Occasional crossovers

[Wolfman1982]

I'm sorry you feel that way. I suggest you calm down a little.

I am calm, and I was calm when I wrote it. But the thing is, you feel I am up and running 100 metres in a matter of seconds in curses. And then I am angry as an insane bull on stereoids. No, I just have a big vocabulary when it comes normal speech, and curses. Sometimes I use the extreme words to punch through walls of stupidity, and words that hurt other people, who I care about. And who has a voice, but the words that comes out of their mouth doesn´t always get an understanding. That is why, I make the things simple to those who don´t get the "complicated" stuff. And you are quite narrowminded when you say "you can´t be a lesbian if you sleep with men"

Seriously it is narrowminded if you say, and feel like that. And that is something I can live with, that you feel. But me calming down ?
No honey, there is no way a warrior can be calmed down, just because he IS calm

 

[Etoile]

Hell, attraction is attraction - which can lead to unusual situations. Lesbians may find themselves attracted to a non-op trans, Straights may find themselves attracted to people of apparently the same gender for weird unaccountable reasons. Life is just weird that way. The varriations are too many to count, but at some point in almost everyone's life, they find themselves either wondering about or acting on something outside the norm for them.
I wound up in bed with a FTM on one occation. He is gay, I was "something else", but found him dead sexy for some weird reason. And, to be honest, I had no idea he didn't have a penis until we were way past the point of no return.
I've never done anything like that again, but can't rule out the possibility that I won't in the future.

That's an excellent point. I know a femme lesbian who is in a longterm relationship. Originally, her partner was a butch female. As time went by, her partner realized that these transgender feelings could not be ignored, and so began to transition. Now, there is NO question this is a guy. I met him post-transition and I knew him for at least six months before I learned he had been born female. Even now, looking at him, I still see nothing but a man.

His femme partner has identified as lesbian all her life. She still does. But now she is in a relationship with a man. So should she now become bisexual? Or is she straight, since they are monogamous? When you throw trans things into it, it gets very murky, especially when the relationship was there before the transition.