The BITCH Thread <S>

[bozinka]

Re: playing

Boz~I will take that drink. Got a shot of tequila to wash down this black rum I'm drinking from Jamiaca?

Mysti~Thank you.

Batch~I truly do appreciate the help and sincerity. I must confess that I am not used to discussing my emotions with anyone, and that usually includes myself! lol In full disclosure, I have done more creative writing within the past week than I have done in a decade, include my sig line (the second one, ya'll!) It will serve as a reminder for me that the people I meet, are here to play games. I know this in business, where I have been successfull and won more than I have lost. However, I made the mistake of believing that someone on Lit wasn't playing and that I no longer had to play a role. This bothered me more b/c it propelled me back to pawn status from the heights to which I am accustomed. I discovered that this person conversing in the same language and mannerisms with others as with me. Though I was assured she did not. I do not blame her; afterall, what is Lit for but the playing of games?

I had a situation kind of like that. I was on the other end of it though. Won't go into the details here, but it was frustrating for me too.... why is life, and people, so stinking complicated?

Forgive me if my thoughts seem discombobulated - on the phone with my mom too... LOL

 

[Batch]

Re: playing

Boz~I will take that drink. Got a shot of tequila to wash down this black rum I'm drinking from Jamiaca?

Mysti~Thank you.

Batch~I truly do appreciate the help and sincerity. I must confess that I am not used to discussing my emotions with anyone, and that usually includes myself! lol In full disclosure, I have done more creative writing within the past week than I have done in a decade, include my sig line (the second one, ya'll!) It will serve as a reminder for me that the people I meet, are here to play games. I know this in business, where I have been successfull and won more than I have lost. However, I made the mistake of believing that someone on Lit wasn't playing and that I no longer had to play a role. This bothered me more b/c it propelled me back to pawn status from the heights to which I am accustomed. I discovered that this person conversing in the same language and mannerisms with others as with me. Though I was assured she did not. I do not blame her; afterall, what is Lit for but the playing of games?

Not
all
Of
Us
Play games

some of us are as Honest as the day is long.

 

[bozinka]

Re: Re: playing

Not
all
Of
Us
Play games

some of us are as Honest as the day is long.

*raises hand*

too honest sometimes!!!

 

[Mysticcal]

Re: Re: playing

Not
all
Of
Us
Play games

some of us are as Honest as the day is long.

What Batch said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Although some my phrase things in a teasing playful manner, does not mean that they are games.....that you do not touch us on a real level......please do not stop trusting my friend.

 

[bashfull]

Re: Re: playing

Not
all
Of
Us
Play games

some of us are as Honest as the day is long.

"It's okay, you can trust me!" lol.

I do not wish to be misunderstood. I have enjoyed some of the games here. And I like most of those whom I have met. But I knew, and know, the rules. It is when "it is different" and there are no rules b/c there is no game and then those rules are broken that I have-had a problem.

 

[Batch]

Re: Re: Re: playing

"It's okay, you can trust me!" lol.

I do not wish to be misunderstood. I have enjoyed some of the games here. And I like most of those whom I have met. But I knew, and know, the rules. It is when "it is different" and there are no rules b/c there is no game and then those rules are broken that I have-had a problem.

Then you set up your play frame with clear boundaries, each and every time...
and if your playmate would abide then move on....
but you got to know what you want to have as rules

 

[bozinka]

Re: Re: Re: Re: playing

Then you set up your play frame with clear boundaries, each and every time...
and if your playmate would abide then move on....
but you got to know what you want to have as rules

Aye, and there's the rub.

Sometimes it is hard to know, from chat to chat, what the rules are. For me, it's always to try and be up front. I hate lying, and liars. Hell, even when people send me pics, I have a hard time fibbing, even though I know they will never know it! But, I know that what I have wanted from Lit when I started, and what I want now, may be different, in fact probably are. And, I know there are a few who have come that way with me, that will be hurt or disappointed if I tell them things have changed. But, sometimes you can not help that. As long as you are being honest you can allow some leeway for changing feelings.... or maybe this is just me.

I know I think I have talked to some who's feelings have changed and without warning told me, or, no warning, just dropped me. That's when I get mad.

 

[bashfull]

Re: Re: Re: playing

"It's okay, you can trust me!" lol.

Hmmm. just noticed this sounded rather sarcastic. Meant it in a humorous way, ladies. Your kindness is appreciated and I did not mean to offend.

 

[Batch]

Re: Re: Re: Re: playing

Hmmm. just noticed this sounded rather sarcastic. Meant it in a humorous way, ladies. Your kindness is appreciated and I did not mean to offend.

bewildered...I thought you were being nice


I saw no sarcasm....
it is okay.

 

[bozinka]

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bewildered...I thought you were being nice


I saw no sarcasm....
it is okay.

Ah well - as wonderful as all your company is - I suppose it is time to return to the real world.. haha!

I will see you all tomorrow -

Same bitch time, same bitch place.... ooh, bad joke!

And, I am off

 

[bashfull]

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Aye, and there's the rub.

Sometimes it is hard to know, from chat to chat, what the rules are. For me, it's always to try and be up front. I hate lying, and liars. Hell, even when people send me pics, I have a hard time fibbing, even though I know they will never know it! But, I know that what I have wanted from Lit when I started, and what I want now, may be different, in fact probably are. And, I know there are a few who have come that way with me, that will be hurt or disappointed if I tell them things have changed. But, sometimes you can not help that. As long as you are being honest you can allow some leeway for changing feelings.... or maybe this is just me.

I know I think I have talked to some who's feelings have changed and without warning told me, or, no warning, just dropped me. That's when I get mad.

Perhaps that is the most devastating part. To believe there is something special. Only to realize that "something" is commonly shared, and, thus, no longer special. And to be ignored. Just a quick nod, less than the attention given to so many others. I am not jealous. I am distraught by the disallusionment of exclusivity. I will dance with all, but only few do I tango.

 

[Mysticcal]

Goodnight all.......hang in there, keep bitching

Hugs for bashfull

 

[Batch]

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Perhaps that is the most devastating part. To believe there is something special. Only to realize that "something" is commonly shared, and, thus, no longer special. And to be ignored. Just a quick nod, less than the attention given to so many others. I am not jealous. I am distraught by the disallusionment of exclusivity. I will dance with all, but only few do I tango.

I share that feeling
I thought this one man was just sharing himself with me....
and I enjoyed what I thought was just ours...
he wasn't just being with me...he had other chickies.
so be it
I hurt
felt betrayed
was stunned
was shocked
cried a hell of alot.
damn I need a drink
I really didlike him for what he did
if he had just said
I just want to play
I could understand that but he didn't
he said he loved me
and I thought at the time I love him
and then he goes off and meets this other chickie and
fuck
fuck

 

[bashfull]

Sorry

Batch, I am truly sorry for you. All night everyone has been concerned over me and here you are in anguish. Can I help?

 

[Batch]

Re: Sorry

Batch, I am truly sorry for you. All night everyone has been concerned over me and here you are in anguish. Can I help?

oh shit, no.
that was like two weeks ago
hardly hurts any more.
thank you for asking

 

[TAKEMEE]

I'm here to bitch about the fact that I'm home and don't want to be!

 

[bashfull]

Howdy, Takemee

Sorry to hear about your predicament. Guess you profile location may not be quite up to date, then?

Welcome to the Bitch thread.

 

[Manhunter]

Snickering...
I know where you want to be TM... back in SF with that guy
I was in a bitchy mood til I saw what Bashfull said heeehe
So, well, I'm out of here then

 

[prettygrneyes]

stopping back into the bitch thread ,its good to see the #1 BITCH that this thread was actually made for has stopped in ,even know the Bitch has an aka now...or a few aka's.haha..
have a good day everyone!!!

Good Moaning FS..great thread!!!!

 

[Batch]

stopping back into the bitch thread ,its good to see the #1 BITCH that this thread was actually made for has stopped in ,even know the Bitch has an aka now...or a few aka's.haha..
have a good day everyone!!!

Good Moaning FS..great thread!!!!

Good Morning Ma'am,

Gee I hope I am not the #1 Bitch you were talking about....
what a horrid prospect
*shudder*
Am I really who I am or have I changed into someone else?
lolololo
Good Morning One and All,
Have a most grand day and save your bitching up so we can all enjoy it!
Huzza!!!
To a new day full of unexpected moments where we can bitch about something new!!!!!

 

[prettygrneyes]

Good Morning Ma'am,

Gee I hope I am not the #1 Bitch you were talking about....
what a horrid prospect
*shudder*
Am I really who I am or have I changed into someone else?
lolololo
Good Morning One and All,
Have a most grand day and save your bitching up so we can all enjoy it!
Huzza!!!
To a new day full of unexpected moments where we can bitch about something new!!!!!

good morning ,nope you are NOT the bitch that I was talking about ,she knows who she is......LMAO

 

[Batch]

good morning ,nope you are NOT the bitch that I was talking about ,she knows who she is......LMAO

Whew.....
grin
ah yes I remember the who and the unacceptable behaviour of the one who whall not be named lest it appear and be the Harpy..
lolololo

 

[bozinka]

stopping back into the bitch thread ,its good to see the #1 BITCH that this thread was actually made for has stopped in ,even know the Bitch has an aka now...or a few aka's.haha..
have a good day everyone!!!

Good Moaning FS..great thread!!!!

Well shoot, she stopped by. And I missed her? Hmm... how do you know she stopped by - did she post?

Hi PGE - how are you today. Haven't heard from you on here in a while!

 

[bozinka]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: playing

Perhaps that is the most devastating part. To believe there is something special. Only to realize that "something" is commonly shared, and, thus, no longer special. And to be ignored. Just a quick nod, less than the attention given to so many others. I am not jealous. I am distraught by the disallusionment of exclusivity. I will dance with all, but only few do I tango.

I am the same.... I chat with many, but only get truly, well, friendly with certain people. And, I remember asking on once about exclusivity - and being laughed at... only later to have him turn on me and say he was displeased that he wasn't first in my cyber life.... But, I am in a different situation, as I am married.... LOL.

But, I try to always be straightforward about who I am, what I am, and what I want. I can not help it if feelings change, but try to let the person know that has happened at least!

 

[prettygrneyes]

Whew.....
grin
ah yes I remember the who and the unacceptable behaviour of the one who whall not be named lest it appear and be the Harpy..
lolololo

oh she has been here in this thread with a different one of her nics......look at her writing ,and posts in such a short time ,you can spot her anywhere ...lmfsao