So yes I am married have been for 15 yrs now....our sex life is ok...we have it but I am not satisfied tired of feeling like i am with some 15 yr old how gets on goes fast and that is it....like that is satisfying anyone out there with the same problem....how do you talk to you SO and say that you are not happy with the way things are going...that you want a heck of alot more....yes he does that once and awhile but for me it would be nice to actually find out what a multiple orgasm is. Is it really out there does it really exsist. Well maybe I am complaing about nothing.......
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MidnightVixen
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You said what you need to do, " Talk".. If you have been married for that long, you should be able to talk about anything. 
He may feel the same way, maybe he doesn't know how to bring it up either. But, sounds like someone needs to, so why not you.
Be honest, and tell him what you feel, need.... want.
He may feel the same way, maybe he doesn't know how to bring it up either. But, sounds like someone needs to, so why not you.
Be honest, and tell him what you feel, need.... want.
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nia36 said:
Hi Nia, nice to meet you. Been married almost 21 years here and learned long ago that sex is what you make it. However, both people have to have the interest to learn. That is the difficult part to deal with, if one has no interest in trying new things. We have always gotten into learning new things. Going through a Kama Sutra book, videos, games, etc. It's about sharing ideas and not being afraid to ask for more, but in a fun way. You already have a goal, to work toward multiple orgasms. Read about multiple orgasms and how they are achieved, with your SO. Then have fun working toward the goal. Just remember, neither of you can feel like a failure or blame the other if you don't reach the goal right away. Okay, time for me to shut up. Just wanted to share my thoughts. Good luck.
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