The Dragon Tamer's Farewell

[jazey_43]

Native Iam sorry for your pain.. but its the past and unless you let it go you will never be really happy again.. click the ignore button and walk away .. revenge you have taken over and over and one has to at sometime ask themselves who has hurt who the most!! you at least and sadly enough have taken great JOY in the pain you have inflicted on him.. he at least admits he made a serious mistake and is pained by what transpired between you both WHILE it seems you have taken it upon yourself to create as much pain and Havoc in his life as you possibly can and you do that with such a glee in your heart

so I ask who is it really that needs to back up!

Hey GOS...I can relate to Native..I too was hurt in the same way she was, and it was devastating!! I have never been lied to, and hurt so much in all my 43 years, and I would not wish that on friend or foe. To tell her to let go is so easier said than done. When one has been hurt so deeply, it's just not that easy!
Revenge is a cruel emotion...but it's real. Weather it be right or wrong.
It's taken me a year to finally get to the point where I even think I may have a fighting chance at finding love again. You bring up some valid points, but only time will heal. She's still healing...and she needs time. *hugs*..

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

Hey GOS...I can relate to Native..I too was hurt in the same way she was, and it was devastating!! I have never been lied to, and hurt so much in all my 43 years, and I would not wish that on friend or foe. To tell her to let go is so easier said than done. When one has been hurt so deeply, it's just not that easy!
Revenge is a cruel emotion...but it's real. Weather it be right or wrong.
It's taken me a year to finally get to the point where I even think I may have a fighting chance at finding love again. You bring up some valid points, but only time will heal. She's still healing...and she needs time. *hugs*..

Evening my friend .. *sigh* yes I know such pain, I myself have been hurt to degrees that would curl your hair! everyone seems to think that I dont or cant understand .. do you all really think I havent walked this road?? there is little that has been said here that I dont fully comprehend! I know about loss and I know what it takes to heal ... I know first hand about the depth of her pain,
trust me in one thing I dont ask her to move on and forget because of the reasons she and emmie both seem to think!
Do not think iam nieve, do not think that I cant tell the differance between the truth and a lie .. and yes time it does take and iam aware of that .. its just all got to stop sometime I feel for her pain and iam aware that this path she is on is most distructive

 

[jazey_43]

You are welcome NA
I am sorry you were hurt


Being a woman,
you would think it should
Be a pact, and understood.
Knowing you have the best friends
Helping you,
while your broken heart mends.
Don’t dislike her and seek her flaws
Put away your sharpened claws
Cant you see she will always be
Listen carefully to my plea
Deep inside beneath it all
A sister is she standing tall
Each of us different and unique
Please think before you speak
To walk in her slippers and pumps
Encountering all life’s bumps

When she enters the room do
Not frown
Don’t feel the need
To tear her down
Remember the soul
Of the sister that lies within
Unless you of course are
Without sin

{{{{{NA}}}}}}}}} take care

Hear Hear Emmie!!

That was a wonderful poem hon!!

You have a point, unless you have truly experienced the lies, and the deciet...all the while being told you are the love of his life....you will never understand just how badly it sucks the life right out of you. I hereby join the Broken Hearts club..*hugs*

 

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[jazey_43]

Evening my friend .. *sigh* yes I know such pain, I myself have been hurt to degrees that would curl your hair! everyone seems to think that I dont or cant understand .. do you all really think I havent walked this road?? there is little that has been said here that I dont fully comprehend! I know about loss and I know what it takes to heal ... I know first hand about the depth of her pain,
trust me in one thing I dont ask her to move on and forget because of the reasons she and emmie both seem to think!
Do not think iam nieve, do not think that I cant tell the differance between the truth and a lie .. and yes time it does take and iam aware of that .. its just all got to stop sometime I feel for her pain and iam aware that this path she is on is most distructive

Oh sweetie..I would never think you niave....and I think to some extent every woman has been thru a hurt like this. Her situation sounds so much like mine, I have to wonder if they might be one in the same...I know they're not...but it's hard for me to believe there is more than one man out there who plays such games. I never knew they exsisted...and thats my niavety.
Destructive is a good word, and when she's ready, she'll know it. I feel her pain also...and unfortunately, right or wrong, I can't blame her.....

 

[jazey_43]

{{{{{{Jazey}}}}}}}
my best to you

Back at ya Emmie!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*hugs ya silly*

 

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[GoddessOfSouls]

perhaps I should have had you explain it to my kids....that he couldnt wait to meet....
I will walk the path I choose.....but as a woman I have the right to choose how I walk the path.
I cant speak for NA but I think its senseless that a man can go around and destroy others while the rest of you kiss his cyber ass
I will do what I want and say what I want just like he does every day when you all bow down to him.
This isnt about cyber this is real life and there is no net.

Perhaps rather then take your pain out on me you might try signing off yourself and spending some time with the children your telling me are in pain!! and lets just thank the gods that they didnt meet him since then there pain would match yours!
Iam sure your refuring to the thread I made him.. and I have to ask you when have you seen me and him in that thread!! NEVER more then a moment or two of posting .. consider it YOUR GIFT!! now you dont have to go to far to keep an eye on him!! don't you presume to tell me what is real and what isnt!! NEVER FORGET! Iam very aware of whats real and what isnt I will Bow to No one not Him not you!! there be but one man who hold the key to me! and in his strength I will always be free LEARN a valuable lesson and let the past be the past for the future cant hold your dreams if you keep such vile trash in it ..
Now for anyone who reads this and still does not understand
Tamer isnt more then a loving friend
Pall the same
Yes Ladies we all have a a past .. and I thank you both for making my future more clear to me!!

Note To my Strength!! Have I told you lately? well I do you know

 

[jazey_43]

Perhaps rather then take your pain out on me you might try signing off yourself and spending some time with the children your telling me are in pain!! and lets just thank the gods that they didnt meet him since then there pain would match yours!
Iam sure your refuring to the thread I made him.. and I have to ask you when have you seen me and him in that thread!! NEVER more then a moment or two of posting .. consider it YOUR GIFT!! now you dont have to go to far to keep an eye on him!! don't you presume to tell me what is real and what isnt!! NEVER FORGET! Iam very aware of whats real and what isnt I will Bow to No one not Him not you!! there be but one man who hold the key to me! and in his strength I will always be free LEARN a valuable lesson and let the past be the past for the future cant hold your dreams if you keep such vile trash in it ..
Now for anyone who reads this and still does not understand
Tamer isnt more then a loving friend
Pall the same
Yes Ladies we all have a a past .. and I thank you both for making my future more clear to me!!

Note To my Strength!! Have I told you lately? well I do you know

*smiles at GOS*

I'm happy for you honey..

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

*smiles at GOS*

I'm happy for you honey..

~~wicked chuckle~~ thanks hun perhaps you will deliever that kiss for me on friday !!

 

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[The_Dragon_Tamer]

Well, well, well...what can I say? I have learned that people who have lied and cheated have an opinion of me. I have acknowledged my mistakes, but it appears that others are not. I did not realize there were so many PERFECT people in the world who have never made a mistake, who has never told a lie, who has never done something to get what they want.

I do not refer to all who have posted here, but the ones this pertains to know who they are. "Let him (or her) that be without sin cast the first stone." Very interesting. Most interesting that there are so many people who have never done anything wrong.

I said earlier that I don't take well to being told what to do. I see no general stars tattooed on anyone shoulders, and besides I am no longer in the military and require to follow orders. You see I rather resent orders and being told what to do. I have this annoying habit of doing just the opposite. So I have decided to stay and converse with people who still wish to converse with me. I do thank you for making up my mind. If you would have left your criticisms and barbs to yourself instead of venting on me I would have left. But, again I thank you for making up my mind to stay. I will be around.

 

[Guest]

OH PLEASE.......

 

[jazey_43]

~~wicked chuckle~~ thanks hun perhaps you will deliever that kiss for me on friday !!

If you'd like....*grins*

 

[GoddessOfSouls]

If you'd like....*grins*

~~wicked chuckle~~ iam sure he would like it to! haha

 

[The_Dragon_Tamer]

Re: OH PLEASE.......

Like you would do anything to please anyone but yourself
enjoy your conversing LOL
what a joke

Were you looking in the mirror when you came up with this. It does sound terribly like you doesn't it?

 

[Guest]

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[The_Dragon_Tamer]

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far from it I am not self serving...and I dont decieve others for my own gain.....I think others should be protected from predators like you

10 years in Mental Health and I must say you are delusional if you don't think you are self serving. I am not a predator, but I should not even be having this conversation. I do not have a battle of wits with an unarmed person, and I don't like to converse with people who are not my intellectual equal and you have a long ways to go to be that.

 

[Guest]

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[The_Dragon_Tamer]

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oh my you crush me with your insults...
youre intelligent alright...clever in your lies
I think everyone sees right through them LOL

They are not insults, merely observational facts, difficult to deal with child? I am back and what happened in the past is only partially known--one sided, and I don't choose to go into it. Since I have returned what I have spoken has been the truth. I don't think you would know the truth if it hit you in the face or any of your other personas on LIT. I am through playing your infantile games. If you don't like me or what I have to say then just leave me alone. I have done nothing to you. You must like to get into other people's business that is not your own. Another observational fact.

 

[Native Alien]

Well since you decided that you are going to stay, I guess it is time for me to make that phone call when I know that you will be away.

Emmie and Jazey...I think that you need to understand that you are dealing with a Mental Health Professional (and I do use the term professional loosely here).

This thread was his bid for sympathy. Just as his coming back was a bid for his sympathy. Just like the marriage counciling that he was supposedly going thru was for sympathy.

All he wants is the attention that he is getting. He is back to posting at the same times as before which tells me that his wife doesn't know that he is here. So I guess that in order to give her a fair chance, she needs to, as does someone else that is in a weird sort of way involved in this mess.

Thank you all for your support, and I want you to know that while he is a idiot and an ass, and nothing that every goes wrong in his life is his fault, he proves none of what he says. Next thing you know he will be telling people that I imagined his being here, or that I am some cyber stalking that finally broke him down. Ooops, sorry, seems he already told that one to the church.

 

[69forever]

Perhaps rather then take your pain out on me you might try signing off yourself and spending some time with the children your telling me are in pain!! and lets just thank the gods that they didnt meet him since then there pain would match yours!
Iam sure your refuring to the thread I made him.. and I have to ask you when have you seen me and him in that thread!! NEVER more then a moment or two of posting .. consider it YOUR GIFT!! now you dont have to go to far to keep an eye on him!! don't you presume to tell me what is real and what isnt!! NEVER FORGET! Iam very aware of whats real and what isnt I will Bow to No one not Him not you!! there be but one man who hold the key to me! and in his strength I will always be free LEARN a valuable lesson and let the past be the past for the future cant hold your dreams if you keep such vile trash in it ..
Now for anyone who reads this and still does not understand
Tamer isnt more then a loving friend
Pall the same
Yes Ladies we all have a a past .. and I thank you both for making my future more clear to me!!

Note To my Strength!! Have I told you lately? well I do you know

My darling Gos, I'll guard that key with my life, and use it everyday to set you free, to soar and to live, always knowing that you are with me. I know not the history and drama involved, and wish for everyone it hadn't happened.

Bitterness and resentment are the pit of the romantic. A deep well that we fall into and cannot find the key, to free ourselves from such destructive behavior forevermore. I'm glad we have been able to do that, and I pray for everyone who hasn't.

Have I told you lately?

With all my heart and soul.

 

[Guest]

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[dragonhearted]

I think it depends on your being the one who is hurt.
All seems to be forgiven rather quickly among fellow chatters
In my opinion someone who betrays and lies to a degree to hurt a fellow sister.. the women here should ban together to keep predators from gaining trust from someone unknowing here at Lit
if your loyalty lies with a lying man perhaps you should think what if the role was reversed. Would it really be okay if you were lied and manipulated.....my guess is you would feel different.

um...you are saying if I am not WITH you I am AGAINST you? not very logical. I fully understand about hurt feelings. He had led me to believe certain things as well. I was just as shocked to hear about this wife of his. To be frank, he is no friend of mine. However, I do not list him as one of my arch enemies either. He is out THERE. I am here in Maine. He cannot touch me or my children. We are safe. Sorry to sound cold, but my family is what matters most to me. Does anyone agree?

 

[Guest]