The Chronic Masturbation Syndrome: What do you use?

[RomanHans]

Reminds me a bit of the literature on Zen--the reality of the practice is often more straightforward, but much more difficult, than self-declared 'masters' claim.

 

[psyche]

Reminds me a bit of the literature on Zen--the reality of the practice is often more straightforward, but much more difficult, than self-declared 'masters' claim.

And there does seem to be different levels of orgasmic pleasure.......some kind of mechanical self-stimulation, a quick release of sexual tension............all the way up to orgasmic bliss achieved with allowable time, and much studied practice........a new religion?

 

[RomanHans]

And there does seem to be different levels of orgasmic pleasure.......some kind of mechanical self-stimulation, a quick release of sexual tension............all the way up to orgasmic bliss achieved with allowable time, and much studied practice........a new religion?

Whoa, what's 'new' about it? Aren't the two 'oldest professions' related to sexual pleasure and religious experiences? (And the two don't appear to be mutually exclusive either)



Roman

 

[psyche]

Whoa, what's 'new' about it? Aren't the two 'oldest professions' related to sexual pleasure and religious experiences? (And the two don't appear to be mutually exclusive either)



Roman

LOL! No kidding! Baby, I want to be 'saved'...........

 

[Lance Hardrock]

I miss the old time religion

I mean the REAL old time religions with those fertility goddess rituals.

 

[imouse]

"What do you use?"

My first masturbation was by a male buddy and his twin brother. They taught me how to use my fingers on me and them, as they did me and each other.

Not too long after only one brother and I jerk-off a lot, using only our fingers on each other, although we each sucked the other guy's cock quite a bit, but never to climax.

I had similar experiences with other pals for about a year, maybe less, and thereafter I was alone in masturbation. Early on I found dirty books or typewritten stories to masurbate to, which was my entrance into the world of porn, erotica, etc. For many years it was books only, and some stag films thrown in, but they were at parties where there was neither masturbation or women to play with.

I had two fem cousins, sisters, who invited and allowed me to feel them up and finger fuck them. I really don't know even now if they had orgasms.

Playboy and the later versions brought me into picture erotica, and VHS and the Web changed it all, in the sense that I have more and greater variety of voyeur aids in masturbation, which is still my favorite sex play, followed by reading (and writing)about masturbating.

By reason of this line of discussion, I am deliberately leaving out much of my sex life as a married man, etc. I will add for masturbation purposes that I did frequently for a while avail myself of massage parlors, where if you were really lucky you could find a woman who knew about masturbation and the ambience that helped. I only masturbated in those parlors, twice having two women suck each other as I watched and jerked off, still the voyeur.

I hope this adds to the conversation, especially encouraging other men to jump on board.

Let me again note that for me almost by definition masturbation is/has been a solo lone secluded if not secret activity to the extent that only with one friend have I ever found pleasure in masturbation in her presence. I may add btw that she was the one woman with whom I ever really enjoyed missionary intercourse.

imouse

 

[redathena]

those are some crazy stories you got there! thanx for sharing them!

red

 

[redathena]

Re: I miss the old time religion

I mean the REAL old time religions with those fertility goddess rituals.

Its funny that you mention that... i was just reading this book that had a lot to do with ancient religions with moon goddesses and funky rituals. That stuff is really interesting.

red

 

[Image]

Oh yesss! Us pagans are a lusty bunch! "For behold! ALL acts of love and pleasure are My rituals" (excerpt from The Charge Of the Goddess).
Oh how this thread caught my eye....
It probably began as young as in the cradle, but I can plainly remember lying in bed at night as a child and running my hands over my body. I must have been quite young because I remember the feel of my breasts then. They were very small. (they are now 40D) My first look at Penthouse and Playboy as a teen was cool but the "letters" were what really turned me on! I also remember getting caught at naptime in 1st grade.

At this point in my life I have elevated it to an artform! I take my time and set things up just perfect for a "session". Mirrors, props, etc! I love anything having to do with, talking about, sharing techniques, etc. Can't wait to see more posts.... Mostly into women but I admit, reading what you guys have been saying is really a turn-on too!

 

[redathena]

Oh yesss! Us pagans are a lusty bunch! "For behold! ALL acts of love and pleasure are My rituals" (excerpt from The Charge Of the Goddess).
Oh how this thread caught my eye....
It probably began as young as in the cradle, but I can plainly remember lying in bed at night as a child and running my hands over my body. I must have been quite young because I remember the feel of my breasts then. They were very small. (they are now 40D) My first look at Penthouse and Playboy as a teen was cool but the "letters" were what really turned me on! I also remember getting caught at naptime in 1st grade.

At this point in my life I have elevated it to an artform! I take my time and set things up just perfect for a "session". Mirrors, props, etc! I love anything having to do with, talking about, sharing techniques, etc. Can't wait to see more posts.... Mostly into women but I admit, reading what you guys have been saying is really a turn-on too!

Welcome to the thread Image! What is the Charge of the Goddess? i love that quote!

red

 

[Lance Hardrock]

one from me

Well, when I was young and single back about oh *& years ago, I had my own apt. I had a full length mirror on my closet door and a murphy bed (any of you know what that is? LOL)

Anyhow, I'd get my one good chair around to face the mirror, put on soft music (usually Moody Blues or Neil Simon, etc) and then I'd strip down. Well most of the time, when I'd get home from work, I'd strip and not bother to put on clothes at all.

Then I'd sit in my chair real close to mirror and just slowly jack off. Sometimes I'd play for over an hour, just teasing, feeling, playing around. I'd stand up and look at my cock in the mirror. Sure I could see it by looking down, but it always seemed so much hotter to see the mirror image.

I remember one night, I was making some pictures by posting old prints to black construction paper and then taping them to the walls. Yes, I was dirt poor and couldn't afford picture frames.

Of course, I did this naked (and hmmmmm, shall we say after taking my glaucoma medicine LOL), and after each one, I'd masturbate for a few minutes, just enough to almost cum, but always backing off just in time. And always I'd be watching that "other guy" in the mirror.

Well, I put up 10 or so of these old print posters, listened to a whole lot of music and finally had one enormous orgasm about midnight.

I thought it was a fabulous way to spend an evening. Don't you?



Gotta run now. See y'all tomorrow. I do hope some others post personal mast stories (women for sure, but I like reading the men's stories too)

 

[Image]

Welcome to the thread Image! What is the Charge of the Goddess? i love that quote!

red

Greetings Athena! (or do you prefer Red?)
The Charge of the Goddess is part of many pagan rituals where the woman acting as High Priestess actually invokes the feminine element or essence into her being for the duration of the ritual. Usually for a communal purpose but it could be for other reasons. The male can also invoke the God into his being with a similar charge. It is sometimes referred to as "Drawing down the moon" or (for males)" Drawing down the Sun". A lot more to it but in a nut shell.... The beginning of the charge goes like this.. It is really beautiful in it's entirety and there are many variations, some I have written myself.
I who am the beauty of the green Earth
and the White Moon among the Stars
and the mysteries of the waters...
(Doreen Valiente, author of this one)
If you're interested I can explain more and besides I'd love to talk to you about other things too!

 

[RomanHans]

Re: "What do you use?"

Let me again note that for me almost by definition masturbation is/has been a solo lone secluded if not secret activity to the extent that only with one friend have I ever found pleasure in masturbation in her presence. I may add btw that she was the one woman with whom I ever really enjoyed missionary intercourse.

imouse

Interesting perspective--do you attribute that attitude to upbringing? And is there some significance to comfort level in masturbation in front of someone and other sexual comfort with that person?

Roman

 

[imouse]

RomanHans

Thank you, RH. You write: "Interesting perspective--do you attribute that attitude to upbringing? And is there some significance to comfort level in masturbation in front of someone and other sexual comfort with that person?"

Too often I have thought much and intellectualized almost anything connected with feelings, much less sex.

For now, I think the experience with the one woman who satisfied me in both ways was a combination of her approving my conduct, indeed encouraging it, and sharing with me my erotic joys and pleasures, which included her pleasure and pleasing me.
I guess I could say in today's lingo we were both on the same page, one we both desired.

Upbringing? By whom? Family who talked about nothing in connection with sex. No father, brother, uncle to help. Many family women around, but their references were snide and envious, never explicit. From my pals, I learned as much from them as they did from me: Zippo.

Not a neat reply, but at this hour that's all I can conjure up. Thanks for the interest and questions.

imouse


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[redathena]

I think I might need to reform my masturbation mehtod... after reading all your masturbation stories, i feel like i'm missing out. Its weird, but i've always felt self-conscious, as if someone were watching me, if i ever have any strange session. Althoug i do love stripping infront of a mirror to NIN's "closer", and masturbating while stuck in traffic is fun too, but it happens on such rare occassions... i think i just need to walk around naked more often

red

 

[imouse]

Redathena

Fascinating that you like to masturbate while driving. I would ram the car into a tree! The woman I referred to above once asked me to masturbate her while I was drving. She had come prepared as she wore not panties. I managed to drive well as I fingered my way up her bare legs, but she deliberately sat thighs tight and butt hard in the seat making me force my fingers under and into her pussy. Only when I touched her clit did she spread her legs and wet my fingers. That's when I almost ran up a pole. Well, not exactly, but my mind was not on my driving. After her orgasm she asked if she could suck my fingers, and I sucked them after she did. As we neared her apt., I asked her to jerk-off for me. She slid down in the seat, pulled up her dress and fingered herself to a squirt! Luckily for me she used her panties (set aside in her purse) to clean up the wetness.

Truth to tell, I could not have had more pleasure, and was quite satisfied by her orgasms without any of my own.

imouse

 

[Image]

Everyone should walk around naked more! I am fortunate to live where I have no neighbors and am free to stroll through my garden naked. In the summer when it's really hot I like to play in (and with) the hose. Very similar to the shower head method but I have lots more control.

 

[Lance Hardrock]

Congrats Red

Hey Red, you now have 100 posts. This means you can get a cool av. I'm dying to see what a hot woman like you will pick out.

And I too agree. I wish I could spend all day naked. I do spend the nights naked (usually masturbating), but I'm pretty sure they'll frown on me going to work naked. LOL.

 

[Gentle Ben]

OK, here's my story:

In college I had a private dorm room that came with two single beds (I'm sure many of you are familiar with the good old dorm room bed). One day, I had a brilliant idea. I pushed the two beds together, and lay on m stomach over the seam between the two matresses. I wrapped my cock with a pair of hot satin panties that I had liberated from a female friends dresser, and slid it between the matresses. It was an awesome way to masturbate. The satin fabric felt somewhat like a silky pussy, and the two matresses put a lot of pressure against the sides of my shaft. Good times. sigh.

Also, any men who enjoy having finger up their ass while hey stroke themselves? Any women who enjoy doing it for their men?

 

[Lance Hardrock]

One of my favorites

I never did the mattress thing, but one of my favorites involved my wife throwing out a pair of knee-highs. She tossed them in the bathroom trash can. So when she went out later that day to work, I got them out.

It was so silky soft to wrap them around my cock and just masturbate with them on. Very great feelings.


And hey, I have always believed in recycling.

Of course knee-highs are use once in this fashion and THEN toss out.

 

[BlueDaisy]

I think I might need to reform my masturbation mehtod... after reading all your masturbation stories, i feel like i'm missing out. Its weird, but i've always felt self-conscious, as if someone were watching me, if i ever have any strange session. Althoug i do love stripping infront of a mirror to NIN's "closer", and masturbating while stuck in traffic is fun too, but it happens on such rare occassions... i think i just need to walk around naked more often

red

Wow, Red...you're brave! I would dearly LOVE to masturbate in the traffic...but this place (San Antonio) must be Wreck City USA, because people drive horrendously, and there are always wrecks all over town! When I think about being brave and trying it, I think about how I'd feel if I was in a wreck and wound up in the ER, with the docs finding a vibe inside me. I'd have to have something like that to get off in the car.

Blue

 

[travlr99]

car fun

Wow, Red...you're brave! I would dearly LOVE to masturbate in the traffic...but this place (San Antonio) must be Wreck City USA, because people drive horrendously, and there are always wrecks all over town! When I think about being brave and trying it, I think about how I'd feel if I was in a wreck and wound up in the ER, with the docs finding a vibe inside me. I'd have to have something like that to get off in the car.

Blue

I had occaision to go into my ex g/f's center console one time, and was shocked to find a vibrator there. She was a very professional highly paid business owner , and frankly i never would have thought it. she laughed at my shock, and said all her female associates did it.
I became very careful after that when traveling the superhighways at high speed, and seeing a woman in blissful reverie............(They should be required to have a sign on the back like the fire engines...."Caution Saty at least 500 feet back")
LOL

 

[Wolfstyle]

I guess the hand is the best way to have a nutty nutty time. As for the ladies, Women seem to like it when I use the popsicle on them. Your thoughts? (Popsicle and tongue together works wonders!!!!!!)

 

[redathena]

I guess the hand is the best way to have a nutty nutty time. As for the ladies, Women seem to like it when I use the popsicle on them. Your thoughts? (Popsicle and tongue together works wonders!!!!!!)

Welcome to Lit, Wolfstyle! I'm so glad you chose this thread as your first post!!!!! And i've been hearing about the popsicle thing for a while, i'm really tempted to try it now.
*runs out to store for the biggest popsicles she can find... blue, red, or green?hmmmm.......*

red

 

[redathena]

Re: Redathena

Fascinating that you like to masturbate while driving. I would ram the car into a tree! The woman I referred to above once asked me to masturbate her while I was drving. She had come prepared as she wore not panties. I managed to drive well as I fingered my way up her bare legs, but she deliberately sat thighs tight and butt hard in the seat making me force my fingers under and into her pussy. Only when I touched her clit did she spread her legs and wet my fingers. That's when I almost ran up a pole. Well, not exactly, but my mind was not on my driving. After her orgasm she asked if she could suck my fingers, and I sucked them after she did. As we neared her apt., I asked her to jerk-off for me. She slid down in the seat, pulled up her dress and fingered herself to a squirt! Luckily for me she used her panties (set aside in her purse) to clean up the wetness.

Truth to tell, I could not have had more pleasure, and was quite satisfied by her orgasms without any of my own.

imouse

That's a great story!!! masturbating or doing anything along those lines can definately be a challange. the first time i did it, i wasnt even horny. i just wanted to see if i could do it, and i happened to be wearing the perfect skirt, so i did it, and it worked very well. it was in broad daylight too, so i felt like every truck i passed totaly knew what i was doing. i think that just added to the excitement, though. good times!!!

red