Sexless Marriages

[Stucoy101]

That is totally fair, and my wife 100% feels bad, because for a few years before I really understood how much things had changed, I would try to be extra flirty and handsy, and she would tell me no and I could tell she felt bad saying it. So eventually had a conversation where it wasn't that I was making her unhappy or she was withholding because of other things in the relationship, just that she wasn't ever in the mood. So that absolutely has the opportunity to be very different in a different relationship with different dynamics.

Mine doesn't seem to feel bad, more like "that's the way it is." The distance just gets wider. I would have moved into another bedroom long ago if we had one.

 

[Unleashthelegions]

Mine doesn't seem to feel bad, more like "that's the way it is." The distance just gets wider. I would have moved into another bedroom long ago if we had one.

I'm sorry to hear that. We still sleep in the same bed, even if we haven't had sex in years. It is our place to be close, through cuddling/snuggling. I know it won't go past that point so I don't try to push boundaries, but find that closeness together through those far less amorous moments of intimacy. I am sure I would be wanting to sleep in a different room if that wasn't the case, I think you have every right to be unhappy in that situation.

 

[Stucoy101]

Ours is a king sized bed and it might as well be three king sized beds. There's no intimacy whatsoever and frankly I've gotten uninterested... sorry to vent having a bad night.

 

[Unleashthelegions]

No apologies needed as far as I am concerned. We all need to be able to communicate and vent. Whether that comes in the form of at the bar, at a club, or on here.

 

[Stucoy101]

No apologies needed as far as I am concerned. We all need to be able to communicate and vent. Whether that comes in the form of at the bar, at a club, or on here.

Love it - thanks!

 

[curl4ever]

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We’re getting a lot of these: users who join and immediately create hundreds of posts with no text but garbage links.

I’ve started to just put them on ignore without even opening the link.

 

[SarcasticHusband]

I mean yep

 

[PapaRomantic]

We’re getting a lot of these: users who join and immediately create hundreds of posts with no text but garbage links.

I’ve started to just put them on ignore without even opening the link.

It's a bot. Literotica needs to figure our how to keep bots from getting in.

 

[G8or4life]

Ours is a king sized bed and it might as well be three king sized beds. There's no intimacy whatsoever and frankly I've gotten uninterested... sorry to vent having a bad night.

I am with you on this! Wife won’t try, I have to basically throw myself ant her and hope I don’t get rejected. Which is almost every time, sucks to be shot down and not feel wanted every time.
Not worth even trying anymore, plus I want someone that desires me and wants me. I haven’t had that in 6+ years I have lost almost all self esteem.

 

[Mtnmike]

Been sexless for about 10 years now..
Menopause was not kind to my wife.
She just doesn't desire me any longer.
Sad for me..

Sorry for you, same here 17 year's and counting

 

[Blueeyes4u100]

I had been in this your of relationship for years and finally had enough.

On my own now and going to find a relationship that is both satisfying and full of love

 

[Stucoy101]

I am with you on this! Wife won’t try, I have to basically throw myself ant her and hope I don’t get rejected. Which is almost every time, sucks to be shot down and not feel wanted every time.
Not worth even trying anymore, plus I want someone that desires me and wants me. I haven’t had that in 6+ years I have lost almost all self esteem.

Right there with you. Frustrating. I quit trying a long time ago.

 

[LadyWhiteWolf15]

It's frustrating and I can commiserate. I adore my husband of nearly 34 years. He's been dealing with some health issues and has lost interest in intimacy. Menopause about drove me crazy with the hormone and mood changes. Luckily, that's been sorted through, but because I am so sensitive to hormones, I suffer from dryness and tearing which makes intimacy painful and difficult. I have heard some good reviews about Radiancy so am hoping that it may help.

 

[aliencardigan]

Room in this boat for another?? Not in a totally sexless marriage but might as well be with the frequency.....been without any sex for many months. The frustrating part is showering together once or twice a week. We wash each other head to toe but that's the only time I'm free to touch her intimately. Outside the shower...poof...nothing. I had asked her once why she will only touch me in the shower and I got a deer in the headlight look and no real response. I know she has some health issues that limit some mobility but nothing that would hold her back. She just has no desire for me. I can't help but imagine what it would be like to pleasure and be pleasured by some of the mature women I come across. There's lots of men who open up and are willing cam or share hot conversations to stroke by and this is what my sex life has been reduced to.

 

[Spongo]

Hoping this might help

Thread 'Sexless marriage UK support'
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/sexless-marriage-uk-support.1657279/

 

[Irishguy1991]

Yeah my wife is very vanilla and has a very low sex drive. Im the exact opposite and have a very high one. We haven't had sex in two months now unfortunately

 

[wiglez78]

I’m jumping on board the boat , nearly 4 years since me and my husband had sex… back last year he started touching me in bed and I thought whooo hooo lets go but it wasn’t to be - he just wanted a hand job. Over the last few years I’m aware I’ve put weight on due to my health but he knew me when I was as big as I am now - I did loose 7 stone

 

[MenahMenah]

Its been about 4 years here..... various reasons.

 

[diavolo2025]

I’m jumping on board the boat , nearly 4 years since me and my husband had sex… back last year he started touching me in bed and I thought whooo hooo lets go but it wasn’t to be - he just wanted a hand job. Over the last few years I’m aware I’ve put weight on due to my health but he knew me when I was as big as I am now - I did loose 7 stone

It's a fricking cruise ship, by the looks of it. Sorry you're going through this. Not knowing anything about your situation, I'd bet it's all him and nothing to do with you or your full figure.

 

[aliencardigan]

I’m jumping on board the boat , nearly 4 years since me and my husband had sex… back last year he started touching me in bed and I thought whooo hooo lets go but it wasn’t to be - he just wanted a hand job. Over the last few years I’m aware I’ve put weight on due to my health but he knew me when I was as big as I am now - I did loose 7 stone

One man's rejection but you are another man's dream! If he only knew how many men would love to be in his bed!

 

[diavolo2025]

...or her bed...

 

[SensualEnergy70]

Ours is a king sized bed and it might as well be three king sized beds. There's no intimacy whatsoever and frankly I've gotten uninterested... sorry to vent having a bad night.

Same. You are not alone and I feel for you.

 

[SensualEnergy70]

I am with you on this! Wife won’t try, I have to basically throw myself ant her and hope I don’t get rejected. Which is almost every time, sucks to be shot down and not feel wanted every time.
Not worth even trying anymore, plus I want someone that desires me and wants me. I haven’t had that in 6+ years I have lost almost all self esteem.

I am really sorry to read this. It is my life as well. My solution was to re-evaluate morality and be okay to get my needs met elsewhere.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I am really sorry to read this. It is my life as well. My solution was to re-evaluate morality and be okay to get my needs met elsewhere.

I hear you!!!

 

[JudyCD]

I suck a married man who doesn’t get sex at home. I can’t give love and affection but I can give a great bj.