Str8 males and bi sex
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Thin Man
The concept of post-orgasmic guilt is not one that I am familiar with. If I have agreed to have casual sex (with an man or a woman) then I have no feelings of guilt the next day. I knew what I was doing and I had a good time or didn't but there is no guilt. I think if you are feeling guilty about something, that you probably didn't answer the questions that you asked yourself before taking the plunge honestly. Or maybe you didn't ask yourself any questions at all. Is this guilt solely a result of post homosexually induced orgasm?
Minout
The concept of post-orgasmic guilt is not one that I am familiar with. If I have agreed to have casual sex (with an man or a woman) then I have no feelings of guilt the next day. I knew what I was doing and I had a good time or didn't but there is no guilt. I think if you are feeling guilty about something, that you probably didn't answer the questions that you asked yourself before taking the plunge honestly. Or maybe you didn't ask yourself any questions at all. Is this guilt solely a result of post homosexually induced orgasm?
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bumping on up. still wouldn't mind a cock in my mouth.
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If you are comfortable with your partner, it can be fantastic!
I had my first "man" when I was 15 (he was 52), we met at a pool party and when I arrived I was 15, straight, and a virgin, when I left I was 15, BI, and very happy. We spent the entire weekend and the next together before he got transfered to CA, but I always remember how nice his cock tasted and felt in my mouth and ass, and how good his mouth felt on my cock. Even though we only had a few days together, I remember how good it was and I believe that it gave me to courage to "give in" to my uncle who had been "hinting around" for the past few months.
Him and I got together on Saturday, I told him about my weekend, he got very excited and asked me if I would like to share the same type of experience with him, (He has a very nice cock also). Even though that happened 20 years ago, my uncle and I still get together every few years when he cums to visit and it is always very nice - So don't knock it if you haven't tried it and if any of you cum to Maryland, I would luv to show you in person how nice it can be
If you are comfortable with your partner, it can be fantastic!
I had my first "man" when I was 15 (he was 52), we met at a pool party and when I arrived I was 15, straight, and a virgin, when I left I was 15, BI, and very happy. We spent the entire weekend and the next together before he got transfered to CA, but I always remember how nice his cock tasted and felt in my mouth and ass, and how good his mouth felt on my cock. Even though we only had a few days together, I remember how good it was and I believe that it gave me to courage to "give in" to my uncle who had been "hinting around" for the past few months.
Him and I got together on Saturday, I told him about my weekend, he got very excited and asked me if I would like to share the same type of experience with him, (He has a very nice cock also). Even though that happened 20 years ago, my uncle and I still get together every few years when he cums to visit and it is always very nice - So don't knock it if you haven't tried it and if any of you cum to Maryland, I would luv to show you in person how nice it can be
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Bi MMF sex
I never concidered myself bi or even curious untill i was involved in a 3 some. Seeing the female suck the other guy was really hot and made me wonder what it was like.
Later i met a couple where the male was bi. Wile i was fucking her he was playing with my cock and balls. He got me out of her and started sucking me off, she asked me what he was doing and i told her he was sucking my cock, she got instantly ready to orgasam. She didn't watch but i guess just knowing was enough for her. I didn't get to touch him or suck him, but it was hot enough to make me want more.
Finally last year i met a couple tha i was able to go that other step with. It was almost the same deal, i was fucking her , but then her hubby came up close to our faces and she started sucking his cock. As she sucked him i played with his balls and shaft. After a short wile she pulled his cock out and pointed it at my mouth. It was so hot to be sucking another guys cock and haveing my cock inside her warm wet pussy. I qiuckly discovered that it was just as big a turn on for her to watch me suck her hubby's cock as it was for me to see her doing him.
That was one hot time, but now i find myself wanting even more bi sex. I'm not really into the 1 on 1 with another guy, but if i ever get the chance to be with a couple that wants to try anal, i'll go for it. I've been fingered back there by a GF and loved it, and now have fantacies of being done wile i'm with c couple. And on the subject of cum, maybe i'll try that too, maybe a hot long french kiss after he's unloaded in the ladies mouth.
Joe
I never concidered myself bi or even curious untill i was involved in a 3 some. Seeing the female suck the other guy was really hot and made me wonder what it was like.
Later i met a couple where the male was bi. Wile i was fucking her he was playing with my cock and balls. He got me out of her and started sucking me off, she asked me what he was doing and i told her he was sucking my cock, she got instantly ready to orgasam. She didn't watch but i guess just knowing was enough for her. I didn't get to touch him or suck him, but it was hot enough to make me want more.
Finally last year i met a couple tha i was able to go that other step with. It was almost the same deal, i was fucking her , but then her hubby came up close to our faces and she started sucking his cock. As she sucked him i played with his balls and shaft. After a short wile she pulled his cock out and pointed it at my mouth. It was so hot to be sucking another guys cock and haveing my cock inside her warm wet pussy. I qiuckly discovered that it was just as big a turn on for her to watch me suck her hubby's cock as it was for me to see her doing him.
That was one hot time, but now i find myself wanting even more bi sex. I'm not really into the 1 on 1 with another guy, but if i ever get the chance to be with a couple that wants to try anal, i'll go for it. I've been fingered back there by a GF and loved it, and now have fantacies of being done wile i'm with c couple. And on the subject of cum, maybe i'll try that too, maybe a hot long french kiss after he's unloaded in the ladies mouth.
Joe
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sounds like a step on the way to bi-dom, trust me 
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I just came across this thread and have enjoyed reading all the posts from the beginning. Unlike some of the posters who are just becoming aware of their desires to experience sex with another man, I think I have probably been somewhat bi all of my life. I definitely prefer being with women - both "romantically" and physically. I thoroughly enjoy having sex with another man as well but it's even better when there is a woman also involved.
My wife and I have enjoyed many mmf 3-somes in our 20+ years of marriage and a few mff's as well. Since I am really more "bi" than my wife is, mmf's are definitely our favorite "playtime" activity. Some of the best orgasms we have had have been when I was fucking my wife and getting fucked in the ass at the same time by another guy. We've also had some mind blowing cums when the other guy is fucking her pussy and I'm plunged balls deep in her ass and can feel our cocks rubbing together.
Whooo, Man!!! Getting horney as hell just thinking about it...
SlyFox
I just came across this thread and have enjoyed reading all the posts from the beginning. Unlike some of the posters who are just becoming aware of their desires to experience sex with another man, I think I have probably been somewhat bi all of my life. I definitely prefer being with women - both "romantically" and physically. I thoroughly enjoy having sex with another man as well but it's even better when there is a woman also involved.
My wife and I have enjoyed many mmf 3-somes in our 20+ years of marriage and a few mff's as well. Since I am really more "bi" than my wife is, mmf's are definitely our favorite "playtime" activity. Some of the best orgasms we have had have been when I was fucking my wife and getting fucked in the ass at the same time by another guy. We've also had some mind blowing cums when the other guy is fucking her pussy and I'm plunged balls deep in her ass and can feel our cocks rubbing together.
Whooo, Man!!! Getting horney as hell just thinking about it...
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I get aroused being around people who want to experience pleasure, regardless of their sex. My friends know I am bi and it took awhile for me to accept that part of my life. I used to think it was wrong to feel this way about both men and women but now, I consider it natural.
I just read all the posts from the beginning, and had to put my piece in. I am bi-curious, I guess. I have never experienced anything with another man, but I constantly fantasize about it. I have a girlfriend who I am totally attracted to and sexually satisfied with. I just would like to try giving a blowjob or taking it in the ass. I have even told her about this...she thinks its a bit weird, but agreed to use a strap-on on me. She is so gullible, though that I often make up a story that I was with another man, and she believes it. When we have phone sex, she always talks about another man doing me and it just gets me so turned on. Like to find someone willing to try this out sometime.
Me too!
I just found this thread and wanted to add my two cents worth.
I too have been having fantasies for the past two or three years about being with another man. I'm happily married. My wife has no idea about my curiosity. Some of my best solo action comes when I'm fantasizing about a hard cock buried deep in my mouth. I taste my own cum on a regualr basis and find it very erotic to think that I could have another guy's cock in my mouth and have him shoot his load. I'm very attracted to women but find that my bi fantasies are much stronger and more vivid - especially recently - than my mf fantasies.
I will someitmes finger myself while jerking off, and wonder what it feels like to be completely filled. I've had several e-mail chats with other guys but just haven't got up the courage to meet with any of them. I'd really like my wife to try a dildo on me but I know she would not be interested.
This is something I very interested in and can honestly say it's something that I want to happen. I'd like to start slow - maybe a handjob, then suck him off. Then maybe more.
Just typing this out has given me a raging hard-on. Glad to see there are other guys out there thinking just like me.
I'd be interested in talking more if anyone else is interested.
I just found this thread and wanted to add my two cents worth.
I too have been having fantasies for the past two or three years about being with another man. I'm happily married. My wife has no idea about my curiosity. Some of my best solo action comes when I'm fantasizing about a hard cock buried deep in my mouth. I taste my own cum on a regualr basis and find it very erotic to think that I could have another guy's cock in my mouth and have him shoot his load. I'm very attracted to women but find that my bi fantasies are much stronger and more vivid - especially recently - than my mf fantasies.
I will someitmes finger myself while jerking off, and wonder what it feels like to be completely filled. I've had several e-mail chats with other guys but just haven't got up the courage to meet with any of them. I'd really like my wife to try a dildo on me but I know she would not be interested.
This is something I very interested in and can honestly say it's something that I want to happen. I'd like to start slow - maybe a handjob, then suck him off. Then maybe more.
Just typing this out has given me a raging hard-on. Glad to see there are other guys out there thinking just like me.
I'd be interested in talking more if anyone else is interested.
First my girlfriend agreed that I could go explore this side of me, but then she said no way...cause I would be cheating on her, and she was afraid I would turn gay or something. But I fantasize about it, and given the opportunity would try it in a second. With just 1 on 1 or maybe a couple.
Hmm, there is a trend I've noticed, and I sense it in my life too.
I would love to have my girlfriend play with my ass more. A dildo would be great... but even fingers would be good. I'm just afraid to approach the subject. And I've read on here that a lot of guys feel that their wives/girlfriends would be turned off or not be interested in doing these things because it's not masculine, etc... I'm not sure if my girlfriend would feel this way, but she tends to prefer guys who are in control and masculine, so she may find that unattractive since i'd be in the feminine role. Then again, she loves giving pleasure and if she knew it was very pleasurable, it might outweigh other reservations...
Is this a common attitude for women? To find slightly homosexual/feminine tendencies in men unattractive?
(it's certainly the opposite for guys, since we'd love to find lesbian tendencies in our girls
)
I would love to have my girlfriend play with my ass more. A dildo would be great... but even fingers would be good. I'm just afraid to approach the subject. And I've read on here that a lot of guys feel that their wives/girlfriends would be turned off or not be interested in doing these things because it's not masculine, etc... I'm not sure if my girlfriend would feel this way, but she tends to prefer guys who are in control and masculine, so she may find that unattractive since i'd be in the feminine role. Then again, she loves giving pleasure and if she knew it was very pleasurable, it might outweigh other reservations...
Is this a common attitude for women? To find slightly homosexual/feminine tendencies in men unattractive?
(it's certainly the opposite for guys, since we'd love to find lesbian tendencies in our girls
)My guess is that it is probably the same for women as it is for men (it is for this one at least). I don't think that there is a higher percentage of women who would be turned off by pleasing their partner in whatever way they wanted, than there is of men who are turned off by pleasing the women in their lives. This may be a case of men being too nervous to mention it to their female partners. The first time I had anal sex it was at the instigation of my boyfriend. He had also had previous bi-sexual experiences and so encouraged me to play with his ass also. I have incorporated this into my regular sex life and have no compunction about bringing up. I wonder if it is mostly anal virgins who find this subject a daunting one to broach. Or, is it just harder for a man to say "Would you please fuck me in the ass", no matter how often he has heard those words himself.
The idea of watching men have sex with each other would have to qualify as a huge turn on for me. There is something exciting about watching men have sex and when they have sex with other men it just doubles the excitement.
Minout
The idea of watching men have sex with each other would have to qualify as a huge turn on for me. There is something exciting about watching men have sex and when they have sex with other men it just doubles the excitement.
Minout
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Quimmy said:Hmm, there is a trend I've noticed, and I sense it in my life too.
I would love to have my girlfriend play with my ass more. A dildo would be great... but even fingers would be good. I'm just afraid to approach the subject. And I've read on here that a lot of guys feel that their wives/girlfriends would be turned off or not be interested in doing these things because it's not masculine, etc... I'm not sure if my girlfriend would feel this way, but she tends to prefer guys who are in control and masculine, so she may find that unattractive since i'd be in the feminine role. Then again, she loves giving pleasure and if she knew it was very pleasurable, it might outweigh other reservations...
Is this a common attitude for women? To find slightly homosexual/feminine tendencies in men unattractive?
(it's certainly the opposite for guys, since we'd love to find lesbian tendencies in our girls
I dont believe that it is the feminine side of you that might turn a woman off.....it could be the smell.....I will play and even go down anally on my boyfriend right after a shower or a bath.......He enjoys it.....I will also massage or use my fingers or a vibrator. I have found that most guys think that toilet paper takes away all.....but it doesnt.......And my boyfriend is extremely clean......
If you would like your wife/girlfriend to do something like that...make sure that you are extra clean and even buy some of the scented or tasteful oils that you can buy just for that reason......
ENJOY!!!!
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forget 2 cents. i know i'll put in more than that like it or not. *grin*
personally, i'm quite open about my sex life. if someone is interested in knowing about something i'll talk. sometimes mentioning personal experience sometimes not depending on the situation and how i think the person i was with would feel about it. i have some reservations about mentioning my girlfriend to some ppl but i've alwayz had reservations about bringing up any significant other without being asked directly. it feels pretentious. but i don't mind admitting i love my girlfriend very much, i only mind when ppl are astounded to hear that i've enjoyed being with males as well. getting across the idea of bisexuality seems to be a tough one.
about girls being turned on or turned off by the idea of MM sex...
i don't think there is a generlization that can be made with any accuracy. but i think it can safely be said that it takes time to warm up to the idea and decide for yourself what you really think of the idea. MM sex seems less mentioned socially so maybe women need more time to get accustomed to the idea that MM sex or MMF sex is a turn on for their partner.
i think the chances of her being turned on, being turned off, or being interested because of the pleasure it will bring you, are all distinct possibilites.
my suggestion is talk to her. DO NOT DECIDE FOR HER IF SHE WOULD BE INTERESTED. you can never completely know a person. she may be discusted at first and after mulling it over for weeks or months find that it's a major turn on but one that's been repressed because it was against her upbringing. you never know. IF YOU WANT GOOD SEX, YOU HAVE TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR PARTNER.THIS MEANS TALKING, LISTENING, DISCUSSING. if you're comfortable with it for yourself why not talk to her about it.
forget 2 cents. i know i'll put in more than that like it or not. *grin*
personally, i'm quite open about my sex life. if someone is interested in knowing about something i'll talk. sometimes mentioning personal experience sometimes not depending on the situation and how i think the person i was with would feel about it. i have some reservations about mentioning my girlfriend to some ppl but i've alwayz had reservations about bringing up any significant other without being asked directly. it feels pretentious. but i don't mind admitting i love my girlfriend very much, i only mind when ppl are astounded to hear that i've enjoyed being with males as well. getting across the idea of bisexuality seems to be a tough one.
about girls being turned on or turned off by the idea of MM sex...
i don't think there is a generlization that can be made with any accuracy. but i think it can safely be said that it takes time to warm up to the idea and decide for yourself what you really think of the idea. MM sex seems less mentioned socially so maybe women need more time to get accustomed to the idea that MM sex or MMF sex is a turn on for their partner.
i think the chances of her being turned on, being turned off, or being interested because of the pleasure it will bring you, are all distinct possibilites.
my suggestion is talk to her. DO NOT DECIDE FOR HER IF SHE WOULD BE INTERESTED. you can never completely know a person. she may be discusted at first and after mulling it over for weeks or months find that it's a major turn on but one that's been repressed because it was against her upbringing. you never know. IF YOU WANT GOOD SEX, YOU HAVE TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR PARTNER.THIS MEANS TALKING, LISTENING, DISCUSSING. if you're comfortable with it for yourself why not talk to her about it.
Yes, bringing up these subjects is hard. I don't think we'd be interested in a threesome... I don't think I'd get much out of it, and she has expressed a dislike of them.
Luckily, we communicate tonnes, so it's just a matter of time before I can introduce the idea of more ass play for me. She's just so naive about sex, that it's going to be a pain in the ass (no pun intended) trying to explain about the prostate gland and that hetero guys enjoy this, etc...
I'll suggest we do it after a bath, so we're clean, or at the very least, fragrant.
Luckily, we communicate tonnes, so it's just a matter of time before I can introduce the idea of more ass play for me. She's just so naive about sex, that it's going to be a pain in the ass (no pun intended) trying to explain about the prostate gland and that hetero guys enjoy this, etc...
I'll suggest we do it after a bath, so we're clean, or at the very least, fragrant.
so bringing up new ideas has become better, cause she seems interested in doing new things, including ass play(a little)...but she can't seem to understand the reason i would like to experience another man. and i fell awkward bringing it up anymore, cause then she says stuff about me being gay...when i am not.
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I had no idea, until this thread, that there were so many bi curious men. I thought I was way outside the box on this one. I've been enjoying lit for quite some time, but have never registered or posted. I've never had an actual bi experience, but have a tremendous desire to do so. I've been to a couple of parties where everyone ended up having sex with their partner, but there was never any same-sex activity. I spent most of my time there checking out the other guys' cocks, and watching the women suck them, and wishing I could do that because the women made it look so good. I've fantasized for a long time about holding someone's cock in my hand, stroking it, sucking it, and even taking it up the ass. I enjoy looking at cocks, but very rarely get the opportunity to see one 'in the flesh'.
I would love to explore this more, but as several have posted, I would feel more secure if the first time was mmf with a couple with a bi male. The problem is, how do you find willing and suitable partners? Living here in the middle of the Bible belt(not bashing religion, understand), it seems that the topic is more hush-hush than in other parts of the country. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
I would love to explore this more, but as several have posted, I would feel more secure if the first time was mmf with a couple with a bi male. The problem is, how do you find willing and suitable partners? Living here in the middle of the Bible belt(not bashing religion, understand), it seems that the topic is more hush-hush than in other parts of the country. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
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I love good head giving and getting, sorry ladies but only a man really knows what a man likes. I have a 36 yo friend who crawls out of his skin when we are together. I am a top and cannot wait to have total lovemaking with him. At the same time I love making love to my wife of over 30 yrs. I have only been with another man since last July ....what a rush!!
I love good head giving and getting, sorry ladies but only a man really knows what a man likes. I have a 36 yo friend who crawls out of his skin when we are together. I am a top and cannot wait to have total lovemaking with him. At the same time I love making love to my wife of over 30 yrs. I have only been with another man since last July ....what a rush!!
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