Orgasm denial

[MistressVenus]

Good grief. We are talking about a life saving event and u want to control his cock. Talk about immature and mis guided. You are a selfish dangerous person. He needs a new domme. How dare you.

Check yourself. This is a forum for all kinds of ideas to be exchanged. Specifically a forum about denial. I have asked for input and have received helpful advice. You don’t have the right to judge me or be offensive. If you can’t offer supportive advice which I’ve asked for then stay silent.

 

[artslut86]

Check yourself. This is a forum for all kinds of ideas to be exchanged. Specifically a forum about denial. I have asked for input and have received helpful advice. You don’t have the right to judge me or be offensive. If you can’t offer supportive advice which I’ve asked for then stay silent.

I doNT need to be supportive if you are putting someones life IN Danger to fulfill some b.s. fantasy.
I'll speak up as often as damn well please.
Recovery is real life.
Not some sexual fantasy.
You deserve no support no respect for even thinking about your fantasy needs vs the mental AND physical health of a person. Not a sub. Not a slave a PERSON.

 

[MistressVenus]

I doNT need to be supportive if you are putting someones life IN Danger to fulfill some b.s. fantasy.
I'll speak up as often as damn well please.
Recovery is real life.
Not some sexual fantasy.
You deserve no support no respect for even thinking about your fantasy needs vs the mental AND physical health of a person. Not a sub. Not a slave a

Waiting to see who on this forum supports your viewpoint.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Check yourself. This is a forum for all kinds of ideas to be exchanged. Specifically a forum about denial. I have asked for input and have received helpful advice. You don’t have the right to judge me or be offensive. If you can’t offer supportive advice which I’ve asked for then stay silent.

You are very clearly in the wrong here. Hopefully your sub has a good experience in rehab and is able to recover, despite your lack of giving a fuck. Let him heal.

Further, don’t tell people to stay silent. That’s not your place. You’re not his domme, FFS.

Check yourself.

 

[MistressVenus]

I doNT need to be supportive if you are putting someones life IN Danger to fulfill some b.s. fantasy.
I'll speak up as often as damn well please.
Recovery is real life.
Not some sexual fantasy.
You deserve no support no respect for even thinking about your fantasy needs vs the mental AND physical health of a person. Not a sub. Not a slave a PERSON.

1) How is it putting his life in danger to consider the dynamics of our relationship while he’s away?
2) why don’t I deserve support? I’m asking for input and advice.
3) we are in a relationship. This is not just him as my slave or sub. Your accusations are inappropriate to this thread.

Getting tired of your inappropriate input

 

[MistressVenus]

You are very clearly in the wrong here. Hopefully your sub has a good experience in rehab and is able to recover, despite your lack of giving a fuck. Let him heal.

Further, don’t tell people to stay silent. That’s not your place. You’re not his domme, FFS.

Check yourself.

I will tell people to stay silent if they’re offense and unhelpful. I will stand on the fact that I came to this to ask for advice and not JUDGEMENT. I came here because I do give MORE then a fuck.

This is BS

 

[barefootgirl69]

You certainly haven't appreciated any of the advice to let him go through rehab without the added pressure of submitting to you.

Don't bother telling me to be silent, either. Your aren't my Dom/me.

Having had a friend in rehab for alcohol (you never specified what type of rehab), I can tell you that as a Dom/me, all you need to do is support your sub at this time. Encourage. Nothing sexual needs to happen. In fact, in AA it's discouraged to even date for the first year because the priority is HEALING.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I will tell people to stay silent if they’re offense and unhelpful. I will stand on the fact that I came to this to ask for advice and not JUDGEMENT. I came here because I do give MORE then a fuck.

This is BS

I can do a little better here. Stay silent in this thread. You’ve been given a forced time out.

You really should listen to others. No one has agreed with you because YOU ARE VERY CLEARLY IN THE WRONG.

 

[artslut86]

You certainly haven't appreciated any of the advice to let him go through rehab without the added pressure of submitting to you.

Don't bother telling me to be silent, either. Your aren't my Dom/me.

Having had a friend in rehab for alcohol (you never specified what type of rehab), I can tell you that as a Dom/me, all you need to do is support your sub at this time. Encourage. Nothing sexual needs to happen. In fact, in AA it's discouraged to even date for the first year because the priority is HEALING.

Amen. Indeed I have several friends who went thru this. That fact that some fantasy land dynamic is even mentioned speaks to either the immaturity or unawareness of the so called Domme.

When I was sick with a potential cancer. [Thankfully mis diagnosed] My domme said time out, go heal. Get well, I'll be here.
This poor bastard is is getting the let me decide for u like I run life and your illness is second to my needs....well that's how it comes across. Poor kid.

Oh and by the young lady OP, you got a problem report the post. You opened the conversation to the forum. It's public I'll choose to be involved if I wish. Mainly because I'm appalled you would even post such a question.
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