can actually make you confident.

So for all you Invictus fans, here I am, bloodied yet unbowed

Even Superman wasn't confident all the time, but he showed up! Great photo!

 

[Cthulhu1138]

Rock can crack if given enough pressure and time. Just try not to be like Mount St. Helen's.

I had a witty comment about applications to fill in as your Lois Lane, but it got lost somewhere as I gawked at your photo. Shameless and true.

I have plenty of eruptions from time to time. It is rare for there to be any bystanders to be awed or injured.

*Reviews application* You are hired my sweet rose

Even Superman wasn't confident all the time, but he showed up! Great photo!

I'm no son of Krypton and woefully unfit compared to any actor who portrays Kal-El, but I am working on getting bigger and stronger.

Thank you

 

[Cthulhu1138]

A friend of mine and I were talking and she suggested an idea for new photos.

Considering that I have asked a woman or two for similar photoshoots, it seemed like a good way to make a friend happy and give the lady what she wants.

Sadly, these photos are not Al fresco, and so not include other equipment in use while so attired, but to accomplish that would take much more accepting neighbors than I think I have. Or maybe no one pays attention at all. Still best to err on the side of caution.

On that note, the reason I even own this piece of clothing is out of caution, or more correctly, protection.
I have sacrificed several shirt and shorts to my folly of not being more mindful around hot oil.

As wise old Ben Franklin would say 'an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.'

Another great man, Jack Kerouac said 'if I don't use the cork I may spill the wine. But if I do?"

As much as I love old road tripping uncle Jack, spilled wine and hot oil are not as much fun as they sound.

Hope that everyone enjoys.

 

[talikat]

A friend of mine and I were talking and she suggested an idea for new photos.

Considering that I have asked a woman or two for similar photoshoots, it seemed like a good way to make a friend happy and give the lady what she wants.

Sadly, these photos are not Al fresco, and so not include other equipment in use while so attired, but to accomplish that would take much more accepting neighbors than I think I have. Or maybe no one pays attention at all. Still best to err on the side of caution.

On that note, the reason I even own this piece of clothing is out of caution, or more correctly, protection.
I have sacrificed several shirt and shorts to my folly of not being more mindful around hot oil.

As wise old Ben Franklin would say 'an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.'

Another great man, Jack Kerouac said 'if I don't use the cork I may spill the wine. But if I do?"

As much as I love old road tripping uncle Jack, spilled wine and hot oil are not as much fun as they sound.

Hope that everyone enjoys.

Oooooooooooo, not only is this functional, it's sexy af to wear just an apron!

 

[Cthulhu1138]

Oooooooooooo, not only is this functional, it's sexy af to wear just an apron!

Glad that you approve sexy girl!

I saw a hot woman my age in a Metallica shirt this weekend. Nealrly asked her if she was a 'Tali kat'

 

[Cthulhu1138]

Do not look back in anger

Many people have aphorisms or witty quotes as part of their signature while I have a blatant ad.

I find comfort in some of the quotes that people have shared, and a common thread is that we should view the past with open, clear eyes, neither clouded by wishful thinking nor muddled by hate and resentment.

I find that I am reaching a point far enough from some recent events that I can finally look back a little more clearly.

This may be a horrible idea to share this photo or these thoughts, but I not the smartest man...

I 'met' someone here and it did not end well.

As time has passed I'm a little less angry, I'm a little less sad, I'm a little more understanding of the fact that maybe she did like me but still wanted to have something real and tangible.
Because every so often when I think about the things she did do for me, I realize that they are not just something you would actually do on a whim and at least some of it took some time and planning and effort


I no longer have that churning feeling in my stomach when I come here t hat I did so often after reading some posts.

So as much as I really am annoyed that the ignore function does not remove people's quoted texts, As much as I don't really ever want to talk to her again because I know that there is still pain and confusion, I hope that she has found peace and happiness on her own.

The gist of this and the photo is that I am moving on, and thankfully I am not angry anymore, and that feel liberating.

 

[talikat]

Many people have aphorisms or witty quotes as part of their signature while I have a blatant ad.

I find comfort in some of the quotes that people have shared, and a common thread is that we should view the past with open, clear eyes, neither clouded by wishful thinking nor muddled by hate and resentment.

I find that I am reaching a point far enough from some recent events that I can finally look back a little more clearly.

This may be a horrible idea to share this photo or these thoughts, but I not the smartest man...

I 'met' someone here and it did not end well.

As time has passed I'm a little less angry, I'm a little less sad, I'm a little more understanding of the fact that maybe she did like me but still wanted to have something real and tangible.
Because every so often when I think about the things she did do for me, I realize that they are not just something you would actually do on a whim and at least some of it took some time and planning and effort


I no longer have that churning feeling in my stomach when I come here t hat I did so often after reading some posts.

So as much as I really am annoyed that the ignore function does not remove people's quoted texts, As much as I don't really ever want to talk to her again because I know that there is still pain and confusion, I hope that she has found peace and happiness on her own.

The gist of this and the photo is that I am moving on, and thankfully I am not angry anymore, and that feel liberating.

Good for you! I'm sorry you had pain, but glad you came out the other side of it........also, nice butt!

 

[Knoturnal]

I grew up hearing my Mom sing this song as she worked around the house and it slowly became a bedtime song. As I grew older and began to work, it became my theme song on rough days. (Good days were reserved for "9 to 5.")

there were a lot pf tunes Little Feat did that I loved but this was definately one of the best

https://youtu.be/IHqWj_Vf5yo

 

[JustAnotherFlower]

Many people have aphorisms or witty quotes as part of their signature while I have a blatant ad.

I find comfort in some of the quotes that people have shared, and a common thread is that we should view the past with open, clear eyes, neither clouded by wishful thinking nor muddled by hate and resentment.

I find that I am reaching a point far enough from some recent events that I can finally look back a little more clearly.

This may be a horrible idea to share this photo or these thoughts, but I not the smartest man...

I 'met' someone here and it did not end well.

As time has passed I'm a little less angry, I'm a little less sad, I'm a little more understanding of the fact that maybe she did like me but still wanted to have something real and tangible.
Because every so often when I think about the things she did do for me, I realize that they are not just something you would actually do on a whim and at least some of it took some time and planning and effort


I no longer have that churning feeling in my stomach when I come here t hat I did so often after reading some posts.

So as much as I really am annoyed that the ignore function does not remove people's quoted texts, As much as I don't really ever want to talk to her again because I know that there is still pain and confusion, I hope that she has found peace and happiness on her own.

The gist of this and the photo is that I am moving on, and thankfully I am not angry anymore, and that feel liberating.

As Tali said, I'm sorry to hear that you were hurt. *hugs* But I'm glad to hear that you're healing and moving forward.

 

[Cthulhu1138]

Thank you very much for your kind words, ladies!

I am getting better. It feels much healthier not to be angry, not to question why what happened happened and forge ahead with new friends and new adventures.

It is reassuring and joyous to find support and empathy here.

As my only two diligent and dedicated commenters, I appreciate every time you look in and share your thoughts on my thread.

Wish that I could give each of you a lasting hug and a big smooch!

 

[talikat]

You are welcome, thanks for sharing!

Everything is easier when you have friends that understand and support you. I hope you know that you have friends here!

 

[Cthulhu1138]

You are welcome, thanks for sharing!

Everything is easier when you have friends that understand and support you. I hope you know that you have friends here!

Thank you very much my sweet, beautiful girl! It is always nice to know that a man has friends.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Thank you very much my sweet, beautiful girl! It is always nice to know that a man has friends.

You would probably have more friends if you didn’t treat people, whom you have led to believe are your friends, with complete dishonesty and utter disrespect.

Edit:
This must be a bit of a dilemma for you. If you respond, you are acknowledging that I exist.

 

[Cthulhu1138]

Dichotomy

Light and dark, good and bad.

We all have different sides to ourselves, different faces we show to the world.

I just really liked the sunlight streaming in the window on a hot summer day, it's warmth on my skin, and the fact that I feel a little stronger every day.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Hah! Didn't miss a beat. Good for you. How very consistent.

 

[JustAnotherFlower]

Light and dark, good and bad.

We all have different sides to ourselves, different faces we show to the world.

I just really liked the sunlight streaming in the window on a hot summer day, it's warmth on my skin, and the fact that I feel a little stronger every day.

We're all actors and the world is our stage... or is it puppets? Some days it feels as if the stings are being pulled by some unseen hand. Enough idle prattle on my part, back to your photo...

I love the way the sunlight both reveals and hides your enticing body. The pose is open and welcoming. Well done, handsome.

 

[Cthulhu1138]

We're all actors and the world is our stage... or is it puppets? Some days it feels as if the stings are being pulled by some unseen hand. Enough idle prattle on my part, back to your photo...

I love the way the sunlight both reveals and hides your enticing body. The pose is open and welcoming. Well done, handsome.

Always a welcome surprise to find a message on my thread you, my sweet rose, especially when it quotes the Bard!

I see quite the telling typo though.
;-)
I know how much it can sting when you feel like you are not in control of your own life.

It was quite a happy accident of a photo. Was getting photographic proof for a friend that I was actually working out. The sunlight through the blinds made it more interesting than I had planned.

Thank you again my dear!

 

[Karabare]

I'm not sure why I didn't know about your thread prior to tonight but I'm glad to have found it.

 

[Cthulhu1138]

I'm not sure why I didn't know about your thread prior to tonight but I'm glad to have found it.

Considering how incredibly popular I am surprised that it took you so long!

;-)

I am very glad that you are my dear. Thank you

 

[talikat]

Light and dark, good and bad.

We all have different sides to ourselves, different faces we show to the world.

I just really liked the sunlight streaming in the window on a hot summer day, it's warmth on my skin, and the fact that I feel a little stronger every day.

I can never get these kind of pictures right, bravo!!

 

[Cthulhu1138]

I can never get these kind of pictures right, bravo!!

You should just come over and let me take a few of you, you can take a few of me for practice. I can show you the finer points of being naked in the sunlight.



I may have very good timing when it comes to the golden light of sunset, or perhaps it is simply the wide blades of the blinds that does it.

 

[Cthulhu1138]

The Sun is not Merciful

with apologies to Anna Lee Walters

While I may be adept at catching the light as it streams through the blinds and leaves marks like an old noir film to highlight the curves of my body, I am most certainly not smart enough or prudent enough to take steps to prevent it's harsh rays from baking my skin


I was fortunate enough to go sailing this weekend, to be out on the water with just the force of the wind driving the boat on the vast blue lake.

But I foolishly thought that my body was ready to soak up all that glorious warm sunlight.

As you can tell from the photo, I was wrong.