Pet peeves

This is why I quit posting about it. :rolleyes:

But I am jealous and a bitch, so they aren't wrong lol.

I just have more respect for the real ladies pics, and lose respect for those who are so desperate that they comment on anything that even looks like it might be a boob or pussy.

I think the thing is that I'm not really jealous of the fake people on here. I just hate that the actual women who put time and effort into their photos are not appreciated enough. We all might as well take pictures off of the internet and post those. Would save everyone the time and effort :rolleyes:

But I do agree with you that I lose respect for people who I thought were genuine but now I realize that they're just really desperate since they post comments like crazy on anyone's thread as long as its a boob or pussy picture.
 
I actually agree on both points. I also understand that some guys are not very good with words. I may be one of them. But, we try. I value honesty, but it's also important to be respectful.

Honesty and Respect. Great point.
Pet peeve, people who expect everybody to be perfect JUST LIKE THEY ARE.
 
I'm all dressed up almost ready to go a party and I sit down for a moment when my cat jumps onto my lap and is insisting attention

Same here, except it's sitting down with dark dress pants and finding out I have just cleaned off all the dog's hair with my pants.
 
People who say one thing but behave in an entirely different manner.
 
But I thought your pictures were all originals. Have you been testing us?

How did you come to that conclusion? Did I say 'I' was posting someone else's pictures? Plus I actually like to be a little creative and post my own photos. :rolleyes:
 
People that ask questions after a task is completed, then they tell you they already did it a different way. If you already did it why ask?
 
How did you come to that conclusion? Did I say 'I' was posting someone else's pictures? Plus I actually like to be a little creative and post my own photos. :rolleyes:

OH no, not at all. I'm just seeing all this innuendo and hinting around the subject, but not one person with the courage to come out with any sort of fact. Strictly idle gossip and chatter aimed at creating friction.
 
OH no, not at all. I'm just seeing all this innuendo and hinting around the subject, but not one person with the courage to come out with any sort of fact. Strictly idle gossip and chatter aimed at creating friction.

Its neither gossip nor is it aimed at creating friction. Its aimed at explaining my frustration. The reason why I am not pointing fingers as to who is doing this is because I do not want to get yelled at by all the so called fans. Some people tend to get quite nasty on here.
 
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The false pic debate...

I feel I should stay out of this… and yet…

I suppose for me, the thing is, not looking like a model, it takes quite a lot of courage to post a picture. And I posted somewhere else that I am sometimes reluctant with the bits I am less keen on in case I end up sandwiched between two gloriously ‘perfect’ bodies, with my pasty, stumpy limbs jarring everyone’s experience… (feel free to visualise what you want there…)

I don’t have a problem admitting jealousy (disease or not) because it is a statement on my own inadequacies not an attack on anyone else. There are tons of beautiful women on this site, and I actually still believe in a sisterhood that says we should support one another…

I am developing something of a ‘fuck it’ attitude, but it is a shame if there are people sitting at home, bravely having taken their snaps, critically looking them over, then even more critically looking them over, finally picking out an image, an angle they are relatively comfortable with, maybe tinkering with filters to distract from ‘flaws’, hovering over the submit button, and dismissing the idea because they feel they cannot ‘compete’ with a perfect image. It is even more of a shame if that perfect image has been pilfered from elsewhere and has led to a confidence episode in a woman who would otherwise have posted. One of the reasons I am a bit happier at being here is because I have started my own thread, which allows me control of the context my pictures viewed in. I know it’s not a competition, but nobody wants to be the ugly duckling in the room…

There is another side to this, my ‘fuck it’ attitude is developing partly because, despite my flaws, people are being complimentary, it turns out most men will be when you show a bit of tit and arse - who knew… :) But where are the ‘normal’ looking guys? all I see are six-packs and enormous dicks (and massive dicks actually terrify me because I couldn’t take one - just sayin’), I am rather sceptical about how many of these are genuine. Are regular guys, chubby guys, small/regular dicked guys put off posting by the swathe of hunky Adonis’ ? I hope not, because that’s equally sad…

On a side note, there was a letter in the Guardian's agony column a few weeks a go from a young woman who had exchanged some sexy snaps with a man via tinder. Somehow she had deduced the snaps he sent back were not him (I dunno, may he had been stupid enough to use pics that were obviously different dicks...), when challenged, he broke off contact and she, a young woman just starting her career, is terrified these snaps will come back to haunt her (she had shown her face). I know some on here will be titillated at her predicament, but I can identify with being so terrified you feel sick. It maybe serves as a timely reminder to trust no one on the interweb...
 
I feel I should stay out of this… and yet…

I suppose for me, the thing is, not looking like a model, it takes quite a lot of courage to post a picture. And I posted somewhere else that I am sometimes reluctant with the bits I am less keen on in case I end up sandwiched between two gloriously ‘perfect’ bodies, with my pasty, stumpy limbs jarring everyone’s experience… (feel free to visualise what you want there…)

I don’t have a problem admitting jealousy (disease or not) because it is a statement on my own inadequacies not an attack on anyone else. There are tons of beautiful women on this site, and I actually still believe in a sisterhood that says we should support one another…

I am developing something of a ‘fuck it’ attitude, but it is a shame if there are people sitting at home, bravely having taken their snaps, critically looking them over, then even more critically looking them over, finally picking out an image, an angle they are relatively comfortable with, maybe tinkering with filters to distract from ‘flaws’, hovering over the submit button, and dismissing the idea because they feel they cannot ‘compete’ with a perfect image. It is even more of a shame if that perfect image has been pilfered from elsewhere and has led to a confidence episode in a woman who would otherwise have posted. One of the reasons I am a bit happier at being here is because I have started my own thread, which allows me control of the context my pictures viewed in. I know it’s not a competition, but nobody wants to be the ugly duckling in the room…

There is another side to this, my ‘fuck it’ attitude is developing partly because, despite my flaws, people are being complimentary, it turns out most men will be when you show a bit of tit and arse - who knew… :) But where are the ‘normal’ looking guys? all I see are six-packs and enormous dicks (and massive dicks actually terrify me because I couldn’t take one - just sayin’), I am rather sceptical about how many of these are genuine. Are regular guys, chubby guys, small/regular dicked guys put off posting by the swathe of hunky Adonis’ ? I hope not, because that’s equally sad…

On a side note, there was a letter in the Guardian's agony column a few weeks a go from a young woman who had exchanged some sexy snaps with a man via tinder. Somehow she had deduced the snaps he sent back were not him (I dunno, may he had been stupid enough to use pics that were obviously different dicks...), when challenged, he broke off contact and she, a young woman just starting her career, is terrified these snaps will come back to haunt her (she had shown her face). I know some on here will be titillated at her predicament, but I can identify with being so terrified you feel sick. It maybe serves as a timely reminder to trust no one on the interweb...

Well said. :)

*wanders off to check on Allia's thread*
 
My best friend's husband. He's a dickhead and so selfish it's sickening.
Dickhead....
 
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