So... do all women masturbate...?

[Zen_Life]

My favourite topic....
Most of the women that I know do masturbate. I think I may be a compulsive masturbator myself. I honestly think that most people do masturbate and the ones that say that they don't are ashamed of it. Of course, there could be people out there that do not do it. I just couldn't imagine not doing it.

Yeah that pretty much sums it up for me. I mean I can't imagine not doing it. I've gone a week or more without doing it just to see what it would feel like when I started again....it was a miserable week.

On the other hand it felt GREAT when I finally touched myself again.

 

[MizDuster]

I find that masturbation is a great way to relieve stress and can help me unwind after a long day as I get ready for bed. Also for those nights when I can't get to sleep, I'll sometimes masturbate and after having an orgasm or two, I'll be relaxed enough after I've calmed down to drift off to dreamland.

 

[activelysexual]

I find that masturbation is a great way to relieve stress and can help me unwind after a long day as I get ready for bed. Also for those nights when I can't get to sleep, I'll sometimes masturbate and after having an orgasm or two, I'll be relaxed enough after I've calmed down to drift off to dreamland.

Me too, or first thing in the morning (a guy thing that I guess)


I suspect Lit is a place where people, female and male, are much more willing to discuss sex generally, including masturbation.

 

[MizDuster]

Me too, or first thing in the morning (a guy thing that I guess)

It must be a guy thing. I'm usually at my sexual lowest in the morning. I suppose it's something that has to build throughout the day lol

I suspect Lit is a place where people, female and male, are much more willing to discuss sex generally, including masturbation.

Plus we're pretty anonymous, which makes it much easier to be more open about discussing sexual topics, especially when pertaining to ourselves.

 

[moonsens]

I was introduced to mastrubation at age 5 by a friend. I practiced mutual mastrubation with another friend in the years after that.
Now, way over 30 and mastrubate whenever I get the chance... often several times a day.
And being in a hot relationship makes me more intense - thinking about sex more, thus playing with myself more!

 

[M's girl]

Hi moonsens, welcome to Lit.

May I ask you to please be careful with posting about sex and (young) ages? Can be a reason sometimes for moderators to bin the whole thread because of Lit rules. Would be a shame!

Maybe you could change the mentioned age to "very young"?

Thanks!
Enjoy Lit!

 

[HornyHenry]

No

I'm sure my ex never did.
Being an Irish Catholic, I'm sure she'd go straight to hell if she ever played with herself.

 

[lindahotstuff]

I certainly masturbate, either with my fingers or with my vibrator, and I do it regularly, and my boyfriend likes to watch me do it

 

[yogiforlife]

re

A better question would be "do all women masturbate in the shower?" whats with 20+minutes in the shower? I mean c'mon, it can't take that long to shower even if you have to wash your hair, condition it and shave your legs lol

 

[curiousru]

Damn, I don't know what I'd do if I couldn't masturbate. It's the best stress reliever around. I can prolong it long enough to have a rockin' climax that will take me to Nirvana, or I can have several all day long. Just depends on the mood.

 

[Filly Gal]

I certainly masturbate, either with my fingers or with my vibrator, and I do it regularly, and my boyfriend likes to watch me do it

OH YES!! ME 2!!

 

[knickerless]

One Woman I Know

One woman I know very intimately (cos I'm married to her) used to masturbate quite a lot. I don't know if she still does. However, she finds orgasm from penetration impossible. So when we make love, after foreplay I masturbate her (usually) or give her cunni (like this morning). Fortunately, I'm not too bad at it and she generally comes. The I get my turn. Just for the record, I still masturbate too from time to time!

 

[PertPerth]

Oh and a lot of girls I know have vibrators so I am guessing they use them.

I have a few toys, but they're all slowly rotting in my draw. I thought I'd try a few, but they tend to be a turn off for me. Too mechanical I think. So I'd rather just use hands...and breathe.

I was molested for many years as a kid, so terrified of it for quite some years. But now I'm trying to catch up on what I missed during my teens...so now I'm an "every day" girl. Though I tend not to talk about it. At all.

 

[Shazz1975]

I masturbate quite frequently and often play with my clit when having sex with hubby, he doesn't seem to object to either watching or me doing it during sex. I seem to be hornier than him anyway and I guess it takes some of the pressure off him

 

[txlacy]

A better question would be "do all women masturbate in the shower?" whats with 20+minutes in the shower? I mean c'mon, it can't take that long to shower even if you have to wash your hair, condition it and shave your legs lol

No they dont

Well at least not me anyways. It takes me that long if not longer to take a shower. I shampoo first and then use a deep conditioner that has to stay in my hair for at least 3 minutes and plus with shaving and washing my body, yes it does take that long.

 

[M's girl]

No they dont

Well at least not me anyways. It takes me that long if not longer to take a shower. I shampoo first and then use a deep conditioner that has to stay in my hair for at least 3 minutes and plus with shaving and washing my body, yes it does take that long.

Haha, exactly.... but hey, that's not what men like to think.

 

[M's girl]

Oh, by the way txlacy, welcome to Lit!

 

[Ashleigh_C]

I know a few women who simply cant reach an orgasm through masturbation.

I masturbate 4 or 5 times a week, probably more out of boredom than anything else.

As for masturbating in the shower, 3 words: Removable shower head.

 

[lustyem]

do all women

Well I can tell you I do, and I think some are still a bit shy to admit they do.

 

[DimplesCharlie]

I doubt it if all women masturbate, but from my limited experience ove the years, many do.

I've had four relationships where the lady told me that she masturbated.

One was an admin assistant who worked half days on Wednesdays and on ocassion we'd go to lunch and more. On this particular day we were caressing and kissing and quite aroused, but unfortunatley I had to get back to the office leaving us both "unsatisfied". She called me from home later and told me she masturbated because she was hot and needed relief. Every once in a while she'd calle me on Wednesday afternoons to let me know she was thinking of me and masturbated. I knew when she masturbated because she'd tell me "i was thinking of you", that phrase was the indication.

My spouse has masturbated over the years too when one or both of us were on business trips. Sometimes she'd fantasize about a guy she met on a trip or....

Anyway, I'd say that many women do as do many guys and it's healthy.

~C~

 

[cocolacroix]

 

[ladyguinivere]

I know a few women who simply cant reach an orgasm through masturbation.

I masturbate 4 or 5 times a week, probably more out of boredom than anything else.

As for masturbating in the shower, 3 words: Removable shower head.

haha!!
yes, i only recently told my husband that i was cheating on him with our removable shower head...it was so cute the look he gave me, like the thought i could do that had never crossed his mind!

I don't know if all women masturbate, i'm sure that there has to be many that don't. I don't think it's a subject most women feel free talking about with amongst their friends....except maybe when your joking around about having a vibrator.

 

[Guest]

huhuh

I'm sure my ex never did.
Being an Irish Catholic, I'm sure she'd go straight to hell if she ever played with herself.

Guilt makes it so much better, I for years could not let go of it.

Maharat

 

[cocolacroix]

 

[Lust Engine]

Guilt makes it so much better, I for years could not let go of it.

Maharat

And now? Any better since??