Str8 males and bi sex

Wow,
I am glad I started this post.....I was thinking that maybe I was alone in wondering some of these things. Keep the discussion going.
 
krspy2001 said:
Wow,
I am glad I started this post.....I was thinking that maybe I was alone in wondering some of these things. Keep the discussion going.

Seems we're not alone in thinking about male bisexuality...thank God. It's fantastic to know that there are plenty of men out there both thinking about it and doing it.

Recently met someone who I think might be a willing recipiet of a BJ, and hoping to get the chance.

Keep the reponses coming. More talk on the subject can only be a good thing.
 
Getting Frustrated!!

Well I just need to blow off some steam, its getting very frustrating trying to make this fantasy come true. I've been going in the chat rooms and posted personal ad's but have not gotten any where. The chat rooms seem to be filled with kids and people who are into playing games, or just want to get off on the cyber/phone. I'm not looking for love or a LTR just a chance to explore this side of my sexuality.
 
Re: Getting Frustrated!!

cheftell said:
Well I just need to blow off some steam, its getting very frustrating trying to make this fantasy come true. I've been going in the chat rooms and posted personal ad's but have not gotten any where. The chat rooms seem to be filled with kids and people who are into playing games, or just want to get off on the cyber/phone. I'm not looking for love or a LTR just a chance to explore this side of my sexuality.

it really is frustrating isnt it???.....I have been trying to find someone to explore my bi side with and something seems to always come up or they just want to play on the pc or some sort of excuse.......Well maybe we will both be lucky soon......to bad you dont live in Indy....my boyfriend is starting to have some bi tendancies.....


:heart: :rose: :heart:
 
This is my first post. I've been coming to this site for about 3 years and I couldn't let this thread pass without finally speaking up. When I was in grad school (about 7 years ago) I met a girl who was bi. After we had dated about a month she invited me to a party where she said most would be bi. I guess I was completely stupid, but I the only thought I had was that it would be a bunch of bi-females with their straight boyfriends. Once there, I realized everyone was bi - male and female. I got really nervous because I knew for about two years I had been getting really turned looking at cocks while watching porn. After a few shots of whatever was in the punch and a little pot, I was without any hangups. By the end of the night my girlfriend, one of her best male friends at the party, and I were into a threesome. While I was pleasuring her, he went down on me without any notice. She went absolutely nuts and nearly begged me to return the favor on him. With quite a bit of hesitation I did. I probably didn't have him in my mouth a minute before I really got into it. Giving a blow job turned out to be the biggest surprise and best new experience of my sex life.

Once we broke up, I wasn't sure how I would ever get the chance to give a blow job again and I kept my desire dormant for about three years. I finally met a woman who told me one night when we were sharing fantasies that MM sex was a huge turn on for her but she had only seen it once. Given the opening I shared my fetish with her. We had some incredible 3-ways with a male friend of hers. We were never in love (just enjoyed having sex with someone with an equal appetite).

I met another woman a few months later and decided I wasn't going to kill myself with a secret. I told her of my likes in about a months time. She wasn't sure at first, but she agreed to a threesome. Me and the other guy spent well over an hour strictly pleasuring her. By that time she was so spent and satisfied she was more than willing to just lay back and watch. From that point on, she never had any reservations.

I am now married to a woman I met soon after the last woman. She hasn't gotten to the point where she is ready for a threesome, but has given me permision to have sex with a guy on my own. I don't want to have sex without her there - permision or not, it still feels like cheating to me and I really don't one-on-one sex with a guy. I think with time it will come, but we have great sex and I don't feel like I 'm being deprived of anything. I do hope eventually I will get my chance again.

Great thread. I hope this continues on.
 
Wow, am I glad to find this thread. Like many others here, I have a definite bi-curiosity...limited more to holding, jacking off, and perhaps a blow job. I have been married for 20 years and am definitely straight and had quite a number of lovers before marriage.

I too had several passive experiences with a black gay music teacher in boarding school who would gave me many blow jobs when I was 17 (while I had a sexually active girlfriend) and in retrospect, I sort of regret never have touched him in return. I also vaguely remember an experience of holding another guys cock and going no further while in College 25+ years ago (must have been very stoned at that time).

I love looking at pretty cocks and I would love to feel an erect one other than mine, to hold it and perhaps to suck it. I would also love to give a hand job with Vaseline. The idea definitely turns me on, but I would also prefer it to be with another straight or bi curious man...doesn't have to be a MMF or two couple situation, though that idea does also appeals to me (however my wife isn't keen on having another man). I am not interested in Anal (hemmorhoids is one reason) and not that keen on tasting/swallowing cum. Will I ever realize this interest?? I don't know, but I am glad that I have a chance to write it down and put it out there. Of course, living on the other side of the world from most Lit people does make it pretty safe. Am 47 now, and would definitely love to try it out before I am 50.
 
My First Bi Experience (A true story)

THE NIGHT I LOST MY CHERRY ASS


The first time I had a guy fuck me in the ass was when I was very young, just a year of so after I got out of high school. I had just returned from military basic training and married my first wife. I got a part-time job chauffeuring a businessman around who had lost his drivers license. Since his business was selling freezer plans to consumers, most of his appointments were at night.

One night after his last appointment, (his name was Scottie), he said, "I'm really horny - How would you like to get a blowjob?" Being young, naive and stupid, I replied, "Do you know a woman who'll do that?"

"Well, if someone wants to suck your cock, does it matter if it's a woman or not?" he asked?

Not wanting to appear even stupider than I was, I said, "No, I guess not. How do we go about it?"

He told me to drive to one of the city's parks and stop near the "Greek" theater (I kid you not - that's really what its called!). He said if we just waited there for awhile, some "queer" (his word, not mine [smile]) would come to the car and offer to suck us off.

I wasn't too sure about this at all, but I certainly couldn't chicken out now. So we waited and waited... A couple of guys did come up to the car and talk for a bit. But they were looking for the same thing WE were - someone to suck our hard cocks.

After hanging around for an hour of so without "scoring", Scottie said we might as well leave since it didn't look like there was much action going on.

On the one hand, I was somewhat relieved that "nothing had happened", but on the other hand, the "anticipation" had made ME horny as hell too.

Scottie lived quite a ways out of town and as we were headed towards his house he said, "Well, we didn't have any luck at the park, but I'm still horny!" And with that, he reached over and started stroking my rapidly hardening cock through my trousers. "And it feels like we're in the same condition," he laughed. "What say we 'take care' of each other? Take a left at the next road and drive down to the end. It's pretty secluded there and nobody's apt to bother us."

"OH, shit!" I thought... "What the hell do I do now? It's one thing to have some strange guy suck my cock but I've never done anything like that - and I don't know if I even want to... Shit! I'm scared!!!"

But I'd gone too far to back out now, and as I turned down the dark, lonely trail, Scottie opened the front of his pants, took my free hand and placed it on his hard cock. “Do you like the feel of that?” he asked, as he continued to stroke my hard on. I had to admit to myself that, “Yes, indeed… I did like the feel of his hard prick” and I slowly slipped my hand up and down his shaft as I drove down the road with one hand. His hand stroking my hard cock felt damn good too.

Scottie’s car was a full size station wagon with the back seats folded down and a mattress covering the entire floor. As I pulled the car to a stop and turned off the engine and lights, Scottie said, “Why don’t we crawl in the back and get comfortable?”

It was a warm spring night and we both slipped out of our pants and shorts as we climbed into the back of the car and laid down facing each other. After we had played with each other’s cocks and balls for awhile, Scottie turned around and taking my cock into his mouth, began deep throating me and squeezing my cum filled balls. Taking my prick out of his mouth for a moment, he said, “Hey, you don’t need to be bashful. Go ahead… Give it try! See if you don’t like sucking cock as much as I do.”
Well, his stiff rod was right there in front of my face, begging to be licked and sucked. “Oh, well,” I thought. “In for a penny, in for a pound,” and I started giving Scottie’s cock the same treatment he was giving mine. “Damn,” I thought. “This ain’t half bad. I like it!!! I then began sucking his cock as enthusiastically as he was sucking mine. As Scottie was sucking my cock and licking my balls, he slipped first one, then two fingers into my puckered (and virgin) asshole. I had never felt anything like that before – It was FANTASTIC!!!

Needless to say, it didn’t take very much of that before we were both cumming and shooting gobs of jism down each other’s throats. Being a complete novice at the art of cocksucking, I choked, gagged and sputtered as his hot cum hit the back of my throat. And even though I swallowed as much and as fast as I could, quite a bit of his spunk dribbled down my chin and coated his spit slicked balls. (As far as I know, Scottie had no such difficulties and neatly swallowed all I had to offer…)

After we had come down from our mutual orgasms a bit, Scottie said, “Goddamn, kid! You may be a ‘virgin’ at this cocksucking game, but you’ve got one hellova’ hot mouth and tongue! That was great!”

As we lay there facing each other and resting up a bit as we gently licked each other’s cocks, Scottie said, “You know? As much as you obviously enjoyed that, I think you might be ready for another ‘virgin treat’. Turn over on your stomach and raise up on you knees.”

Well, the truth was, I had enjoyed the mutual suck off, and was surprised to see that I was still pretty damn horny and wondering what he was going to try next. I didn’t have long to wait as Scottie began to lick up and down between my ass cheeks and run his tongue around and around my asshole, giving me my first ever “rim job.” “Oh, man,” I groaned. “That feels even better than your fingers did.”

“You ain’t felt nothing yet,” chuckled Scottie, as he ran the head of his dick up and down through my ass crack. I thought I was going to scream though when he began to push the bulbous head of his cock into my spassaming and contracting sphincter. At first it hurt like hell and I told him to stop – I didn’t want that! He told me to just relax as much as I could and that it wouldn’t hurt very much or for very long.

As he said that, he reached around and took my now hard again cock into his fist and began to stroke it up and down the full length of my shaft. As I concentrated on those sensations, I did begin to relax a bit as Scottie just left the head of his prick in my ass and didn’t try to move or go any further into my previously virgin hole.

Slowly and gently, he started pushing his hot meat deeper and deeper into my rectum. It still hurt a bit and I had never felt so full in my life. But as he slowly began to push his cock in and out of my ass, I soon realized that, indeed, it didn't hurt so much anymore… In fact it started to feel damn GOOD! Especially as he squeezed my balls and rapidly jerked me off as he picked up the speed of his fucking my asshole. And as he shot another burning load of cum up my ass, I shot my wad all over his nice clean car mattress.

Again, we rested and talked about what had just happened to me. “Did you like it?” he asked. “Didn’t hurt too much did it?”

“No it didn’t,” I admitted. “In fact, I’m really surprised that I enjoyed it as much as I did! I’ve never even dreamed of doing something like that. I thought only queers liked that kind of stuff. And I’m sure my wife would tell you that I’m definitely NOT queer!!!”

Scottie laughed at that and said, “No, I don’t think you’re a queer. I think you’re probably a lot like me. If it feels good, it really doesn’t matter a tinker’s damn whether it’s with a man or a woman. Wouldn’t you agree?” I had to admit that I did – wholeheartedly!

“Well then, me bucko, it’s your turn. I haven’t been fucked in the ass in ages.” And with that, he straddled my legs and settled himself down on my thoroughly abused manhood and began to fuck himself silly with my cock. And it wasn’t long before I came for the 3rd time that night…

As we slipped back into our clothes and climbed into the front seat to leave, Scottie said, “You know, I love getting it on with a guy now and then. But I really like doing it in a threesome with my wife. I just know she’d be thrilled with that young, gorgeous cock of yours. Whatta ya think, Could you get into that?”

“In a fucking heartbeat,” I replied… “And my new bride might just be interested too!”

But that’s another story…

SlyFox
 
Just had to chime in here

I have throughly enjoyed following this thread and reading of all the different opinions, experances, and feelings on the subject. I too am very curious.

My wife and I have discussed the subject during a heated night of passion and openly described what we would be doing to another man were he there with us. But as of yet we have kept it only a fantasy. I have told her openly that I would enjoy sharing her with another man and then she and I together could take our time going down on him togehter. Occasionally I will get her off by sucking her clit while I work her over with her favorite "toy" , telling her how much I love watching that hard cock sliding out of her, covered in her cum. Then I'll lick it clean in front of her, showing off her cum on my tongue and taking as much of the cock in my mouth as I can. She really gets off on this fantasy, but so far it's just that, a fantasy. She is afraid that once it were to really happen, I may "change my religion" so to say.

The reason I have shared this is so all here will understand how deeply this fantasy has gotten before I ask a question I would like to have answered.

Have any of you had simular situations where the fantasy is very erotic and strong, but your wife or partner is fearful of you enjoying it too much?

Thanks for reading and any opinions you may have.

Love the thread.
 
Re: Just had to chime in here

licurthng said:
I have throughly enjoyed following this thread and reading of all the different opinions, experances, and feelings on the subject. I too am very curious.

My wife and I have discussed the subject during a heated night of passion and openly described what we would be doing to another man were he there with us. But as of yet we have kept it only a fantasy. I have told her openly that I would enjoy sharing her with another man and then she and I together could take our time going down on him togehter. Occasionally I will get her off by sucking her clit while I work her over with her favorite "toy" , telling her how much I love watching that hard cock sliding out of her, covered in her cum. Then I'll lick it clean in front of her, showing off her cum on my tongue and taking as much of the cock in my mouth as I can. She really gets off on this fantasy, but so far it's just that, a fantasy. She is afraid that once it were to really happen, I may "change my religion" so to say.

The reason I have shared this is so all here will understand how deeply this fantasy has gotten before I ask a question I would like to have answered.

Have any of you had simular situations where the fantasy is very erotic and strong, but your wife or partner is fearful of you enjoying it too much?

Thanks for reading and any opinions you may have.

Love the thread.

I have had an ex girlfriend that would get off on the same thing and I wish that we would have taken it to another level, but we broke up before we had the chance.
 
Straight males and bi sex

I'm married 35 yrs. very straight. but have always enjoys some solo anal play. I enjoy reading about bi sex and have some excellent sessions by myself afterwards. Will I ever cross the line, I doubt it. J.
 
26 straight (mostly) male. had 2 experiences with the same guy in college. mostly oral, once anal (was so drunk, dont remember the last part). still fantasize about it a lot and would probably repeat the experience. not really attracted to guys, though, wouldnt kiss (probably wouldnt kiss, but i just get so damned horny!). certainly wouldnt date. have been in LTRs with women for the last six years (2 yrs, 3 yrs, now 2 yrs). women will always be my first love, but how can you not want to put your lips on a nice firm, shaved cock?

never told any of my gfs, not sure how they would deal with it. dont like the idea of a mmf threeesome either. i dont really want both at the same time. i mostly want women, but love the kinkiness of gay sex. think im just overly orally fixated.
 
nomad262 said:
women will always be my first love, but how can you not want to put your lips on a nice firm, shaved cock?


That's me too. If there's breasts and a hot wet pussy, cock is most definitely secondary.

That being said, both at the same time is fabulous. Myself and my wife had a 3-some with a male friend some years ago, and we ended up with me fucking her form behind while I sucked his cock. I was in heaven.

Haven't tried being fucked by a man, or fucking a man yet, but it can only be a matter of time before I do. My wife and I have talked about her doing me with a strap on, and that sounds interesting.

I'll let you know when it finally happens
 
Hey ifitsfun...

That is one thing that my wife and I have done a few times now and it's wonderful! Every now and again she enjoys strapping on a nice hard cock and taking control. Of course as with any situation like this, the person giving must first learn what to do and to take it slow to start but once you get started, it's so easy to get lost in the feeling. If your wife is willing to take the dominate role as the "giver" then let it happen. Just be sure to use plenty of lubrication and take it slowly until you're comfortable.

One thing that has become an ongoing joke between me and my wife came from the first time we tried it. That was when I was on my back looking into those beautiful blue eyes as she was trying to get everything adjusted and she couldn't figure out what was wrong, it just didn't seem right. I had to remind her that in the reversal of roles, she had to put her legs together and let me open mine. Her response was "Woops, never been on this end before, I'm just used to spreading my legs, not the other way around." Guess you had to be there, it was just enough to lighten the moment and while we were still laughing, she filled me instantly. I went off like a rocket! It's been great ever since and every time we get ready to enjoy this now, I still look at her and tell her, "Now remember dear, you keep your legs together,
I'm the one getting the cock tonight."

Hope you get to give it a chance, you'll appreciate the tenderness as opposed to the roughness of just being fucked, just as she does.

Good luck and enjoy what it feels like for a man to experance the closest thing to a womans multiple orgasms I think there is.
 
krspy go ahead and try it then you will know what it's like it feels good.

When i was 13 my best friend and i have giving ourself handjobs and bj's for years and sometimes anal but i love my women better but when i can;t get them to doit my best friend will. I'm 45 now.

Worth trying.
 
Re: Hey ifitsfun...

licurthng said:
Good luck and enjoy what it feels like for a man to experance the closest thing to a womans multiple orgasms I think there is.

Thx Lic.

I've not heard/read anyone else refering to anything else like that, and it certainly sounds like a lot of fun.

The more I hear on the subject, the more I think i want to try it, and my wife seems to be getting very into the idea.

Guess we'll have to get off our butts and get it sorted out.
 
never gave a blow job but have tasted my cum :eek:) Happened when I came too fast with my lady when she was ridding me while I was tied up and she flipped over to suck me hard again and planted her nice wet pus on my face... at first I licked aroud her pus then from my arousal I just dived in... Later realized I just cleaned her out. since then I have her sit on my face after sex cuz I like it. I'm don't know If I can act on the fantasy of going down on a guy.... but I know I like what "I" taste like ..... :)
 
I too eat my wife out after i cum in her....i do it because it makes her crazy.......as far as my own taste goes.....i dont really taste it.......but it turns me on too
 
I would try it if my wife wanted me to. That would be a big part of the fantasy. It would be great if it were her idea, she wanted to watch, and directed the action!
 
*breathless* omg .... you all are amazing .... I hope my S/O is as eager to try as most have you have been ... god I am so wet reading all this
 
she is one lucky woman then .... I'm looking into trying something new soon too....
 
str8

I was approached by my neighbor late one night when I was 13. He started to rub the front of my pants and my cock responded immediately. He took me in the backyard and told me to french him. I didn't know what he meant until he shoved his long, thick blk cock in my face. He fucked my face for several minutes and then had me take off my pants and get on my knees. He pushed this huge hard cock in my ass. It hurt like hell and I bled quite a bit but he was relentless and continued to rub my cock as he buried himself in my virgin ass. After quite awhile it began to feel really good and I found myself thrusting my ass back trying to get it deeper. I had immense pleasure and pain. I have enjoyed several encounters since and look forward to more. However over the years I have found mfm to be most enjoyable .
 
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