The Chronic Masturbation Syndrome: What do you use?

[Lance Hardrock]

Just tagging this thread

I'm a very avid fan of masturbation and enjoy it a lot... a whole lot...... bunches and bunches.

 

[redathena]

Re: less than a minute

wow.....is that from a standing "cold " start, or have you been on literotica for an hour when the minute starts.....?

it would seem to me that if you've been reading erotica...(or even more arousing ...writing it), that some time value must be ascribed to the "warm-up time"
After all thats only fair.....<smile>....even goddesses must be fair

Beleive it or not, I have done it from a standing cold start before. This is very rare though. it only happens when i'm really tired for some reason. and it requires a very high-powered vibe!

 

[BlueDaisy]

Vibes

I've thought about getting an Eroscillator, but they're around $100 (US dollars) for the basic model, I think. I wonder if it is worth it.

And the butterfly-type...I've thought about that, too. Now I just might have to get one...or two or three or.....

Nobody has used the "crystal wand"?
Blue

 

[redathena]

Re: Vibes

I've thought about getting an Eroscillator, but they're around $100 (US dollars) for the basic model, I think. I wonder if it is worth it.

And the butterfly-type...I've thought about that, too. Now I just might have to get one...or two or three or.....

Nobody has used the "crystal wand"?
Blue

So, what exactly is a crystal wand? i've never heard of that.

 

[hogjack]

Um

I've begun using Fenton glassware in very erotic ways. I just hope it doesn't devalue them in any future auction scenario.

 

[RomanHans]

Re: Um

I've begun using Fenton glassware in very erotic ways. I just hope it doesn't devalue them in any future auction scenario.

???

Sorry, not familiar with Fenton glassware, or how they can be used for anything other than drinking...please elaborate?

Roman

 

[hogjack]

Re: Re: Um

???

Sorry, not familiar with Fenton glassware, or how they can be used for anything other than drinking...please elaborate?

Roman

Fenton art glassware I'm partial to the vases.

 

[imouse]

Masturbation

Here I hope is a site for me. I am imouse, very adult male hetero long term first marriage and long time life time masturbator. "Chronic"? I really don't know what is meant by that.

No word so arouses me as does "masturbation", unless it is the very word, "erotic". Early on, 12 yrs old I was taught to jerk-off by two brothers who in turn had been taught by their older brother. That activity continued intensely for about six months, that is jerking off and sucking each other's cocks (but not to cum), then with some other guys for another six months, and then alone accompanied by my first dirty books, The Erotic Professor, and Madame Zaza (no kidding ). Of course there were the passed-around typed short stories including the first bestiality story about the dog named Duke. Nancy Friday published it many many years later as a woman's fantasy!!

Stag films followed including the famous Candy Barr motel scene, where she brings in a girlfriend to give the guy a blow job to cum. And then the three lesbians who kissed and finger-fucked to smell their tips and end the movie with the Nazi salute!! No kidding, again.

A life time of self love has followed. So there, here, you have a male responding. Now tell me more, and perhaps I will too. It all really began with "You show me and I'll show you".

imouse
PM
imouseboy@aol.com

 

[RomanHans]

Good question...how do you know when your masturbation is 'chronic?'

Roman

 

[redathena]

Good question...how do you know when your masturbation is 'chronic?'

Roman

I knew that my masturbation was chronic when i realized that if someone would dare me to never masturbate ever again, i would probably drop-kick them in the head! I guess when i named the thread, i though that "the chronic masturbation syndrome" would just be a catchy title, but then it really does make sence. Although its not a disease, its here to stay!

 

[redathena]

Re: Just tagging this thread

I'm a very avid fan of masturbation and enjoy it a lot... a whole lot...... bunches and bunches.

More power to ya!!!

 

[BlueDaisy]

crystal wand

So, what exactly is a crystal wand? i've never heard of that.

Well, a crystal wand is a sort of "s" shaped piece of acrylic, shaped so that a woman supposedly can more easily reach her g-spot (and a man reach his prostate). You can do a websearch on it and see a pic.

Blue

 

[imouse]

To Read

I liked the early Black Lace books other than the bdsm using women as whipping posts. Can't handle it.

Really, try the Nancy Friday books. For all of her self-serving stuff, some of the writing is very arousing stuff.

The Mammoth Erotic Series is ok, but spotty, and you can find some or much of their stuff on websites, which leads me to a question for all and the webmaster. Should we refer or recommend erotica on other sites? Of course there is some great reads on Literotica, but I have enjoyed others, more than once.

I have been reading erotica (dirty books in my day, ) and in the final analysis I guess those are best that most turn you on. I would be happy to share and exchange ideas on PM or at imouseboy@aol.com for those who need privacy.

An analyst once told me (about me) that masturbation was/is a difficult subject for many to talk about and share. Almost by definition it is a lone and lonely activity, performed behind closed doors, unless like me at time I really enjoy masturbating as a sub to my wife in 69 as I suck away. But that activity took much time and risk to really get into.

Welcome, all.

imouse.

 

[Lance Hardrock]

More power

More power to ya!!!

Thanks Red, I must consider myself to be a chronic masturbator, even though I don't consider it a disease. (If it is, then I hope they never find a cure.)

I had 4 sessions Friday night for over 3 hours total.

3 sessions on Saturday for 2 hours total.

And then last night, I must have been tired as I only had 2 sessions for an hour.

Now before everyone says Bullshit, I need to tell you that I practice Tantric Masturbation.

I did not cum at all this weekend, but enjoyed the pleasure of nearly countless "dry orgasms." (That is not really a good name for what happens, but it would take a long thread to explain all there is to know about TM, so that will have to suffice for here.)

And I can't wait for tonight's sessions.

I'd be interested in hearing if anyone else enjoys this syndrome in quite the same way as I do.

Oh, I started jacking off at 11 or 12. (I think that was one of the original questions at the start of this thread.)

 

[BlueDaisy]

Lance....

I've read up on Tantric sex some in the past, so I understand why you say it would take too long to explain it. But I've not heard of a "dry orgasm". Is it possible to explain that one bit briefly?

Thanks.

Blue
Proud member of the Lit BBSW Society

 

[psyche]

Re: More power

Thanks Red, I must consider myself to be a chronic masturbator, even though I don't consider it a disease. (If it is, then I hope they never find a cure.)

But if you think about the cure would be a sexual partner who is matched with you in terms of sexual appetite - in that case I would be happy to take a cure!

 

[Lance Hardrock]

Oh yea.

First Psyche, I totally agree. I would love to have a woman like that.


"dry orgasm" is a term to explain a climax that does not produce ejaculation. A no cum intense sensation that is akin to a climax.

(hope that helps)

I sure don't want to hijack this thread, but anyone interested in TM, might find a good start at this website.

http://www.hps-online.com/tsy4.htm

now back to our regularly scheduled masturbation

 

[imouse]

On Chronic Masturbation

Odd. I thought I posted the following on the thread, but I don't see it. Thought I would resend for comments and replies.

imouse

To Read I liked the early Black Lace books other than the bdsm using women as whipping posts. Can't handle it.

Really, try the Nancy Friday books. For all of her self-serving stuff, some of the writing is very arousing stuff.

The Mammoth Erotic Series is ok, but spotty, and you can find some or much of their stuff on websites, which leads me to a question for all and the webmaster. Should we refer or recommend erotica on other sites? Of course there is some great reads on Literotica, but I have enjoyed others, more than once.

I have been reading erotica (dirty books in my day, ) and in the final analysis I guess those are best that most turn you on. I would be happy to share and exchange ideas on PM or at imouseboy@aol.com for those who need privacy.

An analyst once told me (about me) that masturbation was/is a difficult subject for many to talk about and share. Almost by definition it is a lone and lonely activity, performed behind closed doors, unless like me at time I really enjoy masturbating as a sub to my wife in 69 as I suck away. But that activity took much time and risk to really get into.

Welcome, all.

imouse.
__________________
imouse

 

[redathena]

Re: Oh yea.

First Psyche, I totally agree. I would love to have a woman like that.


"dry orgasm" is a term to explain a climax that does not produce ejaculation. A no cum intense sensation that is akin to a climax.

(hope that helps)

I sure don't want to hijack this thread, but anyone interested in TM, might find a good start at this website.

http://www.hps-online.com/tsy4.htm

now back to our regularly scheduled masturbation

I've always been really interested in tantric sex/masturbation. I think the first time i ever encounterd it was in the movie "Go". If you dont mind my asking, i was wondering how long you've been practicing this and how long it took before you it finally worked well for you?

red

 

[Lance Hardrock]

I never saw that movie

I've always been really interested in tantric sex/masturbation. I think the first time i ever encounterd it was in the movie "Go". If you dont mind my asking, i was wondering how long you've been practicing this and how long it took before you it finally worked well for you?

red

I never saw the movie Go. But if it's about TM, it sounds interesting.

Well to make a long story short, I've been practicing for many years what I discovered is called ESO (Extended Sexual Orgasm from the book of the same name.) I finally came across the book about 10 years ago and realized that is what I've been doing since my 20s. I just didn't have the name for it.

The primary premise in ESO is to clamp down and stop nature from taking its normal course. This is way too much like work. It does work and many many men practice it. I never got it to work during sex, but only during masturbation. But don't let anyone tell you that ESO is easy for a guy. LOL.

However, in January of this year, I stumbled across TM, which is like Tantric Sex for one person. LOL. As a matter of fact, it was from two men right here on LIT, that I learned about it. I don't remember just what thread, but I wrote them both and asked if they were referring to ESO. One wrote back and he was not. The rest was doing Google searches.

The basic premise with TM is to bypass the ejaculation nerves and not have the fight between body and mind that occurs in ESO. Climax nerves and ejaculatory nerves are seperate. That was a big revelation for me. TM has certainly opened up a whole new avenue of sexual pleasure for me.

It took until about June of this year for me to really get comfortable with it, cut down my ejaculations, and increase my masturbation fun at the same time.

I only ejaculate now when I'm with my wife. She enjoys all this too, btw. It's way more fun and we last longer and it's totally intense for both of us. TM makes cumming an extra special treat.

 

[imouse]

"Dry Orgasms"

What a subject! "Dry"? Tantric? More of the latter in a moment.

Years ago I found a way to have dry orgasms. I didn't like the mess or clean up...yeah sure. There was another reason, of course, I could quickly hide my activity. Without all the details (unless any of you are really interested, and you can reach me at PM or preferably imouseboy@aol.com)I could achieve an almost satisying dry orgasm, which meant retro-ejaculation. Almost? At the very peak of pleasure I felt a pin-like sensation along the4 urethra tvbe. Also, the technique took my mind away from the matter at hand! Yes, yes, pun included.

Tantra. I used to frequent a lovely massage therapist who did full body massages to my great pleasure. She was a Tantra practitioner, and indeed still is. (I have seen her website.) But my treatment was a leisurely physical-touching massage followed by a talented intimate and caring masturbation. On one or two occasions she allowed me to reciprocate by my massaging her full body and then masturbating her to climax. We were relaxed, not rushed, and enjoyed the settling into after-glow.

We never went to Tantra. I have found that for the most part my need is genital satisfaction but only after much foreplay, touching and by tongue and lips. No doubt I am missing something perhaps of great pleasure, but alas it won't be all that I have missed.

Love this thread.

imouse

 

[redathena]

Re: I never saw that movie

I never saw the movie Go. But if it's about TM, it sounds interesting.

Well to make a long story short, I've been practicing for many years what I discovered is called ESO (Extended Sexual Orgasm from the book of the same name.) I finally came across the book about 10 years ago and realized that is what I've been doing since my 20s. I just didn't have the name for it.

The primary premise in ESO is to clamp down and stop nature from taking its normal course. This is way too much like work. It does work and many many men practice it. I never got it to work during sex, but only during masturbation. But don't let anyone tell you that ESO is easy for a guy. LOL.

However, in January of this year, I stumbled across TM, which is like Tantric Sex for one person. LOL. As a matter of fact, it was from two men right here on LIT, that I learned about it. I don't remember just what thread, but I wrote them both and asked if they were referring to ESO. One wrote back and he was not. The rest was doing Google searches.

The basic premise with TM is to bypass the ejaculation nerves and not have the fight between body and mind that occurs in ESO. Climax nerves and ejaculatory nerves are seperate. That was a big revelation for me. TM has certainly opened up a whole new avenue of sexual pleasure for me.

It took until about June of this year for me to really get comfortable with it, cut down my ejaculations, and increase my masturbation fun at the same time.

I only ejaculate now when I'm with my wife. She enjoys all this too, btw. It's way more fun and we last longer and it's totally intense for both of us. TM makes cumming an extra special treat.

Well, "Go" has very little to do with tantra, but its a fun movie anyways. I'm really gonna have to check out this subject though. its really grabbing my attention. Thanx for the info!

red

 

[RomanHans]

Re: Re: I never saw that movie

Well, "Go" has very little to do with tantra, but its a fun movie anyways. I'm really gonna have to check out this subject though. its really grabbing my attention. Thanx for the info!

red

Thanks for the tip as well...makes for very interesting reading. I never thought of the concept of 'practicing' chronic masturbation, so this is a novel and creative 'solution.' Also, I've a passing interest in Eastern religious practices (particularly Zen), and Tantra has always been on my radar screen.

Thanks for posting the link, and please post any other helpful resources as you can!

Roman

 

[Lance Hardrock]

Most links are bogus

If anyone is interested, do a google search on Tantric Sex, Tantric Masturbation, Semen retention, etc. You'll find about 15,000 or more sites on each one of these. Many are duplicates of course.

Most are bogus I think. They want you to buy a book, join their club, or send them nude pics. Some will provide some info.

The information seems to be in two forms. Many are about ESO, or the clamping down on the "million dollar spot." Preventing a crisis - as they call it. Deep breathing, strengthing the kagel muscle, etc. All of this is good and useful knowledge, but not TM.

A few will actually seem to talk about real TM, which is not a fight between mind and body to prevent a crisis, but more of an attunement of mind and body. Those sites tend to get real mystical and to go off into things like yin and yang, Kundalina, and your lingam. Hell, I just want to have fun. LOL.

Very very few seem to have any real technigues on how to do any of this. For that you have to buy a book, or join their club or send them some nude pics - presumably so they can see what you're doing wrong in order to sell you what you need to do it right. LOL.

 

[redathena]

Re: Most links are bogus

If anyone is interested, do a google search on Tantric Sex, Tantric Masturbation, Semen retention, etc. You'll find about 15,000 or more sites on each one of these. Many are duplicates of course.

Most are bogus I think. They want you to buy a book, join their club, or send them nude pics. Some will provide some info.

The information seems to be in two forms. Many are about ESO, or the clamping down on the "million dollar spot." Preventing a crisis - as they call it. Deep breathing, strengthing the kagel muscle, etc. All of this is good and useful knowledge, but not TM.

A few will actually seem to talk about real TM, which is not a fight between mind and body to prevent a crisis, but more of an attunement of mind and body. Those sites tend to get real mystical and to go off into things like yin and yang, Kundalina, and your lingam. Hell, I just want to have fun. LOL.


I know what you mean! I've tried doing some searches on TM and it just all seems really... fake. i guess all i want is a step by step method of doing it, but oh well.... maybe i'll go to the family-friendly-erotica-library on 12th and yeah-right street...
Very very few seem to have any real technigues on how to do any of this. For that you have to buy a book, or join their club or send them some nude pics - presumably so they can see what you're doing wrong in order to sell you what you need to do it right. LOL.