Sex

Yeah...I get that. Not being able to find your own limit must be scary. I know I have my limits in some places but not in others. It's a case of working out is it worth pushing to find out where those barrers lie or will it hurt others/yourself too much and is it best just not to try.
 
I know my limits.

At least I think I do.

Ah, shit, maybe I need think about that again.


Here's the things I know I don't want...
1) No children, no animals, no elderly
2) No scat
3) No humiliation
4) No pain to the point of bloodshed

Beyond those basics, I'm still figuring it all out. Kinda pushing my own limits.
 
logophile said:
I know my limits.

At least I think I do.

Ah, shit, maybe I need think about that again.


Here's the things I know I don't want...
1) No children, no animals, no elderly
2) No scat
3) No humiliation
4) No pain to the point of bloodshed

Beyond those basics, I'm still figuring it all out. Kinda pushing my own limits.

ditto on the limits, plus some.

No fisting(ouch!!)

humiliation if it's done one on one is ok by me.

No guy who wants to be a girl... he only gets my panties to keep, NOT to wear!!
 
Joe: As I said before - you're a braver man than me. Intellectually, I know for a fact that I could easily physically overpower a woman. Yet to actually do that, to know that I had that power, that it was definitely within my grasp. Even if my moral system (I physically can't hit a woman. It's just impossible for me) allowed it, I'd be scared of what I'd find out about myself. Brave, brave man.

Mouse: Mmmmmm, nice thoughts.

The Earl
 
Originally posted by TheEarl
Joe: As I said before - you're a braver man than me. Intellectually, I know for a fact that I could easily physically overpower a woman. Yet to actually do that, to know that I had that power, that it was definitely within my grasp. Even if my moral system (I physically can't hit a woman. It's just impossible for me) allowed it, I'd be scared of what I'd find out about myself. Brave, brave man.

Mouse: Mmmmmm, nice thoughts.

The Earl

I don't know that it was entirely bravery. It was... complicated.
 
she_is_my_addiction said:
What do you love, what are your favorite fantasies? What are the fantasies you'd never spill in RL, how much do you love sex, what kind of toys do you own, what kind of recommendations can you make or what advice can you give?


Hm, let's see here what I can contribute to this thread. I love doggy style and spooning. Want to have sex on an office desk and in a see through elevator in a luxery hotel. Like it slightly rough, but not into pain or humiliation. Don't think I have any fantasies I'd never spill in real life. I used to own a vibe/dildo but threw it away the other day. Oh, and I love sex. What is there not to love?

/LP
 
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Lovepotion69 said:
Hm, let's see here what I can contribute to this thread. I love doggy style and spooning. Want to have sex on an office desk and in a see through elevator in a luxery hotel. Like it slightly rough, but not into pain or humiliation. Don't think I have any fantasies I'd never spill in real life. I used to own a vibe/dildo but threw it away the other day. Oh, and I love sex. What is there not to love?

/LP

And you got rid of the vibe because.......?
 
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she_is_my_addiction said:
And you got rid of the vibe because.......?

It was broken since ages ago and I realised I haven't used it much lately. (No, it has absolutely nothing to do with the fact my mom declared me a big pervert for owning a "battery operated penis".) :D
 
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Lovepotion69 said:
It was broken since ages ago and I realised I haven't used it much lately. (No, it has absolutely nothing to do with the fact my mom declared me a big pervert for owning a "battery operated penis".) :D

PMSL

:p
 
she_is_my_addiction said:
Everyone's got a bit of introspection as to why they enjoy the things they enjoy in bed. Why do you feel you've come to enjoy your fetishes?

(Logophile and [ Kassiana and ] I have already done ours...)
Fixed. :D

And no one but The Earl seems to have noticed so far.
 
Kassiana said:
Fixed. :D

And no one but The Earl seems to have noticed so far.

Oh, I noticed. Actually reading your post kinda inspired me to jump into the conversation on this thread. The thought of being seduced is so fabulous.

I know another woman who was a fundamentalist Christian, living with her husband and all of their many children when she realized that something was very wrong.

It's been several years since the realization hit her, and she now's married to a fabulous woman and in addition to the biological kids, they have several foster kids as well. The separation with her husband was amicable and they are all very close. She found a different brand of Christianity as well.

Sorry for the tangent there. Your story just reminded me of her and the way she found herself a little at a time.
 
I know another woman who was a fundamentalist Christian, living with her husband and all of their many children when she realized that something was very wrong.

It's been several years since the realization hit her, and she now's married to a fabulous woman and in addition to the biological kids, they have several foster kids as well. The separation with her husband was amicable and they are all very close. She found a different brand of Christianity as well.
Wow. That's quite a change! Glad she's finding herself, though.

It does take a while. Sometimes I still feel "wicked" or "perverted" for being turned on by some of the things that excite me, even though I know that I have reasons for them, and that the most disturbing things are not something I want in reality...just in fantasy.
 
doormouse said:
ditto on the limits, plus some.

No fisting(ouch!!)

humiliation if it's done one on one is ok by me.

No guy who wants to be a girl... he only gets my panties to keep, NOT to wear!!

D'OH !!!!!!!!!!
:(
 
blokefromthepub said:
D'OH !!!!!!!!!!
:(

OMG

I wrote that while choosing a pair of panties for you babe.

I love my scent. So soft, so feminine.. I can't wait to taste it off your face

:devil:

I have three pair ready lol

;)
 
doormouse said:
OMG

I wrote that while choosing a pair of panties for you babe.

I love my scent. So soft, so feminine.. I can't wait to taste it off your face

:devil:

I have three pair ready lol

;)

And do i get to keep em

:p :rose:
 
Kassiana said:
Wow. That's quite a change! Glad she's finding herself, though.

It does take a while. Sometimes I still feel "wicked" or "perverted" for being turned on by some of the things that excite me, even though I know that I have reasons for them, and that the most disturbing things are not something I want in reality...just in fantasy.

She says she still has the same thing from time to time. She is a lesbian, in love with her wife, and very self-assured about all of this. And yet, occassionally she'll have some piece from her past jump into her mind and think "Maybe this is WRONG. What have I done." Then she somehow shakes it off and is back to knowing that she's ok. An ongoing stuggle for her, nonetheless...
 
BUMP

I have found this thread really fascinating. Would love to hear more from others...
 
Kassiana said:
Sometimes I still feel "wicked" or "perverted" for being turned on by some of the things that excite me, even though I know that I have reasons for them, and that the most disturbing things are not something I want in reality...just in fantasy.

Never fear, we're all pervs around here. Some of us even write about it ;)
 
LadyJeanne said:
Never fear, we're all pervs around here. Some of us even write about it ;)

Speak for yourself! :D I'm just as normal as the day is long... And I never think dirty thoughts or anything... *figers crossed behind my back*
 
LadyJeanne said:
Never fear, we're all pervs around here. Some of us even write about it ;)
That's one of the reasons I trusted y'all enough to say even that much. :D Though I don't trust you all enough to say exactly what those fantasies ARE, you probably saw... :p
 
Kassiana said:
That's one of the reasons I trusted y'all enough to say even that much. :D Though I don't trust you all enough to say exactly what those fantasies ARE, you probably saw... :p

Yes, actually. I did notice that. But you're not the only one. It seems that while most of (me included) are willing to write a ficticious (or fictionalized) story, not a lot of us are willing to spell out exactly what makes us squirm in real life. Interesting to say the least. I've actually been struggling to come up with a fantasy to post here that I would be comfortable putting out under the microscope like that...
 
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