Reveal An Uncomfortable Truth About Yourself

[Tallulah82]

i think a lot of people like you. i think youre far too hard on yourself and let the negative thoughts take over way too often. i think you would be surprised how few people are willing to tolerate you and just wont interact with you if they dont like you. my only real advice is to be yourself but share the positive and dont let the intrusive thoughts ruin your vibe.

My god. He makes sense. I wish he'd talk to me like this.
But he's absolutely right.

Fuck. I think I need a lay down now. Or a stiff drink.

 

[Apisto42]

My god. He makes sense. I wish he'd talk to me like this.
But he's absolutely right.

Fuck. I think I need a lay down now. Or a stiff drink.

Do both. That’s what sippy cups are for.

 

[UnquietDreams]

If I apologize in Latin, there is only the slightest sliver of sincerity.

If that. So if I have done this in the past, believe me: mea maxima culpa.

 

[munch2much]

Fuck. I think I need a lay down now. Or a stiff drink.

Laying down with a stiffy? ?

Why does this sound familiar to me?
Talking of uncomfortable truth

 

[TXRafe]

My god. He makes sense. I wish he'd talk to me like this.
But he's absolutely right.

Fuck. I think I need a lay down now. Or a stiff drink.

it is undeniable that i am not the only person who adores you...you have just been through a lot lately and need to be rebalanced.

 

[kieranhalcyon01]

There's a knot in my upper back that's old enough to vote and is always uncomfortable

 

[UnquietDreams]

There's a knot in my upper back that's old enough to vote and is always uncomfortable

It's probably a pen pal with the one in mine.

 

[Tallulah82]

I'm really struggling (mentally/emotionally) at the moment. And the "why" isn't simple, because I don't actually know what the "why" is. There are many possibilities, and I'm just going to have to work on them one by one until I find out what's not working properly. Ugh.

 

[TXRafe]

I'm really struggling (mentally/emotionally) at the moment. And the "why" isn't simple, because I don't actually know what the "why" is. There are many possibilities, and I'm just going to have to work on them one by one until I find out what's not working properly. Ugh.

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

I feel completely lost in life...

My worldview has completely changed and I don't really know how to create one from scratch.

 

[Mrtenant]

It takes extraordinary actions to make extraordinary changes. Be your own action hero. Keep moving forward.

 

[Tallulah82]

It takes extraordinary actions to make extraordinary changes. Be your own action hero. Keep moving forward.

Fuck yes.

I adore you.

 

[cascadiabound]

It takes extraordinary actions to make extraordinary changes. Be your own action hero. Keep moving forward.

Fuck yes.

I adore you.

Absolutely fuck yes.

This and so much more make @Mrtenant so worthy of adoration.



(Yes...I'm biased. Doesn't make me wrong.)

 

[Deleted member 6353684]

I feel completely lost in life...

My worldview has completely changed and I don't really know how to create one from scratch.

Take one step at a time. Small steps.

 

[redsnowbunny]

I'm really struggling (mentally/emotionally) at the moment. And the "why" isn't simple, because I don't actually know what the "why" is. There are many possibilities, and I'm just going to have to work on them one by one until I find out what's not working properly. Ugh.

It's been once suggested to me, and I found it useful, being in a similar situation, to look for what I was avoiding, fearing or resisting and to start there.
In my particular case, writing down my thoughts and reflections about what was going on helped me to get a clearer view on my inner world.
I feel you, entangling one by one those feelings and emotions might seem daunting, but with a loooot of patience, you will start to disentangle and separate what is real by what is not, and face whatever needs your attention.
A big hug to you

 

[linkierox]

I got lost in this thread I have to read the question again.

I’m a needy person with a go fuck yourself attitude. Great talk everyone

 

[Tallulah82]

I've just eaten a whole tube of jelly tots.

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

I like pineapple on my pizza

 

[Tallulah82]

I like pineapple on my pizza

Me too. Yum!

 

[TXRafe]

Me too. Yum!

violation...

 

[Tallulah82]

violation...

I can't believe it. I can't believe you'd hurt me like this. So publicly. So humiliating.

I thought you loved me. Or liked me. Or erm, tolerated me.

I am speechless. Speechless, I say. No words. Gobsmacked.

I guess I'll leave Lit now. I'll never be able to recover from this horrific rejection.

 

[Croquet11]

Fine, I'll go first.

I have no real world friends.

Try social or church groups. You have us thought. We are in the real world too.

 

[Croquet11]

I worry too much.

Try meditation.

 

[Esslemont]

I’m wearing an old shirt from when the kids were born.
Nostalgia I suppose.

The reality however is that it doesn’t quite fit.
As I’ve just been told.


That’s uncomfortable.

 

[Mewalkabout]

I need attention