Submissive/Slave Haven

[myinnerslut]

How do you distract yourself so as not to go there?

i dont. not well at least.

 

[FantasySlut]

If someone could tell me..i'll be sure to pass it on.

Like i said in another thread..i need to keep my ass off of CollarMe, and try to focus on healing or some shit. i OBVIOUSLY have a pattern of picking rather shitty Doms, and that needs to be looked at.

(((((((((((((((hottie)))))))))))))))))

 

[HottieMama]

(((((((((((((((hottie)))))))))))))))))

((((((((((((((FS))))))))))))))) Thank you, sweetie!

 

[FantasySlut]

((((((((((((((FS))))))))))))))) Thank you, sweetie!

You're welcome hun...anytime

 

[CutieMouse]

If someone could tell me..i'll be sure to pass it on.

Like i said in another thread..i need to keep my ass off of CollarMe, and try to focus on healing or some shit. i OBVIOUSLY have a pattern of picking rather shitty Doms, and that needs to be looked at.

(Hearing my old therapist's voice in my head... )

Do said shitty Doms have any particular patterns of shittiness in common? Anything in their profiles that drew your attention, that was present in however many Dom profiles that made you go "ohhhhhhhh"? Do you think it would help any if you took X amount of time "off" from relationships, and were just you (with a bit of personal introflection), before looking for another Dom? Are you repeating unhealthy relationship patterns (across the board) both online and in real life? Narrow it down- what do those unhealthy relationships have in common (specific reactions/behaviours/choices) and what can you do next time to change that reality?

BTW- not saying that actually doing all this personal growth stuff works easily, quickly, or at all, but it does help you see crappy stuff earlier each time, decide on healthier boundaries each time, and improve yourself (bit by bit) for yourself.

 

[WriterDom]

I haven't seen gigi around in a while. Hope she's ok.

 

[intothewoods]

i dont. not well at least.

you goof, you have a boyfriend!

I have just started going to things in the bdsm community, but at the same time I'm dealing with the end of my marriage. Just a wild guess, but probably not the smartest idea to run out and play with everyone and anyone. Relax, take it easy. That's what I should do.

But....but...but...I want to escape. I want male attention. I want more kink. Now that I know for sure that I like it, I want more! I can't stop thinking about allll sorts of things.

Should I take up knitting? Yoga?

 

[HottieMama]

you goof, you have a boyfriend!

I have just started going to things in the bdsm community, but at the same time I'm dealing with the end of my marriage. Just a wild guess, but probably not the smartest idea to run out and play with everyone and anyone. Relax, take it easy. That's what I should do.

But....but...but...I want to escape. I want male attention. I want more kink. Now that I know for sure that I like it, I want more! I can't stop thinking about allll sorts of things.

Should I take up knitting? Yoga?

Dude..seriously...we really DO share a friggin brain!

 

[intothewoods]

Dude..seriously...we really DO share a friggin brain!

Heh heh heh...okay...what am I thinking...NOW?

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Should I take up knitting? Yoga?

Certainly... you can come by my place and use the living room... nice comfy couches, chairs... coffee table... 27" TV, DVD, home theater surround sound...

That big cross in one corner...

Chains hanging down from the upper corners of the doorframe between living room and dining room...

Toys hanging on the wall...

Just the place to get your mind of things.

 

[intothewoods]

In all seriousness, I want some answers from the experienced types around here now! Please, please please! I'm going to fuck half of this city if I don't get some ideas, people.

 

[intothewoods]

Certainly... you can come by my place and use the living room... nice comfy couches, chairs... coffee table... 27" TV, DVD, home theater surround sound...

That big cross in one corner...

Chains hanging down from the upper corners of the doorframe between living room and dining room...

Toys hanging on the wall...

Just the place to get your mind of things.

What's that you always say about the uselessness of safe, sane and consensual?

 

[minx1]

In all seriousness, I want some answers from the experienced types around here now! Please, please please! I'm going to fuck half of this city if I don't get some ideas, people.

Ok what the hell is wrong with me?!

Why don't I feel like this? *scratches head*

I've been released three weeks now for god sake *sigh*

 

[intothewoods]

Ok what the hell is wrong with me?!

Why don't I feel like this? *scratches head*

I've been released three weeks now for god sake *sigh*

I don't know. Don't you want to feel a hand on your ass? A good hard smack on the ass? A hand grabbing your hair and pulling? Hands wrapping around your neck with just the suggestion that you could be held down in an instant?

I had a taste, and the floodgates are like, fucking open!

 

[minx1]

I don't know. Don't you want to feel a hand on your ass? A good hard smack on the ass? A hand grabbing your hair and pulling? Hands wrapping around your neck with just the suggestion that you could be held down in an instant?

I had a taste, and the floodgates are like, fucking open!

yeah I do want that...so much so. But its like, when I close my eyes and I think of those things and I think of a Master....I see him.

Oh crikey

 

[intothewoods]

yeah I do want that...so much so. But its like, when I close my eyes and I think of those things and I think of a Master....I see him.

Oh crikey

Well, at the moment, I know I'm not in the right place to be in a relationship. Accepting that maybe emphasizes the, er, kid in a candy store feeling.

 

[minx1]

Well, at the moment, I know I'm not in the right place to be in a relationship. Accepting that maybe emphasizes the, er, kid in a candy store feeling.

yeah probably. You went to a munch or similar didn't you itw? Is that whats fired you up a little?

 

[Evil_Geoff]

What's that you always say about the uselessness of safe, sane and consensual?

I don't say that SSC is useless... I say that for most it has become devoid of real meaning. They don't understand the concepts behind the terms and why it was such a revolution when slave david stein coined the phrase. For most, it's a cliche, a mere marketing slogan with no more real meaning than "Just Do It" by Nike.

But you're just trying to distract me from trying to lure you into my web... Uhhhh parlor.. yeah!

 

[HottieMama]

I don't know. Don't you want to feel a hand on your ass? A good hard smack on the ass? A hand grabbing your hair and pulling? Hands wrapping around your neck with just the suggestion that you could be held down in an instant?

I had a taste, and the floodgates are like, fucking open!

YES....YES..... YES...

 

[intothewoods]

yeah probably. You went to a munch or similar didn't you itw? Is that whats fired you up a little?

to say the least...

 

[intothewoods]

I've been to the munch a few times, and one party. I, um, had a good time at the party.

 

[minx1]

I've been to the munch a few times, and one party. I, um, had a good time at the party.

*sniggers* er how good? *bats eyelashes innocently*

 

[intothewoods]

I don't say that SSC is useless... I say that for most it has become devoid of real meaning. They don't understand the concepts behind the terms and why it was such a revolution when slave david stein coined the phrase. For most, it's a cliche, a mere marketing slogan with no more real meaning than "Just Do It" by Nike.

But you're just trying to distract me from trying to lure you into my web... Uhhhh parlor.. yeah!

Your web is too far, dude!

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

you goof, you have a boyfriend!

I have just started going to things in the bdsm community, but at the same time I'm dealing with the end of my marriage. Just a wild guess, but probably not the smartest idea to run out and play with everyone and anyone. Relax, take it easy. That's what I should do.

But....but...but...I want to escape. I want male attention. I want more kink. Now that I know for sure that I like it, I want more! I can't stop thinking about allll sorts of things.

Should I take up knitting? Yoga?

Yoga could be kinky especially if you do it nude.

 

[intothewoods]

*sniggers* er how good? *bats eyelashes innocently*

Well, it was weird at first. But eventually I thought, fuck it. I'm not going to do nothing!

So I had a little of this:

A good hard smack on the ass? A hand grabbing your hair and pulling? Hands wrapping around your neck with just the suggestion that you could be held down in an instant?

from a super hot guy. On a nice note, when I met this guy, I immediately placed him in the "not in my league" category. I just don't consider myself hot at all. I think of myself as cute, but not hot. I can look sexy. I can fix myself up. But I never was one of those girls, you know? I was completely shocked that I attracted any attention! But the words is, I'm like the new hot chick and shit. Cool! I think I should go back to high school now. Har har.