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My sisters spent the day with my mom.

I got here after work and just chillin w my mom and reading her stories. I don’t know if she can hear.

I have no meetings tomorrow so I’ll come by a few times.

I dunno why I am boring you guys w this crap. Just getting it out there I suppose.
 
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My sisters spent the day with my mom.

I got here after work and just chillin w my mom and reading her stories. I don’t know if she can hear.

I have no meetings tomorrow so I’ll come by a few times.

I dunno why I am boring you guys w this crap. Just getting it out there I suppose.
She hears you.... when my grandma was in her last days my mom would go and rub her legs. In one of her periods of being lucid she looked my mom in the eyes and said "of all my kids I knew you would be the one".
She knows you are there.... her baby boy.....
We are not bored we all want to support you.... many hugs to you and the mrs.
 
My sisters spent the day with my mom.

I got here after work and just chillin w my mom and reading her stories. I don’t know if she can hear.

I have no meetings tomorrow so I’ll come by a few times.

I dunno why I am boring you guys w this crap. Just getting it out there I suppose.
Nothing hurts with talking, and listening...
 
My sisters spent the day with my mom.

I got here after work and just chillin w my mom and reading her stories. I don’t know if she can hear.

I have no meetings tomorrow so I’ll come by a few times.

I dunno why I am boring you guys w this crap. Just getting it out there I suppose.
It's as much for you as for her.
Showing up - being present - time together ❤️
We're here for you... let the love in your heart spill over - we'll catch it. 🫂
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I thought I'd share this as it's so cold in most of the country.
Before my Wife and I were even "an item" I bought Her a gift (shipped from Amazon) and told Her "You're going to look at it and say, Huh!... and then You're going to LOVE me."

To this day, She still says it's the best gift EVER and Her friends agree. Lol...

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B008Q6EN0I?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title

Pro-Tip for you guys... get your girl one of these TODAY!
 
I thought I'd share this as it's so cold in most of the country.
Before my Wife and I were even "an item" I bought Her a gift (shipped from Amazon) and told Her "You're going to look at it and say, Huh!... and then You're going to LOVE me."

To this day, She still says it's the best gift EVER and Her friends agree. Lol...

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B008Q6EN0I?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title

Pro-Tip for you guys... get your girl one of these TODAY!
Its the gift that keeps giving
 
My sisters spent the day with my mom.

I got here after work and just chillin w my mom and reading her stories. I don’t know if she can hear.

I have no meetings tomorrow so I’ll come by a few times.

I dunno why I am boring you guys w this crap. Just getting it out there I suppose.
You're certainly not boring me.
My heart goes out to you and yours during this tough time.
I went through it with my dad in 2019... it's tough, but I wouldn't trade a single minute that I spent with him (good or bad) for a million dollars.
 
I got another one of those calls today. One of those calls where my parents are all upset because google warned them someone signed into their google account... Two phone calls and over an hour later, a password reset, activity check, and THEY signed into google on a new device...

I see a lot of things slipping and it's VERY difficult to watch. Watching them forget how to do things they've done for 20+ years is hard to do. I suspect it isn't going to get any better.

Winding down for the night. Still in a lot of physical pain today, so hoping for a decent sleep tonight.

Good night all.
 
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I got another one of those calls today. One of those calls where my parents are all upset because google warned them someone signed into their google account... Two phone calls and over an hour later, a password reset, activity check, and THEY signed into google on a new device...

I see a lot of things slipping and it's VERY difficult to watch. Watching them forget how to do things they've done for 20+ years is hard to do. I suspect is isn't going to get any better.

Winding down for the night. Still in a lot of physical pain today, so hoping for a decent sleep tonight.

Good night all.
Sleep sweet, @dkak001
role reversal with parents is not for the faint of heart
🫂
 
I got another one of those calls today. One of those calls where my parents are all upset because google warned them someone signed into their google account... Two phone calls and over an hour later, a password reset, activity check, and THEY signed into google on a new device...

I see a lot of things slipping and it's VERY difficult to watch. Watching them forget how to do things they've done for 20+ years is hard to do. I suspect is isn't going to get any better.

Winding down for the night. Still in a lot of physical pain today, so hoping for a decent sleep tonight.

Good night all.
Rest well...
It's tough to see them starting to "slip" a little...
My Wife took care of Her parents throughout it all. She's a strong lady and a Saint IMHO.
 
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