Pussy spanking

I want to talk about pussy spanking. Who likes it? How hard, and how many times? Fuck after or no? Aim for the clit, or flat across the lips?
Ever since seeing a video of pussy and clit spanking have been facinated by it.

Would love to meet or chat with a woman who shares my interests
 
Like most interactions in these dynamics, trust and communication is key to arousal and enjoyment by the girl. I had to learn that early in a previous relationship
 
Yes I like it but need to be in an excited / horny state first. I’m a masochist and enjoy pain and pleasure combined but it’s only fun with a bit of build up first. Do it too early and you blow the scene by pissing us off
 
You’re allowed to like what you like

And likewise.

It just really surprised me to read and has made me re-think about how new partners treat me. Truthfully, I spent a while trying to give voice to this concept on the previous post, with no luck. But it puts how they act with me in new light - that they aren't slapping/striking me because they think it's hot without asking if I do. Rather, it may very well be an attempt to please me based on their previous experiences or conversations. So I think I'm re-framing their actions and my need to tell them up front that I don't like it as more of a communication thing, rather than getting offended or turned off.

Does that make any kind of sense? So even though i don't like it myself, I'm glad for the thread because it has helped me understand my partners' motivations better, maybe.
 
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It is something I like but I don’t believe I have fully explored it. I’ve only had a hand or crop used on me - I prefer the crop - and a couple of different positions. Like the strap above sounds interesting ;) It also not an every time thing, not a must have even though I enjoy it!
 
It is something I like but I don’t believe I have fully explored it. I’ve only had a hand or crop used on me - I prefer the crop - and a couple of different positions. Like the strap above sounds interesting ;) It also not an every time thing, not a must have even though I enjoy it!
It wasn't an every time thing for us.

It's highly mood dependent but when it hits ;)
 
In my experience giving a barehand pussy spanking can be a very sexy experience. If helps if your partner is a sensation slut or enjoys a little masochism. Its very vulnerable and arousing…
 
Does clit smacking/spanking count? Wife and I had an incredibly intense session this weekend. I have ED and can not get erect enough to penetrate her. However, it does get rather full otherwise. So, I was straddling her and started smacking her clit with my semi erect cock. I started to pull back on her clit hood to further expose her clit. I continued this for several minutes. The look on her face was one of intense pleasure. It was also stimulating for me as well. I was able cum all over her very aroused and erect clit. We will definitely be doing this again
 
My ex worked with the company from that first gif. That's teasing/a warm up. It got a lot harsher. I should send you the clips. I have a cute little metal paddle just for pussy spanking. Metal so I can use it with electro stim. Are you going to get a slap? A ZAP? Maybe both? Who knows!
Always thinking like a Dom, aren't you?
 
Always thinking like a Dom, aren't you?
Picture me as sort of a cross between the guy in this Benny Hill sketch
and this line from Gaston
My mind doing those things is kind of like a shark swimming. Got to keep going.
 
Does clit smacking/spanking count? Wife and I had an incredibly intense session this weekend. I have ED and can not get erect enough to penetrate her. However, it does get rather full otherwise. So, I was straddling her and started smacking her clit with my semi erect cock. I started to pull back on her clit hood to further expose her clit. I continued this for several minutes. The look on her face was one of intense pleasure. It was also stimulating for me as well. I was able cum all over her very aroused and erect clit. We will definitely be doing this again
I'll leave it up to the ladies in the thread to say yes or no, but I'll just say be careful about overescalating it.
I had a whole incident with a playmate who had a hood ring and who enjoyed caning, including on her clit. Who would have guessed whippy bamboo canes could shatter a malachite capture bead, leading to emergency 3AM duct tape jewelry repairs and a really weird trip to the piercing shop?
 
Picture me as sort of a cross between the guy in this Benny Hill sketch
and this line from Gaston
My mind doing those things is kind of like a shark swimming. Got to keep going.
My dad loved Benny Hill. He said he was always good for at least two garters
 
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