Question for Men who Self-ID as Bi

[Mari J]

Omigod, when two guys are wrestling in an aggressive kiss, it looks like someone's going to get hurt.



Not that it isn't hot.

 

[MZR2.3]

Still only in the bi-curious stage so havent done anything with a guy, but something bout the kissing weirds me out. Now that is something that might change when I have an experience, so who knows.

 

[sparkzzz]

As you may have guessed or read I like to kiss both men and women with equal passion. However, if I am honest I have never shared a tender, romantic, deep kiss with a guy. It's usually quite feverish, hard, frantic, animalistic, pornographic with a guy as it's usually very heated. But maybe that's just because I'm a wanton slut lol

you took the words right outta my mouth
i've never shared *just* a kiss with a guy. it's usually a deep kiss followed by intense sex. never just a deep kiss.

 

[biblaze]

Well, i've only kissed 1 other guy. Either I don't care for it, or he wasn't very good. It might have been the slight stubble.
Willing to try again, but my interest in men is mostly in giving blowjobs and swallowing large gobs of cum.....at least that is what my fantasies are about!
That, and sharing him with my wife, who has a never ending sex drive.

 

[mansome]

Well, i've only kissed 1 other guy. Either I don't care for it, or he wasn't very good. It might have been the slight stubble.
Willing to try again, but my interest in men is mostly in giving blowjobs and swallowing large gobs of cum.....at least that is what my fantasies are about!
That, and sharing him with my wife, who has a never ending sex drive.

sounds good to me......... hmm can you two make it up to Lansing, Michigan this weekend? *laughs*

damn I'd love to play with you both...

and I'd even try to get you more interested in kissing also....

 

[Shankara20]

...it looks like someone's going to get hurt.

I hope so, if all goes well....

I call "Top" first

 

[CJontherocks]

I've always wanted to make love with a man. I'm not sure if that's done. I've had sex... really great sex. But it's been what I call "monkey sex." Lots of gettin' it on, but no passion, ya know? A guy kissed me once, but I wasn't into it at the time. I'm older now and mellowed with age... so I want some candles lit and some Jack Johnson playing in the background, and I'd like to put into giving a man what I can give a woman.

Uhhh... the short answer was women only.

 

[Samuelx]

I've never fully kissed anyone I've really wanted. The guys and girls I've been with were people that I liked and found somewhat attractive but they didn't light my fire all that much.

 

[Half-Cat]

Definitely both. Deep kissing, with tongue, showing just how much you want the other person is definitely a turn on . Some of the worst cases of blue balls I've gotten was from kissing and necking and NOT being able to do anything else.

 

[mansome]

Definitely both. Deep kissing, with tongue, showing just how much you want the other person is definitely a turn on . Some of the worst cases of blue balls I've gotten was from kissing and necking and NOT being able to do anything else.

Wow.. if I'm with a man... kissing and making out definitely will not be all we are doing.. *laughs*

now when I'm with a woman.. you just never know..
seriously us men are so fucking easy..... I know I am..

 

[Half-Cat]

Wow.. if I'm with a man... kissing and making out definitely will not be all we are doing.. *laughs*

now when I'm with a woman.. you just never know..
seriously us men are so fucking easy..... I know I am..

Yes we are, and I think we like it that way. I know I do . <sigh> too bad when I do go back to Michigan to visit family you're still a bit too far away. Seriously, though, the first man I was with, we started out kissing and making out. God, I got sooooo turned on (and so did he ). All in all, it was the best possible way to loose my virginity (so to speak).

 

[mansome]

Yes we are, and I think we like it that way. I know I do . <sigh> too bad when I do go back to Michigan to visit family you're still a bit too far away. Seriously, though, the first man I was with, we started out kissing and making out. God, I got sooooo turned on (and so did he ). All in all, it was the best possible way to loose my virginity (so to speak).

well I do enjoy kissing another man be it his mouth, his neck, or his cock.. but kissing his lips and mouth is a definite turn on and it's definitely different than kissing a woman..

hmm.. where do you go to visit family?
I say if we can find a woman to join us I'd definitely do some traveling.. ;^)

 

[Shankara20]

...we started out kissing and making out. God, I got sooooo turned on (and so did he ). All in all, it was the best possible way to loose my virginity (so to speak).

Did I miss something
When did kissing count as loosing your virginity?

guess I'm just a wise-ass tonight
sorry Can we kiss and make-up?

 

[bhg08054]

I'm in the "I haven't kissed a man yet but think I want to with the right man when the right time comes" camp.

 

[Half-Cat]

guess I'm just a wise-ass tonight
sorry Can we kiss and make-up?

Of course. I have a bit of a wise-ass streak myself . But to answer you, it only STARTED with kissing .

 

[mansome]

Of course. I have a bit of a wise-ass streak myself . But to answer you, it only STARTED with kissing .

*licks* Half-Cat's bottom lip and sucks it into his mouth....

hmm wondering what this will start....

;^)

 

[Shankara20]

*licks* Half-Cat's bottom lip and sucks it into his mouth....

hmm wondering what this will start....

;^)

it started to get me hard,
and I'm only standing here in the corner watching...

 

[Samuelx]

I've kissed and been kissed by both sexes. Why do some bi men feel romantic feelings for women but only want to fuck men ? Why do bisexual men treat men like shit and treat their women like princesses ? I show both sexes the same goodness when I'm feeling all goody. I also show both sexes my dark side when they piss me off. I guess I'm an equal opportunity lover/hater/everything, huh ?

 

[Stefani]

There is nothing worse than a man who tries to gag you to death on his tongue, or rubs his sandpaper whiskers all over your face. After some nights with a man, my chin would feel raw. The absolute worst is a smoker. It's like licking an ash tray.

Women tend to be gentler, more romantic and more considerate.

 

[mansome]

There is nothing worse than a man who tries to gag you to death on his tongue, or rubs his sandpaper whiskers all over your face. After some nights with a man, my chin would feel raw. The absolute worst is a smoker. It's like licking an ash tray.

Women tend to be gentler, more romantic and more considerate.

Oh I agree.. smokers of either sex..

bleh......

Show's Stefani his clean shaven face..........

would love to see what's under that dress....

 

[69forever]

Definitely both. But then I'm extremely oral and passionate with both sexes.

There is a difference in the feel, if not the intensity.

 

[CuriousNiceGuy]

Lol, it's kind of stupid that I reply here without having kissed a man, but whatever..
Anyway.I think a deep kiss is enjoyable with both sexes, but while with women I don't usually kiss deeply too much, I think on men that wouldn't be the case.
I tell you I've been holding it for so long(never did anything with a guy) and I think that I'll make him suffocate(whoever I kiss first at least).
I agree though that with men it seems more aggressive.

p.s:I can get horny only by seeing two guys kissing.Hell, I once got off, on a gay-kiss sample video.. *imagines his first kiss..aaaaaw..sweet!*

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

I didn't know this thread was still going... thanks to everyone who answered the poll. I asked the question triggered by very specific events, which I was trying to make sense of... but alas that no longer applies.

It seems to me that people who self-id as bisexual fall into two specific camps:

Bisexual means "I will fuck either sex."
or
Bisexual means "I can fall in love with either sex."

The former seems common, the latter seems rare.

My guess is that those men who say they only kiss women are definitely in the former group.

Thoughts?

 

[Shankara20]

I didn't know this thread was still going... thanks to everyone who answered the poll. I asked the question triggered by very specific events, which I was trying to make sense of... but alas that no longer applies.

It seems to me that people who self-id as bisexual fall into two specific camps:

Bisexual means "I will fuck either sex."
or
Bisexual means "I can fall in love with either sex."

The former seems common, the latter seems rare.

My guess is that those men who say they only kiss women are definitely in the former group.

Thoughts?

Interesting insight. When I was first checking out my bisexuality and looking for cock to confirm my feelings, I could care less about the man attached to the cock. Kissing him was the last thing I wanted to do. Over about two years I became more and more interested in who that cock belonged to, I also became willing to try the "kissing thing". Now I want a boy friend, I'll fuck around with women - and even kiss them but am not interested in falling in love with one - but the right guy can sweep my off my feet and I long for his deep hot wet kiss.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

I'll just state my own opinion now... this may sound like a bunch of pretensious bullshit but here goes...

I think that people who will fuck either sex but cannot fall in love with either sex are not bisexual. I'd call that pansexual. I am thinking Homo-pansexual (fuck either, but can only romanticly love the same sex) or Hetero-pansexual (fuck either, but can only romantically love the opposite sex.)

Kissing tends to be a giveaway for most men. (Not all. And not women.)

I've fucked girls before, but I wouldn't call myself bisexual. Then again, women don't seem to have the same labeling hang-ups.

I think bisexuality (truly can love either sex) is super rare.